Miscellaneous
Making a list, checking it twice
D.C.’s LGBT non-profits share their needs and dreams for the holiday season

By now everyone’s made a wish list — whether you want peace on earth or a new flat-screen plasma TV, it’s the season to dream.
Blade staff asked local LGBT non-profits to share their holiday wish lists in the hope that readers will remember them in their end-of-year charitable donations. They can always use monetary gifts of course, but sometimes it’s helpful to know specifics.
We didn’t purposefully exclude any organization but neither did we try to make it exhaustive — there are many worthy LGBT groups in the Washington area, but these are a few of the smaller ones that are sometimes overlooked.
We also asked them to keep it real — obviously all of us would like full LGBT legislative rights and multi-million dollar budgets to achieve them, but the needs are often more basic and practical.
Anyone wishing to make a donation may contact the organizations directly (contact info included below).
Us Helping Us is a local group committed to improving the health and well-being of black gay men and to reducing the impact of HIV/AIDS in the black community. Its leaders wish for:
1. A 3,100-square-foot space for a new youth program and the money to help pay for it.
2. A volunteer event coordinator to help with annual fundraiser reception.
3. Every black gay man in D.C. to get an HIV test and see a doctor if positive.
Contact the group here.
The D.C. Center is a community center for LGBT residents of the D.C. metro area. Its leaders wish for:
1. Office space — The D.C. Center expects to relocate before the end of 2012. If you would like to help identify the next home for the D.C. Center, please join the Relocation Committee.
2. Business partners — Washington is a transient city and for many folks moving to our area, the D.C. Center is one of their first stops. We recently added a new display board at the Center to share business cards for Realtors, financial planners, personal trainers and anyone who wants to connect with the LGBT community. Our professional partners program gives businesses the opportunity to display their business cards, advertise in the D.C. Center Newsletter and be listed in our online business directory. Businesses can find out more at thedccenter.org/business.
3. Party planners — We need volunteers who know how to throw a great party. We will be planning several social events connected to the National Gay Men’s Health Summit, which the D.C. Center will host in July and expect several hundred gay, bi and trans men from around the country. So if you have ideas of how we can show them a good time (and raise some money to pay for the conference) volunteer for the Summit Planning Committee. Find out more at gmhs2012.org.
4. Twenty new beds for homeless LGBT youth in the District — The District currently has a total of seven beds for homeless LGBT Youth in the District at the Wanda Alston House. That is simply not enough. To get involved in the D.C. Center Youth Working Group find us on Facebook at facebook.com/centeryouth.
5. Packing partners — D.C. Center volunteers assemble thousands of safer sex kits each week and we rely on individuals and organizations to make that happen. If your organization (or group of friends) is looking for a great group volunteer activity, schedule a time to come pack safer sex kits at the Center. Find out more about our HIV Working Group at facebook.com/fighthivindc.
6. Fifty new Center associates — Center Associates are community members who support the Center by donating $10 or more per month. These donations added up to nearly $15,000 in 2010. Our goal in 2011 is to add 50 new Center Associates. Sign up online at thedccenter.org/supporters_associates.html.
7. Kitchen supplies — We welcome donations of paper towels, disposable cups and plates, napkins, toilet paper and recycling containers.
8. Techno-geeks — Our Cyber Center provides computer and Internet access to the community and many local LGBT organizations. We have top-of-the-line computers that are in need of maintenance from a pro. We also have some exciting website database projects for the coming year. If you have experience with MySQL and PHP and would like to volunteer, please contact us.
9. Office supplies — We welcome donations of office supplies including paper, staples, filing folders and 60-watt light bulbs.
10. Movie buffs — Sean Honick and June Crenshaw are the co-chairs of next year’s Glamour, Glitter, Gold Oscar Party taking place Feb. 26 at Town Danceboutique. If you know a thing or two about movies, please join the Oscar party planning committee.
Contact the Center here.
