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Is D.C. too gay for the Gay Games?
Compelling bid falls short as Hong Kong lands 2022 event


Mayor Muriel Bowser led the D.C. Gay Games bid delegation to Paris last week. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)
I won a silver medal in rowing in Gay Games IX in Cleveland in 2014. It was my Olympic experience from the Opening Ceremony procession of thousands LGBT athletes from around the world with full fanfare, thumping music and glitter, to the tough competition on the Cuyahoga River, to walking proudly though the Festival Village with my partner at my side and my silver medal around my neck. I rowed with DC Strokes, one of 34 LGBT sports clubs in the Washington, D.C. region that have about 7,000 members combined. Under the umbrella of Team DC, a 501(c)3 that promotes LGBT sports in the area, the D.C. region historically sends one of the largest contingents to the compete in the Gay Games.
I started writing this piece while flying back to Dulles, on a beautiful United Airlines Boeing 787 after making the case to bring the 2022 Gay Games to D.C. to the Federation of Gay Games (FGG) in 5 days of activities in Paris (Oct 26 – 30). The FGG is the sanctioning body for the Gay Games. D.C. was one of three finalist cities. Representatives of the other two, Guadalajara and Hong Kong were also in Paris. D.C. previously competed for Gay Games IX, which was awarded to Cleveland. This was Guadalajara’s and Hong Kong’s first attempt. Paris will host Gay Games X in 2018. The FGG selected Hong Kong to host Gay Games XI in 2022 at a press conference on Oct. 30.
According to Brent Minor, “We left it all on the field.”
Minor, the Gay Games DC 2022 Chairman, asked me to co-chair the bid committee to bring Gay Games XI to D.C. with Blade publisher Lynne Brown and Clark Ray in 2016. I said, “yes” without hesitation. Minor, a veteran of six Gay Games, former FGG male Co-President and Chair of the DC Gay Games IX Bid, possesses the knowledge, institutional memory, and drive to ably lead D.C.’s second bid team. He pulled out all the stops.
The D.C. 2022 bid book details our plan, budgets, sponsors, venues, cultural events, lodging, transportation, security, etc., in 300 pages of glorious detail based on our experience with the Gay Games IX bid and years of experience hosting large-scale sporting events under the advice of people like Paul Tagliabue, former NFL commissioner, Gay Games DC 2022 Honorary Co-chair. The bid book was submitted on Nov. 30, 2016. It is fact-based, complete and shows our math.
Our bid book, packed with facts and figures, touches the head. Our 2022 final presentation, Inspire, touches the heart. Inspire is a beautifully imagined and produced multimedia and live presentation that captivated the FGG delegates, bringing many to tears. Briana Scurry, two-time Olympic gold medalist was greeted with thunderous applause and cheers repeatedly as she revealed then wore two gold medals as she told her story as an elite out lesbian athlete. Mayor Bowser, who led D.C.’s delegation, was cheered as she made D.C.’s pledge of $2 million in person to support Gay Games XI if the FGG selected D.C. Council member Jack Evans and Finance Committee Chair and Council member Brandon Todd also made the trip to demonstrate the City Council’s support of the D.C. bid. There was more applause and audible gasps and cheers as each of our Honorary Co-Chairs, Billie Jean King, Eric Holder, former U.S. Attorney General and Paul Tagliabue voiced their endorsements and support for the bid via video. Tagliabue, who “knows a thing or two about selecting cities for major sports events,” closed his remarks by proudly acknowledging his gay son and son-in-law. Chris Mosier, the first trans athlete to qualify for Team USA, took the podium and told his story about his transition, competing in the Cleveland Gay Games and qualifying for Team USA as a trans man to a hushed room. Mosier is living evidence of the power and importance of the Gay Games movement in nurturing and uplifting LGBT people.
