Connect with us

a&e features

Best of Gay D.C. 2020

Celebrating our resilience in a year like no other

Published

on

The 19th annual Washington Blade Best Of awards arrive amid the ongoing coronavirus pandemic that has shuttered so many of our perennial winners in this competition. Theater productions, cinemas, popular fundraising events remain shuttered; bars and restaurants operate at reduced capacity and struggle to remain afloat. COVID has upended our world in unprecedented ways. Just a year ago, the Blade was preparing to celebrate its 50th anniversary with a gala party. Now such events are just a distant memory in the age of social distancing.

But amid the loss and heartbreak, there emerge stories of hope, heroism, and resilience. First responders, doctors, nurses and even grocery store clerks have stepped up and become heroes in 2020. Business owners got creative, moving to virtual operations, creating new products (face masks, hand sanitizer), and taking their business outside (restaurants, bars). Drag queens performed on Zoom and fitness instructors did the same. We adapted. The LGBTQ community has been through a pandemic before.

So here we celebrate the best of our LGBTQ community in Washington. We reduced our usual 100 categories to 40 given all the COVID closures and restrictions on nightlife and arts & entertainment events. About 4,000 nominations and 25,000 votes were cast in 40 categories for the 19th annual Best of awards. The Bladeā€™s Stephen Rutgers coordinated the process. The photographers are credited throughout. This yearā€™s contributing writers are Philip Van Slooten, Joey DiGuglielmo, and Kevin Naff. There will be no Best Of party this year, of course, but we will celebrate all the winners and nominees virtually in an online presentation at our website. We look forward to a raucous in-person celebration in 2021.

LOCAL HERO: RYAN MADDOCK

RUNNER UP: RUBY CORADO

Ryan Maddock, gay news, Washington Blade
Ryan Maddock (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

In his first clinical role at Childrenā€™s National Hospital, Ryan Maddock worked with kids with chronic kidney disease. In his current role in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit, heā€™s discussed organ donation with parents whose children are at deathā€™s door.

So when Maddock saw his friend Paul Johnson, whom he met in 2011 through Stonewall Kickball, struggling with kidney disease, he wanted to help.

Johnson, whom Maddock says often looked ā€œawful and sick,ā€ initially didnā€™t think Maddock was serious, but Maddock persisted.

He says giving the ā€œgift of lifeā€ was not a hard decision.

ā€œI understood the process,ā€ Maddock, a 39-year-old gay Eckington resident, says. ā€œI believe in it with all my being and heart.ā€

Johnson doesnā€™t have Maddockā€™s kidney but his willingness to donate enabled Johnson to find a donor whom doctors thought would be a better match. A positive cross match between Maddock and Johnson meant Johnsonā€™s body was more likely to reject Maddockā€™s kidney, so a pairing program was entered at Medstar Georgetown and transplant coordinators worked to find the best donor/recipient for each pair. Maddock doesnā€™t know who ended up with his kidney but he hopes to someday.

Without Maddockā€™s willingness do donate, it could have been years before Johnson would have been able to find a match, Maddock says.

ā€œAt first he thought I was crazy and not serious. After we were both through the evaluation process we understood each other and have a trust and love for each other,ā€ Maddock says. ā€œHe tells me all the time how thankful he is, but I am truly grateful to be able to give him this life off of dialysis.ā€

The surgeries happened July 14 at Medstar Georgetown. Maddock has five laparoscopic scars and one longer scar (two-and-a-half inches) on his abdomen. He says it was not traumatic and he has no after effects. His only limitation because of the donation is he cannot take certain types of anti-inflammatory drugs like Ibuprofin.

Although they donā€™t hang out as before because of the pandemic, Maddock says he and Johnson talk regularly and are both doing well. Maddock is back to work.

ā€œI donā€™t have anyone else in my family with kidney disease and I knew that Paulā€™s life on dialysis was awful and he deserved a second chance at life off of dialysis,ā€ Maddock says. JD

Paul Johnson and Ryan Maddock

BEST DRAG QUEEN: DESIREE DIK

RUNNER UP: BOMBALICIOUS EKLAVER

Desiree Dik (Photo by Katherine Gaines/AmbientEye Photography)

Desire Dik says when the pandemic first hit she was ā€œfreaking out like every other drag performerā€ about the loss of performance and income opportunity.

ā€œBut after I shook it off, Red Bear still wanted to do virtual drag bingo and Extravaganza so we kept doing those ā€” safely, of course,ā€ Dik says.

With her ā€œday jobā€ in teaching on hold, Dik was inspired by seeing drag performers around the country take their art online so she did the same. For now, Desiree Dikā€™s Oddbalel and Slash Run are virtual. She got in touch with Oddball vets and have kept it going.

For her tenacity, Dik has been named this yearā€™s Best of Gay D.C. Best Drag Queen, a title previously held by legends such as Baā€™Naka, Bombalicious Eklaver and Destiny B. Childs.

Sheā€™s working now on a Halloween show. Extravaganza is on hiatus for now but in its place is ā€œDrag-liveryā€ where drag queens pack takeout food for delivery. They go to homes and put on mini-drag shows while patrons eat their takeout.

George Marius was born in Falls Church, Va., but sent to Peru at 6 months old to be raised by his sister. He lived there until age 10, went back to live with parents in Falls Church and was kicked out at age 16 for being gay.

He got into drag on his 17th birthday at Freddieā€™s Beach Bar and said it just ā€œmade sense because I was a gay theater kid.ā€ He tried it again a year later at a Town competition and was hooked.

ā€œItā€™s been very crazy but at the end of the day, drag is what I love to do and see in others,ā€ Dik says. ā€œIt just brings me joy.ā€ JD

BEST DRAG KING: MAJIC DYKE

RUNNER UP: JACKSON B NITE

Majic Dyke (Photo via Facebook)

Majic Dyke, a Nairobi native who came to the U.S. with their family at age 10, says a lifetime of confusion about their gender identity clicked into focus in 2017 when they started performing as a drag king and got ā€œfully integratedā€ with the LGBT scene in Washington.

ā€œThis is when things truly fell into place in my life,ā€ Majic wrote in a blog post on uniteuk1.com. ā€œI finally had the vocabulary that affirmed what I had always felt, and I finally had people around me that loved and accepted me in all my forms.ā€

Majic identifies as non-binary and pansexual and says all pronouns are OK.
Other monikers they favor are ā€œgenderqueer,ā€ ā€œdrag king,ā€ ā€œgo-go dancer,ā€ ā€œyour friendly neighborhood gay boiā€ and ā€œ#beardsandtitties.ā€

In a Facebook post during the nomination process, Majic campaigned openly for the award and said they were ā€œhappy as fuck to be nominated alongside my sibs.ā€

Look for Majic on social media to find out more about performances. JD

BEST TRANSGENDER PERFORMER: INDIA LARELLE HOUSTON

RUNNER UP: DYLAN DICKHERSON

India Larelle Houston (Photo courtesy of Houston)

India Larelle Houston has been performing since 2005, which is her full-time work.

ā€œI got into the art form because I had a love for the performing arts and I found a way to express myself through drag,ā€ Houston says.

Sheā€™s a cast member at Chanellieā€™s Drag Brunch on Saturdays and a cast member at Perryā€™s on Sundays. She also performs at Red Bear Brewing Company and other venues in Washington and beyond.

Like everyone, sheā€™s been ā€œgreatly affectedā€ by COVID-19 as both her drag brunches are on hiatus until Washington moves into phase three reopening. Several other venues have either closed or are not offering live entertainment. By now, her Sunday brunch is happening virtually. She had savings, which has helped stay afloat.

