National
Windsor: Oral arguments ‘went beautifully’
Plaintiff in DOMA case said outcome is ‘going to be good’


Edith Windsor on the steps of the Supreme Court (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
The New York widow who challenged the Defense of Marriage Act said after she left the U.S. Supreme Court on Wednesday she feels the oral arguments in her case went āreally well.ā
āI think it went great,ā Edith Windsor told reporters during a news conference after she and her attorneys left the court. āI think it went beautifully. I thought the justices were gentle… they were direct. They asked all the right questions. I didnāt feel any hostility or any sense of inferiority.ā
Windsor, who married her partner of more than 40 years, Thea Spyer, in Canada in 2007, paid $363,000 in estate taxes after her 2009 death.
āIn the midst of my grief I realized that the federal government was treating us as strangers,ā Windsor said. āI paid a humongous estate tax. And it means selling a lot of stuff to do it, and it wasnāt easy.ā
She also noted during the news conference that she did not wear a wedding ring when she and Spyer became engaged because she had not come out of the closet.
āI am today an out lesbian who just sued the United States of America, which is kind of overwhelming for me,ā Windsor said.
She added she remains optimistic the justices will rule in her favor.
āI think itās going to be good,ā Windsor said.
Windsor’s lawyers also spoke outside the court.
āTodayās oral arguments tells the story and tells the lesson of why it is we have a constitution to bind us together as citizens of one nation, all of whom are guaranteed the equal protection of the law,” New York-based attorney Roberta Kaplan said. “There is no one individual who better personifies the concept of equal protection than my client Edie Windsor.ā
James Esseks, director of the American Civil Liberties Union’s LGBT Project, pointed out DOMA treats the 130,000 married same-sex couples in the United States as unmarried within more than 1,100 different federal contexts.
“Whatās caused what happened to Edie to happen that she was treated unmarried despite of her 44 years together with the woman who became her spouse,” he said. “So Edie and Thea spent four decades together in good times and bad, in sickness and in health just like any other married couple. And for the federal government to pretend that their marriage didnāt exist is unfair, itās un-American and itās unconstitutional.ā
DOMA proponent: Law is ‘very shaky’ after oral arguments
Rev. Rob Schenck, chair of the Evangelical Church Alliance, which filed a brief on behalf of more than 200 military chaplains, told reporters outside the Supreme Court that he feels DOMA is “very shaky” after today’s proceedings.
āOf course we always to remain optimistic on our side of the argument, but I would say the questions particularly put to the justices by Justice Kennedy put that in doubt,” he said. “It will take an act of Congress to guarantee the religious freedoms of military chaplains. It may take an action by this court, but certainly whatever the decision they make is going to incite future litigation and we can guarantee them that because weāll be back here.ā
National
National resources for trans and gender diverse communities
Amid attacks, help is available from wide range of organizations

The Trump administration has launched a series of executive orders and other initiatives restricting the rights of the transgender community since taking power in January, targeting military service, affirming healthcare, and participation in sports.
Though many executive orders are being challenged in court, itās an uncertain time for a community that feels threatened. Despite the uncertainty, there are resources out there to help.
From legal assistance to mental health support, hereās a list of nonprofits and organizations dedicated to improving the everyday livelihood of trans and gender diverse people. These are mostly national organizations; there are many additional groups that work in local communities across the country. Some of these national groups will connect those in need of help to a local organization.
LEGAL HELP
President Trump issued an executive order declaring there are only two genders āā male and female āā which applies to legal documents and passports. The order doesnāt recognize the idea that one can transition their gender at birth to another gender.
Ash Lazarus Orr filed to renew his passport with a gender marker reflecting his identity. That was in January, and he still hasnāt received it. He refused to accept a passport without an accurate identification of who he is, so he filed a lawsuit with the ACLU in what is now known as Orr v. Trump.
Orr told the Washington Blade that not receiving his passport back has taken away his freedom of visiting family in Canada and receiving gender-affirming care from a trusted provider in Ireland.
The one thing getting him through this uncertain time is knowing who heās fighting for āā the trans community, his loved ones, and himself.
āI’m trying to be that person that those younger parts of me needed growing up,ā Orr said. Check out a couple of legal support organizations below:
Transgender Law Center
The Transgender Law Center (TLC) provides legal resources and assistance. TLC has a list āā called the Attorney Solidarity Network āā of attorneys that can provide advice or representation for trans people.
The organization also has a legal information help desk that answers questions regarding laws or policies impacting trans people.
