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Beekman or bust
Gay entrepreneurs reinvent themselves at rural N.Y. farm

When Josh Kilmer-Purcell and Brent Ridge took time from their bustling New York City life to go apple picking, they had no idea they were embarking on a trip that would be the start of their own business, reality TV fame and change their lives.
In a set-up that sounds like something out of a sitcom, Kilmer-Purcell and Ridge ended up getting lost on their apple picking adventure and wound up in Sharon Springs, N.Y., a rural town teeming with quirk and charm. They found the American Hotel, owned by local gay couple Doug Plummer and Garth Roberts, and decided to spend the night. The next day on the way home, the pair stumbled across Beekman Farm, a local farm that happened to be for sale.
Kilmer-Purcell and Ridge fell in love with the property, cashed in everything they had, took out a mortgage and became the proud owners. They had no idea the farm would end up being their saving grace.
The recession of 2008 brought misfortune to many, including Kilmer-Purcell who lost his job in advertising and Ridge who lost his position as vice president of healthy living at Martha Stewart Omnimedia. Without big city earnings to keep them afloat, the couple knew they had to figure out a way to profit off their farm. The farmās neighbor John Hale, affectionally nicknamed by the town Farmer John and also a gay man, was also down on his luck and lost his farm. He left a letter in Kilmer-Purcell and Ridgeās mailbox asking if he could store his goats at their farm. The couple couldnāt say no.
Farmer John and his 80 goats moved into Beekman Farm and the couple realized they had been given an opportunity to profit.
āWe actually started Googling āWhat can we do with goat milk?ā and the first thing that came up was goat milk soap,ā Kilmer-Purcell says. āIt just so happened one of our neighbors was a soap maker and she taught us how to make the soap with goat milk. Then she introduced us to another neighbor who was a weaver and another neighbor who was a blacksmith. We realized there was all these great craftspeople that were making amazing products, but didnāt know how to market them. Thatās when we fell back on our skills in advertising and with Martha Stewart.ā
From there, the brand Beekman 1802 was born. The company expanded from goat milk and now sells everything from artisanal cheeses, skin care, clothing, kitchenware, bedding, rugs, cookbooks and much more.
Their brandās tagline is āCultivate a better lifeā and itās something that goes beyond marketing for the two.
āWe chose that because there are so many lifestyle brands out there from Kardashian, even Martha Stewart, that want you to think there are all these magic ways your life will become better if you just buy their products. We believe that having a better life is a lot of hard work. Itās a lot of helping your neighbors and those things donāt just happen. So weāre not just a brand of things you buy we have a philosophy of helping your neighbor,ā Kilmer-Purcell says.
After launching a line of pasta sauces made from small farm ingredients, Target reached out to the entrepreneurial couple for a collaboration for a food line. Now Beekman 1802 Farmhouse, the brandās home line, launched on Sept. 14 and is available for purchase on target.com. The collection is Americana rustic with a modern twist and includes items such as a dinnerware collection, bedding collection, lightening collection, rugs, a sofa and much more. Prices range from $14.99 to $599.99.
The significance of having their items sold by a big-name retailer like Target isnāt lost on the couple.
āA company like Target never would have launched a food or home brand with a company that is so visibly fronted by a long-term gay couple,ā Ridge says. āI think it just shows how far weāve come.Target is a middle-America-based retailer and the fact that itās a non-issue for them really shows where we are truly at in America.ā
Kilmer-Purcell and Ridgeās journey from city boys to farmers can be seen on their now-defunct, three-season reality television show āThe Fabulous Beekman Boys,ā which aired on Planet Green and the Cooking Channel.
Although the reality show experience was new for the town, Kilmer-Purcell and Ridge say people were very welcoming to the show and to the couple.
āWe always say Doug and Garth at the American Hotel were the pioneers. They were the first gay couple to move into the area in the late ā90s and they were so beloved that Doug is now the mayor now,ā Kilmer-Purcell says. āPeople here were really open to the idea of outsiders because they had brought in business and tourism. So we walked into a really friendly atmosphere. We always say homophobia is a luxury of the middle class because rich people generally have more exposure to the world and poor people have bigger things to worry about.ā
The town even became part of one of the biggest days in the coupleās lives.
