Miscellaneous
Oldham resigns from leadership post of new AIDS coalition
Pozitively Healthy says it’s not NAPWA’s successor


David Waggoner, founder and publisher of the national AIDS magazine A&U, serves as one of two co-chairs of Pozitively Healthy’s steering committee. (Photo courtesy of Waggoner)
Frank Oldham, former executive director and CEO of the National Association of People With AIDS (NAPWA), resigned from the steering committee of a newly formed PWA coalition one week after organizers announced its founding.
The resignation came after AIDS activists, including people with HIV/AIDS, raised strong objections to the appointment of Oldham and four other former NAPWA officials to the steering committee of Pozitively Healthy.
Organizers of the new Washington, D.C.-based coalition said in a May 10 statement that it would serve as the voice for people living with HIV/AIDS in the United States.
The 30-year-old NAPWA shut its doors in February at the time it filed for bankruptcy. Bankruptcy court documents show it owed creditors more than $750,000 and Oldham owed NAPWA $88,360 in an unexplained “accounts receivable” claim.
Oldham left his post as head of NAPWA last November before news surfaced of the impending bankruptcy.
“The work of Pozitively Healthy is absolutely paramount to 1.2 million people living with HIV/AIDS,” Oldham said in a May 17 reader’s comment posted below a Washington Blade online story reporting the creation of the new PWA coalition.
“Pozitively Healthy’s work cannot be detracted by personal issues or any individuals,” Oldham said in his comment. “I am resigning from Pozitively Healthy’s Steering Committee at this time and will continue to work hard as a person living with HIV to ensure the success of the PLWHA movement as I have done since 1988.”
The May 10 statement by organizers announcing the founding of Pozitively Healthy says the new coalition will be an arm of the Washington, D.C.- based national AIDS group HealthHIV, which the statement says will manage and have full control over the coalition’s finances and infrastructure.
Brian Hujdich, executive director of HealthHIV, said he was troubled that initial reports of the launching of Pozitively Healthy by the Blade and other publications gave the incorrect impression that the new coalition was a “successor” to NAPWA.
“This coalition was not created as NAPWA’s successor, but was created to continue and expand a consumer voice that was somewhat lost with NAPWA and other HIV non-profit closures,” he said in an email to the Blade.
Hujdich also expressed concern that a photo of Oldham that accompanied the Blade story about the founding of Pozitively Healthy could have led some readers to believe Oldham would be leading the new coalition, even though the story reported that Oldham and the other former NAPWA officials would serve as volunteers with no role in the “fiscal affairs” of the new group.
In an interview with the Blade last week, Hujdich said Oldham and the other former NAPWA leaders, along with other members of the 16-member steering committee, would be responsible for developing policy and setting the agenda for Pozitively Healthy.
“There shouldn’t be an issue about their involvement,” he told the Blade. Noting that the former NAPWA officials have been involved for many years in advocating for people with HIV/AIDS, Hujdich asked, “Why wouldn’t we want to include their voice and give them an opportunity to do this?”
The statement announcing Pozitively Healthy’s founding says veteran Washington State AIDS activist Judi Billings, a former NAPWA board chair, would serve as one of two co-chairs of the Pozitively Healthy steering committee.
David Waggoner, founder and publisher of the Albany, N.Y.-based national AIDS magazine A&U, would serve as the other co-chair, according to the statement.
Waggoner told the Blade he and others involved in Pozitively Healthy envision it as a “truly diverse” coalition that includes individuals and organizations and people who are HIV negative as well as those living with HIV.
“I will seek out celebrities to work with us,” he said. “We’re going to get some big names,” including performing artists who have been involved in AIDS causes in the past.
Several readers who submitted comments to the Blade’s May 16 story about Pozitively Healthy – including Sean Strub, the longtime AIDS activist and founder of POZ Magazine – said their main concern was that at least five former NAPWA officials were named to the new group’s steering committee.
“It seems to me that before the NAPWA gang asks people with HIV around the country to support them in a new endeavor, they should be providing an explanation as to why the organization, under their leadership, went bankrupt,” Strub said in a May 17 reader’s comment.
