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Wicked Jezabel (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best singer or band:

Wicked Jezabel

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Runner-up: Tom Goss

 

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Eric Fanning (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best bureaucrat:

Eric Fanning

Runner-up: Nancy Sutley

 

As acting secretary of the Air Force, Eric Fanning personifies the service motto ofĀ “Aim High … Fly-Fight-Win.”

He’s the highest-ranking openly gay civilian official in the U.S. military,Ā overseeingĀ procurement and operations for aĀ $140 billionĀ department at the Air Force. Fanning wins the 2013 award for Best LGBT Bureaucrat or Federal Worker and is the first-ever winner from the Washington Blade in this new category.

Fanning, 45, has had a long political career in D.C.Ā After his initial work on Capitol Hill, Fanning worked during the Clinton administration at the Pentagon and the White House.Ā Once President Obama assumed office, Fanning went to work within the Department of the Navy and continued in that role until he was nominated as Air Force under secretary.

Although the Senate confirmed Fanning for the lesser role as under secretary for the Air Force, Fanning became acting secretary when Michael Donley retired. Since that time, he was among the speakers at an LGBT Pride celebration at the Pentagon in June.

In an interview with the Washington Blade, Fanning said he left the Pentagon after “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” was implemented in the 1990s and didn’t want to come back until a president was elected who would end it.

ā€œIt was very difficult when we were getting to the end of the first two years and it wasnā€™t clear if we were going to be able to repeal ā€˜Donā€™t Ask, Donā€™t Tell,'” Fanning said. “I didnā€™t know what I was going to do if we didnā€™t get the repeal through because some people couldnā€™t work because they were openly gay or lesbian.ā€ (CJ)

 

Del. Eleanor Holmes Norton (D-D.C.) (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Del. Eleanor Holmes Norton (D-D.C.) (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Local heroine:

Eleanor Holmes Norton, D.C.ā€™s long-serving congressional delegate and a longtime proponent of LGBT equality.

Runner-up: Katy Ray

 

 

David Perruzza (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

David Perruzza (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Local hero:

Dave Perruzza

Runner-up: Freddie Lutz (Freddieā€™s Beach Bar)

 

Dave Perruzza, perhaps best known as manager of JR.ā€™s, also devotes much time to organizing the annual 17th Street High Heel Race. The 27th annual race is scheduled for Oct. 29. After serving in the U.S. Navy, Perruzza began working at the well-known Dupont Circle gay bar in 1996, handling coat check. He soon worked his way up to the top spot at the 17th Street, N.W., bar known for its friendly environment and popular theme nights. Readers from near and far appreciate that Perruzza strives to make everyone feel welcome and at home, whether youā€™re a local headed to happy hour after a long day on the Hill or a tourist looking for a friendly face.

 

 

Xavier Bottoms (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Xavier Bottoms (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best drag king:

Xavier Bottoms

Runner-up: Sebastian Katz

 

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Mark Rutstein (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best Realtor:

Mark Rutstein

Runner-up: Ray Gernhart

 

Mark Rutstein is a repeat winner in this category. He works both as manager of Cobalt and as a Realtor for Coldwell Banker on 17th Street.

 

DJ Wess (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

DJ Wess (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best DJ:

DJ Wess

Runner-up: Chord Bezerra

 

Heidi GlĆ¼m (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Heidi GlĆ¼m (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best drag queen:

Heidi Glum

Runner-up: Baā€™Naka

 

For Heidi Glum (aka Miles DeNiro), drag was a ticket out of a miserable job.

ā€œI was a shampoo person at a salon,ā€ she says. ā€œIt was a terrible job. I was essentially a maid. So I quit and all I do now is drag. Iā€™ve been busting my ass to make it a career.ā€

Glum (pronounced ā€œgloomā€) started drag about five years ago in New York where she says she was a long-time ā€œclub kid.ā€ Back in D.C. the past two years, Glum has several monthly gigs ā€” a drag bingo at Mellow Mushroom, Gay Bash, WTF and Crack and ā€œa lot of stuff in New York too.ā€

At times itā€™s been rough going. Glum was attacked by two patrons at Manny & Olgaā€™s, a pizzeria on 14th Street in June after a Black Cat performance. Glum was beaten and called ā€œtrannyā€ and ā€œfaggotā€ in an incident captured on video.

She says her philosophy of great drag means infusing feeling in the work.