Houston did not campaign for this award but says, ā€œIt feels absolutely wonderful to be loved and appreciated for what I do.ā€

ā€œIt is a great honor to be chosen Best of Gay D.C.,ā€ she says. ā€œThe gods must have had a plan for me.ā€ JD

BEST VIRTUAL A&E EVENT: PRIDE IN THE CITY, CAPITAL PRIDE

EDITOR’S CHOICE: TIE: Shaw’s Tavern Virtual Drag Bingo! & Desiree Dikā€™s: Oddball Virus

A scene from ‘Pride in the City.’ (Screen capture via YouTube)

Pride in the City is a new web series that will introduce online viewers to some of Capital Pride staffā€™s ā€œfavorite people and placesā€ in Washington.

ā€œFrom bars and restaurants to cultural treasures and small businesses to local heroes who make our community proud,ā€ Ryan Bos, Capital Pride executive director, said in an e-mail. ā€œAlong the way weā€™ll offer insider perspectives and the opportunity for viewers to participate in a variety of ways.ā€

Two have been held so far: #stillweentertain on June 28 and #stillwelaugh on Aug. 9 and are available for viewing on YouTube. A third installment will be announced after the Out Brigade (a Pride motorcade through the District) on Oct. 10. One is planned before yearā€™s end.

Find out more at capitalpride.org/pride-in-the-city. JD

BEST OUTDOOR DRINKING: TRADE

EDITORS’ CHOICE: DACHA BEER GARDEN

Trade (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)

Trade (1410 14th St., N.W.) opened in 2015 and quickly established itself as one of the cityā€™s most popular newer gay bars.

Like everyone else, the Trade team has had a long, slow haul back to some semblance of normalcy after moving to takeout only on March 15 (digital content was created by local performance artists), opening for limited outdoor service on May 29 and limited indoor service on June 22. Although some job descriptions ā€œevolvedā€ due to COVID, no staff was laid off, says Aaron Riggins, marketing and programming manager (he also bartends and manages shifts).

Because of capacity restrictions, business is not what it was pre-pandemic but its outdoor space has been in high demand. Reservations are recommended but walk-up tables are sometimes available.

Titoā€™s and Soda is the most popular drink. On tap, Bud Light and Stella are the most popular. Town is owned by John Guggenmos, Ed Bailey and Chachi Boyle, the team behind the now-closed Town Danceboutique.

In 2018, Trade won Best ABSOLUT Happy Hour and Best Neighborhood Bar in 2017.

Trade is popular, Riggins says, because itā€™s ā€œall about family.ā€

ā€œIt’s humbling how supportive and loyal our patrons, staff and performance artists have been,ā€ he says. ā€œThe health and well-being of our family is very important to us and we are taking the social distancing measures very seriously. We are also incredibly lucky to have an immensely talented creative family that has been helping us produce digital content while we can’t have onsite entertainment. Look out for more of the efforts as we get closer to Halloween.ā€ JD

Trade

1410 14th St. N.W.

tradebardc.com

BEST CARRYOUT: DUPLEX DINER

EDITORS’ CHOICE: LE DIPLOMATE

Duplex Diner (Washington Blade photo by Michael K. Lavers)

Early on in the pandemic when dining inside was unheard of, Duplex Diner (2004 18th St., N.W.) got creative with takeout and curbside service.

Resident drag queen Goldie Grigio worked the window and customers paid online in advance.

The diner is known for its no-nonsense menu that features everything from broccolIni salad, meatloaf, reuben and chicken tenders to tasty cocktails like the Famous Lemon Squeeze.

Owners Mark Hunker and Jeff McCracken had been regulars there since the late ā€˜90s and took over the Adams Morgan favorite in 2015.

Manager Kelly Laczko, whoā€™s been at the diner for eight years, keeps things running smoothly.

ā€œThings have been surprisingly good,ā€ Laczko said in a Blade interview earlier this year. ā€œWeā€™ve had so much love from the community and people have been amazing. Weā€™ve gotten a lot of support so far. We are very lucky.ā€ JD

Duplex Diner

2004 18th St., N.W.

duplexdiner.com

BEST COFFEESHOP: THREEFIFTY BAKERY AND COFFEE BAR

EDITORS’ CHOICE: COFFY CAFE

(Photo via Facebook)

Business is almost back to pre-COVID levels at gay-owned ThreeFifty Bakery but owner Jimmy Hopper and his partner Michael Graham are concerned about the coming winter months.

ā€œThings have been challenging during COVID,ā€ Graham says. ā€œHowever, we worked early to develop the safest possible customer experience by utilizing the patio space for single customer ordering. We have also been extremely fortunate to have the full support of the neighborhood. ā€¦ We are concerned about the fall and winter months with indoor spacing limitations.ā€

Three Fifty, which opened in 2014, has 14 employees and says its customer base is about 30 percent LGBTQ. The most popular drink is a caramel latte and the most popular pastry is a tie between the quiche and apple zucchini bread.

ā€œIt feels really great to win this honor and we are so proud to be an LGBT-owned business and to have the continued support from the neighborhood, LGBT community and the District,ā€ Graham says.

Three Fifty also won Best LGBT-owned Business in the Blade poll in 2017. This win is monumental ā€” Three Fifty dethrones Compass Coffee, which had four consecutive wins in this category through 2019.

ThreeFifty Bakery and Coffee Bar

1926 17th St. N.W.

BEST COVID QUARANTINE PROMOTION OR EVENT: GAY MENā€™S CHORUS OF WASHINGTON, DC ā€œSUMMER SOIREEā€ WITH LESLIE JORDAN

EDITOR’S CHOICE: TAGGā€™S QUEERANTINECON

Leslie Jordan, gay news, Washington Blade
Leslie Jordan (Photo courtesy Jordan)

The Gay Menā€™s Chorus of Washington wasnā€™t able to have its annual Spring Affair this year because of COVID, so instead, organizers held a Summer Soiree Aug. 15, which went off without any glitches or technical issues, had 679 registered attendees and raised about $125,000 for the organization and now wins this Blade readersā€™ poll award. Not bad!

The Chorus performed virtually and performed bits; Leslie Jordan was the celebrity guest.

The Chorusā€™s next event is ā€œLosing My Mind: a Celebration of Sondheim,ā€ a virtual cabaret on Oct. 17 at 7 p.m. This yearā€™s holiday show is also online.

The Chorus and its ensembles are rehearsing entirely via Zoom. JD

BEST RESTAURANT: LOGAN TAVERN

EDITORS’ CHOICE: INN AT LITTLE WASHINGTON

Logan Tavern (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Perhaps in these uncertain times, we donā€™t want something fancy and boundary pushing. Logan Tavernā€™s win here and its unpretentious charm ā€” upscale but never snooty ā€” seems to suit our 2020 sensibilities.

Logan Tavern is owned and operated by EatWell DC and combines friendly prices with a hip, laid-back atmosphere. Logan is a great go-to place for delicious, un-fussy food. Itā€™s a place where you recognize the ingredients, the flavors and the dishes you are being served. The drinks are affordable and the service is excellent with friendly and accommodating staff. 

Itā€™s mostly hearty American fare. Dinner entrees like boneless southern fried chicken, crispy skin-on rockfish, crab-stuffed chile relleno and lemon ricotta gnocchi are popular staples.

Logan won Best Bloody Mary in these awards in 2018 and Best Date Restaurant in 2012. (JD)

Logan Tavern

1423 P St., N.W.

logantavern.com

BEST LOCAL WEBSITE/BLOG: BRIGHTEST YOUNG THINGS

EDITORS’ CHOICE: FEED THE MALIK

(Photo by Ike Hayman; courtesy Brightest Young Things)

Brightest Young Things was hit ā€œincredibly hardā€ by COVID-19, says co-founder Svetlana Legetic, a straight ally. It required ā€œa complete re-do of how we do things and earn our living,ā€ she says.