āThey always think what weāre doing is weird, but I think theyāve learned to trust us because we genuinely bring a lot of good energy and outside people into the area,ā Ridge says. āWhen we got married in 2013, we invited everybody in Sharon Springs to the wedding. They all came including priests and pastors from congregations that didnāt recognize gay marriage.ā
The couple ā whoāve been together 16 years ā says although it was weird having cameras around at first, they became used to the environment and formed a special relationship with the crew. Kilmer-Purcell and Ridge even attended the directorās wedding.
Their newfound reality TV fame also landed them on the 21st season of āThe Amazing Race,ā in which they came in first.
While they have earned acclaim for their creative business, the couple thinks there is more behind the stereotype that gay people have a great eye for design that runs deep.
āOur philosophy is that growing up LGBT kids have to be really creative,ā Kilmer-Purcell says. āI donāt know if itās true anymore but when we were growing up we had to be really creative to find ways to hide your true identity. You start your life being incredibly creative. It makes a lot of sense that LGBT people go into creative fields. Most of the heteronormative world, they can just go with the flow their entire lives. Whereas LGBT people have to start overcoming obstacles as soon as they are aware of their differences.ā
The couple have utilized their creativity to new heights by expanding their business in ways beyond a food and home line into giving experiences to others.
Website visitors can take a live look at the Live Goat Cam, a live stream feed on beekman1802.com to experience the beauty of their goats for free from anywhere in the world.
The couple has also curated āTrips of a Lifetimeā in which small groups of people ranging from 15 to 25 can purchase trips with the couple to international locations. The trips are designed with a commitment to agriculture, philanthropy and understanding different cultures in mind. Last year, they went to Cuba and next year they are planning a trip to India.
With all Kilmer-Purcell and Ridge have accomplished, there is still one aspect of their brand that they may never live down.
āWhen we moved in, because we owned the Beekman Farm, everyone started calling us the Beekman Boys. And everybody still calls us āthe boysā and I have this dreaded feeling that weāre going to be 80 years old and theyāll still be calling us āthe boys,ā Ridge says.

Brent Ridge, left, and husband Josh Kilmer-Purcell. (Photo courtesy the couple)
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Tristan Schukraft on keeping queer spaces thriving
New owner of LAās Abbey expands holdings to Fire Island, Mexico

LOS ANGELES ā Like the chatter about Willy Wonka and his Chocolate Factory, the West Hollywood community here started to whisper about the man who was going to be taking over the world-famous Abbey, a landmark in Los Angelesās queer nightlife scene. Rumors were put to rest when it was announced that entrepreneur Tristan Schukraft would be taking over the legacy created by Abbey founder David Cooley. All eyes are on him.
For those of us who were there for the re-opening of The Abbey, when the torch was officially passed, all qualms about the new regime went away as it was clear the club was in good hands and that the spirit behind the Abbey would forge on. Cher, Ricky Martin, Bianca del Rio, Jean Smart, and many other celebrities rubbed shoulders with veteran patrons, and the evening was magical and a throwback to the nightclub atmosphere pre-COVID.
The much-talked-about purchase of the Abbey was just the beginning for Schukraft. It was also announced that this business impresario was set to purchase the commercial district of Fire Island, as well as projects launching in Mexico and Puerto Rico. What was he up to? Tristan sat down with the Blade to chat about it all.
āWeāre at a time right now when the last generation of LGBT entrepreneurs and founders are all in their 60s and theyāre retiring. And if somebody doesnāt come in and buy these places, weāre going to lose our queer spaces.ā
Tristan wasnāt looking for more projects, but he recounts what happened in Puerto Rico. The Atlantic Beach Hotel was the gay destination spot and the place to party on Sundays, facing the gay beach. A new owner came in and made it a straight hotel, effectively taking away a place of fellowship and history for the queer community. Thankfully, the property is gay again, now branded as the Tryst and part of Schukraftās portfolio with locations in Puerto Vallarta and Fire Island.