ā€œYou can tell when someone is really feeling it,ā€ she says. ā€œIt comes up from somewhere inside you. You either have it or you donā€™t, this sort of spark. You can tell some of them are just dressed up for the hell of it.ā€ (JD)

 

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Ed Bailey (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best businessperson:

Ed Bailey (Town Danceboutique)

Runner-up: Karen Diehl

 

Eddie Weingart (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Eddie Weingart (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best massage:

Eddie Weingart

Deep Knead Massage Therapy and Body Work

Runner-up: The Legendary Dave

 

For Eddie Weingart, ā€œmaking people feel whole is the number one thing,ā€ in his massage work.

Having survived a serious car accident in 2001, he knows first-hand about pain management. He says his work, which incorporates both ancient and modern techniques, is tailored to ā€œbring a wellness of body, mind and spirit.ā€

Weingart is gay and is based in Silver Spring, though he has many clients in D.C. He guesses about 95 percent of his clients are LGBT. Heā€™s been in the area three years and averages 50-60 massages per week. (JD)

 

Denis Largeron (Photo by Denis Largeron)

Denis Largeron (Photo by Denis Largeron)

Best visual artist:

Denis Largeron

Runner-up Lisa Marie Thalhammer

 

Digital photographer Denis Largeron has been shooting part-time professionally for about three years. By day, he works at World Bank.

He focuses on commercial work and does weddings, portraits, what he calls ā€œboudoirā€ photo and various gay events.

ā€œI think last year I shot about every gay circuit party there was on the East Coast,ā€ he says. ā€œMost of the time, itā€™s promoters who hire me to shoot their events but I also shoot for some magazines as well.ā€

Largeron is gay and came to the U.S. about six years ago to be with a then-boyfriend.

ā€œFor me, itā€™s all about having a client and meeting their specific need,ā€ he says. ā€œEvery client has a different expectation and thatā€™s what I like about it. You have to adjust.ā€ (JD)

 

Bethany Carter Howlett (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Bethany Carter Howlett (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best personal trainer:

Bethany Carter Howlett

Runner-up: Drew McNeil

 

Finding the motivation to maintain a healthy lifestyle can be difficult. Bethany Carter Howlett makes it easier with her fitness expertise.

Howlett is a professional fitness athlete, formerly a body builder and registered dietician. She holds multiple certifications and trains anyone from children to professional athletes. She also owns four gyms in Virginia.

ā€œI feel being a trainer who practices what she preaches by competing, training and living the healthy lifestyle of a professional athlete allows for a strong advantage in my favor among other personal trainers in the area,ā€ Howlett says.

Her training programs are diverse from one-on-one sessions to group classes. Howlett can train people in person or even online. Her diet plans are specially made to suit the needs of the individual from their genetic lineage to their health history.

A Virginia native, Howlett began gymnastics at age 3. As an undergraduate at the University of Virginia, where she received her bachelorā€™s degree in molecular biology, she was a cheerleader.

Howlett is married to Jason Rowley and they are expecting their first child. Howlett has continued training clients and working out throughout her pregnancy. She hopes to be back in the gym two weeks after she gives birth. (MC)

 

 

Bruce DePuyt (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Bruce DePuyt (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best TV personality:
Bruce DePuyt WJLA, News Channel 8
Runner-up: Chuck Bell, NBC4

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ā€œNews Talk with Bruce DePuytā€ on News Channel 8 remains among the metropolitan areaā€™s most influential local news programs.

D.C. Mayor Vincent Gray, D.C. Del. Eleanor Holmes Norton, Virginia Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli, D.C. Police Chief Cathy Lanier, Maryland state Del. Heather Mizeur (D-Montgomery County) and other politicians and officials frequently discuss the important issues of the day. LGBT-specific topics that include the implementation of the U.S. Supreme Court decision that found a portion of the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional, efforts to repeal Virginiaā€™s gay nuptials ban and Russiaā€™s LGBT rights record are also a regular part of the weekday talk showā€™s line-up.

ā€œIā€™ve been a loyal reader of the Washington Blade for 30 years, so this is a very special honor,ā€ DePuyt said upon learning he had won.

DePuyt has been with News Channel 8 since 1993.

He covered Maryland politics extensively until he became the host of ā€œNews Talkā€ in 2002.

ā€œI also want to acknowledge my employer of the last 20 years, WJLA/NewsChannel 8 for always being in my corner,ā€ DePuyt said.

DePuyt was a reporter and anchor at WVIR in Charlottesville, Va., before he arrived at News Channel 8. He also produced an award-winning weekly talk show, ā€œ21 This Weekā€ on ā€œCable News 21ā€ in Montgomery County, Md.