Brent Minor, Elliott Ferguson, president and CEO of Destination DC, and Ryan Bos, executive director of Capital Pride, expertly covered the DC Bid’s Experience, Affordability and Fun topics respectively, rounding out the 45-minute presentation. D.C. made its final presentation last, following Guadalajara and Hong Kong. Bid teams cannot attend the other presentations. As Mayor Bowser concluded and asked for the FGG’s support for our bid, the room erupted with applause and cheers. A Honorary Life Member (HLM) stated that he’d seen every final presentation and the D.C. presentation is the best he had ever seen by far. We heard many such accolades as the D.C. delegation left the auditorium on Saturday Oct. 28 and over the next two days. But something was missing. It was like nailing an audition or interview, being told enthusiastically, “you were great,” and realizing there is a “but” coming.
Indications that things were going sideways
All three delegations attended a joint and lengthy question-and-answer session on Sunday Oct. 29. Each delegation had to select two people to answer for their city. Mayor Bowser and Brent Minor provided thorough, concise answers that were responsive to the questions directed at D.C. Questions came only from the FGG delegates and were pre-written. A moderator selected the questions asked during the session. Hong Kong tended to pivot away from providing details on the Hong Kong games to talk to more about their aspirations for Asia. Guadalajara generally answered the questions with some gaps in detail and revealed their focus on Latin America. Here are a couple of the questions and answers:
How would your city fund the games?
Guadalajara: Half would come from registration fees and the remainder from a business entity that to me sounded similar to a tourism-related business improvement district.
Hong Kong: Claimed to have $1 million in corporate funding and another $1 million “conditionally pledged,” but details were sketchy. From what we could glean, this $2 million was not mentioned in the Hong Kong presentation the previous day. In a separate question, a FGG delegate asked how “the private funding would work,” since Hong Kong has no government funding. The gist of the rambling reply was that Hong Kong will have very nice sponsorship packages.
Washington, D.C.: Minor: Our budget is strong and detailed in our bid book. We have the $2 million pledge from D.C. Fourteen major sponsors are on board now and have already contributed $200,000 to the bid (cash and in-kind). Each of the 34 LGBT sports clubs also contributed to the D.C. bid.
Bowser: Remember EMILY – Early Money is Like Yeast – Early money from the city will enhance the committee’s ability to bring on more sponsors. EventsDC and the Sports and Entertainment Commission, which have independent income streams based on tourism revenue can also help. If D.C. is selected, the budget process starts in 2018. EventsDC and the Sports and Entertainment Commission can help cover interim budgets.
How does your city define diversity?
D.C.: Bowser: D.C. is a melting pot. Every color of the rainbow is represented. Diversity is central to our bid as you can see in our bid committee and presentation. Sports and culture break what divides us.
Guadalajara: Mexico is diverse. One hundred languages are spoken.
Hong Kong: Hong Kong is diverse. A melting pot. HK named the people supporting the HK bid that included people from Hong Kong, the U.S., Europe and former British colonies. No one from another Asian country was mentioned or present.
Describe your bid in 3 words.
Guadalajara: Color, Inspirational, Legacy
Hong Kong: Empowerment, Legacy, Light
Washington, D.C.: Participation, Inclusion, Personal Best
The big announcement
The winner was announced at a FGG press conference the focus of which was really Gay Games X which occurs in Paris in 2018. After what seemed to be an eternity, Bruno Julliard, First Deputy Mayor of Paris, announced Hong Kong the winner.
Mayor Bowser pulled the D.C. delegation to the side and expressed her thanks for everything the Gay Games D.C. 2022 team did to develop the bid and to represent D.C. on the world stage. Most of the D.C. delegation remained for the gala dinner in the sumptuous Paris City Hall; after all it was the sportsman-like thing to do. There was yet one more surprise that evening, however. A couple, part of the Hong Kong delegation, was called to the stage where they announced a €10,000 pledge to the Paris Gay Games to support the 2018 scholarship program.
So what happened?