Equality Maryland is the state’s largest LGBT civil rights group. Its leaders wish for:
1. Free conference/meeting space throughout the state.
2. Five new Mac Minis ($599 each) or, for those feeling especially generous, iMacs ($1,299 each).
3. Fifty new monthly sustainers at the Equality Maryland Foundation at the $25 level to fund our Transgender Education/Empowerment Project.
4. Fifty new monthly sustainers at the Equality Maryland Foundation at the $25 level to help us hire a director of development.
5. To have transgender Maryland residents legally protected from discrimination.
6. Marriage equality for all couples.
Make donations to Equality Maryland here.
HOBS (Helping Our Brothers and Sisters) provides hope and assistance to LGBT individuals whose options have been exhausted. Its leaders wish for:
1. Donations to pay for the burial plot in Congressional Cemetery for late gay activist Frank Kameny. About $3,000 is needed.
2. General donations for the group to continue its work assisting those facing discrimination, eviction, violence and more.
3. We also wish to hire an administrative person in 2012 to coordinate outreach efforts.
Send HOBS donations to P.O. Box 53477, Washington, D.C. 20009 or here.
SMYAL (Sexual Minority Youth Assistance League) works to support and enhance the self esteem of LGBT youth. Its leaders wish for:
1. $25 to cover the facility costs to operate SMYAL’s after-school Youth Center for a whole day in 2012.
2. $33 for one outreach visit to a Gay-Straight Alliance in a local school to introduce LGBT students to SMYAL’s programs.
3. $100 to provide one-hour of LGBT youth awareness training to teachers, social workers and other youth service professionals.
4. $192 for Metro fare for a youth to attend our weekly support group every week for the entire year.
5. $300 for a month’s worth of healthy snacks and refreshments for our after-school Youth Center.
6. $550 for a new computer for SMYAL’s youth computer lab.
Contact SMYAL at smyal.org.
Gender Rights Maryland works to promote civil rights, education, tolerance, equality and acceptance on the basis of sex and gender identity/expression in Maryland. Its leaders wish for:
1. A Maryland General Assembly eager to follow in the footsteps of Howard County, and also impatient to supersede Alabama as a civil rights leader, by passing, quickly and overwhelmingly, a comprehensive gender identity and expression bill over the next few months.
2. A world that quickly gets to know its trans and gender non-conforming neighbors as decent, helpful and productive, and as a result ceases from heaping ridicule and violence on those least able to defend themselves.
3. An LGBT community that takes its name seriously, evolves positively in its commitment to and respect for the trans and gender non-conforming communities and triples its expenditures toward those communities.
4. A gay community that recognizes the power of the recent 11th Circuit decision to protect trans and gender non-conforming folks under the Equal Protection clause of the 14th Amendment and acts accordingly.
5. A recommitment of the community at large to protect the most marginalized and vulnerable in the heartland as well as along the coasts, by directing its focus toward passing an inclusive ENDA, an omnibus civil rights bill, and winning a Title 7 case, preferably in the 4th Circuit, with all due speed. No delays, no excuses.
6. A Maryland population that recognizes the importance of marriage equality for all and no longer wastes its energy on hate and fear-mongering.
7. A return of America to her roots of liberty and equality, bringing compassion, decency, justice and at least a dollop of sanity back to the national discourse. Greed is not good.
Find out more about Gender Rights Maryland and its work here.
Brother Help Thyself is a community-based organization that provides financial and other support to non-profit organizations serving LGBT and AIDS communities in the Baltimore and Washington metro areas. Its leaders wish for:
1. General donations to strengthen our annual grant-giving activities, in particular our Medford Fund, which provides capital assistance to non-profits. We’re hoping to raise an additional $5,000 to $10,000 for this fund for our grants reception next month as the fund took quite a hit on the stock market this year.
2. Sponsor(s) to fund our Grants Reception on Jan. 28 at Remington’s — $1,200 (food and plaques for awards).
3. Underwriter(s)/sponsor(s) for our 35th Anniversary Gala and Grants Reception at a downtown D.C. location in January 2013 — $30,000 total.