āIf that happens with the Abbey and West Hollywood, itās like Bloomingdaleās in a mall. Itās kind of like a domino effect. So thatās really what it is all about for me at this point. It has become a passion project, and I think now more than ever, itās really important.ā
Tristan is fortifying spaces for the queer community at a time when the current administration is trying to silence the LGBTQ+ community. The timing is not lost on him.
āI thought my mission was important before, and in the last couple of months, itās become even more important. I donāt know why thereās this effort to erase us from public life, but weāve always been here. Weāre going to continue to be here, and it brings even more energy and motivation for me to make sure the spaces that I have now and even additional venues are protected going in the future.ā
The gay community is not always welcoming to fresh faces and new ideas. Schukraftās takeover of the Abbey and Fire Island has not come without criticism. Who is this man, and how dare he create a monopoly? As Schukraft knows, there will always be mean girls ready to talk. In his eyes, if someone can come in and preserve and advance spaces for the queer community, why would we oppose that?
āI think the community should be really appreciative. We, as a community, now, more than ever, should stand together in solidarity and not pick each other apart.ā
As far as the Abbey is concerned, Schukraft is excited about the changes to come. Being a perfectionist, he wants everything to be aligned, clean, and streamlined. There will be changes made to the DJ and dance booth, making way for a long list of celebrity pop-ups and performances. But his promise to the community is that it will continue to be the place to be, a place for the community to come together, for at least another 33 years.
āWeāre going to build on the Abbeyās rich heritage as not only a place to go at night and party but a place to go in the afternoon and have lunch. Thatās what David Cooley did that no others did before, is he brought the gay bar outside, and I love that.ā
Even with talk of a possible decline in West Hollywoodās nightlife, Schukraft maintains that though the industry may have its challenges, especially since COVID, the Abbey and nightlife will continue to thrive and grow.
āIām really encouraged by all the new ownership in [nightlife] because we need another generation to continue on. Iād be more concerned if everybody was still in their sixties and not letting go.ā
In his opinion, apps like Grindr have not killed nightlife.
āSometimes you like to order out, and sometimes you like to go out, and sometimes you like to order in, right? Thereās nothing that really replaces that real human interaction, and more importantly, as we know, a lot of times our family is our friends, theyāre our adopted family.
Sometimes you meet them online, but you really meet them going out to bars and meeting like-minded people. At the Abbey, every now and then, thereās that person whoās kind of building up that courage to go inside and has no wingman, doesnāt have any gay friends. So itās really important that these spaces are fun, to eat, drink, and party. But theyāre really important for the next generation to find their true identity and their new family.ā
There has also been criticism that West Hollywood has become elitist and not accessible to everyone in the community. Schukraft believes otherwise. West Hollywood is a varied part of queer nightlife as a whole.
āWest Hollywood used to be the only gay neighborhood, and now youāve got Silver Lake and youāve got parts of Downtown, which is really good because L.A., is a huge place. Itās nice to have different neighborhoods, and each offers its own flavor and personality.ā
Staunch in his belief in his many projects, he is not afraid to talk about hot topics in the community, especially as they pertain to the Abbey. As anyone who goes to the Abbey on a busy night can attest to, the crowd is very diverse and inclusive. Some in the community have started to complain that gay bars are no longer for the gay community, but are succumbing to our straight visitors.
Schukraft explains: āWeāre a victim of our own success. I think itās great that we donāt need to hide in the dark shadows or in a hole-in-the-wall gay bar. Iām happy about the acceptance. I started Tryst Hotels, which is the first gay hotel. Weāre not hetero-friendly, weāre not gay-friendly. Weāre a gay hotel and everyone is welcome. I think as long as we donāt change our behavior or the environment in general at the Abbey, and if you want to party with us, the more than merrier.ā
Schukraftās message to the community?