FGG delegates vote via secret ballot so it is not known who votes for which city but more delegates voted for Hong Kong. An anti-U.S. sentiment caused in large part by the current resident in the White House and his travel bans exists within the FGG. There is also a very clear pro-Asia sentiment. Some FGG delegates want to use the games to “open Asia” which is a very laudable and ambitious goal. There are certainly millions LGBT people in Asia who don’t have the freedoms and protections that we have as residents of gay-friendly Washington, D.C. and as citizens of the United States. It took decades of fighting to earn the LGBT protections we have. We are still fighting to protect them. The White House is trying to ban trans airmen, soldiers and sailors from the military as its initial assault on LGBT rights
Will the FGG be effective in bringing change to Asia with the 2022 games? Who in Asia knows about the Gay Games? The Hong Kong bid team effectively used social media to support its bid. I asked one of the members from Hong Kong how they were going to use social media in China and other Asian nations where terms like “gay” and “LGBT” are censored. She mentioned virtual private networks or VPNs, which are used by people with the money, knowledge and access. The Hong Kong team cannot reach the masses using VPNs. FGG delegates are concerned about the American White House but will the Chinese government open its arms to the Gay Games?
I believe the FGG was touched by the D.C. bid. I believe that the FGG knows that D.C. would host an amazing Gay Games. But that didn’t matter. A majority of voting delegates aspire to take the games to Asia. So the answer to the question, “Is D.C. is too gay to host the gay games” is, Yes. What about your city?
Marvin Bowser is a lifestyle blogger and regular Blade contributor. He served as a co-chair of the D.C. Gay Games 2022 bid committee. Follow him on Instagram @FirstBroDC.
Miscellaneous
Stephen Miller’s legal group sues Fairfax County schools
Lawsuit challenges policies for transgender, nonbinary students

Former Trump administration official Stephen Miller’s legal group on Tuesday filed a lawsuit against the Fairfax County School District over its policies for transgender and nonbinary students.
America First Legal in a press release notes it filed the lawsuit against the school district on behalf of a female, “practicing Roman Catholic” student “for allowing teenage boys to use the female restrooms and for forcing a radical, government-sponsored gender indoctrination and approved-speech scheme that discriminates against students on the basis of sex and religion and violates their free speech rights under the Virginia Constitution.”
The lawsuit was filed in Fairfax County Circuit Court.
The Virginia Department of Education last July announced new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students for which Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin asked. Equality Virginia and other advocacy groups claim they, among other things, would forcibly out trans and nonbinary students.
Fairfax County schools are among the school districts that have refused to implement the guidelines.
“Fairfax County Public Schools appears to believe that its policies and regulations can override the Virginia Constitution’s protections for religious beliefs, speech and from government discrimination on the basis of sex and religious beliefs,” said America First legal Senior Advisor Ian Prior in a press release. “It is well past time for FCPS to stop sacrificing the constitutional rights of its students so that it can implement a state-sanctioned ideology that demands compliance in speech, beliefs and conduct.”
FCPS Pride, a group that represents the Fairfax County School District’s LGBTQ employees, described the lawsuit as “abhorrent.”
“We are confident that the school board and the superintendent will strongly and firmly oppose this specious suit and continue to support all students, including transgender and gender expansive students,” said the group in a press list.
Miscellaneous
More than a dozen LGBTQ candidates on the ballot in Va.
Control of the state Senate hangs in the balance

More than a dozen openly LGBTQ candidates are on the ballot in Virginia on Nov. 7.
State Del. Danica Roem (D-Manassas) is running against Republican Bill Woolf in the newly redistricted Senate District 30 that includes western Prince William County and the cities of Manassas and Manassas Park.
Roem in 2018 became the first openly transgender person seated in a state legislature in the U.S. after she defeated then-state Del. Bob Marshall, a prominent LGBTQ rights opponent who co-wrote Virginia’s constitutional amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman. Roem would become Virginia’s first out trans state senator if she defeats Woolf.
Woolf supports a bill that would require school personnel to out trans students to their parents. The Republican Party of Virginia has highlighted this position in ads in support of Woolf.
“Thank you for reminding me why I won three elections in this district in Prince William County, which is the most diverse county in all of Virginia and the 10th most nationally where we welcome everyone because of who they are, not despite it, no matter what you look like, where you come from, how you worship, if you do, or who you love because you should be able to thrive here because of who you are, never despite it,” said Roem on Sept. 28 in response to a woman who heckled her during a debate with Woolf that took place at Metz Middle School in Manassas.
