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Olly Alexander says being gay in a ‘straight world’ hurt his mental health
Years & Years frontman opens up about his depression

Olly Alexander, frontman for British indie-electro band Years & Years, says being gay in a straight world hurt his mental health.
In an interview with Owen Jones for The Guardian, Alexander, 25, spoke about how he struggled with his sexuality and mental health growing up.
āI was about 14 when I really fell in love with my best friend, and was obsessed with him. He was straight. I feel thatās a really classic story for gay men!ā Alexander says. āUp until I was 17 I wanted to be straight ā I kept thinking āIām straight, Iām straight, Iām straight, maybe Iām bisexualāā¦ please let me not be gay. Iāve got enough to deal with.”
Alexander continued that being gay but wanting to be straight had a negative impact on him mentally.
āI think [sexuality and mental health] are connected,ā Alexander says. āGrowing up in a straight world is difficult.”
āOnce you admit to yourself and the world that youāre gay, thereās an expectation that you put on yourself: youāre fine now, youāve gone through the whole thing of being gay, and now you have to prove to yourself that you can live a happy life and be happy,ā Alexander says.
āThe first thing you start to think is youāre alone and youāre crazy. There is a support network out there ā¦ make use of it,” Alexander concluded.
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Theater
STCās āVanyaāĀ puts pleasing twist on Chekhov classic
Hugh Bonneville shines in title role

āUncle Vanyaā
Through April 20
Shakespeare Theatre Company
Harman Hall
610 F St., N.W.
Shakespearetheatre.org
Shakespeare Theatre Companyās āUncle Vanyaā freshly rendered by director Simon Godwin and starring Hugh Bonneville in the title role, puts a pleasing twist on Chekhovās tragicomic classic.
As disheveled, disheartened, and overworked Vanya, Bonneville is terrific. Though very different from the actorās fame making role as Downton Abbeyās Lord Grantham, a proud, fastidiously turned-out aristocrat who presides over a manicured country estate peopled by a large staff, his Vanya is equally compelling
For āUncle Vanya,ā Chekhov imagines a house on a ragged estate in the Russian forest whose inhabitants display varying degrees of discontent brought on by the realization that theyāre leading wasted lives. Middle-aged Vanyaās dissatisfaction and disappointment have been tempered by years of hard work. But all of that is about to be challenged.
With his plain and steadfast niece Sonya (Melanie Field), Vanya keeps the place going. And while barely putting aside a kopek for himself, heās ensured that proceeds have gone to Sonyaās father Alexandre, a querulous academic (Tom Nelis), and his alluring, much younger second wife Yelena (Ito Aghayere) who live in the city.
When called to retire, the self-important professor and his wife economize by joining the family in the country. Overcome by the intense boredom brought on by provincial isolation, theyāre not happy. Turns out, life in the sticks isnāt for them.
At the same time, the urban coupleās presence generates quite an effect on the rural household, changing the mood from one of regular work to idleness. Whatās more, Vanya and family friend MikhaĆl Ćstrov (John Benjamin Hickey), an unusually eco-aware, country doctor, are both bewitched by Yelena.
Meanwhile, young Sonya, whoās long carried an unrequited torch for Ćstrov grows increasingly smitten. And while Yelena, whoās bored with her aging husband, expresses teasing tenderness with Vanya, she feels something more serious for Ćstrov. Itās a whole lot for one house.
Superbly staged by Simon Godwin, STCās artistic director, and performed by a topnotch cast, the very human production begins on an unfinished stage cluttered with costume racks and assorted props, all assembled by crew in black and actors in street clothes. We first see them arranging pillows and rugs for an outside scene. Throughout the play, the actors continue to assist with set changes accompanied by an underscore of melancholic cello strings.
With each subsequent scene, the work moves deeper into Chekhovās late 19th century Russian world from the kitchen to the drawing room thanks in part to scenic designer Robert Brillās subtle sets and Susan Hilferty and Heather C. Freedmanās period costumes as well as Jen Schrieverās emotive lighting design.
In moments of stillness, the set with its painterly muted tones and spare furnishings is a domestic interior from a moment in time. Itās really something.
Adapted by contemporary Irish playwright Conor McPherson, the work is infused with mordant wit, ribald comedy, and sadness. Like McPhersonās 2006 play āThe Seafarerā in which the action unfolds among family, friends and others in a modest house filled with confrontation, laughter, resentment, and sadness. All on brand.
For much of āUncle Vanya,” McPhersonās script leans into humor, funny slights, the professorās pretentions, and Vanyaās delicious snarky asides; but after the interval, the playās stakes become perilously heightened ready to explode with resentment and feelings of wasted potential, particularly frustrations expressed by Vanya and his intelligent but unfulfilled mother (Sharon Lockwood).
When it appears that mismatched couple Alexandre and Yelena are poised to depart, the house is struck with a sense of both relief and gloom.
Not everyone is disturbed. In fact, the familyās old nanny Nana (Nancy Robinette), and Waffles (Craig Wallace), a former landowner and now lodger on the estate, are elated. Both are eager to return to the pre-professor schedule of an early breakfast and midday lunch, and menus featuring simpler fare. They long for the return of the humble Russian noodle.
āUncle Vanyaāmelds cynicism and hope. Like life, itās a grasp at fulfillment.Ā
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