ā€œThere was absolutely no plan B such as relying on investors or fairy godparents,ā€ she says.

BYT bills itself as an editorial and event platform for Washington, New York and Chicago. As the world has shifted to virtual events, at least for large gatherings, BYT has pivoted offering content such as ā€œTips for Sober October,ā€ ā€œLet Our Very Own Prya Konings Be Your World Vegetarian Day Sage,ā€ ā€œItā€™s OK You Are Not OKā€ and more at brightestyoungthings.com.

ā€œObviously there are no physical events or festivals, but we have seen our online engagement rise exponentially and the virtual projects we have worked on whether independently or with partners like Smithsonian ā€¦ confirmed to us that the community needs that positive, quality content because it makes them feel connected to each other, even when apart, and we can’t underestimate the value of that,ā€ Legetic says.

Pre-COVID there were 12 full-time staffers; there are now four and a team of freelance contributors. While not exclusively queer, BYT was conceived as being LGBT-inclusive from its inception. JD

brightestyoungthings.com

BEST SALON/SPA: LOGAN 14

EDITORS’ CHOICE: VSL HAIR DESIGN

Logan 14th (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Temperatures are taken for anyone who comes in the building, payments are totally cashless, work stations have been spread out and sanitation continues at a high level. These are just some of the changes that have allowed Logan 14 Aveda Salon & Spa to stay open amid the pandemic.

ā€œWhat hasnā€™t changed is what we do,ā€ says Katie Rose, general manager, who has been at the salon, which has 41 staffers, for five years. ā€œWe service our guests and make people look and feel better about themselves.ā€

The salon was closed from March 16-June 10 and upon reopening offered free services to health care workers nominated by customers and staff.

Rose says business is not up to pre-pandemic levels and a few staff members were laid off but she says slowly things are getting busier. She says their customers, about 75 percent of whom are LGBT she guesses, have ā€œbeen amazing.ā€

ā€œItā€™s been heartwarming to see the outpouring of love from our guests and how glad they are to come back in,ā€ Rose says.

This is Logan 14ā€™s fifth consecutive win in this category, which Rose says ā€œmeans the world to us.ā€ JD

Logan 14 Aveda Salon & Spa

1314 14th St., N.W.

logan14salonspa.com

BEST LOCAL TV/RADIO PERSONALITY: CHUCK BELL & WENDY RIEGER, NBC 4 (TIE)

RUNNER-UP: LARRY MILLER, WUSA9

Chuck Bell and Wendy Rieger (Washington Blade photo of Bell by Jonathan Ellis; Blade photo of Rieger by Michael Key)

Good oleā€™ Chuck Bell, meteorologist at NBC4 since October 2004. He was runner-up last year (and also in 2015, 2016 and 2018). He also won this award in 2014 and 2012.

ā€œItā€™s very flattering,ā€ he said of a previous win. ā€œIā€™m pleasantly surprised that people are taking note.ā€

Heā€™s joined this year by his NBC4 colleague Wendy Rieger, the 2015 winner.

Rieger stumbled upon broadcast journalism when she was a college drop-out looking to make money as an actress. She found a job reading the news on camera in Norfolk, Va., and fell in love with the business.

Bell is gay; Rieger is an ally. JD

BEST ABSOLUT TO-GO COCKTAILS: NELLIE’S SPORTS BAR

EDITORS’ CHOICE: Annie’s Paramount Steakhouse

Nellie’s Sports Bar (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)

Nellieā€™s huge outdoor rooftop space has poised it well to survive COVID and this D.C. institution soldiers on.

ā€œThings are good,ā€ says owner Doug Schantz. ā€œWeā€™re missing the old normal like everybody else but things are better than expected.ā€

Nellieā€™s is following all the D.C. restrictions under phase 2 reopening and is following all the usual guidelines but has moved its ā€œstreeteryā€ seating to its rooftop. A bus stop on U Street and limited space on 9th meant the rooftop was its best option. The two open areas and eight huge windows that allow ample air circulation have allowed the popular gay sports bar to stay busy and follow guidelines.

But itā€™s still a struggle. Schantz says 50 percent capacity figures were estimated by standing patrons so with seating, itā€™s more like 20 percent to remain compliant, but that, of course, is the new normal. There are currently 15 on staff, down from 40 pre-COVID.

To-go cocktails ā€” illegal pre-COVID ā€” have proven enormously popular. Pouches are decorated with two labels ā€” one says, ā€œDrink your juice, Shelbyā€ and features flavors; the other is a parody of the Campbellā€™s soup can but says Nellieā€™s Soup instead. Other cocktails, wine or beer can be purchased in 14 oz. recyclable cups with lids. One food item (a cookie, tater tots, whatever) must be purchased with each to go alcoholic beverage. All the cups, lids and straws are recyclable.

Schantz says his clientele has stayed faithful and many come weekly. Weekend drag brunches are on hiatus. The huge site, which opened in 2007, has 37 TVs so itā€™s a great place to watch the debates, Schantz says.

Nellieā€™s is a perennial favorite in the Best of Gay D.C. Awards. It usually wins something every year. Last year it won Best Drag Show for its brunch, in 2018 it won Best Margarita and in 2016 it won Hottest Bar Staff. JD

Nellie’s Sports Bar

900 U St., N.W.

nelliessportsbar.com

BEST OUTDOOR DINING: ANNIEā€™S PARAMOUNT STEAKHOUSE

EDITORS’ CHOICE: RED BEAR BREWING CO.

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Annieā€™s Paramount Steakhouse, a Washington institution since 1948, is now open for both dine-in and carry out and thanks to its outdoor patio, it has won Best Outdoor Dining, a new category for this yearā€™s Best of Gay D.C. Awards.

In early 2019, Annieā€™s received the James Beard Foundationā€™s Americaā€™s Classic Award, which honors restaurants with ā€œtimeless appealā€ and that serve ā€œquality food that reflects the character of their communities.ā€ Annieā€™s was only the third D.C. restaurant to earn that distinction.

George Katinas and his family opened Paramount Steakhouse in 1948. Katinas hired his sister Anne ā€œAnnieā€ Katinas Kaylor, to work the bar. Her popularity led to the restaurant changing its name to Annieā€™s Paramount Steakhouse. She died in 2013.

In the early years of these awards, Anneā€™s was a perennial favorite winning Best Overall Restaurant (2001, 2002), Tried & True (2003, 2004, 2005, 2006), Best Late Night (2004, 2006, 2007, 2008, 2012), Best Brunch (2005) and Best Steakhouse (2007, 2008). Kaylor was named Local Hero Female in 2001.

The menu is hearty American food with an array of burgers, sandwiches, soups and salads available for lunch. House specials like ā€œBull in the Panā€ (sirloin tips), basil-pine nut pesto pasta and pot roast are staples of the dinner menu. JD

Annie’s Paramount Steakhouse

1609 17th St., N.W.

anniesparamountdc.com

BEST STRAIGHT ALLY: PAMALA STANLEY

RUNNER-UP: REP. ALEXANDRIA OCASIO-CORTEZ

It was a busy year for singer Pamala Stanley, the ā€˜80s disco star who has enjoyed a long and wildly popular residency in Rehoboth Beach, Del. In January, she announced plans to move her show from the Blue Moon to The Pines. Then the pandemic hit. Immediately, Stanley pivoted, staging virtual shows from home. Then she took the show to The Pines stage with a virtual audience of hundreds watching from the safety of home while Stanley danced and sang her heart out, taking requests online. She used the shows as fundraisers for Beebe Medical Foundation. Owners of The Pines announced Stanleyā€™s first concert on April 26 was so successful that she would perform a virtual tea dance to benefit Beebe every Saturday until The Pines was allowed to reopen.