āThese are kind of dangerous times, right? The rights that we fought for are being taken away and are being challenged. Weāre trying to be erased from public life. There could be mean girls, but we, as a community, need to stick together and unite, and make sure those protections and our identity arenāt erased. And even though youāre having a drink at a gay bar, and it seems insignificant, youāre supporting gay businesses and places for the next generation.ā
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Creator Max Mutchnick on inspirations for āMid-Century Modernā
Real-life friendships and loss inform plot of new Hulu show

Itās been a long time ā maybe 25 years when āWill & Graceā debuted ā since thereās been so much excitement about a new, queer sitcom premiering. āMid-Century Modern,ā which debuted on Hulu last week, is the creation of Max Mutchnick and David Kohan, the gay men who were also behind āWill & Grace.ā
Set in Palm Springs, Calif., following the death of the one of their closest friends, three gay men gather to mourn. Swept up in the emotions of the moment, Bunny (Nathan Lane) suggests that Atlanta-based flight attendant Jerry (Matt Bomer) and New York-based fashion editor Arthur (Nathan Lee Graham) move into the mid-century modern home he shares with his mother Sybil (the late Linda Lavin). Over the course of the first seasonās 10 episodes, hilarity ensues. That is, except for the episode in which they address Sybilās passing. The three male leads are all fabulous, and the ensemble cast, including Pamela Adlon as Bunnyās sister Mindy, and the stellar line-up of guest stars, such as Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Vanessa Bayer, Richard Kind, and Cheri Oteri, keep humor buzzing. Shortly before the premiere of āMid-Century Modern,ā Mutchnick made time for an interview with the Blade.
BLADE: Iād like to begin by saying itās always a delight to speak to a fellow Emerson College alum. In ways would you say that Emerson impacted your professional and creative life?
MAX MUTCHNICK: I think Emerson was the first place that reflected back to me that my voice, my thoughts were good, and they were worth listening to. I developed a confidence at Emerson that did not exist in my body and soul. It was a collection of a lot of things that took place in Boston, but I mean we can just put it all under the Emerson umbrella.
BLADE: Before āWill & Grace,ā you co-created the NBC sitcom āBoston Common,ā which starred fellow Emerson alum Anthony Clark. Is it important for you to maintain those kinds of alumni relationships?
MUTCHNICK: Because Emersonians are such scrappy little monkeys and they end up being everywhere in the world, you can’t help but work with someone from Emerson at some point in your career. I’m certainly more inclined to engage with someone from Emerson once I learn that they went to my alma mater. For me, it has much more to do with history and loyalty. I don’t think of myself as one of those guys that says, āLoyalty means a lot to me. I’m someone that really leans into history.ā It’s just what my life and career turned out to be. The longer I worked with people and the more often I worked with them, the safer that I felt, which means that I was more creative and that’s the name of the game. I’ve got to be as comfortable as possible so I can be as creative as possible. If that means that a person from Emerson is in the room, so be it. (Costume designer) Lori Eskowitz would be the Emerson version. And then (writer and actor) Dan Bucatinsky would be another version. When I’m around them for a long time, that’s when the best stuff comes.
BLADE: Relationships are important. On that subject, your new Hulu sitcom āMid-Century Modernā is about the longstanding friendship among three friends, Bunny (Nathan Lane), Jerry (Matt Bomer), and Arthur (Nathan Lee Graham). Do you have a friendship like the one shared by these three men?
MUTCHNICK: Iām absolutely engaged in a real version of what we’re projecting on the show. I have that in my life. I cannot say that I’m Jerry in any way, but the one thing that we do have in common is that in my group, I’m the young one. But I think that that’s very common in these families that we create. There’s usually a young one. Our culture is built on learning from our elders. I didn’t have a father growing up, so maybe that made me that much more inclined to seek out older, wiser, funnier, meaner friends. I mean the reason why you’re looking at a mouthful of straight, white teeth is because one of those old bitches sat across from me about 25 years ago at a diner and said, āGirl, your teeth are a disaster, and you need to get that fixed immediately.ā What did I know? I was just a kid from Chicago with two nickels in my pocket. But I found three nickels and I went and had new teeth put in my head. But that came from one of my dearest in the group.
BLADE: Do you think that calling āMid-Century Modernā a gay āGolden Girlsā is a fair description?