“So far we’ve gotten zip, let alone any kind of accountability or transparency,” he said. “This has been a problem with NAPWA’s leadership for a number of years and I’m afraid the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior, so I’m not optimistic this new venture will be any different.”
Wisconsin AIDS activist and retired auditor Greg Milward, editor and publisher of the USAHIV.com blog, said he was troubled that HealthHIV and others involved with Pozitively Healthy announced the coalition’s formation and its 16-member steering committee as a fait accompli without seeking broader community input.
Hujdich said the formation of the initial 16-member steering committee represented the opening round of a process to recruit more members of both the committee and the coalition.
“We have received over 20 applications from the community to join the steering committee, as well as numerous requests to join the coalition,” Hujdich told the Blade in an email on May 21. “We are very pleased with the response and interest.”
He said Pozitively Healthy would release the names of new steering committee members after a “governance workgroup reviews all the applicants.” He didn’t say who served on the workgroup.
Waggoner said that, among other things, Pozitively Healthy plans to lobby Congress and the Obama administration to restore cuts in the AIDS Drug Assistance Program that came about through the budget sequestration law. ADAP subsidizes the cost of life-saving HIV drugs for low-income people without insurance.
He noted that although President Obama this week arranged to transfer funds from other federal health programs to add $35 million to ADAP, the program remains under funded.
“We’re facing a crisis in this community,” Waggoner said on Tuesday. “And if we don’t do something about it we’ll have 14,000 Americans on waiting lists for AIDS drugs. That’s untenable in a country as wealthy as our, totally untenable.”
Added Waggoner, “I think we need to put that forward as an agenda item for Pozitively Healthy.”
Miscellaneous
Stephen Miller’s legal group sues Fairfax County schools
Lawsuit challenges policies for transgender, nonbinary students

Former Trump administration official Stephen Miller’s legal group on Tuesday filed a lawsuit against the Fairfax County School District over its policies for transgender and nonbinary students.
America First Legal in a press release notes it filed the lawsuit against the school district on behalf of a female, “practicing Roman Catholic” student “for allowing teenage boys to use the female restrooms and for forcing a radical, government-sponsored gender indoctrination and approved-speech scheme that discriminates against students on the basis of sex and religion and violates their free speech rights under the Virginia Constitution.”
The lawsuit was filed in Fairfax County Circuit Court.
The Virginia Department of Education last July announced new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students for which Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin asked. Equality Virginia and other advocacy groups claim they, among other things, would forcibly out trans and nonbinary students.
Fairfax County schools are among the school districts that have refused to implement the guidelines.
“Fairfax County Public Schools appears to believe that its policies and regulations can override the Virginia Constitution’s protections for religious beliefs, speech and from government discrimination on the basis of sex and religious beliefs,” said America First legal Senior Advisor Ian Prior in a press release. “It is well past time for FCPS to stop sacrificing the constitutional rights of its students so that it can implement a state-sanctioned ideology that demands compliance in speech, beliefs and conduct.”
FCPS Pride, a group that represents the Fairfax County School District’s LGBTQ employees, described the lawsuit as “abhorrent.”
“We are confident that the school board and the superintendent will strongly and firmly oppose this specious suit and continue to support all students, including transgender and gender expansive students,” said the group in a press list.
Miscellaneous
More than a dozen LGBTQ candidates on the ballot in Va.
Control of the state Senate hangs in the balance

More than a dozen openly LGBTQ candidates are on the ballot in Virginia on Nov. 7.
State Del. Danica Roem (D-Manassas) is running against Republican Bill Woolf in the newly redistricted Senate District 30 that includes western Prince William County and the cities of Manassas and Manassas Park.
Roem in 2018 became the first openly transgender person seated in a state legislature in the U.S. after she defeated then-state Del. Bob Marshall, a prominent LGBTQ rights opponent who co-wrote Virginia’s constitutional amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman. Roem would become Virginia’s first out trans state senator if she defeats Woolf.
Woolf supports a bill that would require school personnel to out trans students to their parents. The Republican Party of Virginia has highlighted this position in ads in support of Woolf.