At that first benefit, Stanley dedicated one of her biggest hits, ā€œComing Out of Hiding,ā€ to all her fans who were getting restless after weeks in quarantine: ā€œThis is for everybody,ā€ she said, ā€œbecause we have been in hiding for way too long, donā€™t you agree?ā€

The four-week virtual fundraisers with Stanley, Mona Lotts, and Michael Solonski brought in $19,000 for Beebe Medical Foundation to help cover expenses incurred because of the pandemic.

Stanley has since resumed regular shows at The Pines, Thursday-Sunday nights while observing social distancing protocols in the large Pines venue. JD

Pamala Stanley (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

BEST PRO ATHLETE: NATASHA CLOUD, WASHINGTON MYSTICS

RUNNER-UP: SEAN DOOLITTLE, WASHINGTON NATIONALS

Natasha Cloud (Photo by Ned Dishman/NBAE; courtesy Washington Mystics)

Last year, Washington Mystics guard Natasha Cloud helped her team win its first WNBA championship. Sheā€™s also a vocal and public supporter for causes she believes in like ending gun violence and supporting the Black Lives Matter Movement.

ā€œJuneteenth is a day of celebration,ā€ Cloud said during a Wizards and Mystics peaceful protest against racial injustice and police brutality. ā€œItā€™s a day of liberation. Itā€™s a day that we were finally freed from our bondage. We couldnā€™t think of a better day than today to come out here and come together, collectively and unified in solidarity with one another for a greater cause.ā€

Though Cloud announced in June that she would sit out the 2020 season due to her concerns about systemic racism and the ongoing pandemic, voters recognized her excellence both on and off the court with a ā€œBest Pro Athleteā€ award. PVS

In 2014, Bishop Allyson Abrams resigned as pastor of a small Detroit church after announcing that she had married her wife in Iowa. One year later, a Supreme Court ruling would legalize same-sex marriage in the U.S., but at the time she may have felt like she was risking everything to be with the woman she loved. She set up her ministry in the D.C. area and has remained a symbol of strength and courage ever since.

ā€œPeople say itā€™s amazing to hear a pastor say that God loves us the way we are,ā€ Abrams told the Blade back in 2014. ā€œIā€™m always going to make sure God knows them.ā€

This year Allysonā€™s community supported her with a ā€œBest Clergyā€ award. PVS

BEST D.C. PUBLIC OFFICIAL: MAYOR MURIEL BOWSER

RUNNER-UP: U.S. REP. ELEANOR HOLMES NORTON (D-D.C.)

budget cuts, gay news, Washington Blade
Mayor Muriel Bowser (Photo by Lorie Shaull via Flickr)

In 2017, Mayor Bowser wore a bright yellow dress and a big smile while accepting her award for ā€œBest D.C. Public Officialā€ at the Bladeā€™s Best of Gay D.C. awards. Times have changed, particularly this year, marking her fifth in office.

Bowser assumed office as mayor in 2015 after previously representing Ward 4 on the D.C. City Council since 2007. A native of the region, she is the Districtā€™s second female mayor.

This year, Bowser helmed the District through a deadly pandemic, its devastating economic fall out and desperate calls for racial justice. A long-time supporter of D.C.ā€™s LGBTQ community, Bowser tweeted on June 15 in response to the Supreme Courtā€™s landmark ruling protecting LGBTQ employees against workplace discrimination, ā€œThereā€™s more work to be done, but today we celebrate equality. Happy pride & keep fighting.ā€

Today her smile represents the Districtā€™s resilience and her bright yellow paint sent a message of solidarity seen around the world. PVS

BEST NON-PROFIT: SMYAL

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: CENTER FOR BLACK EQUITY

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

SMYAL has been working with LGBTQ youth for more than 35 years and its empowered leaders have been staffing tables and community organizing at events across the city.

This non-profit, now known for its after-school programs, youth counseling services, and educational and training programs for youth service providers working in schools, shelters, government agencies and hospitals, began in 1984 by local professionals and activists.

According to its website, SMYAL started with a conference organized to address urgent youth issues after an LGBTQ-identifying youth was hospitalized. Today SMYAL is a leader in providing support services and advocacy to youth in need of affirming care.

During an especially hard year for LGBTQ youth who often look to Pride as a means to connect with others and themselves, the community recognized SMYAL as the yearā€™s ā€œBest Non-profitā€ for its efforts to maintain a sense of connection for our youth. PVS

MOST COMMITTED ACTIVIST: SULTAN SHAKIR

RUNNER-UP: RAYCEEN PENDARVIS

fall LGBT virtual events, Washington Blade
Sultan Shakir (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

Since taking the helm of SMYAL in 2014, Executive Director Sultan Shakir has been a tireless staple on social and traditional media outlets advocating for LGBTQ youth. However, during this summer of social unrest, Shakir used his platform to call for systemic change.

ā€œSMYAL condemns the excessive use of force employed by the police towards peaceful protesters in Washington, D.C. and across the country, and we stand with the Black Lives Matter movement,ā€ he wrote in a statement tweeted June 9 by SMYAL. ā€œOur hope is that by doubling down on our mission to empower young people, we will help create a society where Black people donā€™t have to ask for solidarity just to stay alive, a society in which our lives matter.ā€

Shakirā€™s dedication was celebrated by the community this year with Gay D.C.ā€™s ā€œMost Committed Activistā€ recognition for 2020. PVS

BEST CLERGY: BISHOP ALLYSON ABRAMS

RUNNER-UP: REV. DWAYNE JOHNSON

Bishop Allyson Abrams (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

BEST LGBTQ SOCIAL GROUP: IMPERIAL COURT OF WASHINGTON, D.C.

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: IMPULSE DC

Imperial Court of Washington (Washington Blade photo by Vladyslav Rekhovskyy)

In June, ā€œQueen of the Capital,ā€ an independent documentary film about D.C. drag artist Daniel Haysā€™ quest as Muffy Blake Stephyns to be voted Empress of the Imperial Court of Washington in 2014, premiered at the Newseum and began the festival circuit.

Today the Imperial Court of Washington D.C., is one of many LGBTQ-affirming social groups across the country and in 2011 it joined the International Imperial Court System, which began in San Francisco in 1965.

This year, the community honored the Imperial Court of Washington D.C. with a ā€œBest LGBTQ Social Groupā€ award. PVS

Imperial Court of Washington D.C.

P.O. Box 2616

Washington, DC 20013

imperialcourtdc.org

BEST LOCAL TV/RADIO STATION: HOT 99.5

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: WTOP 103.5

HOT 99.5 at the Capital Pride Festival (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

This top D.C. radio station not only keeps the District current on the latest hits, its Facebook page covers the gamut from celebrity break ups, weddings and pregnancies to strangely interesting stories of Instagram influencers caught using fake private jets as sets for photo shoots.

During a time when everyone needed to just shut out the world and go 2015 again, Hot 99.5 earned another top spot from voters as the ā€œBest Local TV/Radio Station.ā€ PVS

BEST BUSINESSPERSON: BRYAN VAN DEN OEVER, RED BEAR BREWING

RUNNER-UP: EBONE BELL, TAGG MAGAZINE

Holiday Bear Bust, gay news, Washington Blade
(Photo courtesy RBB)

Back in April, when pandemic lockdowns and unemployment levels were at their worst, Red Bear Brewingā€™s Bryan Van Den Oever told the Blade, ā€œWeā€™ll see what happens when the dust settles. Weā€™ll fight like hell until then.ā€

Throughout the crisis, Red Bear and other popular local LGBTQ businesses like Pitchers, A League of Her Own, JR.ā€™s, Green Lantern and others continued to fight to be a vital connection to their staff and the community, both virtually and now on a limited in-person basis.

