District of Columbia
Brett Parson arrested in Florida on sex with minor charges
Former D.C. police lieutenant served as head of LGBT Liaison Unit
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Former D.C. police lieutenant Brett Parson, who served as supervisor of the departmentās LGBT Liaison Unit before retiring from the force in 2020, was arrested in Boca Raton, Fla., on Feb. 12, for allegedly having sex with a consenting 16-year-old boy in violation of Floridaās age of consent law, which is 18, according to an arrest affidavit filed in court.
The affidavit, which was prepared by a detective with the Coconut Creek (Fla.) Police Department, says the 16-year-old told police he and Parson met on the gay online dating app called Growlr and agreed to meet for a possible sexual encounter after exchanging āexplicitā photos of each other.
An arrest warrant obtained by Coconut Creek police charges Parson with two counts of āUnlawful Sexual Activity with a Minor.ā A separate incident and investigative report filed in court by Boca Raton police says officers with that department, in cooperation with Coconut Creek police, arrested Parson outside the Boca Raton residence of his parents where Parson was staying while visiting Florida from D.C.
The Washington Blade couldnāt immediately reach Parson for comment or determine the status of his case. Fox News reported it obtained court records showing Parson was being held at the Main Detention Center in Palm Beach County without bond as of Feb. 14, and it wasnāt clear if he had retained an attorney who could speak on his behalf.
The incident report filed by Boca Raton police says Parson was arrested on Feb. 12, several hours after Coconut Creek police say he and the 16-year-old allegedly had a sexual encounter in a car belonging to Parsonās father that Parson was driving and after he and the 16-year-old arranged to meet at a gas station in Coconut Creek near where the youth lives.
Criminal defense lawyers have expressed concern on behalf of clients in similar cases that an adult arrested for having consensual sex with a 16 or 17-year-old in a state where the age of consent is 18 would not have violated the law in states where the age of consent is 16. An online search of U.S. age of consent laws shows that at least 16 states and D.C. have established the age of consent for sexual acts at 16.
At the time of his retirement in 2020 after 26 years on the D.C. police force, Parson announced he was starting a consulting business to advise law enforcement agencies in the U.S. and abroad on police-related issues. He also announced he would become a part-time volunteer D.C. police reserve officer as part of the departmentās Reserve Officer Corps.
When asked to confirm media reports that Parson had been removed from his position as a reserve officer, D.C. police spokesperson Sean Hickman sent the Blade a short statement confirming those reports.
āWe were made aware of the retired memberās arrest early Sunday morning,ā the statement says. āMPD immediately terminated him from our Reserve Corps.ā
According to the arrest affidavit filed by Coconut Creek Police Det. Sgt. John McKinney, officers on routine duty during the early morning hours of Feb. 12 observed a vehicle driven by the 16-year-old being followed by a vehicle driven by Parson. The affidavit says the officers approached both vehicles after they observed the vehicle driven by the 16-year-year-old, a Ford Focus, turned into a ārestricted access facility owned by Comcast.ā
It says the vehicle driven by Parson, a red Buick convertible, āwaited in the middle of the roadway,ā prompting officers to approach Parson. The affidavit says Parson told the officers he was a police officer visiting his parents from D.C. and wasnāt familiar with the area and simply got lost. It says the officers allowed Parson to leave the area after he told them he did not know the person in the other vehicle.
āThe officers then made contact with the driver of the gray Ford Focus, later identified as the 16-year-old minor hereinafter referred to as āRT,āā the affidavit says. āRT advised the officers that he was using Growlr, a dating application for gay men, to communicate with a male who identified himself as Brett,ā the affidavit continues. āHe stated that Brett told him he was looking for no strings attached casual sex, repeatedly asked him to meet, and sent each other explicit photographs.ā
After initially meeting at a Shell gas station, at about 1 a.m. on Feb. 12, he and Parson arranged to drive to another location and park their cars in a secluded parking lot at the site of a daycare center in Coconut Creek, where RT got into the car Parson was driving, according to the affidavit. He told police the two talked for a while before they began kissing and a short time later performed oral sex on each other, the affidavit says RT recounted to police.