Website: transgenderlawcenter.org
Phone: 510-587-9696
Email: [email protected]
Advocates For Trans Equality
With a variety of different programs tailored toward legal assistance and advocacy work, Advocates For Trans Equalityās reach is wide.
The non-profit offers the Name Change Project, which provides pro bono legal name change services to low-income trans, gender-non-conforming and nonbinary people by utilizing its partnerships with law firms and corporate law departments.
Advocates For Trans Equality also has departments and programs dedicated to increasing voter engagement, educating lawmakers on trans issues and offering litigation assistance to a small number of cases.
Website: transequality.org
Phone: 202-642-4542
General email: [email protected]Ā
To contact a specific department or program, visit its website above.
ADVOCACY
Looking to take action and get involved? Act now.
American Civil Liberties Union
The ACLU is a national nonprofit organization that mobilizes local communities and advocates for national causes.
Getting involved is as easy as filling out letters to representatives or signing petitions. One live petition is to ādefend trans freedom.ā
You can also join its People Power platform, where you serve as a volunteer in your community to āadvance civil liberties and civil rights for all.ā ACLU has different chapters across the country, so visit its website for more information.
Website: aclu.org
Phone: 212-549-2500
MILITARY AND VETERANS
Trump signed an executive order in January banning transgender service members from serving, stating their identity āconflicts with a soldierās commitment to an honorable, truthful and disciplined lifestyle, even in oneās personal life.ā
Though the order has been legally challenged and struck down by a judge, U.S. Navy Lieutenant Rae Timberlake said itās created an uncertain atmosphere for themself and other troops.
āAll of the transgender service members I know have served with honor and integrity for many yearsā¦[and weāre] targeted for removal and not subject to any kind of review based on merit,ā Timberlake, who joined the Navy at age 17, said. āThere’s kind of just this cloud looming over our organizations and our units, because we know any day our transgender shipmates could no longer be on the team.ā
But Timberlakeās message to any service member struggling because of the executive order was one of compassion and truth: āThere’s no policy that can take away what you’ve accomplished and what you’ve done.ā
Here are some organizations that support service members and veterans:
SPARTA Pride
SPARTA is a peer-support group composed of active duty, veteran and āfuture warriorā service members.
The group also engages in advocacy work and has helped change policies on gender neutral uniforms and reducing the time a trans service member would have to wait to return to their duties during their transition.
Contact SPARTA to learn more about joining its support network.
Website: spartapride.org
Email: [email protected]Ā
Modern Military Association
Modern Military supports service members and veterans through advocacy, legal assistance and mental health support.
It tracks LGBTQ+ and HIV discrimination through reports made on its website, and offers guidance and advice to whoever submitted the report.
It also supports the mental health of LGBTQ+ veterans and their families through its Resilient Heroes Program. By signing up, youāll receive virtual peer support and case management services with a mental health coordinator.
Website: modernmilitary.org
Phone: 202-328-3244
Email: [email protected]Ā
CRISIS & MENTAL HEALTH SUPPORT
If you have a more urgent matter, or just need someone to listen, here are some organizations you can reach out to:
The Trevor Project
The Trevor Project offers 24/7 counseling services. Calling, texting or chatting is free and confidential, and youāll get to speak with someone specialized in supporting LGBTQ youth.
The organization also focuses on public education by hosting online LGBTQ suicide prevention trainings. It advocates for policies and laws that contribute to supporting queer youth.
Website: thetrevorproject.org
Crisis hotline: 1-866-488-7386
General inquiry phone number: 212-695-8650
Trans Lifeline
Trans Lifeline is a hotline run and operated by trans people. Whether you’re questioning if you’re trans or are a trans person just wanting to talk, someone will be there to help. Itās free and confidential, and there wonāt be any non-consensual active rescue, such as calling the emergency services.
The line is not 24/7, however. Check out its website for hours within your time zone.
Website: translifeline.org
Phone: 877-565-8860
Here are other organizations that offer support to the trans community:
TransFamilies (support): Support for families with a gender diverse child.
TransLatina Coalition (advocacy): Advocates for the specific needs of the transgender, gender expansive and intersex communities in the U.S.
TransAthlete (information): Provides informative resources about trans athletes.
Campaign for Southern Equalityās Trans Youth Emergency Project (healthcare support): A fund to help trans youth access lifesaving healthcare.
TransTech Social (economic empowerment): Dedicated to discovering and empowering the career-ready skills of LGBTQ+ people.
World Professional Association For Transgender Health (health): Resources, symposiums and research dedicated to improving transgender health.