ā€œNews Talkā€ airs on News Channel 8 weekdays live at 10 a.m. (ML)

 

 

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Logan Sutherland (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best actor:

Logan Sutherland

Runner-up: Will Gartshore

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At just 22, Logan Sutherland is at the beginning of his acting career and heā€™s already winning awards. ā€œThis is an incredible surprise,ā€ he says. ā€œI didnā€™t even promote myself. Iā€™ve been way too busy!ā€

After graduating from American Universityā€™s musical theater program in the spring, Sutherland began landing acting gigs straight away beginning with multiple roles in the Source Festival at Source Theatre in June. Shortly after, he drew praise for his showy turn in this summerā€™s Fringe Festival favorite ā€œOne Night in New York.ā€

ā€œIt was like Disney had made a big gay musical about a guy coming to New York looking for love,ā€ he says. ā€œI played Andy, one of the bitchy people that he met in Chelsea. He was like the Regina George [from ā€œMean Girlsā€] ā€” a real bitch.ā€

A genuine triple threat, Sutherland has been performing since he was a kid in small town Schwenksville, Pa. Currently the out actor is understudying for ā€œLulu and the Brontosaurusā€ at Imagination Stage in Bethesda. Later this season he will appear in Woolly Mammothā€™s ā€œThe Summoning of Everyman,ā€ a morality play that now reads as satire.

When not acting, Sutherland works as a server at Founding Farmers three blocks from the White House.Ā  Heā€™s considering film work, which may involve a move to New York or California in the future. But for now, the Dupont Circle resident says heā€™s learning a lot and happy to be a part of the D.C. theater scene. (PF)

 

Best actress:

Jessica Thorne

Runner-up: Holly Twyford

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Jessica Thorne is a fresh and definitely welcomed face on the local theater scene. The self-described straight LGBT ally initially left her native Georgia for D.C. to attend Catholic Universityā€™s musical theater program. After graduating in 2011, she immediately began performing with Synetic Theatre Company, the never boring movement-based troupe based in Crystal City.

ā€œIā€™m incredibly grateful to Synetic. They changed me as an artist,ā€ says Thorne who remains a member of the company. ā€œAs an actor it makes you incredibly comfortable with your body and who you are in space and time. It was a great experience and very singular to the company.ā€

Last season, Thorne was an ensemble member in director Ethan McSweeneyā€™s gorgeous production of ā€œA Midsummer Nightā€™s Dreamā€ at the Shakespeare Theater Company. And more recently she shone as wholesome Janet in Studio Theatreā€™s ā€œRichard Oā€™Brienā€™s The Rocky Horror Show.ā€

As a freshman in high school, Thorne was certain she wanted to pursue a career in theater. She is grateful to her mother and grandmother for supporting her choice to study theater in college. ā€œTheyā€™ve been there every step of the way,ā€ she says. ā€œFor me, that support has been really imperative in becoming an artist. You base a lot of your success on the people who are backing you.ā€ She also thanks her colleagues in the D.C. theater community whom she describes as incredibly supportive and generous.

Currently studying voice in New York with singer/composer Marisa Michelson, Thorne considers D.C. home and is slated to perform here in two shows this spring (about which she cannot yet reveal details). We promise to keep readers posted. (PF)

 

Kat Skyles (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Kat Skyles (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best Hill staffer:

Kat Skiles

Runner-up: Guy Cecil

 

President Barack Obama (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

President Barack Obama (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best straight ally:

President Barack Obama

Runner-up: Brooke Jordan

 

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Carlos Arroyo (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best bartender:

Carlos Arroyo (JR.ā€™s)

Runner-up: Liz Warner-Osborne (Cobalt)

 

Carlos Arroyo says the relaxed atmosphere at JR.ā€™s makes it a great place to work.

ā€œItā€™s a great vibe overall,ā€ he says. ā€œThe clientele is super awesome. We have amazing regulars and people just go there to have a great time. Itā€™s not pretentious. They leave work and everything at the door. ā€¦ Itā€™s probably one of the most relaxed bars Iā€™ve worked in.ā€

Arroyo has been in D.C. about 13 years and has dabbled in theater, communications work, personal training, catering and more. He also helps his partner with a photography business and says the two ā€œtravel quite often.ā€

Arroyo previously worked at Number Nine on P Street for about a year and a half, but moved over to JR.ā€™s. Heā€™s quick to assert he has enjoyed working at both hotspots.

ā€œWhen JR.ā€™s comes calling, you canā€™t turn them down,ā€ he says. ā€œItā€™s one of the busiest gay bars in D.C.ā€ (JD)

 

Jamie Romano (Washington Blade photo by Kevin Naff)

Jamie Romano (Washington Blade photo by Kevin Naff)

Best Rehoboth bartender:

Jamie Romano (Purple Parrot)

Runner-up: Chris Chandler (Blue Moon)

 

Jamie Romano is a repeat winner, having taken this prize two years ago. He reclaims it this year in a close contest with Chris Chandler. Romano has an uncanny ability to remember his customersā€™ favorite drink and often has one at the ready before you sit down. You can find him behind the main bar at the gay-owned Purple Parrot and at the popular outdoor bar in back, known as the Biergarten.