Gay state Sen. Adam Ebbin (D-Alexandria) is running for re-election in Senate District 39. State Del. Mark Sickles (D-Fairfax County), who is also gay, is running for re-election in House District 43.
Former state Del. Joshua Cole, who identifies as bisexual, is running against Republican Lee Peters in House District 65. State Del. Kelly Convirs-Fowler (D-Virginia Beach), who came out as bisexual last year at Hampton Roads Pride, will face Republican Mike Karslake and independent Nicholas Olenik.
State Del. Marcia “Cia” Price (D-Newport News), a Black woman who identifies as pansexual, is running for re-election in House District 85.
Adele McClure, a queer Democrat, is running to represent House District 2 that includes portions of Arlington County. Laura Jane Cohen, a bisexual woman who is a member of the Fairfax County School Board, is a House of Delegates candidate in House District 15.
Rozia Henson, a gay federal contractor who works for the Department of Homeland Security, is running in House District 19. Zach Coltrain, a gay Gen Zer, is running against state Del. Barry Knight (R-Virginia Beach) in House District 98.
LPAC has endorsed Jade Harris, a Rockbridge County Democrat who is running to represent Senate District 3. Harris’ website notes trans rights are part of their platform.
“Protecting trans rights, repealing right to work, strengthening unions and supporting our farmers are just a few of my legislative priorities,” reads the website. “I am dedicated to addressing the revitalization of our state’s infrastructure, fostering a favorable environment for job creation, and supporting our public education system.”
Republicans currently control the House by a 51-46 margin, while Democrats have a 21-19 majority in the state Senate.
Senate Democrats have successfully blocked anti-LGBTQ bills that Republicans have introduced since Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin took office in January 2022.
The Virginia Department of Education in July released new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students that activists and their supporters have sharply criticized. They fear that Republicans will curtail LGBTQ rights in the state if they regain control of both houses of the General Assembly on Nov. 7.
“Time and time again, anti-equality lawmakers and the Youngkin administration have made it clear that they will continue to disrespect and disregard the lives and lived experience of LGBTQ+ people within Virginia,” said Equality Virginia PAC Executive Director Narissa Rahaman in August when her organization and the Human Rights Campaign endorsed Roem, Ebbin and other “pro-equality champions.”
“We must elect pro-equality champions who will secure and strengthen our freedoms,” added Rahaman. “We have that chance as the eyes of the nation are on us this November.”
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund has endorsed Fairfax County School Board Vice Chair Karl Frisch and Fairfax County School Board candidates Robyn Lady and Kyle McDaniel, who identify as lesbian and bisexual respectively.
Michael Pruitt would become the first openly bisexual man elected to the Albemarle County Board of Supervisors if he were to win on Nov. 7. Blacksburg Town Councilman Michael Sutphin and Big Stone Gay Town Councilman Tyler Hughes, who are both gay, are running for re-election.
“Tyler will be a critical voice for equality as the only out LGBTQ+ person on the Big Stone Gap Town Council,” says the Victory Fund on its website.
Cal Benn contributed to this article.
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Five easy tips to help you avoid common risks

Your home is more than just a place to eat and sleep; it’s your safe haven. As much as you might cherish your home, you should probably also recognize the potential hazards within its familiar walls. Accidents can happen in an instant, yet with a little foresight and some simple adjustments, you can transform your house into a safer haven.
Accidents can happen anywhere, and with a few simple tweaks, you can lower risks in your space. Below you’ll find five tips for each room in your home to help prevent injuries, falls, and other mishaps. In short, home safety.
This article was inspired by a shower in a rental we managed that began leaking through the kitchen ceiling below. If only the landlord had installed grab bars, right!? Below, we’ll guide you through the steps to fortify your bathroom, making it a place of relaxation without the fear of slips and falls. Then, we’ll venture into the room where the magic happens, where proper planning can ensure great nights and peaceful mornings. We’ll show you how to prevent accidents while you experiment becoming the next Gordon Ramsey. And we’ll include a few surprising solutions for those other rooms that hold their own unique hazards, offering solutions to safeguard against unexpected mishaps.
