Miscellaneous
Queery: Chris Beagle
The Rehoboth realtor and teen mentor answers 20 gay questions

Sometimes a bit of anonymity can be freeing.
Thatās what Chris Beagle discovered last fall when he agreed to help staff a āchallenge day,ā at Cape Henlopen High School where 25 adult volunteer āleadersā met with 125 students who chose to attend. Everyone use first names only and Beagle found it created an environment well suited for sharing concerns.
āI gotta tell you, it turned out to be one of the most meaningful days of my adult life,ā Beagle says. āWe really bonded over whatās going on in our lives.ā
The experience, born out of a column Beagle wrote for Letters to Camp Rehoboth, the gay publication in Rehoboth Beach, Del., where he lives, inspired Beagle to become a teen mentor. He now meets weekly with three teens and says itās been a vastly rewarding experience.
āI think theyāre just lonely,ā he says. āI remember what it felt like. Itās not necessarily a gay issue, but at that age, kids are reluctant to embrace anything that makes them different so it can be a really rough time. These are all kids who attended challenge day, so clearly they wanted to address some kind of issue ⦠itās how I work out my need to contribute to todayās youth.ā
Beagle, a 45-year-old realtor with Prudential Gallo, grew up in Danville, Pa. He and his partner of nearly 22 years, Eric Engelhart, met at Penn State when Beagle was doing graduate work. They lived in New Hope, Pa., for 10 years but found themselves increasingly spending time at Rehoboth Beach. For the first three summers, they vacationed there. Then there was three summers of time shares. Then they bought a second home there and since Jan. of 2006 have lived there full time.
Beagle writes a column for Letters to Camp Rehoboth and is excited to help younger gays to get involved there. He enjoys volunteering, cooking, entertaining and working out in his free time.
Beagle and Engelhart have two pets ā Abbey, a 2-year-old Boston Terrier, and Chloe, a cat. (Photos courtesy of Chris Beagle)
How long have you been out and who was the hardest person to tell?
For me, and I suspect many others, coming out was a process. I wasnāt comfortable with my sexuality during my teens and early 20s, thinking I was either bisexual or, more likely, that I was in a phase that I could somehow, someday, work my way out of.
Lucky for me, I met my partner, Eric, while attending Grad School at Penn State. I was a T.A. and met him in one of my classes. I still say whatās made it work all these years is that we became friends, then best friends, and nine months passed before we came out to each other. That night (Sept. 15) is still our anniversary.
As for who was the hardest person to come out to, not in her reaction, but in leading up to it, it was definitely my mother. Weāre very close and have been for as long as I can remember. She divorced my father when I was 11, and being just 30 at the time, she and I, in many ways, grew up together.
I had been distraught about her reaction and built up that moment in my head for years. Looking back, I completely underestimated her strength. She handled it beautifully, with poise and grace. She simply said, āI love you, Chris, and nothing will ever change that.ā Iāve always admired my mother, but never more than on that day. Her love and support is something Iāve always been able to count on.
Who’s your LGBT hero?
Harvey Milk
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, past or present?
Since Iām in Rehoboth, Iāll answer from that perspective. Yes, weāre a small town, but for Eric and I, thatās what makes it so great! In terms of the past, we owe so much to Joyce Felton, who opened the Strand and the Blue Moon in the early ā80s, for helping to put gay nightlife here on the map. The Renegade, of course, had a big impact for years as well. Now we have Aqua, Cloud 9, Purple Parrot, Rigbyās, among others, joining the Moon as our nightlife offering. Rehoboth, loosely translated, means āroom for all.ā Obviously that definition still fits today.
Describe your dream wedding.
Until recently, that question wouldāve meant something very different for me. After nearly 22 years in the same relationship, the notion of a wedding has been just that, a dream. But since Delaware just signed its civil union bill into law last week, that dream is becoming reality. I got involved with SB30 efforts, first and foremost, for Eric and I, but it quickly grew into something else. I was honored to give testimony in both the Senate and House, and to have participated in seeing this become law and a part of history. Now, after all these years, weāre having a blast planning our big day. Without giving much away, suffice to say, it will be in Rehoboth and we will be surrounded by those we love. A long-awaited dream come true!
What non-LGBT issue are you most passionate about?
Most any issue related to an underrepresented, oppressed or minority group.
What historical outcome would you change?