 

 

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Josh Deese (Photo courtesy of Josh Deese)

Most committed activist:

Josh Deese

Runner-up: Halley Cohen

 

Florida native Josh Deese knew he wanted to make a difference in the LGBT community after being bullied for his sexuality growing up led him to attempt suicide.Ā  His experience drew him to The Trevor Projectā€™s Youth Advisory Council (YAC).

ā€œJust having a feeling that people donā€™t appreciate you and that youā€™re worthless takes its toll on you,ā€ says Deese. ā€œIt only takes one, a friend, parent or ally to stand up and save someoneā€™s life and let them know they arenā€™t alone.ā€

Deese, who cites Harvey Milk as one of his heroes, has spoken with The Trevor Project about LGBT youth suicide, most recently at The National Cathedral with Judy Shepard, Matthew Shepardā€™s mother. He also serves as the Neighboring Commuter Representative on the University of Maryland Government Association.

In the future he plans to work in real estate in the D.C. area and eventually would like to run for the U.S. House. He hopes his efforts to help the LGBT community will lead to LGBT youth feeling safer and appreciated in the future. He says he wants them to understand life is an option.

Heā€™s a sophomore at the University of Maryland majoring in government and politics with a minor in LGBT studies. (MC)

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Maryland Del. Heather Mizeur (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Maryland Del. Heather Mizeur (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best gay politician:

Del. Heather Mizeur (Maryland)

Runner-up: Sen. Tammy Baldwin (D-Wis.)

 

Del. Heather Mizeur has represented Takoma Park and Silver Spring in the Maryland General Assembly since 2006. But sheā€™s best known now as the openly gay candidate for governor. She faces current Lt. Gov. Anthony Brown and Attorney General Doug Gansler in the contest. She would make history as the stateā€™s first female governor and the countryā€™s first openly LGBT elected governor if she prevails next year.

ā€œDiversity is enormously important,ā€ she told the Blade. ā€œNot simply to have a gay governor, but to have a governor who can represent the voices of people in communities that have not always had a voice in the process.ā€

 

 

Allyson Robinson (Washington Blade photo by Blake Bergen)

Allyson Robinson (Washington Blade photo by Blake Bergen)

Best trans advocate:

Allyson Robinson

Runner-up: Ruby Corado

 

It was a difficult year for Allyson Robinson, who stepped down from her position as executive director of OutServe-SLDN in June. Robinson, who led OutServe-SLDN for nine months, was the only openly transgender leader of a national LGBT rights organization. A new group, Servicemembers, Partners and Allies for Respect and Tolerance for All (SPARTA) announced its formation in July, following the turmoil at OutServe-SLDN. Robinson remains a prominent voice for transgender rights and LGBT equality.

 

 

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Martin Espinoza (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best amateur athlete:

Martin Espinoza (Stonewall Kickball)

Runner-up: Julie Olsen

 

Diego Orbegoso (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Diego Orbegoso (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best stylist:

Diego Orbegoso, Bang Salon

Runner-up: Dmitri Lords, Zoe Salon & Spa

 

Diego Obregoso says the best part of being a stylist is ā€œthe magical boosting of peopleā€™s energy by making them feel good.ā€

With a background in makeup and cosmetology, Obregoso has been at Bang Metropole (1519 15th St., N.W.) for six years. Heā€™s gay and estimates about 60 percent of his customers are LGBT.

A native of Lima, Peru, Obregoso has been in the U.S. 11 years. (JD)

 

 

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The Very Rev. David B. Lett (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Best clergy:

Rev. David Lett

Runner-up: Rabbi Shira Stutman

 

Sometimes Saturday is a very short night sleep-wise for David Lett. Heā€™s often out until the wee hours hostessing (as Lena Lett) the drag show at Town Danceboutique. Sundays are often spent doing spiritual duties as supply clergy with the North American Old Catholic Church, an LGBT-affirming offshoot of the Roman Catholic Church where years ago, Lett went to seminary and studied in Rome.

Lett says the two roles arenā€™t as dissimilar as they might seem.

ā€œTo be a drag performer, you have to be confident and you have to be able to put yourself in front of people and ā€¦. take them from wherever they are to a new place. A priest does a lot of the same things, thereā€™s just not as much liquor going around. ā€¦ The basic tenets of the role are identical. Itā€™s just the means by which they are done that is completely different.ā€Ā  (JD)

 

Rev. Dean Snyder (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Rev. Dean Snyder (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Lifetime achievement award:

Rev. Dean Snyder (Foundry United Methodist Church)

 

Rev. Dean Snyder has been an LGBT ally for 40 years and he is the inaugural recipient of the Bladeā€™s Lifetime Achievement Award.