This year the community showed its appreciation for a continued dedication to beer, music and drag with a ā€œBest Businesspersonā€ award to Van Den Oever and the rest of Red Bearā€™s feisty, tenacious team for not just surviving the pandemic, but innovating and thriving, inspiring the rest of the small business community in the process. PVS

Red Bear Brewing Company

209 M St., N.E.

redbear.beer

BEST LGBTQ-OWNED BUSINESS: TRADE & NUMBER NINE

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: BITE THE FRUIT

Number Nine (Photo by Daniel Truitt)

D.C.ā€™s popular LGBTQ-friendly night spots are an important part of the community, so TRADE tweeted on Sept. 24, ā€œWinter is comingā€¦and weā€™ll be readyā€ followed by a promise to provide heaters and socially distanced comfort amid an ongoing pandemic crisis.

TRADE opened for business in 2015 and at the time co-owner John Guggenmos, also co-owner of Number Nine, planned for a new bar that included a dance floor and live DJs. Five years later TRADE, like other small businesses devastated by the pandemic, relies heavily on the community to keep its doors open.

Similarly, Number Nine updated its website to thank the community for its support during the pandemic. ā€œWe wouldnā€™t be able to get through this without the support of our amazing patrons and staff. So, thank you.ā€ PVS

TRADE

1410 14th St., N.W.

Tradebardc.com

NUMBER NINE

1435 P. St., N.W.

numberninedc.com

BEST VIRTUAL FITNESS CLASSES: VIDA

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: JASON LONG FITNESS

VIDA Virtual (Photo courtesy of VIDA)

Vida is no stranger to winning this category, and staying afloat while innovating during the pandemic brought unforeseen challenges to this popular, perennial winner. They rose to that challenge, taking their award-winning fitness classes online and continuing to deliver results for clients. JD

Multiple D.C. locations

vidafitness.com

BEST MEDICAL PROVIDER: DR. ROBYN ZEIGER

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: WHITMAN-WALKER HEALTH

Dr. Robyn Zeiger (Photo by Red Leash Photography)

Dr. Robyn Zeiger has won this award several times for her work as a licensed clinical professional counselor.

ā€œYou walk into a therapistā€™s office and you know they are also LGBT so you donā€™t have to explain anything,ā€ she told the Blade upon winning this award in 2017. You donā€™t have to teach them. You can just be yourself and you donā€™t have to justify anything.ā€

In addition to counseling, Zeiger has worked as an adjunct senior lecturer at University of Maryland. JD

Dr. Robyn Zeiger

drrobynzeiger.com

BEST VETERINARIAN: FRIENDSHIP HOSPITAL FOR ANIMALS

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: DISTRICT VETERINARY HOSPITAL

Friendship Animal Hospital

4105 Brandywine St., N.W.

BEST REAL ESTATE AGENT: MICHAEL MOORE, COMPASS

RUNNER-UP: STACEY WILLIAMS-ZEIGER, ZEIGER REALTY

Michael Moore (Photo courtesy Moore)

Michael Moore won this category last year. Moore credits his success to consistent customer service, telling the Blade last year: ā€œMy career began with first-time homebuyers. In time, first-time buyers become sellers and they buy another house and they tell their friends. Now my business is almost entirely referrals and repeats.

ā€œIā€™m a huge proponent of staging and doing what it takes to project the property in its best light,ā€ he says. ā€œI try to create a situation that when a prospective buyer walks in the door, they love it, and think to themselves ā€˜wonā€™t my friends be jealous when they see me living here.ā€™ā€ JD

Michael Moore

Compass

1313 14th St., N.W.

compass.com

BEST REAL ESTATE GROUP: JENN SMIRA TEAM, COMPASS

RUNNER-UP: MARIN HAGEN & SYLVIA BERGSTROM, COLDWELL BANKER

Jenn Smira (Photo courtesy of Compass)

As one of the top five agent groups in all of D.C., The Jenn Smira Team brings more than 50 years of combined real estate experience to each transaction. Smira and her team have cultivated a loyal network of previous clients and referrals as they empower buyers and sellers to achieve their goals. A one-stop shop for all your real estate needs, Smiraā€™s team offers an impressive range of in-house expertise ā€” from marketing and PR, to staging and listing guidance. Smira is a previous board member of the District of Columbia Association of Realtors (DCAR), DCAR Public Policy Committee, and currently on the board of DC WISE. JD

Jenn Smira Team

Compass

1313 14th St., N.W.

compass.com

BEST LAWYER: AVA BENACH

RUNNER-UP: AMY NELSON

Ava Benach (Photo courtesy of Benach)

Ava Benach works as an immigration lawyer and is the founder and coach of DC Girls Baseball. She has written op-eds for the Blade, including a piece on the need to overcome baseballā€™s sexist and homophobic traditions. Sheā€™s not just a skilled professional, but an outspoken advocate for LGBTQ equality. JD

Benach Collopy LLP

4530 Wisconsin Ave., N.W.

Rehoboth Beach

BEST REHOBOTH DRAG QUEEN: ROXY OVERBROOKE

RUNNER-UP: MONA LOTTS

Charles Bounds, gay news, Washington Blade
Charles Bounds as Roxy Overbrooke. (Photo courtesy of Bounds)

It has been a triumphant year for Roxy Overbrooke (aka Charles Bounds). Bounds had a particularly nasty time with COVID-19, contracting the disease in March. He was sick for about a month and was hospitalized in the Rehoboth area for 15 days, an experience he calls ā€œintense, scary and life changing.ā€

ā€œWith that said, though, everyone at Beebe Healthcare was amazing,ā€ he told the Blade earlier this year. ā€œIā€™m feeling much better now.ā€ Bounds grew up going to Rehoboth with family and loved it for its beaches and moved there full time about 10 years ago.

Bounds entered a competition 12 years ago and ā€œcaught the bug,ā€ for drag. Now itā€™s his full-time work. Bounds performs as Roxy Overbrooke at the Blue Moon (35 Baltimore Ave., Rehoboth Beach, Del.), hosting bingo, karaoke, a drag show and celebrity impersonation shows. (Check bluemoonrehoboth.com for updated event schedules.) Fully recovered from COVID, Bounds continued to wow socially distanced crowds all summer with his booming voice and, of course, glittering gowns. A beautiful person inside and out, Bounds is a fighter and Roxy is a star performer.

BEST REHOBOTH OUTDOOR DINING: PURPLE PARROT

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: AQUA

Delaware, Rehoboth Beach coronavirus, gay news, Washington Blade
Purple Parrot (Photo by John Bator)

The gay-owned Purple Parrot is a Rehoboth institution and when the pandemic hit, the bar/restaurant was well positioned for outdoor service with its popular Biergarten out back and sidewalk seating in front. It hasnā€™t been easy, but the indefatigable staff ā€” especially Chandler and Jamie ā€” maintained socially distant protocols all summer, keeping locals and tourists alike safe, fed, and happy.

Purple Parrot

134 Rehoboth Ave.

Rehoboth Beach, DE 19971

BEST REHOBOTH BARTENDER: HOLLY LANE

RUNNER-UP: JAMIE ROMANO

Holly Lane (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)

This is Holly Laneā€™s third win as Best Rehoboth Bartender, taking the prize in 2014 and 2017. Normally behind the bar at Cafe Azafran with her trademark headset belting out tunes while making drinks, Lane went on hiatus for much of the year due to COVID closures. But Azafran ā€” and Lane ā€” are back, though not to full capacity, of course. Things are different, but Laneā€™s infectious kindness and bartending and singing skills keep her loyal customers coming back, no matter what.

