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Alvin Ailey dancers find unexpected romance
Couple realized attraction after being roommates on the road


Michael McBride, left, and his fiance, Samuel Roberts. Both are dancers with the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater. (Photo by Christopher Duggan; courtesy the couple)
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Michael McBride and his boyfriend Samuel Roberts were getting drinks at Locksmith, a local haunt near their New York City home, on an unassuming January day in 2016. While McBride was expecting a casual drink, he was shocked when Roberts suddenly jumped to his feet and began singing the Warblers rendition of āTeenage Dreamā by Katy Perry from āGleeā joined by a group of their friends wearing matching Warbler uniforms.
For āGleeā fans the song marked the start of Kurt and Blaineās relationship. As their friends and family flooded the tiny bar, McBride and Roberts would also kickstart a chapter of their own relationship.
Roberts got down on one knee and asked McBride, who had started crying, to marry him.
He said yes.
āI am the nosiest person that you will ever meet. The fact that I had not even a clue. Iām wearing mom jeans and a sweatshirt and I smelled like bleach. I had been cleaning my apartment all day,ā McBride says.
The theatrical proposal shouldnāt come as too much of a surprise. McBride, 29, and Roberts, 40, are both dancers in the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater. They spend six months of the year performing in New York City and the other half touring all over the world.
The company stops by the Kennedy Center for a six-day residency Feb. 6-11 with McBride and Roberts performing separately and together. The couple will unite on stage for works including āThe Golden Section,ā āStack Upā and āThe Hunt.ā
āItās really fun when we get to connect and play off each other,ā Roberts says.
From roommates, to friends, to lovers, the couple first met in 2009 when they both auditioned for the Alvin Ailey company, which they approximate as being 80 percent gay men, on the same day. They were also each hired by the company that day. McBride, a newbie to the professional dancing world, admits he doesnāt remember meeting Roberts that day. He was too overwhelmed with securing his contract.
However, his emotional response was exactly what caught Robertsā eye, given he was a more seasoned professional dancer.
As a company rule, dancers were required to have roommates on tour. McBride and Roberts found themselves forced to be roommates as everyone else in the company was already paired up.
But they didnāt start out in sync. McBride says they were āoperating on different schedules.ā Roberts admits he āloved being with the localsā and was a fan of the nightlife. However, McBride was more into exploring cities in the daytime.
āBecause I was new I would wake up very early and go see all the cities with my camera because I was just so excited to travel,ā McBride says.
McBride says their relationship became more intimate in September 2010 while they were touring in the United Kingdom. A personal tragedy had rocked McBride leaving Roberts as an unexpected support system.
āIt was shortly after my sister had passed. I was emotional and dealing with a lot of stuff with my family. There was one night when I really needed to just sit down and have dinner with somebody and not necessarily need to talk and just to be easy. He was in the room and so I said weāre going to dinner. I think that was the first time that either of us ever realized we had a lot more in common than either of us expected,ā McBride says.
Both had become interested in dance at a young age on the outskirts of big cities.
Roberts, who is from Quakertown, Pa., a town in the suburbs of Philadelphia, went to a dance class with his cousin at 10 years old when a teacher spotted his enthusiasm.
āThe teacher saw that I was fidgeting around in the back and she asked me, āHey, why donāt you get up and join us?ā And I never sat down,ā Roberts says.
Roberts continued to dance into high school and eventually made a good friend who he describes as his āsurrogate motherā who would take him to auditions in New York City.
āShe took me to the audition at Juilliard, which at the time I had no idea what it was, thankfully. I was able to just go in and do my thing. I made it in and I was so pleased,ā Roberts says.
While at Juilliard, Roberts met Robert Battle, who would go on to become the artistic director of Alvin Ailey. Before joining Alvin Ailey, Robertsā achievements included becoming a founding member of Battleās dance company Battle Works in 2000.
McBride, who hails from Johnson City, N.Y., started dancing in a small dance studio at 8 years old. In high school he became more serious about dance and attended the Ailey dance program at Fordham University. He joined the company while a senior in college.
In addition to that dinner, McBride and Roberts would continue to share many memorable moments.
During their first year they encountered the D.C. blizzard in 2010. They recall getting stranded in their hotel for a week and the Kennedy Center canceling performances.