MUTCHNICK: No. I think the gay āGolden Girlsā was really just used as a tool to pitch the show quickly. We have an expression in town, which is āgive me the elevator pitch,ā because nobody has an attention span. The fastest way you can tell someone what David (Kohan) and I wanted to write, was to say, āIt’s gay Golden Girls.ā When you say that to somebody, then they say, āOK, sit down now, tell me more.ā We did that and then we started to dive into the show and realized pretty quickly that it’s not the gay āGolden Girls.ā No disrespect to the āGolden Girls.ā It’s a masterpiece.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā is set in Palm Springs. Iām based in Fort Lauderdale, a few blocks south of Wilton Manors, and I was wondering if that gay enclave was ever in consideration for the setting, or was it always going to be in Palm Springs?
MUTCHNICK: You just asked a really incredible question! Because, during COVID, Matt Bomer and I used to walk, because we live close by. We had a little walking group of a few gay gentlemen. On one of those walks, Matt proposed a comedy set in Wilton Manors. He said it would be great to title the show āWilton Manors.ā I will tell you that in the building blocks of what got us to āMid-Century Modern,ā Wilton Manors, and that suggestion from Matt Bomer on our COVID walks, was part of it.
BLADE: Is Sybil, played by the late Linda Lavin, modeled after a mother you know?
MUTCHNICK: Rhea Kohan (mother of David and Jenji). When we met with Linda for the first time over Zoom, when she was abroad, David and I explained to her that this was all based on Rhea Kohan. In fact, some of the lines that she (Sybil) speaks in the pilot are the words that Jenji Kohan spoke about her mother in her eulogy at the funeral because it really summed up what the character was all about. Yes, itās very much based on someone.
BLADE: The Donny Osmond jokes in the second episode of āMid-Century Modernā reminded me of the Barry Manilow āfanilowsā on āWill & Grace.ā Do you know if Donny is aware that heās featured in the show?
MUTCHNICK: I don’t. To tell you the truth, the āfanilowā episode was written when I was not on the show. I was on a forced hiatus, thanks to Jeff Zucker. That was a show that I was not part of. We don’t really work that way. The Donny Osmond thing came more from Mattās character being a Mormon, and also one of the writers. It’s very important to mention that the writing room at āMid-Century Modern,ā is (made up of) wonderful and diverse and colorful incredible humans ā one of them is an old, white, Irish guy named Don Roos who’s brilliantā¦
BLADE: ā¦he’s Dan Bucatinskyās husband.
MUTCHNICK: Right! Dan is also part of the writing room. But I believe it was Don who had a thing for Donny, and that’s where it comes from. I don’t know if Donny has any awareness. The only thing I care about when we turn in an episode like that is I just want to hear from legal that weāre approved.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā also includes opportunities for the singers in the cast. Linda Lavin sang the Jerome Kern/Ira Gershwin tune āLong Ago (And Far Away)ā and Nathan Lane and the guys sang āHe Had It Comingā from āChicago.ā Was it important to give them the chance to exercise those muscles?
MUTCHNICK: I don’t think it was. I think it really is just the managersā choice. David Kohan and I like that kind of stuff, so we write that kind of stuff. But by no means was there an edict to write that. We know what our cast is capable of, and we will absolutely exploit that if we’re lucky enough to have a second season. I have a funky relationship with the song āLong Ago (And Far Away).ā It doesn’t float my boat, but everybody else loved it. We run a meritocracy, and the best idea will out. Thatās how that song ended up being in the show. I far prefer the recording of Linda singing āIāll Be Seeing Youā over her montage in episode eight, āHereās To You, Mrs. Schneiderman.ā We were just lucky that Linda had recorded that. That recording was something that she had done and sent to somebody during COVID because she was held up in her apartment. That’s what motivated her to make that video and send it. Thatās how we were able to use that audio.
BLADE: Being on a streaming service like Hulu allows for characters to say things they might not get away with on network TV, including a foreskin joke, as well as Sybilās propensity for cursing.