Bathroom Safety
Install Grab Bars: Adding grab bars near the shower and toilet can provide essential support for family members of all ages. Not only can they help with getting in and out, but they can help provide stability when washing. Make sure they are securely anchored to the wall.
Non-Slip Mats: Place non-slip mats inside the shower and bathtub to prevent slips. They’re a small investment that can save you from falls and head injuries.
Adjust Water Temperature: Ensure your hot water is set to a safe temperature to avoid scalding. The hot water heater should be set to around 120°F (49°C)l, the middle setting on many water heater settings.
Medicine Cabinet Locks: If you have young children, use childproof locks on your medicine cabinet to keep harmful substances out of reach.
Proper Lighting: Ensure there’s adequate lighting in the bathroom to avoid trips and falls during nighttime visits. Nightlights can be a simple and effective solution.
Bedroom Safety
Clear Pathways: Keep pathways in the bedroom clutter free to prevent tripping. Ensure there’s enough space to move around comfortably, particularly getting around the bed. Be aware where all furniture is when walking around to avoid stubbed toes, particularly at night.
Secure Rugs: If you have throw rugs, use rug grippers or double-sided tape to keep them from slipping. Loose rugs are a common trip hazard.
Bed Rails: For anyone at risk of falling out of bed, consider installing bed rails to provide extra support and prevent falls.
Nightstands with Drawers: Opt for nightstands with drawers to keep essential items. This reduces the need to get out of bed at night, minimizing the risk of falls, as you race to grab what you need and not lose a moment’s rest.
Fire Safety: Install battery-operated smoke detectors in the bedrooms if there are none. Make sure to install them 36 inches away from an air vent or the edge of a ceiling fan. Also six inches away from the joint between the wall and ceiling. And test smoke detectors regularly.
Kitchen Safety
Non-Slip Flooring: Choose slip-resistant rugs in the kitchen, especially in areas where spills are common. Mats near the sink and stove can also help and you can often buy them fairly cheaply at Costco.
Childproof Cabinets: If you have little ones, use childproof latches on cabinets and drawers to prevent them from accessing potentially hazardous items.
Anti-tip brackets: Install an anti-tip bracket behind the range. These are often used when children are in the home. Although they are less likely to open the oven door and use it as a step stool to get to the stove-top, adults can also benefit from installing these.
Adequate Lighting: Proper lighting is crucial in the kitchen to avoid accidents. Under-cabinet lighting can illuminate work areas effectively.
Secure Heavy Items: Ensure heavy pots and pans are stored at waist level to prevent straining or dropping them from high shelves.
Sharp Object Storage: Keep knives and other sharp objects in a secure drawer or block. And handle all sharp items with extreme care, even when washing and drying. These steps reduce the risk of accidental cuts.
Other Safety Tips
Furniture Anchors: Secure heavy furniture, like bookshelves and dressers, to the wall to prevent tip-overs, especially if you have young children.
Adequate Outlets: Check for damaged outlets and replace them promptly. Avoid overloading circuits with too many devices. Install placeholder plugs in outlets to prevent young curious fingers (or tongues?) from going inside an electrical outlet.
Stair Gates: If your home has stairs, install safety gates at the top and bottom to prevent falls, especially if you have toddlers or pets to keep them off of the stairs when you cannot monitor them.
Emergency Escape Plan: Develop and practice an emergency escape plan with your family, including a designated meeting place outside.
Carbon Monoxide Detector: If your home burns any fossil fuels for heating or appliances, install carbon monoxide detectors in common areas of your home to detect this odorless gas. The D.C. building codes require this if you use a fireplace or if you have an attached garage. In essence, if there is any potential source of carbon monoxide in the home, be sure to install these detectors.
Remember, a safer home not only prevents accidents but also provides peace of mind for you and your family. Implement these simple tips to create a secure environment in every room of your house.
With these practical tips and a few adjustments, you can significantly reduce the risk of injuries and falls in your home. Enjoy peace of mind in your now much safer haven.
Scott Bloom is owner and senior property manager of Columbia Property Management.
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