The 5-3 vote by the U.S. Supreme Court on December 12th, 2000, effectively handing George W. Bush the presidency.Ā As Justice John Paul Stevens wrote in his dissenting opinion, āAlthough we may never know with complete certainty the identity of the winner of this yearās presidential election, the identity of the loser is perfectly clear. It is the nationās confidence in the judge as an impartial guardian of the rule of law.ā
What’s been the most memorable pop culture moment of your lifetime?
Pop culture can mean a lot of things, but as for moments, the unexpected, tragic death of Princess Diana on Aug. 31, 1997 comes to mind. I was amazed at the extent of the world-wide reaction and how it continues to capture peopleās attention to this day.
On what do you insist?
Honesty
What was your last Facebook post or Tweet?
In posting a YouTube video clip, āCivil Unions Signed into Law in Delaware,ā I posted: āSo proud to be a Delawarean, a supporter of Governor Markell, and in attendance to witness this heartfelt and inspiring speech.ā
If your life were a book, what would the title be?
āBlessed!ā
If science discovered a way to change sexual orientation, what would you do?
Absolutely nothing!
What do you believe in beyond the physical world?
Iāll let you know when, or if, I get there.
What’s your advice for LGBT movement leaders?
Be realistic and respectful to the process. Do your homework. Donāt let the opposition distract your focus. Be organized. Most importantly, donāt give up!
What would you walk across hot coals for?
Someone I love.
What LGBT stereotype annoys you most?
In same-sex relationships, when one person is deemed the masculine of the pair and the other, the feminine.Ā Isnāt that an oxymoron?
What’s your favorite LGBT movie?
Tough one. āMilkā would likely be my first pick; followed closely by āTorch Song Trilogy,ā āDoing Time on Maple Driveā and āBrokeback Mountain.ā
What’s the most overrated social custom?
āNice meeting you!ā Do most people really mean it?
What trophy or prize do you most covet?
Any. Iām just a bit competitive.
What do you wish you’d known at 18?
That being gay was completely normal.
Why Rehoboth?
I said it earlier, āroom for all.ā The fact that itās a beach town ā huge bonus!
Miscellaneous
Stephen Miller’s legal group sues Fairfax County schools
Lawsuit challenges policies for transgender, nonbinary students

Former Trump administration official Stephen Miller’s legal group on Tuesday filed a lawsuit against the Fairfax County School District over its policies for transgender and nonbinary students.
America First Legal in a press release notes it filed the lawsuit against the school district on behalf of a female, “practicing Roman Catholic” student “for allowing teenage boys to use the female restrooms and for forcing a radical, government-sponsored gender indoctrination and approved-speech scheme that discriminates against students on the basis of sex and religion and violates their free speech rights under the Virginia Constitution.”
The lawsuit was filed in Fairfax County Circuit Court.
The Virginia Department of Education last July announced new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students for which Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin asked. Equality Virginia and other advocacy groups claim they, among other things, would forcibly out trans and nonbinary students.
Fairfax County schools are among the school districts that have refused to implement the guidelines.
āFairfax County Public Schools appears to believe that its policies and regulations can override the Virginia Constitutionās protections for religious beliefs, speech and from government discrimination on the basis of sex and religious beliefs,” said America First legal Senior Advisor Ian Prior in a press release. “It is well past time for FCPS to stop sacrificing the constitutional rights of its students so that it can implement a state-sanctioned ideology that demands compliance in speech, beliefs and conduct.”Ā
FCPS Pride, a group that represents the Fairfax County School Districtās LGBTQ employees, described the lawsuit as “abhorrent.”
“We are confident that the school board and the superintendent will strongly and firmly oppose this specious suit and continue to support all students, including transgender and gender expansive students,” said the group in a press list.
Miscellaneous
More than a dozen LGBTQ candidates on the ballot in Va.
Control of the state Senate hangs in the balance

More than a dozen openly LGBTQ candidates are on the ballot in Virginia on Nov. 7.
State Del. Danica Roem (D-Manassas) is running against Republican Bill Woolf in the newly redistricted Senate District 30 that includes western Prince William County and the cities of Manassas and Manassas Park.
Roem in 2018 became the first openly transgender person seated in a state legislature in the U.S. after she defeated then-state Del. Bob Marshall, a prominent LGBTQ rights opponent who co-wrote Virginiaās constitutional amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman. Roem would become Virginia’s first out trans state senator if she defeats Woolf.