4. Office equipment: computer, scanner (high speed), printer, fax.
Quick Books software and technical assistance converting our accounts. High-speed Internet for our office.
5. Video teleconferencing ability for our monthly board meetings.
Donations may be sent to Brother Help Thyself at P.O. Box 77841, Washington D.C., 20013 or here.
Transgender Health Empowerment works to enhance the quality of life for local transgender residents. The Wanda Alston House is the only housing program in the city solely dedicated to offering support to homeless LGBTQ youth. Leaders of THE and the Alston House wish for:
1. Items for the drop-in center, including towels, wash cloths, T-shirts, cosmetic items in large bottles (shampoo, body wash, toothbrushes and toothpaste), combs and brushes, body lotions, baby oil, deodorant.
2. Sofas and pots and pans for the Alston House.
3. Bed linens for the youth house (seven full beds) andfor the supportive house (seven twin beds) and comforters for all beds.
Miscellaneous
Stephen Miller’s legal group sues Fairfax County schools
Lawsuit challenges policies for transgender, nonbinary students

Former Trump administration official Stephen Miller’s legal group on Tuesday filed a lawsuit against the Fairfax County School District over its policies for transgender and nonbinary students.
America First Legal in a press release notes it filed the lawsuit against the school district on behalf of a female, “practicing Roman Catholic” student “for allowing teenage boys to use the female restrooms and for forcing a radical, government-sponsored gender indoctrination and approved-speech scheme that discriminates against students on the basis of sex and religion and violates their free speech rights under the Virginia Constitution.”
The lawsuit was filed in Fairfax County Circuit Court.
The Virginia Department of Education last July announced new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students for which Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin asked. Equality Virginia and other advocacy groups claim they, among other things, would forcibly out trans and nonbinary students.
Fairfax County schools are among the school districts that have refused to implement the guidelines.
“Fairfax County Public Schools appears to believe that its policies and regulations can override the Virginia Constitution’s protections for religious beliefs, speech and from government discrimination on the basis of sex and religious beliefs,” said America First legal Senior Advisor Ian Prior in a press release. “It is well past time for FCPS to stop sacrificing the constitutional rights of its students so that it can implement a state-sanctioned ideology that demands compliance in speech, beliefs and conduct.”
FCPS Pride, a group that represents the Fairfax County School District’s LGBTQ employees, described the lawsuit as “abhorrent.”
“We are confident that the school board and the superintendent will strongly and firmly oppose this specious suit and continue to support all students, including transgender and gender expansive students,” said the group in a press list.
Miscellaneous
More than a dozen LGBTQ candidates on the ballot in Va.
Control of the state Senate hangs in the balance

More than a dozen openly LGBTQ candidates are on the ballot in Virginia on Nov. 7.
State Del. Danica Roem (D-Manassas) is running against Republican Bill Woolf in the newly redistricted Senate District 30 that includes western Prince William County and the cities of Manassas and Manassas Park.
Roem in 2018 became the first openly transgender person seated in a state legislature in the U.S. after she defeated then-state Del. Bob Marshall, a prominent LGBTQ rights opponent who co-wrote Virginia’s constitutional amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman. Roem would become Virginia’s first out trans state senator if she defeats Woolf.
Woolf supports a bill that would require school personnel to out trans students to their parents. The Republican Party of Virginia has highlighted this position in ads in support of Woolf.
“Thank you for reminding me why I won three elections in this district in Prince William County, which is the most diverse county in all of Virginia and the 10th most nationally where we welcome everyone because of who they are, not despite it, no matter what you look like, where you come from, how you worship, if you do, or who you love because you should be able to thrive here because of who you are, never despite it,” said Roem on Sept. 28 in response to a woman who heckled her during a debate with Woolf that took place at Metz Middle School in Manassas.
Gay state Sen. Adam Ebbin (D-Alexandria) is running for re-election in Senate District 39. State Del. Mark Sickles (D-Fairfax County), who is also gay, is running for re-election in House District 43.