He has fought to change his denominationā€™s ban on same-sex marriages being performed by the churchā€™s ministers. In 2010, the Foundry congregation voted 367-8 to allow same-sex marriages to be performed in the church.

A large portion of Foundryā€™s congregation is LGBT, including couples that have been in committed relationships for decades. This brought Snyder to question the churchā€™s laws.

ā€œWe started doing services to honor gay and lesbian committed relationships, which we argued were not a violation of the rules because we werenā€™t actually consecrating a marriage,ā€ Snyder told the Blade. ā€œBut then ā€¦ when it was clear marriage was going to become legal in Washington, D.C., then we couldnā€™t fudge anymore. It was either marriage or it wasnā€™t.ā€

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Heartfelt ā€˜Wedding Banquetā€™ remake a romcom worth seeing

Mishaps, crossed wires, conflicts are all part of the fun

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Lily Gladstone and Kelly Marie Tran in ā€˜Wedding Banquet.ā€™ (Photo courtesy Bleeker Street)

Creating a worthy remake can be a tricky proposition, especially when the movie being remade is a beloved classic ā€“ but that doesnā€™t mean itā€™s an impossible one.

Consider Andrew Ahnā€™s new version of 1993ā€™s ā€œThe Wedding Banquet,ā€ a film that put future ā€œBrokeback Mountainā€ director Ang Lee on the proverbial map in America, which opens in theaters this weekend after a debut at Sundance earlier this year. The original, an American/Taiwanese production which became a surprise hit in the U.S., broke ground with its story ā€” a culture-clash comedy of manners about a queer romantic triangle attempting to stage a sham wedding, it was quickly embraced by LGBTQ audiences thrilled to see representation on the big screen and positive representation, at that, in an era when it was even scarcer than it is today. To undertake a remake of such a film is a bold move, to say the least.

Yet gay Korean American writer/director Ahn (ā€œSpa Night,ā€ ā€œFire Islandā€) ā€“ has built his blossoming career on films about queer relationships among Asian American characters, with as much (or more) emphasis on family, both biological and chosen, as on romantic partnership; It seems natural, perhaps, for him to reinterpret this influential classic through his own lens, and heā€™s already proven himself as a filmmaker whose strengths line up perfectly with the material.

Even so, Ahn hedges his bets, perhaps, by collaborating on the new screenplay with James Schamus, who also co-wrote the original (along with Lee and Neil Peng), and the result is a movie that ā€“ although it recrafts the original romcom for a newer age and reconfigures its central relationships a bit to ā€œup the anteā€ on its complications ā€“ stays relatively faithful to the broad strokes of its plot.

In this iteration, the New York setting is transposed to Seattle, and the plot revolves around not just one queer romance, but two: Chris and Min (Bowen Yang and Han Gi-Chan), a stalled grad student and his South Korean boyfriend, and their lesbian friends-and-landladies Lee and Angela (Lily Gladstone and Kelly Marie Tran), who are struggling to become parents through expensive IVF treatments. Min, an artist whose temporary visa is about to expire, wants to stay with Chris and build a life in America, but his grandmother (Youn Yuh-jung) ā€“ currently running the vast family business empire to which he is heir ā€“ wants him to come home and claim his place in the organization. A wedding to Chris would secure him the green card he needs to defy his grandmotherā€™s demands, but it would also mean outing himself as gay and potentially being cut off from his inheritance. As a solution, he offers to pay for Lee and Angelaā€™s fertilization procedure in exchange for a ā€œgreen card weddingā€ with the latter, ensuring that he can remain in the U.S. while also remaining in the closet to his family.

Of course itā€™s an idea as bad as it sounds, but despite some reticence, the couples agree to the plan; but when grandmother decides to come to America and meet the bride in person, the four of them must attempt to pull off a masquerade that escalates far beyond their expectations after she insists on putting on a traditional ā€“ and elaborate ā€“ Korean wedding worthy of her grandsonā€™s exalted status, all while wrestling with the ambivalence and doubts that begin to encroach on their relationships as the scheme begins to fray at the edges.

Those whoā€™ve seen the original already know that things donā€™t play out exactly as planned ā€“ and anyone who hasnā€™t wonā€™t be surprised when it doesnā€™t, anyway. We already told you it was a bad idea.

