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Carroll County school board prohibits Pride flags

Activists, politicians have sharply criticized policy

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The Carroll County Board of Education adopted a policy on Wednesday that prohibits Pride flags from being displayed in schools under its jurisdiction.

Under the new policy, which the board adopted by a 4-1 vote margin, flags that are not specifically included in its language cannot be ā€œflown, posted or affixedā€ to school buildings and facilities. The language signals that, although the policy does not explicitly mandate a ban on Pride flags, such flags cannot be displayed, as they are not included in the list of flags that the policy permits.

Patricia Dorsey, the only board member to vote against the policy, expressed her disapproval of the measure to the board during the meeting.

ā€œI think that weā€™re doing them a disservice if we do not include saying that, ā€˜Yes, letā€™s just go ahead and have their safe spaces designated by the flags in the classroom,ā€™ā€ Dorsey said.

In public comments made to the school board for their meeting; parents, faculty and members of the community made impassioned arguments against the new policy.

ā€œThe students of color and the students of [the] LGBTQ [community] are bullied in this school system on a regular basis,ā€ one public commenter said. ā€œWe have students that have come in here and talked to you specifically about the fact that they have tried to commit suicide because of the way they are treated in this school system. I do not find [these to be] acceptable policies.ā€

However, other members of the public came out in support of the new policy, believing Pride flags to have no place in school spaces.

One parent stated how she believed that the presence of Pride flags and discussions of sexuality and gender identity in the classroom could end up harming students rather than helping them.

ā€œIt overstimulates a curiosity that [students] are not remotely able to comprehend yet and could further their curiosities, potentially causing harm to themselves or others out of pure confusion,ā€ the parent said.

The commenter asserted such conversations and displays of support should be kept private and away from the classroom.

ā€œAllies can be made and known and shared in a separate setting with an appointed advocate equipped with the correct resources to properly address these issues with our children who are struggling with them,ā€ she said.

The separation from and neutrality on the topic of Pride flags and discussions in schools has been echoed by multiple members of the board who voted in favor of the policy.

Board member Tara Battaglia told the Washington Blade how she believed voting for the policy would achieve fairness among those in the countyā€™s schools.

ā€œSchools should always be a neutral environment and welcoming to all students,ā€ Battaglia said.

Dorsey and other members of the public who chose to speak during the meeting denied the notion that allowing the display of Pride flags in schools was an inherently political or destructive gesture, framing it, rather, as a gesture of humanity.

ā€œWeā€™ve got students who are saying, ā€˜See me, see me, look at me for who I am, accept me for who I am,ā€™ā€ Dorsey said.

The adoption of the policy has since gained attention from across the state, with multiple statewide candidates for office responding to the decision.

Former Maryland Attorney General Doug Gansler, who is running for governor, took to Twitter the day after the meeting, sharply criticizing the policy.

ā€œThis is shameful, regressive, and exactly the wrong message to be sending to our LGBTQ+ youth, who deserve a learning environment that welcomes them for who they are,ā€ Gansler wrote. ā€œAlso, this is begging for a constitutional challenge. I call on the school board to reconsider.ā€

Just hours later, former Democratic National Committee chair and fellow gubernatorial candidate Tom Perez referred to the decision as ā€œutterly disgraceful.ā€

ā€œOur classrooms ā€” and every community across Maryland ā€” should be a welcoming, safe place that empowers every person to be who they are,ā€ Perez wrote. ā€œAt a time when our LGBTQ+ youth face incredible challenges, we need to do all we can to support them.ā€

As concerns among national and state advocates rise over the future of LGBTQ studentsā€™ access to affirming spaces and conversations in schools, advocates in Carroll County and around the country continue to convey a message of humanity.

ā€œWeā€™ve heard a lot of voices from the students that we really do have to acknowledge,ā€ Dorsey said. ā€œLetā€™s just see them, letā€™s hear them and letā€™s validate them for who they are.ā€

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Bethesda church hosts transgender, nonbinary photo exhibit

Photographer Gwen Andersen showcases community members of all ages, backgrounds

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One of the photos that is part of photographer Gwen Andersen's "Becoming Ourselves" exhibit. (Photo courtesy of Gwen Andersen)

Amid the spate of anti-transgender legislation, the bullying of trans students and lack of gender-affirming care for young people across the country, photographer Gwen Andersen’s photo exhibit seeks to portray the trans and nonbinary community in a positive light.

Andersen’s ā€œBecoming Ourselvesā€ exhibit that documents trans and nonbinary people will be on display at the Bethesda United Church of Christ (10010 Fernwood Road) this summer.

Andersen spearheaded the exhibit along with the Rev. Dr. Jill McCrory from Bethesda UCC. The church paid for the project with a donation it received from Stevie Neal, a trans woman who passed away and left part of her estate to McCrory.

McCrory herself has been a pillar in the LGBTQ community for decades, including while pastor at Twinbrook Baptist Church.

The congregation that McCrory closed dispersed more than $1 million to various ministries and LGBTQ organizations, founded the MoCo Pride Center, and married a same-sex couple on the rainbow stage of Capital Pride in 2010.Ā  Bethesda UCC has also marked the Transgender Day of Remembrance, and hosted a renaming ceremony for a trans baptized member.Ā 

ā€œI happen to have access to a wonderful transgender womanā€™s (Stevie) donation that she left me to do something for the transgender community,ā€ said McCrory over a Zoom interview. ā€œAndersen came to Rev. McCrory in November of 2023 with the idea. ā€œGwen knew Stevie. I thought this would be perfect because this is something that would benefit the transgender community.ā€ 

ā€œWIthout Stevie, this surely would not have happened. And I say that with great confidence,ā€ Andersen said in a Zoom interview. 