Despite the close quarters, their relationship didnāt become romantic until a couple years later.
After dating for a few years, the couple found themselves back in the United Kingdom on tour. They walked past a diamond shop and decided to look at rings together.
āWe were just looking in the window and this woman came out and asked us if weād like to look at some diamonds. We were like, āEh.ā She was like, āWe have Champagneā and we were like āAbsolutely.ā We went in and had some Champagne and we were looking at rings and to our surprise we found two rings we really adored,ā Roberts says.
Soon after, Roberts found himself seriously considering proposing.
āI sort of woke up one morning and was like, āWow, I really, really, really love Michael and I want to spend my life with him. Thereās no reason for me to not do this. I canāt see one.ā I was so sure of it this one morning. So I said something to his father and realized I wanted to do a flash mob,ā Roberts says.
McBride and Roberts admit they both had always gotten emotional watching flash mob proposals online.
It took Roberts a year of planning with friends and family to pull off the special moment in the bar. On the big day, Roberts asked McBrideās friend to take him out of the neighborhood for dinner while he finished the final preparations including a videographer who set up five cameras in the bar. McBride, who says the couple were also planning a road trip to Key West, Fla., that night with their dog, never expected that day he would get engaged.
Now, the couple has purchased an apartment together in the Bronx. Living and working together can be a challenge but the couple says theyāve been able to figure it out.
First, they recognize the importance of having their own space. Roberts says he first moved into McBrideās studio apartment and when they were looking for their own place together they had one request.
āWe would live in hotels six months of the year and then be in his studio and the only room with a door was either a closet or a bathroom. When we were purchasing the apartment we had to have one room that is not a bathroom, not a closet,ā Roberts says.
Second, they try to make their time off together as much of a vacation as possible.
āOne thing that Sam has taught me, even if we have 12 hours off, to make that 12 hours a mini-vacation of sorts and really delve into being relaxed whenever we can in whatever city weāre in. Thatās one of the things I fell in love with so much and so fast,ā McBride says.
The couple says they take time to visit their families apart. The company now also has rotating single rooms while on tour. Sometimes they will get single rooms so that they can invite each other over for a romantic dinner.
As Valentineās Day approaches, McBride and Roberts say they are big on the holiday. They will be spending it on tour in Atlanta and this time the planning is in McBrideās hands.
āItās sort of been tradition that Michael will plan a day for me. It generally starts with a really wonderful breakfast and then some activities throughout the city,ā Roberts says.
However, the wedding planning is taking more time. They expect to marry in fall 2019, possibly in the Catskill Mountains, but are working on saving money for the ceremony of their dreams.
As always, the couple plans to put their own special twist on the day.
āItās also really fun because so many of the wedding traditions that we all know from throughout time are heterosexual entities. So a wedding can be whatever we want it to be. Thereās no one to say, āWell, it should have been this or that.ā Itās a new frontier,ā McBride says.

A performance of Talley Beattysā āStack-Up,ā one of three works in which partners Michael McBride and Samuel Roberts both perform. (Photo by Paul Kolnik; courtesy Alvin Ailey)
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Tristan Schukraft on keeping queer spaces thriving
New owner of LAās Abbey expands holdings to Fire Island, Mexico

LOS ANGELES ā Like the chatter about Willy Wonka and his Chocolate Factory, the West Hollywood community here started to whisper about the man who was going to be taking over the world-famous Abbey, a landmark in Los Angelesās queer nightlife scene. Rumors were put to rest when it was announced that entrepreneur Tristan Schukraft would be taking over the legacy created by Abbey founder David Cooley. All eyes are on him.
For those of us who were there for the re-opening of The Abbey, when the torch was officially passed, all qualms about the new regime went away as it was clear the club was in good hands and that the spirit behind the Abbey would forge on. Cher, Ricky Martin, Bianca del Rio, Jean Smart, and many other celebrities rubbed shoulders with veteran patrons, and the evening was magical and a throwback to the nightclub atmosphere pre-COVID.
The much-talked-about purchase of the Abbey was just the beginning for Schukraft. It was also announced that this business impresario was set to purchase the commercial district of Fire Island, as well as projects launching in Mexico and Puerto Rico. What was he up to? Tristan sat down with the Blade to chat about it all.
