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Bisexual YouTuber challenges fellow South Koreans

Anti-gay protesters confronted Kelsey the Korean at Seoul Pride festival

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(Photo courtesy of Kelsey the Korean's Instagram page)

Kelsey the Korean is a bisexual YouTuber best known for her refreshing directness and crazy life stories. Made obvious by her username, she is a Korean named Kelsey making videos in English about South Korea, LGBTQ issues, sex, mental health, her family feuds and more, with the aim of fostering a no-bullshit insight into South Korean society. 

Youā€™d never guess by watching Kelseyā€™s videos about her colorful sex life or uncensored stories about her over-bearing “tiger mom,” but Kelsey is actually an introvert. 

ā€œA lot of people assume that I’m extraverted but it’s like, uhh … Iā€™m not. In reality it’s one of the best jobs [YouTuber] for an introvert ā€˜cause you don’t have any co-workers basically, and you can just talk to a camera,” she said. “People sort of get scared when they meet me in person ā€” or startled ā€” because theyā€™re like, ā€œYouā€™re so quiet, are you mad?’ā€

As an open bisexual woman in a conservative country, Kelsey is brave. 

ā€œItā€™s harder than North America in general, it depends on which district obviously [of America] because I’ve heard even in America there are some places where it’s as conservative as Korea, so I don’t want to make it like a dichotomy where the West is so ā€˜openā€™ and Korea is ā€˜not,ā€™” she said. “In Korea itā€™s definitely harder to find people in my generation [25- to 30-years old] that are open ā€” which is a little bit shocking to me ā€” but itā€™s easier in other ways because Korean people are not very outspoken.ā€

A 2021 survey showed that 26.5 percent of South Koreans would accept an LGBTQ neighbor, 13.8 percent would accept an LGBTQ co-worker and 5.3 percent would accept an LGBTQ best friend.  

(Photo courtesy of Kelsey the Korean’s Instagram page)

Kelsey is not a complete stranger to anti-LGBTQ hate. 

In one of her YouTube videos she visited gay Pride in Seoul which was met with homophobic protestors. 

ā€œLast year was really shocking because there were so many Christian protestors who were really mad, and the shocking thing was they even brought their children, who were like 5 or 7 and made them hold ā€˜gay people have AIDSā€™ [signs],ā€ she said.

Seoulā€™s Queer Culture Festival (gay Pride) hit a wall this year when it was denied a permit by the Seoul Metropolitan Government, despite holding the festival in Seoul Plaza for many years. The Seoul Metropolitan Governmentā€™s reasoning was that another group had requested access to Seoul Plaza on July 1 so the government gave the other ā€” a Christian youth concert ā€” priority. Despite this setback, Seoulā€™s Queer Culture Festival organizers didnā€™t let this stop them celebrating pride at an alternative space. 

(Photo courtesy of Kelsey the Korean’s Instagram page)

South Korea has rapidly progressed since the Korean War and society is more open-minded and accepting but society is still not open enough to accept openly LGBTQ people. How does Kelsey feel about the future of LGBTQ rights in Korea? 

ā€œOh God, I’ve only been following gay rights in Korea for five years,” she said. “It’s not good because since the Yoon administration, they’re making it harder definitely.ā€

Yoon Suk-Yeol is the current politically conservative president of South Korea.  

(Photo courtesy of Kelsey the Korean’s Instagram page)

ā€œAs for the future of LGBTQ rights in Korea, I donā€™t know. It could go either way in my opinion. Even in the youth I donā€™t see that much change, but our youth percentage is declining, so thereā€™s gonna be more boomers as time goes on and theyā€™re not gonna be open. Theyā€™re gonna be really boomer,ā€ she said.

Although Kelsey wants more LGBTQ acceptance in Korea, education on transgender identity in a Vancouver school was a step too far for her. 

ā€œWith LGBTQ rights, Korea is very conservative but I was really taken aback by how far the west seems to have taken it because when I was in Vancouver six months ago I became friends with this 8-year-old boy and he was in elementary school. He said that in Vancouver it was very left politically and in his public elementary school during sex-ed they taught his class that there [are] infinite genders. Then a trans person came in and just talked about his life trauma ā€” I guess ā€” and how they wanted to be called ā€˜they.ā€™” she said. “I [was] so shocked to hear that because, personally ā€” maybe I’ll change my mind and be so shocked at how conservative I am reading back to this article in 10 years ā€” but right now that is too far for me. I don’t want it to be in public education [that] you can be trans or you can be gay when you’re 8- [years old].ā€   

Kelsey wants to uplift other LGBTQ viewers who watch her YouTube channel. Her words of advice? 