BEST REHOBOTH LIVE SHOW: CLIMAX WITH MAGNOLIA APPLEBOTTOM AT BLUE MOON

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: PAMALA STANLEY AT THE PINES

Magnolia Applebottom (Washington Blade file photo)

The multi-talented Magnolia Applebottom brings her sharp wit and singing skills to the Blue Moon stage for the popular Climax show. Last yearā€™s Best Rehoboth Drag Queen winner, Magnolia wins this new category this year amid a town full of live entertainment competition.

BEST REHOBOTH COFFEESHOP: RISE UP

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: COFFEE MILL

Rise Up in Rehoboth is the 10th location in this regional chain, which operates in Annapolis, Cambridge, and Edgewater, among others. The cafe is located at the roundabout just as you enter town. You canā€™t miss the black-and-white building. Rise Up offers breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Thereā€™s even a full bar, a gorgeous live edge wood bar sits to the right of the coffee station. The 502 Bar and Rise Up offer outdoor seating and are pet friendly, a perfect option in these socially distanced times.

BEST REHOBOTH RESTAURANT: BLUE MOON

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: AZZURRO ITALIAN OVEN & BAR

Blue Moon (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The Blue Moon has won this award so many times that itā€™s hard to count. The iconic Moon persevered through COVID, offering its flawless, high-end menu for takeout during the spring and reopening this summer with socially distanced tables inside. A COVID silver lining this summer: You could order the full menu on the bar side while being entertained by talented NYC pianist Nate Buccieri.

BEST REHOBOTH REAL ESTATE AGENT: LEE ANN WILKINSON

RUNNER-UP: JASON ABELA

Lee Ann Wilkinson (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)

This is Lee Ann Wilkinsonā€™s third consecutive win in this category. The Lee Ann Wilkinson Group has ranked #1 in real estate sales in Sussex County, Del., for more than 20 years and ranks #3 nationally for the Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices real estate network. In addition, she is a regular contributor to the Blade. Our readers know her through her informed articles on real estate trends at the Delaware beaches.

16698 Kings Hwy A.

Lewes, Del.

leeanngroup.com

BEST REHOBOTH BUSINESS: DIEGOā€™S

EDITORSā€™ CHOICE: BLUE MOON

Joe Ciarlante-Zuber, gay news, Washington Blade
Darryl Ciarlante-Zuber and Joe Ciarlante-Zuber (Washington Blade photo by Daniel Truitt)

It was a rough year for Joe Ciarlante-Zuber (right) and his husband and business partner Darryl Ciarlante-Zuber. Darryl contracted COVID-19 and spent 54 days in the hospital, 34 of those in the ICU. The two own the popular Diegoā€™s, which has a large outdoor patio space. They converted it into a beach-themed bar, complete with truckloads of sand. Joe worked hard all season, ensuring customers stayed six feet apart and taking everyoneā€™s temperature at the door. The dedication paid off, as Diegoā€™s resumed as a busy fixture on the summer scene. Darrylā€™s recovery and Joeā€™s perseverance proved an inspiration to the entire community.

BEST REHOBOTH FITNESS INSTRUCTOR: ELI LYNN

RUNNER UP: TANNER HOLT

Eli Lynn (Photo courtesy of Lynn)

Eli Lynn is owner and head trainer at Elite Lifestyle Initiatives and trains clients in the comfort of their homes. Lynn, whoā€™s straight, specializes in functioning training, strength and conditioning training and balance training.

As for his approach to new clients, he says, ā€œFirst, I ask them what their goals are and if they have any previous injuries or surgeries. After one session you can tell what they need to work on and what needs to improve.ā€

Lynn says COVID has forced him to train some clients through FaceTime, but the pandemic has also helped his business grow, ā€œbecause no one wants to work out at a gym so me coming to their house and training them in their own home, everyone feels safer to work out that way.ā€

As for his advice for those who have gained weight during COVID: ā€œI tell them that everyone is in the same spot as them and what matters the most is youā€™re here and starting to work out. Everyone has different ways of dealing with COVID and you already took a huge step forward by hiring me and helping you get back in shape.ā€

Eli Lynn

elitrained.com

@elitelifestyleinitiatives

Advertisement
FUND LGBTQ JOURNALISM
SIGN UP FOR E-BLAST

a&e features

Queer TV anchors in Md. use their platform ā€˜to fight for whatā€™s rightā€™

Salisburyā€™s Hannah Cechini, Rob Petree are out and proud in Delmarva

Published

on

Hannah Cechini and Rob Petree anchor the 5:30 p.m. newscast at WMDT 47, the ABC affiliate in Salisbury, Md. (Photo courtesy WMDT)

Identity can be a tricky thing for journalists to navigate. The goal of the job is to inform the public with no bias, but this is difficult, if not impossible, to do in practice. Everything from your upbringing to the books you read can impact how you view and cover the world. But sometimes these factors can help shine a light on an underrepresented community or issue.  

Two broadcast journalists in Salisbury, Md., are using the subtle, yet impactful choice of sharing their queer identities to strengthen their reporting and connection to the community. 

Hannah Cechini, who is non-binary, and Rob Petree, who is gay, co-host the 5:30-6:30 p.m. newscast for WMDT 47. They are the only known anchor team that are not only both queer, but also open out about their identities on air and, as Petree put it, ā€œalways use [their] platform and power that [we] have to fight for what’s right.ā€

Cechiniā€™s passion for journalism played an important role in the discovery of their gender identity. They knew they were meant to be in the newsroom before they figured out they were non-binary.

ā€œI was doing this job before I started to identify as non-binary,ā€ Cechini told the Blade. ā€œI’d always watch the evening news with my dad growing up and thought it was the coolest thing. And throughout high school, I worked on the school paper.ā€

After graduating from Suffolk University in Boston, Cechiniā€™s passion for journalism only grew as they began to work in the world of news media, eventually ending up in Salisbury. As they honed their writing, editing, and anchoring skills at WMDT, Cechini also started to take an introspective look into their gender identity.

A little more than two years ago Cechini came out as non-binary to their coworkers in the newsroom and was met with support all around. ā€œIt was definitely smoother than I anticipated,ā€ they said.

ā€œIt is very freeing to be able to do this job as a non-binary person because I haven’t really seen much of that representation myself.ā€ 

Petree, on the other hand, knew he was gay right around the same time he became interested in news media, at age 14. He started working for his high school news show and used it as a way to be open about his sexuality rather than hide it. 

ā€œI broke into broadcasting doing the morning announcements,ā€ he said. ā€œI did the weather and started doing a segment called issues and insights,ā€ Petree said, explaining his introduction to the news. Eventually, students would ask him questions about his sexuality after seeing him on the school TV. ā€œIt had gotten to the point in school, that if you’re going to come up and ask me if I’m gay, well shit, I’m going to tell you!ā€

To him, this was the exact reason he had come out. Petree wanted to motivate others to live honestly. 

ā€œThere are a lot of people who will spend most of their lives not being out so if they can see someone like me, who’s out and proud doing his thing, so to speak, then maybe that’s the inspiration for them,ā€ Petree said. ā€œTo search their own soul, find out who they are, and live their full life.ā€

Petree explained that he got his start in a space that was not always welcoming to his queerness. This tested the delicate balance between being a journalist and holding your identity close.

ā€œI’ve always been out and it was a challenge because I got my start in conservative talk radio,ā€ Petree said. ā€œI’m going to be honest, some of the things I heard from people I’ve worked with, from the callers to the radio stations were absolutely abhorrent. But I never let it discourage me. It made me work that much harder.ā€ 

Cechini highlighted the same sentiment when explaining why itā€™s important to have out LGBTQ figures in news media. They want to show everyone that it is possible to be openly queer and successful.