āWeāre at a time right now when the last generation of LGBT entrepreneurs and founders are all in their 60s and theyāre retiring. And if somebody doesnāt come in and buy these places, weāre going to lose our queer spaces.ā
Tristan wasnāt looking for more projects, but he recounts what happened in Puerto Rico. The Atlantic Beach Hotel was the gay destination spot and the place to party on Sundays, facing the gay beach. A new owner came in and made it a straight hotel, effectively taking away a place of fellowship and history for the queer community. Thankfully, the property is gay again, now branded as the Tryst and part of Schukraftās portfolio with locations in Puerto Vallarta and Fire Island.
āIf that happens with the Abbey and West Hollywood, itās like Bloomingdaleās in a mall. Itās kind of like a domino effect. So thatās really what it is all about for me at this point. It has become a passion project, and I think now more than ever, itās really important.ā
Tristan is fortifying spaces for the queer community at a time when the current administration is trying to silence the LGBTQ+ community. The timing is not lost on him.
āI thought my mission was important before, and in the last couple of months, itās become even more important. I donāt know why thereās this effort to erase us from public life, but weāve always been here. Weāre going to continue to be here, and it brings even more energy and motivation for me to make sure the spaces that I have now and even additional venues are protected going in the future.ā
The gay community is not always welcoming to fresh faces and new ideas. Schukraftās takeover of the Abbey and Fire Island has not come without criticism. Who is this man, and how dare he create a monopoly? As Schukraft knows, there will always be mean girls ready to talk. In his eyes, if someone can come in and preserve and advance spaces for the queer community, why would we oppose that?
āI think the community should be really appreciative. We, as a community, now, more than ever, should stand together in solidarity and not pick each other apart.ā
As far as the Abbey is concerned, Schukraft is excited about the changes to come. Being a perfectionist, he wants everything to be aligned, clean, and streamlined. There will be changes made to the DJ and dance booth, making way for a long list of celebrity pop-ups and performances. But his promise to the community is that it will continue to be the place to be, a place for the community to come together, for at least another 33 years.
āWeāre going to build on the Abbeyās rich heritage as not only a place to go at night and party but a place to go in the afternoon and have lunch. Thatās what David Cooley did that no others did before, is he brought the gay bar outside, and I love that.ā
Even with talk of a possible decline in West Hollywoodās nightlife, Schukraft maintains that though the industry may have its challenges, especially since COVID, the Abbey and nightlife will continue to thrive and grow.
āIām really encouraged by all the new ownership in [nightlife] because we need another generation to continue on. Iād be more concerned if everybody was still in their sixties and not letting go.ā
In his opinion, apps like Grindr have not killed nightlife.
āSometimes you like to order out, and sometimes you like to go out, and sometimes you like to order in, right? Thereās nothing that really replaces that real human interaction, and more importantly, as we know, a lot of times our family is our friends, theyāre our adopted family.
Sometimes you meet them online, but you really meet them going out to bars and meeting like-minded people. At the Abbey, every now and then, thereās that person whoās kind of building up that courage to go inside and has no wingman, doesnāt have any gay friends. So itās really important that these spaces are fun, to eat, drink, and party. But theyāre really important for the next generation to find their true identity and their new family.ā
There has also been criticism that West Hollywood has become elitist and not accessible to everyone in the community. Schukraft believes otherwise. West Hollywood is a varied part of queer nightlife as a whole.
āWest Hollywood used to be the only gay neighborhood, and now youāve got Silver Lake and youāve got parts of Downtown, which is really good because L.A., is a huge place. Itās nice to have different neighborhoods, and each offers its own flavor and personality.ā
Staunch in his belief in his many projects, he is not afraid to talk about hot topics in the community, especially as they pertain to the Abbey. As anyone who goes to the Abbey on a busy night can attest to, the crowd is very diverse and inclusive. Some in the community have started to complain that gay bars are no longer for the gay community, but are succumbing to our straight visitors.
Schukraft explains: āWeāre a victim of our own success. I think itās great that we donāt need to hide in the dark shadows or in a hole-in-the-wall gay bar. Iām happy about the acceptance. I started Tryst Hotels, which is the first gay hotel. Weāre not hetero-friendly, weāre not gay-friendly. Weāre a gay hotel and everyone is welcome. I think as long as we donāt change our behavior or the environment in general at the Abbey, and if you want to party with us, the more than merrier.ā
Schukraftās message to the community?