It says that the two attracted the attention of police when RT became nervous after someone walked past the parked car where he and Parson were engaging in intimate acts and the two decided to drive in their separate cars to find another location. Thatās when police noticed that RT drove his vehicle into a restricted area and officers approached him to find out what was going on.
The affidavit does not say what prompted RT to disclose the intimate details of his alleged sexual acts with Parson when the officers would not otherwise have learned about that. The affidavit also doesnāt explain how it came about that RTās parents arrived on the scene where police were interviewing their son as stated in the affidavit, although itās likely that RT provided police with his parents contact information.
āWe first spoke with RTās parents and explained what we knew up to this point and the process involved in a case of this nature,ā the affidavit states. āAfter a detailed explanation of their options, RTās parents stated they would like to press charges against Brett Parson and together with their son would consent to the necessary steps for evidence collection,ā it says.
āWe then spoke with RT,ā the affidavit says in recounting the action by McKinney and other police investigators. āIt should be noted that RT is a thin build male who clearly does not appear to be 18 years of age or older,ā it says. The affidavit says RT then repeated his account of his interactions with Parson that he gave to the officers who stopped him in his car earlier that morning.
The affidavit says RT turned over his phone to police to allow them to read the text messages that he and Parson exchanged after they met on the Growlr dating site. It quotes RT texting Parson to say āso sexyā after Parson sent him a shirtless photo of himself. After RT sent Parson a clothed photo of himself, Parson replied, āYou are so cute,ā the affidavit says. It says the two subsequently exchanged āexplicitā photos of each other.
The affidavitās recounting of the text messages between Parson and RT makes it clear that RT willingly chose to meet Parson for a sexual encounter knowing that Parson was an older man. The affidavit says Parson is 53.
After interviewing RT and his parents, the affidavit says detectives escorted them to the Coconut Creek Police’s Sexual Assault Treatment Center āfor a physical examination, evidence collection and sworn recorded statement.ā It says RT was then shown a group of photos of others along with Parsonās photo and he āpositively identified Brettā as the person with whom he engaged in sexual activity.
āBased on the facts above, probable cause exists for the issuance of an arrest warrant for Brett Parson because Parson, who is over 24 years of age, did engage in sexual activity, in this case oral sex with each other, involving the victim who is only 16 years of age,ā the affidavit concludes.
By mentioning that Parson was older than 24 years or age the affidavit was referring to the Florida age of consent statute that allows a person between the age of 18 and 23 to legally engage in consensual sex with a person who is 16 or 17 years old.
The affidavit does not say ā and it could not immediately be determined ā whether RT self identifies as gay, whether he was out to his parents as a gay person before the incident with Parson surfaced, or whether his parents are supportive of his sexual orientation. LGBTQ youth advocates have reported that many LGBTQ young people are confronted with hostile parents who disparage their sexual orientation or gender identity and sometimes prompt the young LGBTQ people to run away from their homes.
Gay former D.C. Advisory Neighborhood Commissioner Alex Padro, who says he has known Parson for many years in Padroās role as a community activist in the cityās Shaw neighborhood, said Parson āearned my respect and that of many in our city and beyondā during Parsonās career as a police officer.
āBrett Parson served our city proudly for 26 years before his retirement in 2020,ā Padro said. āJust like anyone else accused of a crime, Mr. Parson deserves to be treated as being innocent until proven guilty, and is entitled to mount a defense,ā he said.
āMPDās action in terminating a 26-year veteran of its ranks from the Reserve Corps without due process, without even hearing his side of the story is both un-American and unjust, depriving our citizens and MPD of his years of experience and demonstrating to those volunteer reservists that MPD does not have their back,ā Padro said.
D.C. gay activist Rick Rosendall said Parsonās arrest raises the issue of teenage sexuality that the prevailing political and social climate does not appear ready to address.