ā€œI just think that representation matters because if ā€˜Joe,ā€™ who’s never seen a transgender person before, sees a transgender person or a non-binary person, doing a job that they’ve only ever seen straight cis people doing before, it kind of creates that understanding or bridges that gap,ā€ Cechini said. ā€œIt’s like, ā€˜OK, maybe they’re not that different from me.ā€™ And that facilitates being able to connect among different communities.ā€

Both Cechini and Petree agree that having a queer coworker has made their bond stronger. 

 ā€œIt’s great to have someone else next to me who I can relate to and work alongside,ā€ Petree said. ā€œAnd they’re a joy to work with, they really are. There is a tremendous amount of things that we relate to together ā€” like we both share and have the same affinity for Lady Gaga,ā€ he said laughing. ā€œAlthough they’re more of a Lady Gaga fan than I am.ā€

ā€œHannah is a tremendous journalist who really goes out of their way to make sure that the stories that they do are on point 100% of the time,ā€ he added. ā€œThey’ve been great to work with and to learn from and to grow alongside. I’m very happy to have them as my co-anchor.ā€

Cechini explained that the relationship between two co-anchors can make or break a newscast, and having Petree as their partner on air is a major part of the showā€™s success.

ā€œCo-anchoring is not just the relationship that you have on camera,ā€ Cechini said. ā€œIt’s really, really important to have a good relationship with your co-anchor off-camera as well because you have to have a level of trust between you.ā€

Cechini continued, saying that this relationship is crucial to working together, especially when things donā€™t go as planned. 

ā€œNot everything always goes to script,ā€ they said. ā€œSometimes you have to be able to work together without even really talking to each other and just kind of know what to do. When you have a relationship like that with someone who identifies similarly to you or has had similar life experience, I think that just only strengthens that [relationship].ā€

Although they have had similar experiences being from the LGBTQ community, Petree said it was a change for him to use ā€œthey/themā€ pronouns on air.

ā€œPrior to working with Hannah, I’ve never worked with a non-binary individual who went by the pronouns ā€˜they/them,ā€™ā€ Petree said. ā€œIt was new for me to not use traditional pronouns on air, but I can say that I have never misgendered them on air and never will. You get conditioned to using traditional pronouns and it’s easy to make that mistake, but I never have.ā€

At the end of the day, they both explained, it is about doing the job right. For the duo, a part of that is understanding the diversity of people and issues in the community. 

ā€œWhen you come from a more marginalized community, I think that kind of helps to inform you a little better as a journalist because you have a better understanding of what it’s like to be ā€˜the other guy,ā€™ā€ Cechini said.

ā€œOur talent and our drive for journalism speaks for itself,ā€ Petree said. ā€œAnd that resonates with people. Have we shown ourselves to be an inspiration to the LGBTQ+ community here in Delmarva? Yes, we have. And that’s something that I’m proud of.ā€

The primetime nightly newscast with Hannah Cechini and Rob Petree airs weeknights from 5:30-6:30 p.m. on ABC affiliate WMDT 47.

From left, Rob Petree and Hannah Cechini. (Photo courtesy of WMDT)
Continue Reading

a&e features

ā€˜Queering Rehoboth Beachā€™ features love, loss, murder, and more

An interview with gay writer and historian James T. Sears

Published

on

'Queering Rehoboth Beach' book cover. (Image courtesy of Temple University Press)

James T. Sears book talk
Saturday, June 29, 5 p.m.
Politics & Prose
5015 Connecticut Ave., N.W.

When it comes to LGBTQ summer destinations in the Eastern time zone, almost everyone knows about Provincetown, Mass., Fire Island, N.Y., and Key West, Fla. There are also slightly lesser known, but no less wonderful places, such as Ogunquit, Maine, Saugatuck, Mich., and New Hope, Pa. Sandwiched in between is Rehoboth Beach, Del., a location that is popular with queer folks from D.C., Maryland, Virginia, Pennsylvania, and New Jersey. The dramatic and inspiring story of how Rehoboth Beach came to be what it is today can be found in gay historian James T. Searsā€™s revealing new book ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach: Beyond the Boardwalkā€ (Temple University Press, 2024). As educational as it is dishy, ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ provides readers with everything they need to know (and possibly didnā€™t realize they needed to know) about this fabulous locality. Sears was kind enough to make time to answer a few questions about the book.

WASHINGTON BLADE: James, itā€™s been a few years since Iā€™ve interviewed you. The last time was in 1997 about your book ā€œFrom Lonely Hunters to Lonely Hearts: An Oral History of Lesbian and Gay Southern Life.ā€ At the time, you were living in Columbia, S.C. Where are you currently based, and how long have you been there?

JAMES T. SEARS: It has been great reconnecting with you. After that book, we moved to Charleston, S.C. There I wrote several more books. One was about the Mattachine group, focusing on one largely misunderstood leader, Hal Call. Another book shared reminisces of a 90-year-old gentleman, the late John Zeigler, interweaving his diaries, letters, and poetry to chronicle growing up gay in the South at the turn of the last century. From there I moved to Central America where I chronicled everyday queer life and learned Spanish. We returned several years ago and then washed up on Rehoboth Beach.

BLADE: In the introduction to your new book ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach: Beyond the Boardwalkā€ (Temple University Press, 2024), you write about how a ā€œrestaurant incidentā€ in Rehoboth, which you describe in detail in the prologue, became a kind of inspiration for the book project. Please say something about how as a historian, the personal can also be political and motivational.

SEARS: I want to capture readerā€™s interest by personalizing this book more than I have others. The restaurant anecdote is the bookā€™s backstory. It explains, in part, my motivation for writing it, and more crucially, introduces one meaning of ā€œqueering Rehoboth.ā€ That is, in order to judge this ā€œincidentā€ā€”and the book itselfā€”we need to engage in multiple readings of history, or at least be comfortable with this approach. I underscore that what is accepted as ā€œhistoryā€ā€”about an individual, a community, or a societyā€”is simply a reflection of that eraā€™s accepted view. Queering history challenges that consensus.

BLADE: Who do you see as the target audience for ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach?ā€

SEARS: Well, certainly if you have been to Rehoboth or reside there, this book provides a history of the townā€”and its queeringā€”giving details that I doubt even locals know! Also, for those interested in the evolution of other East Coast queer resorts (Ptown, Fire Island, Key West) this book adds to that set of histories. My book will also be of interest to students of social change and community organizing. Most importantly, though, it is just a good summer read.

BLADE: ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ features numerous interviews. What was involved in the selection process of interview subjects?

SEARS: I interviewed dozens of people. They are listed in the book as the ā€œCast of Narrators.ā€ Before these interviews, I engaged in a systematic review of local and state newspapers, going back to Rehobothā€™s founding as a Methodist Church Camp in 1873. I also read anecdotal stories penned by lesbians and gay men. These appeared in local or regional queer publications, such as Letters from CAMP Rehoboth and the Washington Blade. Within a year, I had compiled a list of key individuals to interview. However, I also interviewed lesbians, gay men, transgender individuals, and heterosexuals who lived or worked in Rehoboth sometime during the bookā€™s main timeframe (1970s-2000s). I sought diversity in background and perspective. To facilitate their memories, I provided a set of questions before we met. I often had photos, letters, or other memorabilia to prime their memories during our conversation. 

BLADE: Under the heading of the more things change, the more they stay the same, the act of making homosexuality an issue in politics continues to this day. What do you think it will take for that to change?