āThese are kind of dangerous times, right? The rights that we fought for are being taken away and are being challenged. Weāre trying to be erased from public life. There could be mean girls, but we, as a community, need to stick together and unite, and make sure those protections and our identity arenāt erased. And even though youāre having a drink at a gay bar, and it seems insignificant, youāre supporting gay businesses and places for the next generation.ā
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Creator Max Mutchnick on inspirations for āMid-Century Modernā
Real-life friendships and loss inform plot of new Hulu show

Itās been a long time ā maybe 25 years when āWill & Graceā debuted ā since thereās been so much excitement about a new, queer sitcom premiering. āMid-Century Modern,ā which debuted on Hulu last week, is the creation of Max Mutchnick and David Kohan, the gay men who were also behind āWill & Grace.ā
Set in Palm Springs, Calif., following the death of the one of their closest friends, three gay men gather to mourn. Swept up in the emotions of the moment, Bunny (Nathan Lane) suggests that Atlanta-based flight attendant Jerry (Matt Bomer) and New York-based fashion editor Arthur (Nathan Lee Graham) move into the mid-century modern home he shares with his mother Sybil (the late Linda Lavin). Over the course of the first seasonās 10 episodes, hilarity ensues. That is, except for the episode in which they address Sybilās passing. The three male leads are all fabulous, and the ensemble cast, including Pamela Adlon as Bunnyās sister Mindy, and the stellar line-up of guest stars, such as Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Vanessa Bayer, Richard Kind, and Cheri Oteri, keep humor buzzing. Shortly before the premiere of āMid-Century Modern,ā Mutchnick made time for an interview with the Blade.
BLADE: Iād like to begin by saying itās always a delight to speak to a fellow Emerson College alum. In ways would you say that Emerson impacted your professional and creative life?
MAX MUTCHNICK: I think Emerson was the first place that reflected back to me that my voice, my thoughts were good, and they were worth listening to. I developed a confidence at Emerson that did not exist in my body and soul. It was a collection of a lot of things that took place in Boston, but I mean we can just put it all under the Emerson umbrella.
BLADE: Before āWill & Grace,ā you co-created the NBC sitcom āBoston Common,ā which starred fellow Emerson alum Anthony Clark. Is it important for you to maintain those kinds of alumni relationships?
MUTCHNICK: Because Emersonians are such scrappy little monkeys and they end up being everywhere in the world, you can’t help but work with someone from Emerson at some point in your career. I’m certainly more inclined to engage with someone from Emerson once I learn that they went to my alma mater. For me, it has much more to do with history and loyalty. I don’t think of myself as one of those guys that says, āLoyalty means a lot to me. I’m someone that really leans into history.ā It’s just what my life and career turned out to be. The longer I worked with people and the more often I worked with them, the safer that I felt, which means that I was more creative and that’s the name of the game. I’ve got to be as comfortable as possible so I can be as creative as possible. If that means that a person from Emerson is in the room, so be it. (Costume designer) Lori Eskowitz would be the Emerson version. And then (writer and actor) Dan Bucatinsky would be another version. When I’m around them for a long time, that’s when the best stuff comes.
BLADE: Relationships are important. On that subject, your new Hulu sitcom āMid-Century Modernā is about the longstanding friendship among three friends, Bunny (Nathan Lane), Jerry (Matt Bomer), and Arthur (Nathan Lee Graham). Do you have a friendship like the one shared by these three men?
MUTCHNICK: Iām absolutely engaged in a real version of what we’re projecting on the show. I have that in my life. I cannot say that I’m Jerry in any way, but the one thing that we do have in common is that in my group, I’m the young one. But I think that that’s very common in these families that we create. There’s usually a young one. Our culture is built on learning from our elders. I didn’t have a father growing up, so maybe that made me that much more inclined to seek out older, wiser, funnier, meaner friends. I mean the reason why you’re looking at a mouthful of straight, white teeth is because one of those old bitches sat across from me about 25 years ago at a diner and said, āGirl, your teeth are a disaster, and you need to get that fixed immediately.ā What did I know? I was just a kid from Chicago with two nickels in my pocket. But I found three nickels and I went and had new teeth put in my head. But that came from one of my dearest in the group.
