Obituary
Eric Lee, former Inouye aide, dies at 69
Played role in shaping fed’l policies on Internet


Eric Lee (Photo courtesy of the SS United States Trust)
Eric H.M. Lee, an attorney, former legislative director for the late U.S. Sen. Daniel Inouye (D-Hawaii), and most recently the principal partner in Lee and Associates, a Washington consulting firm specializing in telecommunications issues, died March 31 from complications associated with a stroke. He was 69.
Prior to founding his consulting firm, Lee worked in the 1990s in various positions with AT&T and an Internet trade association on projects credited with shaping current federal policies for the U.S. telecommunications industry.
He played a role in developing the Telecommunications Act of 1996 which, among other things, addressed the then nascent commercial Internet.
Lee, who was gay, was a supporter of LGBT rights organizations and provided behind-the-scenes advice to many of his activist friends working on strategy for advancing LGBT rights legislation, according to friends and professional colleagues.
āHe was a very active supporter and informed participant,ā said Will Burrington, a former colleague at AT&T who later became president of D.C.ās Gertrude Stein Democratic Club, the cityās largest LGBT political group.
āTo me, aside from his brilliance, as a person, he was just a very authentic, nonjudgmental, inclusive friend,” Burrington said.
A native Hawaiian, Lee graduated from Honoluluās Iolani college preparatory school before going to Princeton University, where he received a bachelorās degree with honors in European and modern Asian history. He received a law degree from Harvard University School of Law.
A Lee and Associates biography says he began his career in Washington working for Inouye on issues under the jurisdiction of the Senate Committee on Commerce, Science, and Transportation. He later became staff counsel to the Senate Subcommittee on Foreign Trade and Tourism before serving as Inouyeās legislative director.
He next joined AT&Tās Regulatory Affairs Division in Basking Ridge, N.J. and later became public policy director for AT&T International before returning to Washington as a member of AT&Tās Government Relations office.
After working on issues surrounding the Telecommunications Act, Lee left AT&T to become public policy director of the Commercial Internet Exchange Association (CIX), the worldās first Internet trade association, his biography says.
Among other things, Lee played a key role organizing a coalition of companies that negotiated what became the Digital Millennium Copyright Act, considered a landmark statute that determines online copyright policy.
Brenda Lee, his sister who lives in Honolulu, described her brother as āvery caring and thoughtful and generous with a great sense of humor.ā She added, āHe was very devoted to his family and his three nieces.ā
Burrington said Lee was an active supporter of the arts and progressive political candidates, a ātireless advocate for the interests of his native Hawaii and one of the most well-read people I know.ā
Leeās work on behalf of his home state was recognized by the office of Sen. Mazie K. Hirono (D-Hawaii).
āI was very sorry to hear of Eric Leeās passing,ā said Hironoās chief of staff, Betsy Lin, in an April 1 statement. āHis service to Hawaii; as Sen. Daniel K. Inouyeās counsel, his continued support of the delegation, and his generosity of spirit will be missed,ā Lin said.
Robert Garnet, another friend and former AT&T colleague, said he was among a number of friends that Lee helped when they faced hard times, such as unemployment. He said Lee took him under his wing and invited him to stay at Leeās Dupont Circle apartment until he got back on his feet.
āAnd my story, or some version of it, was repeated many times for others, both before I arrived on his doorstep and afterwards,ā Garnet said.
Lee is survived by his sisters Brenda and Terri Lee; his brother Earl Lee; and his nieces Alyson, Annaliese and Katrina Kintscher ā all of Honolulu.
Other survivors include his friends, many from Washington, who say they considered themselves part of Leeās extended family. They include Will (Bill) Burrington, Craig Huffman, Bruce Lehman, Robert Garnet, Patrick Keating, John Weinfurter, Raymond Zahrobsky, John Gallagher, Hana Sakuta, Kevin Hartmann, and numerous other friends.
Family members and friends said contributions can be made in Leeās memory online or by mail to the Daniel K. Inouye Institute Fund, c/o Hawaii Community Foundation, 827 Fort Street Mall, Honolulu, Hawaii 96813 or through: http://www.hawaiicommunityfoundation.org/daniel-k-inouye-institute.