Stevie Neal with her dog. (Photo courtesy of Gwen Andersen)

ā€œBecoming Ourselvesā€ debuted at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Rockville in March. 

The exhibit features photos of trans and nonbinary people from across the country that Andersen and a number of other photographers took.

The photos feature people from all ages ā€” from preteens to elders from all walks of life that include teachers, community leaders, and athletes. Andersen’s exhibit also showcases people who are proudly showing their top surgery scars. It also shows trans and nonbinary people in a variety of ways, from enjoying music, playing sports, and working.

The exhibit most importantly shows them being happy. 

Andersonā€™s exhibit has two main goals: Give a space for trans and nonbinary people to see others in their community in a positive way, and to shift the narrative on how people see trans and nonbinary people. 

ā€œIt was an emotional issue that won hearts and minds.ā€ said Andersen in reference to the LGBTQ movement to legalize same-sex marriage. ā€œI believe we will reduce the hostility against transgender people by winning hearts and minds.” 

“One of the most effective messages is to protect trans kids,” she added. “Right now the hostility has not just gone against adults, it has gone against children, and children are being harassed, beaten up, and killing themselves. In much the same way as gays and lesbians were killing ourselves 30 years ago. I think what will be effective is tugging on hearts and minds and reclaiming the narrative from hate and fear, to love.ā€

Andersen wants to eventually get a more permanent location for the exhibit rather than bringing it to different venues. But until then, she plans to bring it to other churches that are interested in hosting it.

Anyone interested in supporting Andersen’s exhibit can log onto the “Becoming Ourselves” website, or directly help any of the photographers whose work is showcased. Andersen has directed folks to support photographer Liam Woods, whose online name is Analogue Papi.

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Moore pardons more than 175,000-plus cannabis-related convictions

Governor signed executive order at State House on Monday

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Maryland Gov. Wes Moore (Public domain photo/Twitter)

BY BRENDA WINTRODE and PAMELA WOOD | Gov. Wes Moore pardoned more than 175,000 cannabis-related convictions Monday, nullifying guilty verdicts decided when carrying small amounts of the drug or paraphernalia was illegal.

The Democratic governor signed an executive order during a State House ceremony, granting clemency to thousands of people convicted in Maryland. The convictions to be pardoned include more than 150,000 misdemeanors for simple possession and more than 18,000 for possession of drug paraphernalia with an intent to use.

The rest of this article can be read on the Baltimore Banner’s website.

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Silver Spring Pride sign rebuilt in memory of beloved neighbor

GoFundMe campaign has raised more than $4,000

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Tony Brown's neighbors help repaint the Pride sign his late partner created in their Silver Spring, Md., neighborhood. (Photo courtesy of Molly Chehak)

Residents of Silver Springā€™s Rosemary Hills neighborhood have come together to rebuild a Pride sign. 

The sign was constructed in June 2020, and was meant to stay in place throughout Pride Month. Neighborhood residents, however, requested it stay up past its intended month-long display, and has remained in place for more than four years. 

The sign spelling LOVE is at the neighborhoodā€™s entrance between Sundale and Richmond Streets. It was made from plywood and the O was painted in the colors of the Pride flag.

ā€œWe wanted to take it down, but we just felt it was not ours anymore and belonged to the neighborhood.ā€ Tony Brown told the Washington Blade during a telephone interview. ā€œIt was a positive thing for the neighborhood and began to take on a life of its own.ā€ 

Brown and his partner, Mike Heffner, designed the sign and said the Black Lives Matter movement inspired them to create it as a strong symbol of an accepting community.

The sign was vandalized numerous times last fall, resulting in neighborhood residents taking turns repairing it. Brown and his partner could not do the repairs themselves because Heffner was fighting Stage 4 lung cancer.

Heffner passed away on Oct. 6, 2023.

A GoFundMe page was set up to help raise funds for the replacement Pride sign, and it has raised more than $4,000. The replacement sign is more permanent and made of metal.

ā€œI canā€™t speak for the neighborhood overall, but people who knew Mike I think are happy that we were able to honor his memory with this sign because this sign is so him,ā€ Molly Chehak, a friend who lives next door to Brown, told the Blade. ā€œHe (Heffner) was an outgoing super social (person) who just made you feel good the way this sign does. Itā€™s a perfect tribute to him.ā€Ā 

Chehak and other neighbors created the GoFundMe account.

Heffnerā€™s family and his neighbors are still working to rebuild the Pride sign. It has become a memorial to Heffner.

ā€œWe wanted to do one that was clearly a Pride reference,ā€ said Brown, noting the L is a fully painted Pride flag that spirals across the entire letter. 

ā€œFor the O we wanted to do something reminiscent of times in the past, a throwback to the 60ā€™s and 70ā€™s so itā€™s a hippie montage of flowers and butterflies,ā€ he said. 

Brown described the V as being colorful, nonbinary people hugging each other with the idea that love is more than what one may see. 

ā€œDuring COVID, he had started painting rocks and putting kind and fun messages on them leaving them around places as sort of a pay it forward Karma and so the E is basically that stylized writing and to embrace a bunch of ways we embrace love,ā€ he said. 

The final letter had the phrase ā€œlove is loveā€ written repeatedly in various handwritings to pay homage to Heffner and what he did for his neighborhood during the pandemic.Ā Brownā€™s four daughters ā€” one of whom is a professional artist ā€” and their friends designed it.

The landscape around the sign has also been transformed with rocks that honors Heffnerā€™s love for Rosemary Hills and his passion for rocks.

Chehak also said Heffner always wanted a bench, and neighbors are looking to install one soon next to the Pride sign.

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