Sylvia Rivera Law Project (legal): Legal programs and services for marginalized communities.
Gender Spectrum (support): Resources and support groups for trans youth and families.
The Okra Project (support): Creates and supports initiatives that provide resources for the Black Trans community.
The White House
White House does not ‘respond’ to reporters’ requests with pronouns included
Government workers were ordered not to self-identify their gender in emails

White House Press Secretary Karoline Leavitt and a senior advisor in the Department of Government Efficiency rejected requests from reporters who included their pronouns in the signature box of their emails, each telling different reporters at the New York Times that “as a matter of policy,” the Trump-Vance administration will decline to engage with members of the press on these grounds.
News of the correspondence between the journalists and the two senior officials was reported Tuesday by the Times, which also specified that when reached for comment, the White House declined to “directly say if their responses to the journalists represented a new formal policy of the White House press office, or when the practice had started.”
āAny reporter who chooses to put their preferred pronouns in their bio clearly does not care about biological reality or truth and therefore cannot be trusted to write an honest story,ā Leavitt told the Times.
Department of Government Efficiency Senior Advisor Katie Miller responded, āI donāt respond to people who use pronouns in their signatures as it shows they ignore scientific realities and therefore ignore facts.ā
Steven Cheung, the White House communications director, wrote in an email to the paper: āIf The New York Times spent the same amount of time actually reporting the truth as they do being obsessed with pronouns, maybe they would be a half-decent publication.ā
A reporter from Crooked media who got an email similar to those received by the Times reporters said, āI find it baffling that they care more about pronouns than giving journalists accurate information, but here we are.”
The practice of adding pronouns to asocial media bios or the signature box of outgoing emails has been a major sticking point for President Donald Trump’s second administration since Inauguration Day.
On day one, the White House issued an executive order stipulating that the federal government recognizes gender as a binary that is immutably linked to one’s birth sex, a definition excludes the existence of intersex and transgender individuals, notwithstanding the biological realities that natal sex characteristics do not always cleave neatly into male or female, nor do they always align with one’s gender identity .
On these grounds, the president issued another order that included a directive to the entire federal government workforce through the Office of Personnel Management: No pronouns in their emails.
As it became more commonplace in recent years to see emails with “she/her” or “he/him” next to the sender’s name, title, and organization, conservatives politicians and media figures often decried the trend as an effort to shoehorn woke ideas about gender (ideas they believe to be unscientific), or a workplace accommodation made only for the benefit of transgender people, or virtue-signaling on behalf of the LGBTQ left.
There are, however, any number of alternative explanations for why the practice caught on. For example, a cisgender woman may have a gender neutral name like Jordan and want to include “she/her” to avoid confusion.
A spokesman for the Times said: āEvading tough questions certainly runs counter to transparent engagement with free and independent press reporting. But refusing to answer a straightforward request to explain the administrationās policies because of the formatting of an email signature is both a concerning and baffling choice, especially from the highest press office in the U.S. government.ā
U.S. Military/Pentagon
Air Force rescinds rule barring inclusion of preferred pronouns in email signatures
Conflict with language in military funding package may explain reversal

The U.S. Air Force has issued a ādirective to cease the use of āpreferred pronounsā (he/him, she/her, or they/them) to identify oneās gender identity in professional communications,” according to a report published in the Hill on Wednesday.
The rule, which applies to both airmen and civilian employees, was first adopted on Feb. 4 pursuant to President Donald Trump’s anti-transgender executive order called, āDefending Women from Gender Ideology Extremism and Restoring Biological Truth to the Federal Government.ā
Days after the administration’s issuance of that order on the first day of the president’s second term, the Office of Personnel Management instructed agencies across the whole of the federal government to remove pronouns from email signatures and enforce the policy barring employees from using them.
Additionally, on Jan. 27 Trump published an order barring trans people from joining the U.S. Armed Forces, indicating that those who are currently in serving would be separated from the military. The Pentagon is fending off legal challenges to the ban in federal courts.
Particularly given the extent of the new administration’s efforts to restrict the rights of trans Americans and push them out of public life, the Air Force’s reversal of the pronoun guidance was surprising.
According to reporting in Military.com, the move might have come because officials concluded the rule was in conflict with language in the military appropriations funding legislation passed by Congress in 2023.
The NDAA established that the defense secretary “may not require or prohibit a member of the armed forces or a civilian employee of the Department of Defense to identify the gender or personal pronouns of such member or employee in any official correspondence of the Department.”
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