BLADE: Do you think that calling āMid-Century Modernā a gay āGolden Girlsā is a fair description?
MUTCHNICK: No. I think the gay āGolden Girlsā was really just used as a tool to pitch the show quickly. We have an expression in town, which is āgive me the elevator pitch,ā because nobody has an attention span. The fastest way you can tell someone what David (Kohan) and I wanted to write, was to say, āIt’s gay Golden Girls.ā When you say that to somebody, then they say, āOK, sit down now, tell me more.ā We did that and then we started to dive into the show and realized pretty quickly that it’s not the gay āGolden Girls.ā No disrespect to the āGolden Girls.ā It’s a masterpiece.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā is set in Palm Springs. Iām based in Fort Lauderdale, a few blocks south of Wilton Manors, and I was wondering if that gay enclave was ever in consideration for the setting, or was it always going to be in Palm Springs?
MUTCHNICK: You just asked a really incredible question! Because, during COVID, Matt Bomer and I used to walk, because we live close by. We had a little walking group of a few gay gentlemen. On one of those walks, Matt proposed a comedy set in Wilton Manors. He said it would be great to title the show āWilton Manors.ā I will tell you that in the building blocks of what got us to āMid-Century Modern,ā Wilton Manors, and that suggestion from Matt Bomer on our COVID walks, was part of it.
BLADE: Is Sybil, played by the late Linda Lavin, modeled after a mother you know?
MUTCHNICK: Rhea Kohan (mother of David and Jenji). When we met with Linda for the first time over Zoom, when she was abroad, David and I explained to her that this was all based on Rhea Kohan. In fact, some of the lines that she (Sybil) speaks in the pilot are the words that Jenji Kohan spoke about her mother in her eulogy at the funeral because it really summed up what the character was all about. Yes, itās very much based on someone.
BLADE: The Donny Osmond jokes in the second episode of āMid-Century Modernā reminded me of the Barry Manilow āfanilowsā on āWill & Grace.ā Do you know if Donny is aware that heās featured in the show?
MUTCHNICK: I don’t. To tell you the truth, the āfanilowā episode was written when I was not on the show. I was on a forced hiatus, thanks to Jeff Zucker. That was a show that I was not part of. We don’t really work that way. The Donny Osmond thing came more from Mattās character being a Mormon, and also one of the writers. It’s very important to mention that the writing room at āMid-Century Modern,ā is (made up of) wonderful and diverse and colorful incredible humans ā one of them is an old, white, Irish guy named Don Roos who’s brilliantā¦
BLADE: ā¦he’s Dan Bucatinskyās husband.
MUTCHNICK: Right! Dan is also part of the writing room. But I believe it was Don who had a thing for Donny, and that’s where it comes from. I don’t know if Donny has any awareness. The only thing I care about when we turn in an episode like that is I just want to hear from legal that weāre approved.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā also includes opportunities for the singers in the cast. Linda Lavin sang the Jerome Kern/Ira Gershwin tune āLong Ago (And Far Away)ā and Nathan Lane and the guys sang āHe Had It Comingā from āChicago.ā Was it important to give them the chance to exercise those muscles?
MUTCHNICK: I don’t think it was. I think it really is just the managersā choice. David Kohan and I like that kind of stuff, so we write that kind of stuff. But by no means was there an edict to write that. We know what our cast is capable of, and we will absolutely exploit that if we’re lucky enough to have a second season. I have a funky relationship with the song āLong Ago (And Far Away).ā It doesn’t float my boat, but everybody else loved it. We run a meritocracy, and the best idea will out. Thatās how that song ended up being in the show. I far prefer the recording of Linda singing āIāll Be Seeing Youā over her montage in episode eight, āHereās To You, Mrs. Schneiderman.ā We were just lucky that Linda had recorded that. That recording was something that she had done and sent to somebody during COVID because she was held up in her apartment. That’s what motivated her to make that video and send it. Thatās how we were able to use that audio.
BLADE: Being on a streaming service like Hulu allows for characters to say things they might not get away with on network TV, including a foreskin joke, as well as Sybilās propensity for cursing.