That, of course, is the charm of the romcom, a genre in which mishaps, crossed wires and conflicts are all part of the fun, and in any case it gives Ahnā€™s film the opportunity to explore ā€“ as Lee did with the original ā€“ the more serious and relatable challenges of reconciling our queerness  with the deeply ingrained traditions of our cultural background; he does so with gentle wit and an equal measure of respect, but heā€™s not above getting laughs by pointing up the sheer absurdity that sometimes goes along with the process. Neither does he hesitate to delve into the messiness of queer relationships, even (and perhaps especially) with lifelong friends, or the deep insecurities and self-criticisms which get in the way of sorting them out.

To these ends, ā€œWedding Banquetā€ relies heavily on its cast, who embrace and clearly relish the chance to flesh out these characters. Yang brings his inevitable ā€œSNLā€ star power to the table but downplays the wackiness in favor of a more nuanced tone, and Gi-Chan shines as his pragmatically idealistic partner; Gladstoneā€™s intelligence and authenticity is a grounding force, while Tran counterpoints her with an eminently likable turn as her spunky-but-anxious misfit of a girlfriend ā€“ and the resonance they each bring to the prospect of motherhood highlights the longing for family and legacy that so many queer couples carry as they build their lives together.

Itā€™s not all about the couples, though. Veteran Chinese American actress Joan Chen (ā€œTai Pan,ā€ ā€œTwin Peaksā€) is a scene stealer as Angelaā€™s hyper-supportive mom, whose participation in her daughterā€™s ā€œlavender weddingā€ requires her to go against her deepest instincts as a proud ally, and Bobo Le provides a further connection to the theme of family with a charming performance as Yangā€™s tomboy-ish little sister. The anchoring performance, however, comes from acclaimed Korean star Yuh-jong, whose shrewd, savvy, and staunch portrayal of Gi-Chanā€™s power player grandma adds a much-needed dose of level-headed wisdom into the midst of the whirlwind.

In the end, Ahnā€™s update of Leeā€™s classic comedy scores big points for honoring the originalā€™s message of acceptance and embracing the notion of reimagining our ideas of traditional family structures to meet the needs of an ever-changing world; it also succeeds in maintaining a heartfelt sense of empathy for each of its characters, all of whom appeal to us precisely because of their imperfections and their hangups. None of them are perfect, but all of them are perfectly human, which goes a long way toward making Ahnā€™s remake feel like more than just the slickly-made feel-good romcom it resembles.

And yet, given the screwball potential and the endless possibilities for farcical developments in the convoluted deception attempted by its sets of lovers, Ahnā€™s ā€œWedding Banquetā€ could have been funnier. Leaning into an idealized and sentimental perspective as it gracefully brings its charactersā€™ lives into place, it occasionally feels a bit ā€œprecious,ā€ too ā€œHollywoodā€ to be believed.

Again, however, this is part of the charm of the romcom: if generations of straight audiences have gotten the chance to buy into idealized big screen fantasies about life and love, then why shouldnā€™t we enjoy the same privilege?

With that in mind, ā€œThe Wedding Banquetā€ makes for a perfect opportunity to entertain and validate ourselves ā€“ and even if it doesnā€™t tickle your funny bone, itā€™s a generous enough feast for your queer soul that it deserves you to see it.

Just make sure you bring somebody special to share your popcorn with.

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Peppermint thrives in the spotlight

In exclusive interview, she talks Netflix show ā€” and the need to resist Trumpā€™s attacks

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ā€˜You cis-gender homosexuals need to stand the fuck up,ā€™ says Peppermint. (Photo by Davide Laffe)

As an entertainer, thereā€™s not much that Peppermint hasnā€™t done. Sheā€™s a singer, actor, songwriter, reality TV personality, drag queen, podcaster and the list goes on. Most importantly, as an activist she has been an invaluable role model for the trans, queer, and Black communities.

Sheā€™s a trailblazer who boasts an impressive list of ā€˜firsts.ā€™ She is the first out trans contestant to be cast on ā€œRuPaulā€™s Drag Raceā€ (Season 9). She is the first trans woman to originate a principal musical role for Broadwayā€™s ā€œHead Over Heels.ā€ She was also the first trans woman to compete in the runaway hit series ā€œTraitors,ā€ on Peacock, and she is the ACLUā€™s first-ever Artist Ambassador for Trans Justice. Her accolades are a true testament of the courage it took for Peppermint to live her authentic self.

We caught up with Peppermint to chat about her activism, taking on bigger roles on screen, our current political and social climate and life beyond the lens. For Peppermint, coming out as trans was not just a moment of strengthā€”it was a necessity.