Obituary
Local attorney, LGBTQ rights advocate Dale Sanders dies at 75
Acclaimed lawyer credited with advancing legal rights for people with HIV/AIDS

Dale Edwin Sanders, an attorney who practiced law in D.C. and Northern Virginia for more than 40 years and is credited with playing a key role in providing legal services for people living with HIV/AIDS beginning in the early 1980s, died April 10 at the age of 75.
His brother, Wade Sanders, said the cause of death was a heart attack that occurred at Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore shortly after he had back surgery.
Wade Sanders described his brother as a ātrial lawyer, passionate criminal defense, and civil litigator for human rightsā for close to 50 years, with some of his work focused on ācivil law, notably gay-related insurance discrimination during the AIDS epidemic.ā
He called his brother āa zealous advocate for the oppressed, his clients, and his personal convictions.ā
Born in Arlington, Va., and raised in McLean, Va., Dale Sanders graduated from Langley High School in McLean and receivedĀ his bachelorās degree from the University of Virginia, his brother said. He received his law degree from D.C.ās American UniversityĀ Washington College of Law and began his law practice in 1976 in Old Town, Alexandria, Wade Sanders said.
Amy Nelson, director of Legal Services for D.C. ‘s Whitman-Walker Health, said Sanders became one of Whitman-Walkerās original volunteer pro-bono attorneys in the 1980s.
āDale was a beloved part of the legal services program and our medical-legal partnership for nearly 40 years,ā Nelson said. āDale was one of the clinicās first volunteer attorneys at Whitman-Walkerās weekly, legal walk-in clinic offering free counseling to clients about their legal rights in the face of HIV/AIDS and LGBT discrimination from employers, landlords, medical providers, and insurance companies,ā according to Nelson.
Nelson added, āDale represented dozens of people impacted by the ignorance and prejudice attendant to an HIV/AIDS diagnosis, and his litigation wins were instrumental in advancing the legal rights of persons living with HIV/AIDS.ā
Sandersās most recent case on behalf of Whitman-Walker took place in 2023 in support of a transgender woman in Virginia who faced discrimination from her employer and health insurer, Nelson said.
In 1989, Whitman-Walker presented Sanders with its Gene Frey Award for Volunteer Service, and in 1994 presented him with its Founders Award for Pro Bono Legal Services, Nelson told the Blade. She said in 2024, Whitman-Walker re-named its annual Going the Extra Mile Pro Bono Award as the Dale Sanders Award for Pro Bono Excellence.
āDaleās legacy helped to shape HIV/AIDS law, and his fierce commitment to justice will live on at Whitman-Walker Health,ā Nelson said in a statement. āWe will miss him dearly.ā
Daniel Bruner, who served as Whitman-Walkerās legal services director prior to Amy Nelson taking that position, said Sanders played a role in shaping his own legal skills and knowledge.
āDale was one of my earliest legal models among local, and national, advocates for people living with HIV and LGBT people,ā Bruner told the Blade. āHe was a fierce, persistent advocate for his clients and for the community,ā Bruner said, adding, āHe won key victories in several cases where employeesā or health care patientsā privacy had been egregiously violated. I certainly will never forget him.ā
Wade Sanders said his brother was also an avid bridge player, saying he played competitively. āHe earned the rank of Ruby Life Master, a pretty big deal in the bridge world,ā Wade Sanders said.
Dale Sanders is survived by his husband, Christian Samonte; his sister, Joyce Sanders of York, S.C.; his brotherĀ Wade Sanders of West Jefferson, N.C.; and his beloved dogs Langley and Abigail, his brother said in a statement.