ā€œFirst of all be patient because people like me who are Gen-Z and multicultural pick the best country theyā€™ve been inĀ ā€”Ā in regards to how it benefits themĀ ā€”Ā and theyā€™re like ā€˜Why isnā€™t my country, right now, not fitting that standard?ā€™ā€ she said.Ā 

Kelsey calls herself a multicultural Korean because she lived in Australia and Canada. 

ā€œItā€™s gonna take a long time for Korea to change,” she said. “The conclusion I came to is that Iā€™ll just do whatever I can, but I canā€™t be overwhelmed or too stressed.ā€

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LGBTQ poets included in Indiaā€™s premier literary festival

Sahitya Akademi seen as mirror of governmentā€™s cultural agenda

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LGBTQ poets participated in India's Sahitya Akademi for the first time this month. (Photo courtesy of Kalki Subramaniam)

Indiaā€™s premier literary institution on March 7 announced it would allow LGBTQ poets to participate in its marquee Festival of Letters in New Delhi.

The Sahitya Akademi, often seen as a mirror of the governmentā€™s cultural agenda, for the first time allowed these poets into a high-profile poetry reading at the Rabindra Bhavan. They shared the stage with more than 700 writers across 50 languages.

Culture and Tourism Minister Gajendra Singh Shekhawat kicked off the Festival of Letters with Mahesh Dattani, the acclaimed English-language playwright famed for his provocative works, as the main guest. Dubbed Asiaā€™s grandest literary gathering, the Sahitya Akademi took place over six days under the ā€œIndian Literary Traditionsā€ theme.

The 2025 Festival of Letters showcased a sweeping range of voices ā€” young writers, women writers, Dalit authors from marginalized castes, Northeast Indian scribes, tribal poets, and LGBTQ poets ā€” cementing its reputation as a literary kaleidoscope. 

Kalki Subramaniam, a leading transgender rights activist and author, on March 9 chaired a literary session titled ā€œDiscussion on Literary Works of LGBTQ Writers in the 21st Century,ā€ which spotlighted contemporary queer voices.

ā€œIt was enriching to listen to the profound thoughts of LGBT writers from various parts of the country in their speeches,ā€ said Subramaniam. ā€œThe session was particularly memorable with the participation of A. Revathi Amma from Tamil Nadu, Reshma Prasad from Bihar, Sanjana Simon from New Delhi, and Devika Devendra Manglamukhi and Shivin from Uttar Pradesh and Aksaya K Rath from Orissa.ā€

Subramaniam discussed how global politics shape gender rights and the persistent erasure of trans identity, urging a unified push for solidarity within the LGBTQ community. She stressed the vital need to elevate queer works and writers, casting their voices as essential to the literary vanguard.

ā€œIt was a pleasure to meet great writers from around the country in the festival as well as meet my writer activist friends Sajana Simon and Revathi Amma after a long time,ā€ said Subramaniam. 

Kalki Subramaniam participates in the Sahitya Akademi (Photo courtesy of Kalki Subramaniam)

The government on March 12, 1954, formally established the Sahitya Akademi. A government resolution outlined its mission as a national entity tasked with advancing Indian literature and upholding rigorous literary standards; a mandate it has pursued for seven decades.

The Sahitya Akademi in 2018 broke ground in Kolkata, hosting the countryā€™s first exclusive gathering of trans writers, a landmark nod to queer voices in Indian literature. 

Hoshang Dinshaw Merchant, Indiaā€™s pioneering openly gay poet and a leading voice in the nationā€™s gay liberation movement, on March 9 recited a poem at the Festival of Letters, his verses carrying the weight of his decades-long quest for queer recognition. He later thanked the sessionā€™s chair for welcoming the community, a gesture that underscored the eventā€™s third day embrace of diverse voices.

The Sahitya Akademi in 2024 honored K. Vaishali with the Yuva Puraskar for her memoir ā€œHomeless: Growing Up Lesbian and Dyslexic in India,ā€ a raw account of navigating queerness and neurodivergence.Ā Vaishali in a post-win interview reflected on Indiaā€™s deep-seated conservatism around sexuality, noting she wrote from a place of relative safety ā€” an upper-caste privilege that shielded her as she bared her truth. The award, she said, was the Akademiā€™s indelible seal on her lived experience, a validation no one could challenge.

The Sahitya Akademiā€™s inclusion of LGBTQ writers in its main program this year jars with the Bharatiya Janata Party-led governmentā€™s conservative stance, which, in 2023, opposed same-sex marriage in the Supreme Court, arguing it erodes Indian family values. Yet, under Shekhawat, the Sahitya Akademiā€™s spotlight on queer voices at the Rabindra Bhavan suggests it could be a tentative crack in a regime typically rooted in tradition.