āA 16-year-old cruising on Growlr may be a poor choice for a sexual partner, but he is not a victim,ā Rosendall said. āOur society continues to have the most absurdly counterproductive attitudes regarding teenage sexuality, as if it could be wished away,ā he said. āThe result of this denialism is teen pregnancies and STDs.ā
āBrett Parson has done our community considerable service and I hold him in high regard,ā added Rosendall.
Legal observers have said age of consent laws are based on the long-held belief that a person under the age determined to be the legal āage of consentā is incapable of giving informed consent to sexual acts.
District of Columbia
D.C. man fatally stabbed by partner was convicted twice for domestic violence
Ted Anthony Brown faces second-degree murder charge
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Prosecutors with the Office of the U.S. Attorney for D.C. disclosed in court filings that Tommy Hudson, 58, the gay man who was stabbed to death by his domestic partner on May 26, had a criminal record of eight arrests and convictions between 1987 and 2018, including two domestic violence assault convictions in which the partner charged with killing him was the victim.
Ted Anthony Brown, 54, who court records show had a longtime romantic relationship with Hudson, was charged on May 29 with second-degree murder while armed for allegedly fatally stabbing Hudson inside Brownās apartment at 517 Harvard St., N.W., following an argument He is being held in jail without bond while awaiting trial.
Charging documents filed in D.C. Superior Court show that at the time of his arrest, Brown waived his Miranda rights to remain silent and confessed to having stabbed Hudson, saying he did so after Hudson punched him in the face while the two were arguing.
āBrown reported that he and the decedent have been involved in a romantic relationship for a significant period and that he was very jealous of the decedentās possible infidelities,ā an affidavit by police in support of his arrest states. āSuspect 1 [Brown] reported to detectives that he believed the decedent punching him to the face did not justify Suspect 1 stabbing the decedent, which ultimately killed him,ā the affidavit says.
Court records show that prosecutors with the Office of the U.S. Attorney on May 31 sent a letter to Brownās defense attorney, Todd Baldwin, disclosing Hudsonās prior arrests and convictions as part of a required discovery process in which prosecutors must disclose information relevant to a criminal case to the defense, even if the information may be harmful to the prosecutorsā case at trial.
The prosecutorsā letter, sent by Assistant U.S. Attorney Lauren Galloway, says Hudsonās prior convictions include a 2018 charge of violating a Temporary Protection Order requiring he stay away from someone he was accused of threatening with domestic violence; a 2015 charge of domestic violence related simple assault against his partner Brown; and a 2014 domestic violence related simple assault and unlawful entry charge also involving Brown.
The letter says Hudson was also convicted of a 2012 charge of Bail Reform Act violation; a 2010 charge of possession of cocaine; a 2002 charge of cruelty to an animal; a 2001 charge of felony āescape;ā a 2000 charge of second-degree theft; a 1997 charge of violation of the Bail Reform Act; and a 1987 charge of criminal ācontempt.ā
Court records, meanwhile, show that on June 17 D.C. Superior Court Judge Anthony Epstein approved a motion by the defense calling for defendant Brown to undergo a mental health competency screening to determine whether he is competent to stand trial. Prosecutors did not oppose the motion. The judge scheduled a āMental Observationā hearing for Brown on July 11 to review and assess the findings of the competency screening.
Court records also show that prosecutors agreed to keep a plea bargain offer they made earlier open until the findings of the mental health exam become known.
District of Columbia
Bernie Delia, attorney, beloved Capital Pride organizer, dies at 68
Activist worked at Justice Department, White House as attorney
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Bernie Delia, a founding member of the Capital Pride Alliance, the group that organizes most D.C. LGBTQ Pride events, and who served most recently as co-chair of World Pride 2025, which D.C. will be hosting next June, died unexpectedly on Friday, June 21, according to a statement released by Capital Pride Alliance. He was 68.
āIt is with great sadness that the Capital Pride Alliance mourns the passing of Bernie Delia,ā the statement says. āWe will always reflect on his life and legacy as a champion, activist, survivor, mentor, friend, leader, and a true inspiration to the LGBTQ+ community.ā
The statement says that in addition to serving six years as the Capital Pride Alliance board president, Delia served for several years as president of Dignity Washington, the local LGBTQ Catholic organization, where he helped create āan environment for spiritual enrichment during the height of the AIDS epidemic.ā
āHe also had a distinguished legal career, serving as one of the first openly gay appointees at the U.S. Department of Justice and later as an appellate attorney,ā the statement reads.