MUTCHNICK: And the third line in the show is about him looking like a āreluctant bottom.ā I don’t think that’s something you’re going to see on ABC anytime soon. David and I liked the opportunity to open up the language of this show because it might possibly open the door to bringing peopleā¦I’m going to mix metaphorsā¦into the tent that have never been there before. A generation that writes off a sitcom because that language and that type of comedy isn’t the way that they sound. One of the gifts of doing this show on Hulu is that we get to write dialogue that sounds a little bit more like you and I sound. As always, we don’t want to do anything just to do it.
BLADE: It didn’t feel that way.
MUTCHNICK: It’s there when it’s right. [Laughs] I want to have a shirt made with Lindaās line, as her mother always used to say, āTime is a cunt.ā
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā also utilizes a lot of Jewish humor. How important is it for you to include that at this time when there is a measurable rise in anti-Semitism?
MUTCHNICK: I think it’s important, but I don’t think it’s the reason why we did it. We tried very hard to not write from a place of teaching or preaching. We really are just writing about the stuff that makes us laugh. One of the things that makes something better and something that you can invest in is if it’s more specific. We’re creating a character whose name is Bunny Schneiderman and his mother’s name is Sybil and they made their money in a family-run business, it gets Jewy, and we’re not going to shy away from it. But we’re definitely not going to address what’s going on in the world. That doesn’t mean I don’t find it very upsetting, but I’m writing always from the point of view of entertaining the largest number of people that I can every week.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā has a fantastic roster of guest stars including Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Vanessa Bayer, Billie Lourd, Cheri Oteri, Richard Kind, Rhea Perlman, and Judd Hirsch. Are there plans to continue that in future seasons?
MUTCHNICK: Yes. As I keep saying, if we’re so lucky that we get to continue, I don’t want to do āThe Love Boat.ā Those are fine comic actors, so I don’t think it feels like that. But if we get to keep going, what I want to do is broaden the world because that gives us more to write about. I want to start to introduce characters that are auxiliary to the individuals. I want to start to meet Arthur’s family, so we can return to people. I want to introduce other neighbors, and different types of gay men because we come in so many different flavors. I think that we should do that only because I’m sure itās what your life is and it’s what my life is. I’ve got a lot of different types. So, yes, we will be doing more.
BLADE: Finally, Linda Lavin passed away in December 2024, and in a later episode, the subject of her character Sybilās passing is handled sensitively, including the humorous parts.
MUTCHNICK: We knew we had a tall order. We suffered an incredible loss in the middle of making this comedy. One of the reasons why I think this show works is because we are surrounded by a lot of really talented people. Jim Burrows and Ryan Murphy, to name two. Ryan played a very big role in telling us that it was important that we address this, that we address it immediately. That we show the world and the show goes on. That wasn’t my instinct because I was so inside the grief of losing a friend, because she really was. It wasn’t like one of those showbizzy-type relationships. And this is who she was, by the way, to everybody at the show. It was the way that we decided to go. Let’s write this now. Let’s not put this at the end of the season. Let’s not satellite her in. Letās not āDarren Stevensā the character, which is something we would never do. The other thing that Jim Burrows made very clear to us was the import of the comedy. You have to write something that starts exactly in the place that these shows start. A set comedy piece that takes place in the kitchen. Because for David and me, as writers, we said we just want to tell the truth. That’s what we want to do with this episode and that’s the way that this will probably go best for us. The way that we’ve dealt with grief in our lives is with humor. That is the way that we framed writing this episode. We wanted it to be a chapter from our lives, and how we experience this loss and how we recover and move on.
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Margaret Cho returns to music with ‘Lucky Gift’
Collection of pop tunes includes tribute to non-binary people

LOS ANGELES ā It has been eight years since Margaret Cho released her Grammy-nominated āAmerican Mythā album. Sheās back to the music scene with her new album, āLucky Gift,ā an 11-track collection of anthems and pop tunes, a tribute to Robin Williams, and a shout-out to non-binary and gender non-conforming people.
The album captures the whirlwind that is Margaret and all of the different facets of her talents that have made her a powerhouse in entertainment and a leader in activism. In āLucky Gift,ā sheās getting her point across while having fun and getting glam.