Woolf supports a bill that would require school personnel to out trans students to their parents. The Republican Party of Virginia has highlighted this position in ads in support of Woolf.
āThank you for reminding me why I won three elections in this district in Prince William County, which is the most diverse county in all of Virginia and the 10th most nationally where we welcome everyone because of who they are, not despite it, no matter what you look like, where you come from, how you worship, if you do, or who you love because you should be able to thrive here because of who you are, never despite it,ā said Roem on Sept. 28 in response to a woman who heckled her during a debate with Woolf that took place at Metz Middle School in Manassas.
Gay state Sen. Adam Ebbin (D-Alexandria) is running for re-election in Senate District 39. State Del. Mark Sickles (D-Fairfax County), who is also gay, is running for re-election in House District 43.
Former state Del. Joshua Cole, who identifies as bisexual, is running against Republican Lee Peters in House District 65. State Del. Kelly Convirs-Fowler (D-Virginia Beach), who came out as bisexual last year at Hampton Roads Pride, will face Republican Mike Karslake and independent Nicholas Olenik.
State Del. Marcia “Cia” Price (D-Newport News), a Black woman who identifies as pansexual, is running for re-election in House District 85.
Adele McClure, a queer Democrat, is running to represent House District 2 that includes portions of Arlington County. Laura Jane Cohen, a bisexual woman who is a member of the Fairfax County School Board, is a House of Delegates candidate in House District 15.
Rozia Henson, a gay federal contractor who works for the Department of Homeland Security, is running in House District 19. Zach Coltrain, a gay Gen Zer, is running against state Del. Barry Knight (R-Virginia Beach) in House District 98.Ā
LPAC has endorsed Jade Harris, a Rockbridge County Democrat who is running to represent Senate District 3. Harris’ website notes trans rights are part of their platform.
“Protecting trans rights, repealing right to work, strengthening unions and supporting our farmers are just a few of my legislative priorities,” reads the website. “I am dedicated to addressing the revitalization of our state’s infrastructure, fostering a favorable environment for job creation, and supporting our public education system.”
Republicans currently control the House by a 51-46 margin, while Democrats have a 21-19 majority in the state Senate.
Senate Democrats have successfully blocked anti-LGBTQ bills that Republicans have introduced since Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin took office in January 2022.
The Virginia Department of Education in July released new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students that activists and their supporters have sharply criticized. They fear that Republicans will curtail LGBTQ rights in the state if they regain control of both houses of the General Assembly on Nov. 7.
“Time and time again, anti-equality lawmakers and the Youngkin administration have made it clear that they will continue to disrespect and disregard the lives and lived experience of LGBTQ+ people within Virginia,ā said Equality Virginia PAC Executive Director Narissa Rahaman in August when her organization and the Human Rights Campaign endorsed Roem, Ebbin and other “pro-equality champions.”
āWe must elect pro-equality champions who will secure and strengthen our freedoms,” added Rahaman. “We have that chance as the eyes of the nation are on us this November.”
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund has endorsed Fairfax County School Board Vice Chair Karl Frisch and Fairfax County School Board candidates Robyn Lady and Kyle McDaniel, who identify as lesbian and bisexual respectively.
Michael Pruitt would become the first openly bisexual man elected to the Albemarle County Board of Supervisors if he were to win on Nov. 7. Blacksburg Town Councilman Michael Sutphin and Big Stone Gay Town Councilman Tyler Hughes, who are both gay, are running for re-election.
“Tyler will be a critical voice for equality as the only out LGBTQ+ person on the Big Stone Gap Town Council,” says the Victory Fund on its website.
Cal Benn contributed to this article.
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Five easy tips to help you avoid common risks

Your home is more than just a place to eat and sleep; it’s your safe haven. As much as you might cherish your home, you should probably also recognize the potential hazards within its familiar walls. Accidents can happen in an instant, yet with a little foresight and some simple adjustments, you can transform your house into a safer haven.
Accidents can happen anywhere, and with a few simple tweaks, you can lower risks in your space. Below youāll find five tips for each room in your home to help prevent injuries, falls, and other mishaps. In short, home safety.