MUTCHNICK: And the third line in the show is about him looking like a āreluctant bottom.ā I don’t think that’s something you’re going to see on ABC anytime soon. David and I liked the opportunity to open up the language of this show because it might possibly open the door to bringing peopleā¦I’m going to mix metaphorsā¦into the tent that have never been there before. A generation that writes off a sitcom because that language and that type of comedy isn’t the way that they sound. One of the gifts of doing this show on Hulu is that we get to write dialogue that sounds a little bit more like you and I sound. As always, we don’t want to do anything just to do it.
BLADE: It didn’t feel that way.
MUTCHNICK: It’s there when it’s right. [Laughs] I want to have a shirt made with Lindaās line, as her mother always used to say, āTime is a cunt.ā
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā also utilizes a lot of Jewish humor. How important is it for you to include that at this time when there is a measurable rise in anti-Semitism?
MUTCHNICK: I think it’s important, but I don’t think it’s the reason why we did it. We tried very hard to not write from a place of teaching or preaching. We really are just writing about the stuff that makes us laugh. One of the things that makes something better and something that you can invest in is if it’s more specific. We’re creating a character whose name is Bunny Schneiderman and his mother’s name is Sybil and they made their money in a family-run business, it gets Jewy, and we’re not going to shy away from it. But we’re definitely not going to address what’s going on in the world. That doesn’t mean I don’t find it very upsetting, but I’m writing always from the point of view of entertaining the largest number of people that I can every week.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā has a fantastic roster of guest stars including Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Vanessa Bayer, Billie Lourd, Cheri Oteri, Richard Kind, Rhea Perlman, and Judd Hirsch. Are there plans to continue that in future seasons?
MUTCHNICK: Yes. As I keep saying, if we’re so lucky that we get to continue, I don’t want to do āThe Love Boat.ā Those are fine comic actors, so I don’t think it feels like that. But if we get to keep going, what I want to do is broaden the world because that gives us more to write about. I want to start to introduce characters that are auxiliary to the individuals. I want to start to meet Arthur’s family, so we can return to people. I want to introduce other neighbors, and different types of gay men because we come in so many different flavors. I think that we should do that only because I’m sure itās what your life is and it’s what my life is. I’ve got a lot of different types. So, yes, we will be doing more.
BLADE: Finally, Linda Lavin passed away in December 2024, and in a later episode, the subject of her character Sybilās passing is handled sensitively, including the humorous parts.
MUTCHNICK: We knew we had a tall order. We suffered an incredible loss in the middle of making this comedy. One of the reasons why I think this show works is because we are surrounded by a lot of really talented people. Jim Burrows and Ryan Murphy, to name two. Ryan played a very big role in telling us that it was important that we address this, that we address it immediately. That we show the world and the show goes on. That wasn’t my instinct because I was so inside the grief of losing a friend, because she really was. It wasn’t like one of those showbizzy-type relationships. And this is who she was, by the way, to everybody at the show. It was the way that we decided to go. Let’s write this now. Let’s not put this at the end of the season. Let’s not satellite her in. Letās not āDarren Stevensā the character, which is something we would never do. The other thing that Jim Burrows made very clear to us was the import of the comedy. You have to write something that starts exactly in the place that these shows start. A set comedy piece that takes place in the kitchen. Because for David and me, as writers, we said we just want to tell the truth. That’s what we want to do with this episode and that’s the way that this will probably go best for us. The way that we’ve dealt with grief in our lives is with humor. That is the way that we framed writing this episode. We wanted it to be a chapter from our lives, and how we experience this loss and how we recover and move on.
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Margaret Cho returns to music with ‘Lucky Gift’
Collection of pop tunes includes tribute to non-binary people

LOS ANGELES ā It has been eight years since Margaret Cho released her Grammy-nominated āAmerican Mythā album. Sheās back to the music scene with her new album, āLucky Gift,ā an 11-track collection of anthems and pop tunes, a tribute to Robin Williams, and a shout-out to non-binary and gender non-conforming people.
The album captures the whirlwind that is Margaret and all of the different facets of her talents that have made her a powerhouse in entertainment and a leader in activism. In āLucky Gift,ā sheās getting her point across while having fun and getting glam.
We caught up with the activist and artist to chat about her music, our political climate, and the power of pop divas.