Former state Del. Joshua Cole, who identifies as bisexual, is running against Republican Lee Peters in House District 65. State Del. Kelly Convirs-Fowler (D-Virginia Beach), who came out as bisexual last year at Hampton Roads Pride, will face Republican Mike Karslake and independent Nicholas Olenik.
State Del. Marcia “Cia” Price (D-Newport News), a Black woman who identifies as pansexual, is running for re-election in House District 85.
Adele McClure, a queer Democrat, is running to represent House District 2 that includes portions of Arlington County. Laura Jane Cohen, a bisexual woman who is a member of the Fairfax County School Board, is a House of Delegates candidate in House District 15.
Rozia Henson, a gay federal contractor who works for the Department of Homeland Security, is running in House District 19. Zach Coltrain, a gay Gen Zer, is running against state Del. Barry Knight (R-Virginia Beach) in House District 98.
LPAC has endorsed Jade Harris, a Rockbridge County Democrat who is running to represent Senate District 3. Harris’ website notes trans rights are part of their platform.
“Protecting trans rights, repealing right to work, strengthening unions and supporting our farmers are just a few of my legislative priorities,” reads the website. “I am dedicated to addressing the revitalization of our state’s infrastructure, fostering a favorable environment for job creation, and supporting our public education system.”
Republicans currently control the House by a 51-46 margin, while Democrats have a 21-19 majority in the state Senate.
Senate Democrats have successfully blocked anti-LGBTQ bills that Republicans have introduced since Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin took office in January 2022.
The Virginia Department of Education in July released new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students that activists and their supporters have sharply criticized. They fear that Republicans will curtail LGBTQ rights in the state if they regain control of both houses of the General Assembly on Nov. 7.
“Time and time again, anti-equality lawmakers and the Youngkin administration have made it clear that they will continue to disrespect and disregard the lives and lived experience of LGBTQ+ people within Virginia,” said Equality Virginia PAC Executive Director Narissa Rahaman in August when her organization and the Human Rights Campaign endorsed Roem, Ebbin and other “pro-equality champions.”
“We must elect pro-equality champions who will secure and strengthen our freedoms,” added Rahaman. “We have that chance as the eyes of the nation are on us this November.”
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund has endorsed Fairfax County School Board Vice Chair Karl Frisch and Fairfax County School Board candidates Robyn Lady and Kyle McDaniel, who identify as lesbian and bisexual respectively.
Michael Pruitt would become the first openly bisexual man elected to the Albemarle County Board of Supervisors if he were to win on Nov. 7. Blacksburg Town Councilman Michael Sutphin and Big Stone Gay Town Councilman Tyler Hughes, who are both gay, are running for re-election.
“Tyler will be a critical voice for equality as the only out LGBTQ+ person on the Big Stone Gap Town Council,” says the Victory Fund on its website.
Cal Benn contributed to this article.
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Five easy tips to help you avoid common risks

Your home is more than just a place to eat and sleep; it’s your safe haven. As much as you might cherish your home, you should probably also recognize the potential hazards within its familiar walls. Accidents can happen in an instant, yet with a little foresight and some simple adjustments, you can transform your house into a safer haven.
Accidents can happen anywhere, and with a few simple tweaks, you can lower risks in your space. Below you’ll find five tips for each room in your home to help prevent injuries, falls, and other mishaps. In short, home safety.
This article was inspired by a shower in a rental we managed that began leaking through the kitchen ceiling below. If only the landlord had installed grab bars, right!? Below, we’ll guide you through the steps to fortify your bathroom, making it a place of relaxation without the fear of slips and falls. Then, we’ll venture into the room where the magic happens, where proper planning can ensure great nights and peaceful mornings. We’ll show you how to prevent accidents while you experiment becoming the next Gordon Ramsey. And we’ll include a few surprising solutions for those other rooms that hold their own unique hazards, offering solutions to safeguard against unexpected mishaps.