ā€œIt unfolded exactly as I had imagined it in terms of just feeling good and secure about who I am. I was in so much pain and sort of misery and anguish because I wasnā€™t able to live as free as I wanted to and that I knew that other people do when they just wake up. They get dressed, they walk out the door and they live their lives. Being able to live as your authentic self without fear of being persecuted by other people or by the government is essential to being healthy,ā€ Peppermint tells the Blade in an exclusive interview.

ā€œI was not able to imagine any other life. I remember saying to myself, ā€˜If I canā€™t imagine a life where Iā€™m out and free and feeling secure and confident and left alone, then I donā€™t even want to imagine any kind of a life in the future,’ā€ says Peppermint.

Recently, Peppermint returned for season 2 of Netflixā€™s comedy ā€œSurvival of the Thickest.ā€ She added some spice and kick to the first season in her role as a drag bar owner. This time around, her character moves center stage, as her engagement and wedding become a major plot line in the show. Her expanded role and high-profile trans representation come at just the right time.

ā€œItā€™s the largest acting role Iā€™ve ever had in a television show, which my acting degree thanks me. It feels right on time, in a day where theyā€™re rolling back trans rights and wanting to reduce DEI and make sure that we are limited from encouraging companies, corporations, industries, and institutions from not only featuring us, but supporting us, or even talking about us, or even referencing us.

ā€œIt feels great to have something that we can offer up as resistance. You can try to moralize, but itā€™s tougher to legislate art. So it feels like this is right on time and Iā€™m just really grateful that they gave me a chance and that they gave my character a chance to tell a greater story.

Peppermintā€™s expanded role also accompanies a boom in queer representation in Black-powered media. Networks like BET and Starz and producers like Tyler Perry, are now regularly showcasing queer Black folks in main story lines. What does Peppermint think is fueling this increased inclusion?

ā€œQueer folks are not new and queer Black folks are not new and Black folks know that. Every Black person knows at least one person who is queer. We are everywhere. We have not always been at the forefront in a lot of storytelling, thatā€™s true, and thatā€™s the part thatā€™s new. Itā€™s Hollywood taking us from the place where they usually have held us Black, queer folks in the makeup room, or as the prostitute, as an extraā€”not that thereā€™s anything wrong with sex work or playing a background performer. Iā€™ve played the best of the hookers! But those [roles] are very limiting.

ā€œHollywood has not historically done and still does not do a very good job of, including the voices of the stories that they make money [on]. And I think theyā€™re realizing [the need] to be inclusive of our stories and our experiences, because for a long time it was just our stories without our actual experiences. Itā€™s also exciting. Itā€™s dramatic. It makes money. And theyā€™re seeing that. So I think theyā€™re just dipping their toes in. I think that theyā€™re going to realize that balance means having us there in the room.ā€

Peppermintā€™s activism is tireless. She has raised more than six figures for prominent LGBTQ rights groups, she continues to speak around the nation, appears regularly on major media outlets addressing trans and LGBTQ issues and has been honored by GLAAD, World of Wonder, Out magazine, Variety, CondĆ© Nast and moreā€”all while appearing on screen and onstage in a long list of credits.

Now, under the Trump administration, she doesnā€™t have time to take a breath.

ā€œI wouldnā€™t be able to do it if it werenā€™t second nature for me. Of course, there are ups and downs with being involved with any social issue or conversation and politics. But I am, for now, energized by it. Itā€™s not like Iā€™m energized by like, ā€˜Ooh, I just love this subject!ā€™ right? Itā€™s like, ā€˜Oh, weā€™re still being discriminated against, we gotta go and fight.ā€™

ā€œThatā€™s just what it is. I get energy because I feel like we are quite literally fighting for our lives. I know that is hyperbole in some regards, but they are limiting access to things like housing, healthcare, job security and not having identification. Passport regulations are being put in a blender.ā€

Peppermint also mentions her thoughts on the unfair mandates to remove trans service members and revoke the rights and resources from the veterans who worked their whole lives to fight for this country.

ā€œWhen you strip all these things away, it makes it really difficult for people to have a life and I know that that is what theyā€™re doing. When I look around and see that that is what is at stake, I certainly feel like Iā€™m fighting for my life. And thatā€™s energizing.

ā€œThe only thing that would be the most rewarding besides waking up in a utopia and suddenly weā€™re all equal and weā€™re not discriminating against each otherā€”which probably is not happening this yearā€”is to be able to be involved in a project like this, where we can create that world. Itā€™s also being built by people who are a part of that story in real life and care about it in real life.ā€

Peppermint is clear on her point that now is the time for all of the letters of the LGBTQ community to come together. Everyone who is trans and queer should be joining the fight against the issues that affect us all.