A memorial service for Dale Sanders organized by the Sanders family and the LGBTQ Catholic group Dignity Washington will be held Saturday, May 10, at 1 p.m. at St. Margaretās Episcopal Church at 1830 Connecticut Ave., N.W. in D.C., a Dignity Washington spokesperson said.Ā
Obituary
Nanette Kazaoka, an unlikely AIDS activist, dies at 83
Member of ACT-UP, longtime social justice advocate

Nanette Kazaoka, a well-known figure in the fight for HIV/AIDS awareness and the rights of marginalized communities, passed away on Oct. 2 at her home in New York City. She was 83. The cause of death was complications from vascular dementia and Alzheimerās disease, according to a statement from her daughter Kelly Kochendorfer.
Kazaoka was an advocate for justice, particularly in the early days of the AIDS crisis, when she became a member of the AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power, or ACT-Up. She is perhaps best remembered for her participation in a 2004 protest in front of Madison Square Garden during the Republican National Convention, when she and 11 fellow activists staged a dramatic naked demonstration, demanding debt cancellation for impoverished countries, according to a statement from the family.
āBush, Stop AIDS. Drop the Debt Now!ā they chanted, with slogans stenciled in black paint on their bodies. The bold protest drew national attention and underscored the urgency of global debt relief as a key element in the fight against AIDS.
She was born Nanette Natalina Bottinelli on June 12, 1941, in New York City. Her father, Angelo, worked as a waiter at the St. Regis Hotel, while her mother, Betty McComb, was a part-time burlesque dancer.
She married her first husband, Fred Kochendorfer, in 1963, and they had two children together, Kim Skrobe and Kelly, both of whom survive her.
Kazaokaās journey to Fire Island marked a transformative period in her life. Kochendorfer wanted to live there, and so they began renting in 1967. Kazaoka then made a bold decision that would shape her future: She left her husband for another man and began living on Fire Island in 1968-1969, with the children attending school in Ocean Beach, according to the familyās statement.
This period coincided with the early days of the gay rights movement, as Fire Island was emerging as a hub for LGBTQ culture. Her experiences during these years contributed to the strong sense of activism and solidarity that would later define her role in ACT-UP and the broader fight for LGBTQ rights.
Kazaokaās second husband, Katsushiga “Kats” Kazaoka, a Japanese-American psychologist who had been interred during World War II, died of cancer in 1984, pushing her to enter the workforce as a receptionist while studying occupational therapy at Downstate Medical Center. By 1990, she had earned her degree and sought work with AIDS patients.
In 1988, a close friend introduced her to ACT-UP, sparking the start of her full-time dedication to AIDS activism, the family said. Kazaoka became known for her passionate, unrelenting activism, whether protesting at City Hall or challenging anti-LGBTQ policies at St. Lukeās Hospital.
Kazaokaās activism spanned 35 years, making her a beloved and respected figure within ACT-UP and beyond, the family noted. She was featured in Sarah Schulman’s “Let the Record Show: A Political History of ACT-Up New York, 1987-1993” as well as “Act-Up Oral History, No. 162,ā a digital history. She was the cover photo of “Fag Hags, Divas and Moms: The Legacy of Straight Women in the AIDS Community,” and was included in The New York Times T Living Magazine story, “LEGENDS PIONEERS AND SURVIVORS.
Her dedication to science continued even after her passing: She donated her brain to the Mount Sinai NIH Brain and Tissue Repository for research to advance the understanding of the human brain health and disease to help end dementia, the family said.
Along with her daughters, Kazaoka is survived by her son-in-law John Skrobe, granddaughter Stella Skrobe and daughter-in-law Christine Arax, all of New York. She and her third husband, Paul Haskell, divorced in 2000.

Local
D.C. LGBTQ rights advocate Jeri Hughes dies at 73
āForce of natureā credited with pro-trans policy at city jail

Jeri Hughes, a longtime D.C. transgender rights advocate who has worked closely with activists in support of the local LGBTQ community, died March 18 at her home after a seven-year battle with lung cancer. She was 73.
Hughes, who has worked for the past 11 years at the D.C. Department of Employment Services, most recently as a Workforce Development Specialist, became involved in local LGBTQ rights and transgender rights endeavors since she moved to D.C. around 2005.