Deliaās LinkedIn page shows that he worked at the U.S. Department of Justice for 26 years, serving as an assistant U.S. attorney from 2001 to 2019. Prior to that, he served from 1997 to 2001 as associate deputy attorney general and from 1994 to 1997 served as senior counsel to the director of the Executive Office for United States Attorneys, which provides executive and administrative support for 93 U.S. attorneys located throughout the country.
His LinkedIn page shows he served from January-June 1993 as deputy director of the Office of Presidential Personnel during the administration of President Bill Clinton, in which he was part of the White House staff. And it shows he began his career as legal editor of the Bureau of National Affairs, which published news reports on legal issues, from 1983-1993.
The Capital Pride Alliance statement describes Delia as āan avid runner who served as the coordinator of the D.C. Front Runners and Stonewall Kickball LGBTQ sports groups.”
āHe understood the value, purpose, and the urgency of the LGBTQ+ community to work together and support one another,ā the statement says. āHe poured his soul into our journey toward World Pride, which was a goal of his from the start of his involvement with Capital Pride.ā
The statement adds, āBernie will continue to guide us forward to ensure we meet this important milestone as we gather with the world to be visible, heard, and authentic. We love you, Bernie!ā
In a statement posted on social media, D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser said she and her administration were āheartbrokenā over the news of Deliaās passing.
āBernie leaves behind an incredible legacy in our city and country ā through his life and advocacy, he helped pave a path for LGBTQIA+ residents in our city and within the federal government to live and work openly and proudly,ā the mayor says in her statement.
āHe helped transform Capital Pride into one of the largest and most inclusive Pride celebrations in the nation ā a true reflection and representation of our people and values,ā the statement says. āThis is the D.C. that Bernie helped build and that he leaves behind.ā
“All of the hopes and dreams that we had about what Pride could be and what CPA could do, are things that Bernie actualized over the last many years and in his work for next year,ā said Vincent Slatt, Rainbow History Projectās director of archiving in a statement. āHe wasn’t the first one to say it, but he always reminded everyone: āwe make each Pride special because, for someone, it is their first Pride, and they’ll remember it always.ā Bernie lived that ideal each and every year. WorldPride 2025 will be a testament to his efforts and his legacy will live on ā it will be someone’s first Pride. We’ll try to make Bernie proud of us.ā
Deliaās oral history interview is part of the Rainbow History Project Archives. You can access it at rainbowhistory.org.
Ashley Smith, the Capital Pride Alliance president, said he and other Capital Pride officials became concerned when Delia did not respond to their routine calls or messages. Smith said he called D.C. police to arrange for a welfare check on Delia at his house in Northwest D.C. on Friday, June 21. He said police accompanied him to Deliaās house and police entered the house and found Delia unconscious.
Smith said an ambulance was called and attempts to resuscitate Delia were unsuccessful. Smith said a definitive cause of death had not been determined other than it was due to natural causes. āHe had a heart attack last year, so he had been recovering from that, but he seemed to have been doing in fairly good order,āĀ Smith told the Blade.
Smith said the emergency medical technicians who arrived at the scene and who declared Delia deceased said, āit looked like it probably had to do with the previous heart condition that he already had, and that itās more than likely what it came from,ā Smith said in referring to Deliaās passing. “He died peacefully at home,” Smith added.
Smith and Dignity Washington spokesperson Jake Hudson said Deliaās two sisters, one from Baltimore and the other from Charlotte, N.C., were in D.C. working on funeral arrangements. Smith and Hudson said Capital Pride and Dignity planned to consult with the two sisters on plans for a possible Catholic mass in Deliaās honor as well as a celebration of life that Smith said would take place in D.C. in August or September.