ā€œJust trust us and understand that our experiences are tied together. That is how and why we are discriminated against in the way[s] that we are. The people who discriminateā€”just like how they canā€™t really distinguish between somebody whoā€™s Dominican and somebody whoā€™s African American ā€” youā€™re Black when youā€™re getting pulled over. We are discriminated against in much the same way. Itā€™s the same with being trans or queer or gender non-conforming or bi, we all have our own experiences and they should be honored.

ā€œWhen laws are being created to harm us, we need to band together, because none of yā€™all asses is gonna be able to stop them from getting rid of marriage equalityā€”which is next. If you roll the tape back to three years ago when somebody was trying to ask me about drag queen bans on readings in school, I was saying theyā€™re coming for trans rights, which comes for bodily autonomy and abortion rights, which comes for gay marriage rights. Those three things will be wiped out.

Peppermint doesnā€™t take a pause to get fired up and call gay folk out in their obligation to return the favor to the Black trans community.

She shares with us her final thoughts.

ā€œYou cis-gender homosexuals need to stand the fuck up and understand that we are standing in front of you. Itā€™s very difficult to understand this and know this, but so many of the rights that we have were hard fought and won by protest and by people fighting very hard for them. And many of those people in every single instance from the suffrage movement, obviously Civil Rights, queer rights, the AIDS and HIV movementā€”Black queer people have been there the entire time. Trans people have always been a part of that story, including Stonewall. Yes, we are using different terminology. Yes, we have different lenses to view things through, but let me tell you, if you allow us to be sacrificed before you see us go off the side, you will realize that your foot is shackled to our left foot. So, you better stand the fuck up!ā€

Peppermint for president!

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Washington Bladeā€™s Pride on the Pier returns bigger than everĀ with two-day WorldPride celebration

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The Washington Bladeā€™s Pride on the Pier will be extended to a two-day celebration in honor of WorldPride coming to D.C. this year. Taking place on Friday, June 6 and Saturday, June 7 at The Wharf, this yearā€™s event promises more entertainment, more community, and more pride than ever before ā€” all set against the stunning waterfront backdrop of our nationā€™s capital.

With the addition of Friday, the party kicks off at 3 p.m., with the inaugural WorldPride Boat Parade at 7 p.m. As an Official WorldPride Partner event, the boat parade will feature 30 decorated boats parading along the Washington Channel. For information on signing up for the boat parade contact Stephen Rutgers at [email protected].

Saturdayā€™s signature Pier Party kicks off at 12 p.m., featuring a drag show, DJ’s, streaming of the WorldPride Parade, and the iconic Fireworks Show Presented by the Leonard-Litz Foundation ā€” one of D.C. Prideā€™s most anticipated spectacles.

ā€œWeā€™re expanding Washington Blade Pride on the Pier to reflect the excitement and momentum building for WorldPride in D.C.,ā€ said Blade publisher Lynne Brown. ā€œItā€™s a celebration of our communityā€™s progress and a powerful reminder of the joy and visibility Pride brings to the heart of our city.ā€

Now in its seventh year, Washington Blade Pride on the Pier extends the cityā€™s annual celebration of LGBTQ visibility to the bustling Wharf waterfront with an exciting array of activities and entertainment for all ages. The District Pier will offer DJs, dancing, drag, and other entertainment. Alcoholic beverages will be available for purchase for those 21 and older.

Pride on the Pier is free and open to the public, with VIP tickets available for exclusive pier access, hosted bars, and private viewing areas for the boat parade and the fireworks show. To purchase VIP tickets visit www.prideonthepierdc.com/vip

Friday VIP: 5-9 p.m., enjoy an air-conditioned lounge, private bathroom, cash bar and complimentary drink.

Saturday VIP Session #1: 2-5 p.m., enjoy an air-conditioned lounge, private bathroom, catered food, and an open bar.

Saturday VIP Session #2: 6-9 p.m., enjoy the air-conditioned lounge, private bathroom, catered snacks and dinner, and open bar with a front-row view of the fireworks.

Event Details:

šŸ“ Location: District Pier at The Wharf (101 District Sq., S.W., Washington, D.C.)
šŸ“… Dates: Friday, June 6 & Saturday, June 7, 2025
šŸ›„ļøBoat Parade: 7 p.m. (June 6). šŸŽ† Fireworks Show: 9 p.m. (June 7)
šŸŽŸļø VIP Tickets: www.PrideOnThePierDC.com/VIP

Event sponsors include Absolut, Capital Pride, DC Fray, Infinate Legacy, Heineken, Leonard-Litz Foundation, Mayorā€™s Office of LGBTQ Affairs, Relish Catering,Ā  Washingtonian, and The Wharf. More information regarding activities will be released at www.PrideOnThePierDC.com

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