Among other endeavors, Hughes, along with D.C. transgender rights advocate Earline Budd, has served for more than a decade on the D.C. Department of Correctionsā Transgender Housing and Transgender Advisory committees.
Budd this week said Hughes played an important role in ensuring that Department of Corrections officials continue to follow a 2009 policy of allowing transgender inmates to choose whether to be placed in the menās or the womenās housing units at the D.C. jail.
āIn her toughness and determination, Jeri was a force of nature,ā said Rick Rosendall, former president of the D.C. Gay and Lesbian Activists Alliance. āShe pressed the D.C. Department of Corrections for more humane and respectful treatment of transgender inmates,ā Rosendall said.
āShe pressed the D.C. government to set an example by hiring more trans people,ā according to Rosendall, who added that Hughes interacted with D.C. police officials, including former D.C. Police Chief Peter Newsham, to push for respectful treatment of trans people by the police.
Hughesās LinkedIn page shows that prior to working at the D.C. Department of Employment Services she served as housing coordinator for a local social services organization called T.H.E. Inc., where, among other things, she āmonitored and mentored a diverse population of LGBT youth.ā
Her LinkedIn page shows she also worked from June 2009 to May 2010 as an administrative assistant at the D.C. Anacostia Watershed Society.
Hughesās brother, Lou Hughes, who said the Hughes family is originally from Ohio, told the Washington Blade Jeri Hughes served in the U.S. Navy after high school as a torpedo operator in a submarine in the South Pacific. He said a short time later Jeri Hughes moved to New York City, where she operated a company that provided commercial laundry service to restaurants and hospitals.
Lou Hughes said his sister Jeri moved to D.C. around 2005 and initially lived with him and his wife in a basement apartment in their house before moving to her own apartment in Northwest D.C. where she remained until her passing.
He said it was around 2005 that his sister informed her family that she planned to transition as a transgender woman at the age of 54. āAnd our family fully supported her decision, helped her finance the various surgeries,ā Lou Hughes said. āAnd once she went through the transition it was like she was fully reborn.ā
āAnd thatās why all these negative comments about transgender people right now ā itās very hurtful to our family because she was really the classic transgender person who was really simply born in the wrong body and gave our entire family a real sensitivity and understanding of what that meant,ā Lou Hughes said.
Denise Leclair, one of Jeri Hughesās closest friends and former roommate, said among Jeri Hughesās many interests was boating. Leclair said Hughes persuaded her to join Hughes in purchasing a 45-foot sailboat in 2019, shortly after Hughes was diagnosed with lung cancer.
āWe spent the next two months getting it fixed up and we started sailing,ā Leclair recalls. āAnd we did quite a bit of sailing, so she really put her heart and soul into restoring this boat.ā
Leclair said the boat was docked in a harbor in Deale, Md., just south of Annapolis. She said up until a few months ago, after her cancer prevented her from working full-time, Hughes spent most of her time living on the boat until her illness forced her to return to her D.C. apartment.
āMy Dearest Sister Jeri, born April 30, 1951, left our restless Earth in the early morning of March 18, 2025, succumbing to the lung cancer which she battled against so bravely for seven years,ā Lou Hughes says in a statement. āAs we all know, Jeri was a person of high intellect, incredible energy and fearless in the face of adversity,ā her brother wrote.
āWhether through acts of quiet charity, tireless advocacy, or simply offering a listening ear, Jeri made it a mission to uplift, support, and care for every person she encountered,ā his statement says. “Her life was a testament to empathy in action, leaving a lasting legacy of love, hope, and selflessness that will continue to inspire all who knew her.ā
In addition to her many friends and colleagues in D.C., Jeri Hughes is survived by her brother, Lou Hughes; sister-In-law Candice Hughes; daughter, Casey Martin; son-in-law Wally Martin; grandson Liam Martin; granddaughter, Mirella Martin; niece, Brittany Hughes; and nephew Klaus Meierdiercks.
A memorial service and celebration of life for Jeri Hughes is scheduled to be held May 10 at D.C.ās Metropolitan Community Church at 1 p.m., according to Earline Budd.
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