Bathroom Safety
Install Grab Bars: Adding grab bars near the shower and toilet can provide essential support for family members of all ages. Not only can they help with getting in and out, but they can help provide stability when washing. Make sure they are securely anchored to the wall.
Non-Slip Mats: Place non-slip mats inside the shower and bathtub to prevent slips. They’re a small investment that can save you from falls and head injuries.
Adjust Water Temperature: Ensure your hot water is set to a safe temperature to avoid scalding. The hot water heater should be set to around 120°F (49°C)l, the middle setting on many water heater settings.
Medicine Cabinet Locks: If you have young children, use childproof locks on your medicine cabinet to keep harmful substances out of reach.
Proper Lighting: Ensure there’s adequate lighting in the bathroom to avoid trips and falls during nighttime visits. Nightlights can be a simple and effective solution.
Bedroom Safety
Clear Pathways: Keep pathways in the bedroom clutter free to prevent tripping. Ensure there’s enough space to move around comfortably, particularly getting around the bed. Be aware where all furniture is when walking around to avoid stubbed toes, particularly at night.
Secure Rugs: If you have throw rugs, use rug grippers or double-sided tape to keep them from slipping. Loose rugs are a common trip hazard.
Bed Rails: For anyone at risk of falling out of bed, consider installing bed rails to provide extra support and prevent falls.
Nightstands with Drawers: Opt for nightstands with drawers to keep essential items. This reduces the need to get out of bed at night, minimizing the risk of falls, as you race to grab what you need and not lose a moment’s rest.
Fire Safety: Install battery-operated smoke detectors in the bedrooms if there are none. Make sure to install them 36 inches away from an air vent or the edge of a ceiling fan. Also six inches away from the joint between the wall and ceiling. And test smoke detectors regularly.
Kitchen Safety
Non-Slip Flooring: Choose slip-resistant rugs in the kitchen, especially in areas where spills are common. Mats near the sink and stove can also help and you can often buy them fairly cheaply at Costco.
Childproof Cabinets: If you have little ones, use childproof latches on cabinets and drawers to prevent them from accessing potentially hazardous items.
Anti-tip brackets: Install an anti-tip bracket behind the range. These are often used when children are in the home. Although they are less likely to open the oven door and use it as a step stool to get to the stove-top, adults can also benefit from installing these.
Adequate Lighting: Proper lighting is crucial in the kitchen to avoid accidents. Under-cabinet lighting can illuminate work areas effectively.
Secure Heavy Items: Ensure heavy pots and pans are stored at waist level to prevent straining or dropping them from high shelves.
Sharp Object Storage: Keep knives and other sharp objects in a secure drawer or block. And handle all sharp items with extreme care, even when washing and drying. These steps reduce the risk of accidental cuts.
Other Safety Tips
Furniture Anchors: Secure heavy furniture, like bookshelves and dressers, to the wall to prevent tip-overs, especially if you have young children.
Adequate Outlets: Check for damaged outlets and replace them promptly. Avoid overloading circuits with too many devices. Install placeholder plugs in outlets to prevent young curious fingers (or tongues?) from going inside an electrical outlet.
Stair Gates: If your home has stairs, install safety gates at the top and bottom to prevent falls, especially if you have toddlers or pets to keep them off of the stairs when you cannot monitor them.
Emergency Escape Plan: Develop and practice an emergency escape plan with your family, including a designated meeting place outside.
Carbon Monoxide Detector: If your home burns any fossil fuels for heating or appliances, install carbon monoxide detectors in common areas of your home to detect this odorless gas. The D.C. building codes require this if you use a fireplace or if you have an attached garage. In essence, if there is any potential source of carbon monoxide in the home, be sure to install these detectors.
Remember, a safer home not only prevents accidents but also provides peace of mind for you and your family. Implement these simple tips to create a secure environment in every room of your house.
With these practical tips and a few adjustments, you can significantly reduce the risk of injuries and falls in your home. Enjoy peace of mind in your now much safer haven.
Scott Bloom is owner and senior property manager of Columbia Property Management.
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