This article was inspired by a shower in a rental we managed that began leaking through the kitchen ceiling below. If only the landlord had installed grab bars, right!? Below, we’ll guide you through the steps to fortify your bathroom, making it a place of relaxation without the fear of slips and falls. Then, we’ll venture into the room where the magic happens, where proper planning can ensure great nights and peaceful mornings. We’ll show you how to prevent accidents while you experiment becoming the next Gordon Ramsey. And weāll include a few surprising solutions for those other rooms that hold their own unique hazards, offering solutions to safeguard against unexpected mishaps.
Bathroom Safety
Install Grab Bars: Adding grab bars near the shower and toilet can provide essential support for family members of all ages. Not only can they help with getting in and out, but they can help provide stability when washing. Make sure they are securely anchored to the wall.
Non-Slip Mats: Place non-slip mats inside the shower and bathtub to prevent slips. They’re a small investment that can save you from falls and head injuries.
Adjust Water Temperature: Ensure your hot water is set to a safe temperature to avoid scalding. The hot water heater should be set to around 120°F (49°C)l, the middle setting on many water heater settings.
Medicine Cabinet Locks: If you have young children, use childproof locks on your medicine cabinet to keep harmful substances out of reach.
Proper Lighting: Ensure there’s adequate lighting in the bathroom to avoid trips and falls during nighttime visits. Nightlights can be a simple and effective solution.
Bedroom Safety
Clear Pathways: Keep pathways in the bedroom clutter free to prevent tripping. Ensure there’s enough space to move around comfortably, particularly getting around the bed. Be aware where all furniture is when walking around to avoid stubbed toes, particularly at night.
Secure Rugs: If you have throw rugs, use rug grippers or double-sided tape to keep them from slipping. Loose rugs are a common trip hazard.
Bed Rails: For anyone at risk of falling out of bed, consider installing bed rails to provide extra support and prevent falls.
Nightstands with Drawers: Opt for nightstands with drawers to keep essential items. This reduces the need to get out of bed at night, minimizing the risk of falls, as you race to grab what you need and not lose a momentās rest.
Fire Safety: Install battery-operated smoke detectors in the bedrooms if there are none. Make sure to install them 36 inches away from an air vent or the edge of a ceiling fan. Also six inches away from the joint between the wall and ceiling. And test smoke detectors regularly.
Kitchen Safety
Non-Slip Flooring: Choose slip-resistant rugs in the kitchen, especially in areas where spills are common. Mats near the sink and stove can also help and you can often buy them fairly cheaply at Costco.
Childproof Cabinets: If you have little ones, use childproof latches on cabinets and drawers to prevent them from accessing potentially hazardous items.
Anti-tip brackets: Install an anti-tip bracket behind the range. These are often used when children are in the home. Although they are less likely to open the oven door and use it as a step stool to get to the stove-top, adults can also benefit from installing these.
Adequate Lighting: Proper lighting is crucial in the kitchen to avoid accidents. Under-cabinet lighting can illuminate work areas effectively.
Secure Heavy Items: Ensure heavy pots and pans are stored at waist level to prevent straining or dropping them from high shelves.
Sharp Object Storage: Keep knives and other sharp objects in a secure drawer or block. And handle all sharp items with extreme care, even when washing and drying. These steps reduce the risk of accidental cuts.
Other Safety Tips
Furniture Anchors: Secure heavy furniture, like bookshelves and dressers, to the wall to prevent tip-overs, especially if you have young children.
Adequate Outlets: Check for damaged outlets and replace them promptly. Avoid overloading circuits with too many devices. Install placeholder plugs in outlets to prevent young curious fingers (or tongues?) from going inside an electrical outlet.
Stair Gates: If your home has stairs, install safety gates at the top and bottom to prevent falls, especially if you have toddlers or pets to keep them off of the stairs when you cannot monitor them.
Emergency Escape Plan: Develop and practice an emergency escape plan with your family, including a designated meeting place outside.
Carbon Monoxide Detector: If your home burns any fossil fuels for heating or appliances, install carbon monoxide detectors in common areas of your home to detect this odorless gas. The D.C. building codes require this if you use a fireplace or if you have an attached garage. In essence, if there is any potential source of carbon monoxide in the home, be sure to install these detectors.
Remember, a safer home not only prevents accidents but also provides peace of mind for you and your family. Implement these simple tips to create a secure environment in every room of your house.
With these practical tips and a few adjustments, you can significantly reduce the risk of injuries and falls in your home. Enjoy peace of mind in your now much safer haven.
Scott Bloom is owner and senior property manager of Columbia Property Management.
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