We caught up with the activist and artist to chat about her music, our political climate, and the power of pop divas.
Known for her comedy, acting, and activism, she felt it was long overdue to get her music back out there too.
“I make music often. It’s a part of my daily life, it’s a big part of my social life, and it’s just something that I just love to do for my own relaxation and fun. I had enough for an album and I wanted to finally put them out. I was just really proud of how it all sounded together,” shares Cho.
“It’s a power pop record. For me, the songs are really meaningful. They’re all in their own way love songs. I’m a big fan of my own music (laughs), I really like the way that I sound and it’s really special to do. People know me as a comedian, and I have also made music for a long time, but it’s sort of a side project, and so it was time to put more out again.”
Her album also includes a touching tribute to Robin Williams. The entertainment community is finally more comfortable talking about mental health more openly. When relating mental health to her own life, Margaret, in true Margaret form, quickly turned the conversation to reflect todayās political climate.
“I have to maintain a level of peace and quiet and sometimes maybe get away from the news, although that’s tough because I am obsessed. I want to know what is happening. I’m really worried for our community, especially the trans community. I’m worried that this administration is trying to separate T and the Q from the LGBTQIA, and it’s really frightening.”
As an elder, Cho says she has to also remember that we’ve been through this before and it’s actually been much worse. As a community, we’ve been through a similar situation, and we were facing down a pandemic, which was killing us by the millions. So at least now we don’t have to fight AIDS as well as this onslaught of homophobia.
“We have fought for our rights, and we still have them, but we may not have them for long. So our mental health is very important to preserve now because we have to fight. The one thing to remember is they can’t do everything at once. They can’t take away trans rights, queer rights, gay rights, gay marriage, anti-depressants āha ā at the same time. So what we can do is just try to remain as calm as possible and fight as strongly as we can. But yeah, mental health is really vitally important right now.”
Margaretās long history of queer activism stands for itself. She does not shy away from current issues, she uses her platforms to incite, educate, and question. For Margaret, there is no time off from being an activist. She was born into it, so to speak, being raised in San Francisco in the 1970s, her parents ā the owners of a gay bookstore ā and their employees followers of Harvey Milk.
“My activism is that I don’t have a choice. I’m going to be an activist no matter what. We’re doing this together, we’re going through this together. I will always be political. It’s just disheartening to see the ignorance of people and the lies that are being told that are believed.”
Margaretās āLucky Giftā comes at a perfect time when the queer community can come together over music. Cho looks at her album as a tool to empower an underdog community through the power of music.
“It’s the triumph of pop above all. We need to look to our pop divas above all. So now I’m more than ever, leaning on Madonna. [Thank God for Lady Gagaās] āAbracadabraā because I think that things like that boost our community so much. When you can just get together and have a ābrat summer,ā that boosts our community so much in this togetherness, this explosion of excitement. I think Chappell Roan really ignited the pop capacity for healing. I love āLucky Giftā because it is my stepping into a pop diva moment. Pop divas should not be discounted for how important they are to our society and how much they lift us up.”
In addition to releasing her new album, Cho will continue to hit the road this year with her āLive and LIVID! Tour,ā celebrating more than four decades of live stand-up shows. On this tour, she promises to rage about homophobia, sexism, racism, and the fight to stay alive. The five-time Grammy and Emmy-nominated performer is not holding back. According to her, the nation is not divided, just a little lost.
āWe’re not divided. Everybody hates this. We all hate this. The fact is, the majority of the country does not want this. Unfortunately, a lot of people just didn’t vote because they just didn’t want to participate. Thatās why we’re in the situation that we’re in. So to be on the road is a pleasure. And I rarely come against opposition. Every once in a while there’s something, but it’s something that we all handle. I think we all need a voice, a strong voice of reason to combat all of the hysteria.ā
And her message to her fans?
āWe’ll get through this. We’ll get through this with pop divas. āAbracadabra,ā learn the choreography, you do it sitting down. At least we have pop music, I have my hat in the ring here. But at least we have each other and we’re going to be OK. It’s going to be a ride, it’s going to be intense, but we can do this. We’ve been through this before and we are going to be fine.ā
āLucky Giftāis now available on all major streaming platforms.
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