“Thank you for reminding me why I won three elections in this district in Prince William County, which is the most diverse county in all of Virginia and the 10th most nationally where we welcome everyone because of who they are, not despite it, no matter what you look like, where you come from, how you worship, if you do, or who you love because you should be able to thrive here because of who you are, never despite it,” said Roem on Sept. 28 in response to a woman who heckled her during a debate with Woolf that took place at Metz Middle School in Manassas.
Gay state Sen. Adam Ebbin (D-Alexandria) is running for re-election in Senate District 39. State Del. Mark Sickles (D-Fairfax County), who is also gay, is running for re-election in House District 43.
Former state Del. Joshua Cole, who identifies as bisexual, is running against Republican Lee Peters in House District 65. State Del. Kelly Convirs-Fowler (D-Virginia Beach), who came out as bisexual last year at Hampton Roads Pride, will face Republican Mike Karslake and independent Nicholas Olenik.
State Del. Marcia “Cia” Price (D-Newport News), a Black woman who identifies as pansexual, is running for re-election in House District 85.
Adele McClure, a queer Democrat, is running to represent House District 2 that includes portions of Arlington County. Laura Jane Cohen, a bisexual woman who is a member of the Fairfax County School Board, is a House of Delegates candidate in House District 15.
Rozia Henson, a gay federal contractor who works for the Department of Homeland Security, is running in House District 19. Zach Coltrain, a gay Gen Zer, is running against state Del. Barry Knight (R-Virginia Beach) in House District 98.
LPAC has endorsed Jade Harris, a Rockbridge County Democrat who is running to represent Senate District 3. Harris’ website notes trans rights are part of their platform.
“Protecting trans rights, repealing right to work, strengthening unions and supporting our farmers are just a few of my legislative priorities,” reads the website. “I am dedicated to addressing the revitalization of our state’s infrastructure, fostering a favorable environment for job creation, and supporting our public education system.”
Republicans currently control the House by a 51-46 margin, while Democrats have a 21-19 majority in the state Senate.
Senate Democrats have successfully blocked anti-LGBTQ bills that Republicans have introduced since Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin took office in January 2022.
The Virginia Department of Education in July released new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students that activists and their supporters have sharply criticized. They fear that Republicans will curtail LGBTQ rights in the state if they regain control of both houses of the General Assembly on Nov. 7.
“Time and time again, anti-equality lawmakers and the Youngkin administration have made it clear that they will continue to disrespect and disregard the lives and lived experience of LGBTQ+ people within Virginia,” said Equality Virginia PAC Executive Director Narissa Rahaman in August when her organization and the Human Rights Campaign endorsed Roem, Ebbin and other “pro-equality champions.”
“We must elect pro-equality champions who will secure and strengthen our freedoms,” added Rahaman. “We have that chance as the eyes of the nation are on us this November.”
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund has endorsed Fairfax County School Board Vice Chair Karl Frisch and Fairfax County School Board candidates Robyn Lady and Kyle McDaniel, who identify as lesbian and bisexual respectively.
Michael Pruitt would become the first openly bisexual man elected to the Albemarle County Board of Supervisors if he were to win on Nov. 7. Blacksburg Town Councilman Michael Sutphin and Big Stone Gay Town Councilman Tyler Hughes, who are both gay, are running for re-election.
“Tyler will be a critical voice for equality as the only out LGBTQ+ person on the Big Stone Gap Town Council,” says the Victory Fund on its website.
Cal Benn contributed to this article.
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Five easy tips to help you avoid common risks

Your home is more than just a place to eat and sleep; it’s your safe haven. As much as you might cherish your home, you should probably also recognize the potential hazards within its familiar walls. Accidents can happen in an instant, yet with a little foresight and some simple adjustments, you can transform your house into a safer haven.
Accidents can happen anywhere, and with a few simple tweaks, you can lower risks in your space. Below you’ll find five tips for each room in your home to help prevent injuries, falls, and other mishaps. In short, home safety.
This article was inspired by a shower in a rental we managed that began leaking through the kitchen ceiling below. If only the landlord had installed grab bars, right!? Below, we’ll guide you through the steps to fortify your bathroom, making it a place of relaxation without the fear of slips and falls. Then, we’ll venture into the room where the magic happens, where proper planning can ensure great nights and peaceful mornings. We’ll show you how to prevent accidents while you experiment becoming the next Gordon Ramsey. And we’ll include a few surprising solutions for those other rooms that hold their own unique hazards, offering solutions to safeguard against unexpected mishaps.