SEARS: You pose a key question. Those who effectuated change in Rehoboth ā€” queers and progressive straights ā€” sought common ground. Their goal was to integrate into the town. As such, rather than primarily focus on sexual and gender differences, they stressed values held in common. Rather than proselytize or agitate, they opened up businesses, restored houses, joined houses of worship, and engaged in the townā€™s civic life. 

To foster and sustain change, however, those in power and those who supported them also had to have a willingness to listen, to bracket their presuppositions, and to engage in genuine dialogue. Violent incidents, especially one on the boardwalk, and the multi-year imbroglio of The Strand nightclub, gradually caused people to seek common ground.

That did not, however, come without its costs. For some ā€” long separated from straight society ā€” and for others ā€” unchallenged in their heteronormativity ā€” it was too great of a cost to bear. Further, minorities within the queer ā€œcommunity,ā€ such as people of color, those with limited income, and transgender individuals, never entered or were never invited into this enlarging public square.

The troubles chronicled in my book occurred during the era of the ā€œMoral Majorityā€ and ā€œGay Cancer.ā€ Nevertheless, it didnā€™t approach the degree of polarization, acrimony, fake news, and demagoguery of today. So, whether this approach would even be viable as a strategy for social change is debatable.

BLADE: In recent years, there has been a proliferation of books about LGBTQ bars, a subject that is prominent in ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach.ā€ Was this something of which you were aware while writing the book, and how do you see your bookā€™s place on the shelf alongside these other books?

SEARS: Queering heterosexual space has been a survival strategy for generations of queer folks. These spaces ā€” under-used softball fields, desolate beaches, darkened parks, and out-of-the-way bars ā€” are detailed in many LGBTQ+ books, from the classic, ā€œBoots of Leather, Slippers of Gold,ā€ to the recently published ā€œA Place of Our Ownā€ and ā€œThe Bars Are Ours.ā€ Of course, these spaces did not encompass the kaleidoscope of queer life, but they provide us a historical gateway into various segments of a queer community and culture.

This was certainly true for my book. Unsurprisingly, until The Strand controversy, which began in 1988, all of Rehobothā€™s queer bars were beyond the town limits. There were, however, homosexual watering holes in the liminal sexual space. For instance, you had the Pink Pony on the boardwalk during the 1950s and the Back Porch CafĆ© during the 1970s. So, in this sense, I think ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ fits well in this ever-enlarging canon of queer history.

BLADE: As one of the most pro-LGBTQ presidents in U.S. history, how much, if it all, did the Biden Delaware connection have to do with your desire to write ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach?ā€

SEARS: It is just a coincidence. Interestingly, as I was researching this book, I came across a 1973 news story about Sen. Joe Biden speaking at a civic association meeting. One of the 30 or so residents attending was James Robert Vane. The paper reported the senator being ā€œstartledā€ when Vane questioned him about the ban on homosexuals serving in the U.S. civil service and military. Uttering the familiar trope about being ā€œsecurity risks,ā€ he then added, ā€œI admit I havenā€™t given it much thought.ā€ In Bidenesque manner, he paused and then exclaimed, ā€œIā€™ll be darned!ā€

Biden was a frequent diner at the Back Porch CafĆ©, often using the restaurantā€™s kitchen phone for political calls. Like the progressives I spoke about earlier, he had lived in a heteronormative bubbleā€”a Catholic one at that! Yet, like many in Rehoboth, he eventually changed his view, strongly advocating for queer rights as Vice President during the Obama administration.

BLADE: How do you think Rehoboth residents will respond to your depiction of their town?

SEARS: Well, if recent events are predictive of future ones, then I think it will be generally positive. My first book signing at the locally owned bookstore resulted in it selling out. The manager did tell me that a gentleman stepped to the counter asking, ā€œWhy is this queer book here?ā€ā€” pointing to the front table of ā€œBeach Reads.ā€ That singular objection notwithstanding, his plan is to keep multiple boxes in stock throughout the summer.

BLADE: Over the years, many non-fiction and fiction books have been written about places such as Provincetown, Fire Island, and Key West. Is it your hope that more books will be written about Rehoboth Beach?

SEARS: My hope is that writers and researchers continue to queer our stories. Focusing on persons, events, and communities, particularly micro-histories, provides a richer narrative of queer lives. It also allows us to queer the first generation of macro-histories which too often glossed over everyday activists. So, as the saying goes, let a thousand flowers bloom.

BLADE: Do you think that ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ would make for a good documentary film subject?

SEARS: Absolutely, although probably not on the Hallmark Channel [laughs]! It would make an incredible film ā€” a documentary or a drama ā€” even a mini-series. Because it focuses on people: their lives and dreams, their long-running feuds and abbreviated love affairs, their darker secrets, and lighter moments within a larger context of the countryā€™s social transformation. ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ details the townā€™s first gay murder, the transformation of a once homophobic mayor, burned-out bars, and vigilante assaults on queers, the octogenarian lesbian couple, living for decades in Rehoboth never speaking the ā€œL word,ā€ who die within months of one another. It, too, is a story of how the sinewy arms of Jim Crow affected white Rehoboth ā€” gay and straight. In short, ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ is about a small beach town, transformed generation over generation like shifting sands yet retaining undercurrents of what are the best and worst in American life and culture.

BLADE: Have you started thinking about or working on your next book?

SEARS: The manuscript for this book was submitted to the publisher more than a year ago. During that time, Iā€™ve been working on my first book of fiction. It is a queer novel set in early nineteenth century Wales against the backdrop of the Napoleonic wars and industrialization. I want to transport the reader into an era before the construction of homosexuality and at the inception of the womenā€™s movement. How does one make meaning of sexual feelings toward the same gender or about being in the wrong gender? In the process of this murder mystery, I integrate Celtic culture and mythology and interrogate how todayā€™s choices and those we made in the past (and in past lives) affect our future and those of others.

The Blade may receive commissions from qualifying purchases made via this post.

Continue Reading

a&e features

D.C. Latinx Pride seeks to help heal the community

Much history lost to generations of colonialism

Published

on

(Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

The Latinx History Project will host its 18th annual Latinx Pride with a series of 11 events this year.

Latinx History Project, or LHP, was founded in 2000 to collect, preserve and share Latinx LGBTQ+ History. Six years later, they began hosting DC Latinx Pride.  

Board member Dee Tum-Monge said organizers saw a need for the event that centered Latinx community members. 

“LHP knows our queer history as Latinx folks has most often been lost to generations of colonialism and imperialism,ā€ they said. ā€œWhich is why we focus on documenting and highlighting the impact our community has in D.C. and beyond.ā€

According to UCLA School of Law, there are more than two million Latinx LGBTQ adults that live in the U.S.

ā€œEvents specifically for the Latinx community are important not only to make our experience visible but also to create spaces where we can grow closer with other groups and each other,ā€ said Tum-Monge.

This year they kicked off DC Latinx Pride with a crowning ceremony for their royal court on May 31. 

Their three-part series, ā€œLa SanaciĆ³nā€, is underway with part two planned for June 16. 

ā€œSanaciĆ³n in Spanish means ā€˜healingā€™ which is a big part of what we want to bring to Pride,ā€ said Tum-Monge. ā€œOur communities go through a lot of trauma and hate, but we know thereā€™s more to us. Our goal is to foster connection with ourselves, nature, community, and spirituality.ā€

In conjunction with the series there is a slate of other events; tickets can be purchased at latinxhistoryproject.org/pride.

In addition, Latinx Pride will march in the Capital Pride Parade on Saturday and participate in the festival on Sunday. To stay involved with Latinx History Project after Pride and hear more about future events visit latinxhistoryproject.org.

Continue Reading
Advertisement
Advertisement

Sign Up for Weekly E-Blast

Follow Us @washblade

Advertisement

Popular