Capital Pride was also working with the sisters to create a memorial fund in Deliaās honor that would raise money for the causes and programs that Delia supported over the course of his many years as an activist. āItās still being formulated,ā Smith said. āThat will be forthcoming when we get ready to do the celebration of life ceremony and everything else,ā he said.
According to Smith, the sisters, in consultation with Joseph Gawlerās and Sons funeral home in Northwest D.C,Ā were making arrangements for a cremation rather than a burial.
District of Columbia
D.C. Council budget bill includes $8.5 million in LGBTQ provisions
Measure also changes Mayorās Office of LGBTQ Affairs
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The D.C. Council on June 12 gave final approval for a $21 billion fiscal year 2025 budget for the District of Columbia that includes more than $8.5 million in funding for LGBTQ-related programs, including $5.25 million in support of the June 2025 World Pride celebration that D.C. will be hosting.
Also included in the budget is $1.7 million in funds for the Mayorās Office of LGBTQ Affairs, which includes an increase of $132,000 over the officeās funding for the current fiscal year, and a one-time funding of $1 million for the completion of the renovation of the D.C. Center for the LGBTQ Communityās new building in the cityās Shaw neighborhood.
The D.C. LGBTQ+ Budget Coalition earlier this year asked both the D.C. Council and Mayor Muriel Bowser to approve $1.5 million for the D.C. Centerās building renovation and an additional $300,000 in ārecurringā funding for the LGBTQ Center in subsequent years āto support ongoing operational costs and programmatic initiatives.ā In its final budget measure, the Council approved $1 million for the renovation work and did not approve the proposed $600,000 in annual operational funding for the center.
The mayorās budget proposal, which called for the $5.25 million in funding for World Pride 2025, did not include funding for the D.C. LGBTQ Center or for several other funding requests by the LGBTQ+ Budget Coalition.
At the request of D.C. Council member Zachary Parker (D-Ward 5), the Councilās only gay member, the Council approved at least two other funding requests by the LGBTQ+ Budget Coalition in addition to the funding for the LGBTQ Center. One is $595,000 for 20 additional dedicated housing vouchers for LGBTQ residents who face housing insecurity or homelessness. The LGBTQ housing vouchers are administered by the Office of LGBTQ Affairs.
The other funding allocation pushed by Parker is $250,000 in funds to support a Black LGBTQ+ History Commission and Black LGBTQIA+ history program that Parker proposed that will also be administered by the LGBTQ Affairs office.
Also at Parkerās request, the Council included in its budget bill a proposal by Parker to change the Mayorās Office of LGBTQ Affairs to become a āstand-alone entityā outside the Executive Office of the Mayor. Parker told the Washington Blade this change would āallow for greater transparency and accountability that reflects its evolution over the years.ā
He said the change would also give the person serving as the officeās director, who is currently LGBTQ rights advocate Japer Bowles, āgreater flexibility to advocate for the interest of LGBTQ residentsā and give the Council greater oversight of the office. Parker noted that other community constituent offices under the mayorās office, including the Office of Latino Affairs and the Office of Veterans Affairs, are stand-alone offices.
The budget bill includes another LGBTQ funding provision introduced by D.C. Council member Charles Allen (D-Ward 6) that allocates $100,000 in grants to support LGBTQ supportive businesses in Ward 6 that would be awarded and administered by the Office of LGBTQ Affairs. Allen spokesperson Eric Salmi said Allen had in mind two potential businesses on 8th Street, S.E. in the Barracks Row section of Capitol Hill as potential applicants for the grants.
One is the LGBTQ cafĆ© and bar As You Are, which had to close temporarily earlier this year due to structural problems in the building it rents. The other potential applicant, Salmi said, is Little District Books, D.C.ās only LGBTQ bookstore thatās located on 8th Street across the street from the U.S. Marine Barracks.
āItās kind of recognizing Barrackās Row has a long history of creating spaces that are intended for and safe for the LGBTQ community and wanting to continue that history,ā Salmi said āSo, that was his kind of intent behind the language in that funding.ā
The mayorās budget proposal also called for continuing an annual funding of $600,000 to provide workforce development services for transgender and gender non-conforming city residents experiencing homelessness and housing instability.
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