Bathroom Safety
Install Grab Bars: Adding grab bars near the shower and toilet can provide essential support for family members of all ages. Not only can they help with getting in and out, but they can help provide stability when washing. Make sure they are securely anchored to the wall.
Non-Slip Mats: Place non-slip mats inside the shower and bathtub to prevent slips. They’re a small investment that can save you from falls and head injuries.
Adjust Water Temperature: Ensure your hot water is set to a safe temperature to avoid scalding. The hot water heater should be set to around 120°F (49°C)l, the middle setting on many water heater settings.
Medicine Cabinet Locks: If you have young children, use childproof locks on your medicine cabinet to keep harmful substances out of reach.
Proper Lighting: Ensure there’s adequate lighting in the bathroom to avoid trips and falls during nighttime visits. Nightlights can be a simple and effective solution.
Bedroom Safety
Clear Pathways: Keep pathways in the bedroom clutter free to prevent tripping. Ensure there’s enough space to move around comfortably, particularly getting around the bed. Be aware where all furniture is when walking around to avoid stubbed toes, particularly at night.
Secure Rugs: If you have throw rugs, use rug grippers or double-sided tape to keep them from slipping. Loose rugs are a common trip hazard.
Bed Rails: For anyone at risk of falling out of bed, consider installing bed rails to provide extra support and prevent falls.
Nightstands with Drawers: Opt for nightstands with drawers to keep essential items. This reduces the need to get out of bed at night, minimizing the risk of falls, as you race to grab what you need and not lose a moment’s rest.
Fire Safety: Install battery-operated smoke detectors in the bedrooms if there are none. Make sure to install them 36 inches away from an air vent or the edge of a ceiling fan. Also six inches away from the joint between the wall and ceiling. And test smoke detectors regularly.
Kitchen Safety
Non-Slip Flooring: Choose slip-resistant rugs in the kitchen, especially in areas where spills are common. Mats near the sink and stove can also help and you can often buy them fairly cheaply at Costco.
Childproof Cabinets: If you have little ones, use childproof latches on cabinets and drawers to prevent them from accessing potentially hazardous items.
Anti-tip brackets: Install an anti-tip bracket behind the range. These are often used when children are in the home. Although they are less likely to open the oven door and use it as a step stool to get to the stove-top, adults can also benefit from installing these.
Adequate Lighting: Proper lighting is crucial in the kitchen to avoid accidents. Under-cabinet lighting can illuminate work areas effectively.
Secure Heavy Items: Ensure heavy pots and pans are stored at waist level to prevent straining or dropping them from high shelves.
Sharp Object Storage: Keep knives and other sharp objects in a secure drawer or block. And handle all sharp items with extreme care, even when washing and drying. These steps reduce the risk of accidental cuts.
Other Safety Tips
Furniture Anchors: Secure heavy furniture, like bookshelves and dressers, to the wall to prevent tip-overs, especially if you have young children.
Adequate Outlets: Check for damaged outlets and replace them promptly. Avoid overloading circuits with too many devices. Install placeholder plugs in outlets to prevent young curious fingers (or tongues?) from going inside an electrical outlet.
Stair Gates: If your home has stairs, install safety gates at the top and bottom to prevent falls, especially if you have toddlers or pets to keep them off of the stairs when you cannot monitor them.
Emergency Escape Plan: Develop and practice an emergency escape plan with your family, including a designated meeting place outside.
Carbon Monoxide Detector: If your home burns any fossil fuels for heating or appliances, install carbon monoxide detectors in common areas of your home to detect this odorless gas. The D.C. building codes require this if you use a fireplace or if you have an attached garage. In essence, if there is any potential source of carbon monoxide in the home, be sure to install these detectors.
Remember, a safer home not only prevents accidents but also provides peace of mind for you and your family. Implement these simple tips to create a secure environment in every room of your house.
With these practical tips and a few adjustments, you can significantly reduce the risk of injuries and falls in your home. Enjoy peace of mind in your now much safer haven.
Scott Bloom is owner and senior property manager of Columbia Property Management.
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