Known for her comedy, acting, and activism, she felt it was long overdue to get her music back out there too.
“I make music often. It’s a part of my daily life, it’s a big part of my social life, and it’s just something that I just love to do for my own relaxation and fun. I had enough for an album and I wanted to finally put them out. I was just really proud of how it all sounded together,” shares Cho.
“It’s a power pop record. For me, the songs are really meaningful. They’re all in their own way love songs. I’m a big fan of my own music (laughs), I really like the way that I sound and it’s really special to do. People know me as a comedian, and I have also made music for a long time, but it’s sort of a side project, and so it was time to put more out again.”
Her album also includes a touching tribute to Robin Williams. The entertainment community is finally more comfortable talking about mental health more openly. When relating mental health to her own life, Margaret, in true Margaret form, quickly turned the conversation to reflect todayās political climate.
“I have to maintain a level of peace and quiet and sometimes maybe get away from the news, although that’s tough because I am obsessed. I want to know what is happening. I’m really worried for our community, especially the trans community. I’m worried that this administration is trying to separate T and the Q from the LGBTQIA, and it’s really frightening.”
As an elder, Cho says she has to also remember that we’ve been through this before and it’s actually been much worse. As a community, we’ve been through a similar situation, and we were facing down a pandemic, which was killing us by the millions. So at least now we don’t have to fight AIDS as well as this onslaught of homophobia.
“We have fought for our rights, and we still have them, but we may not have them for long. So our mental health is very important to preserve now because we have to fight. The one thing to remember is they can’t do everything at once. They can’t take away trans rights, queer rights, gay rights, gay marriage, anti-depressants āha ā at the same time. So what we can do is just try to remain as calm as possible and fight as strongly as we can. But yeah, mental health is really vitally important right now.”
Margaretās long history of queer activism stands for itself. She does not shy away from current issues, she uses her platforms to incite, educate, and question. For Margaret, there is no time off from being an activist. She was born into it, so to speak, being raised in San Francisco in the 1970s, her parents ā the owners of a gay bookstore ā and their employees followers of Harvey Milk.
“My activism is that I don’t have a choice. I’m going to be an activist no matter what. We’re doing this together, we’re going through this together. I will always be political. It’s just disheartening to see the ignorance of people and the lies that are being told that are believed.”
Margaretās āLucky Giftā comes at a perfect time when the queer community can come together over music. Cho looks at her album as a tool to empower an underdog community through the power of music.
“It’s the triumph of pop above all. We need to look to our pop divas above all. So now I’m more than ever, leaning on Madonna. [Thank God for Lady Gagaās] āAbracadabraā because I think that things like that boost our community so much. When you can just get together and have a ābrat summer,ā that boosts our community so much in this togetherness, this explosion of excitement. I think Chappell Roan really ignited the pop capacity for healing. I love āLucky Giftā because it is my stepping into a pop diva moment. Pop divas should not be discounted for how important they are to our society and how much they lift us up.”
In addition to releasing her new album, Cho will continue to hit the road this year with her āLive and LIVID! Tour,ā celebrating more than four decades of live stand-up shows. On this tour, she promises to rage about homophobia, sexism, racism, and the fight to stay alive. The five-time Grammy and Emmy-nominated performer is not holding back. According to her, the nation is not divided, just a little lost.
āWe’re not divided. Everybody hates this. We all hate this. The fact is, the majority of the country does not want this. Unfortunately, a lot of people just didn’t vote because they just didn’t want to participate. Thatās why we’re in the situation that we’re in. So to be on the road is a pleasure. And I rarely come against opposition. Every once in a while there’s something, but it’s something that we all handle. I think we all need a voice, a strong voice of reason to combat all of the hysteria.ā
And her message to her fans?
āWe’ll get through this. We’ll get through this with pop divas. āAbracadabra,ā learn the choreography, you do it sitting down. At least we have pop music, I have my hat in the ring here. But at least we have each other and we’re going to be OK. It’s going to be a ride, it’s going to be intense, but we can do this. We’ve been through this before and we are going to be fine.ā
āLucky Giftāis now available on all major streaming platforms.
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