The Festival of Letters hosted a translatorsā€™ meeting on March 10, spotlighting P. Vimalaā€™s 2024 award-winning Tamil translation of Nalini Jameelaā€™s ā€œAutobiography of a Sex Worker,ā€ a work steeped in marginalized voices that include queer perspectives.

This platform gained significant support from the BJP-led government, with Shekhawat securing a 15 percent budget increase to ā‚¹47 crore ($5.63 million) in 2024. In Tamil Nadu state, however, Dravida Munnetra Kazhagamā€™s Chief Minister Muthuvel Karunanidhi Stalin, has long opposed such cross-linguistic efforts, fearing dilution of Tamil identity amid decades of anti-Hindi sentiment ā€” a tension the Sahitya Akademiā€™s inclusive showcase sought to bypass.

ā€˜The Akademi is very inclusive and has a friendly festival ambience,ā€ Subramaniam told the Washington Blade.

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Japanā€™s marriage equality movement gains steam

Nagoya High Court this month ruled lack of legal recognition is unconstitutional

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Since 2019, the advocacy group Marriage For All Japan has sued the Japanese government in all five district courts. (Photo courtesy of Marriage For All Japan)

Japanā€™s Nagoya High Court on March 7 ruled the lack of legal recognition of same-sex marriages violates the countryā€™s constitution. 

The plaintiffs argued Japanā€™s Civil Code and Family Registration Act, which does not recognize same-sex marriages, violates the countryā€™s constitution. They cited Article 14, Paragraph 1, which guarantees equality under the law and prohibits discrimination based on factors that include race, creed, sex, or social status. The plaintiff also invoked Article 24, Paragraph 2, which emphasizes that laws governing marriage and family matters must uphold individual dignity and the fundamental equality of the sexes.

The plaintiffs sought damages of 1 million yen ($6,721.80) under Article 1, Paragraph 1, of the State Redress Act, which provides for compensation when a public official, through intentional or negligent acts in the course of their duties, causes harm to another individual. The claim centered on the governmentā€™s failure to enact necessary legislation, which prevented the plaintiff from marrying.

The court noted same-sex relationships have existed naturally long before the establishment of legal marriage. It emphasized that recognizing such relationships as legitimate is a fundamental legal interest connected to personal dignity, transcending the confines of traditional legal frameworks governing marriage and family.

The court further observed same-sex couples encounter significant disadvantages in various aspects of social life that cannot be addressed through civil partnership systems. These include housing challenges, such as restrictions on renting properties, and financial institutions refusing to recognize same-sex couples as family members for mortgages. Same-sex couples also face hurdles in accessing products and services tailored to family relationships. While the court deemed the relevant provisions unconstitutional, it clarified that the governmentā€™s failure to enact legislative changes does not constitute a violation under the State Redress Act.

The lawsuit, titled ā€œFreedom of Marriage for All,ā€ brought together a large coalition of professionals, including more than 30 plaintiffs and 80 lawyers. They filed six lawsuits in five courts throughout Japan.

ā€œWe filed these lawsuits on Valentine’s Day, Feb. 14, 2019, in Tokyo, Osaka, Nagoya, and Sapporo, and in September of that year in Fukuoka,ā€ noted Takeharu Kato, director of Marriage for All Japan. ā€œThen, in March 2021, the Sapporo District Court handed down the first ruling declaring the current laws unconstitutional, which received extensive worldwide media coverage. Subsequently, the Osaka District Court unfortunately ruled that the current law is constitutional, but among the 10 rulings handed down so far, nine have ruled that not recognizing marriage equality is unconstitutional.ā€

Kato is a lawyer who is part of the legal team in the Sapporo case. He is also a board member of Marriage for All Japan, a marriage equality campaign.

ā€œThe MFAJ (Marriage for All Japan) is fully supporting the lawsuits by publicizing the current status of the trials and the rulings in our websites and social networks, setting up press conferences at the time of the rulings,ā€ Kato told the Washington Blade. ā€œWe also make the best of the impact of the lawsuits in our campaign by holding events with the plaintiffs of the lawsuits and inviting them to the rally at Diet (the Japanese parliament) membersā€™ building.ā€

Kato said the campaign has significantly shifted public opinion, with recent polls indicating more than 70 percent of Japanese people now support marriage equality ā€” up from approximately 40 percent before Marriage for All Japan launched. He also noted 49 percent of Diet members now back marriage equality.

Japan is the only G7 country that does not legally recognize same-sex couples. Taiwan, Nepal, and Thailand have extended full marriage rights to gays and lesbians.

Expressing disappointment, Kato said many Japanese politicians continue to resist marriage equality, despite overwhelming public support. Kato added Marriage for All Japan expects the Supreme Court to rule on their lawsuits in 2016.

ā€œWe believe that the Supreme Court will also rule that the current laws are unconstitutional,ā€ he said. ā€œHowever, the Supreme Court’s ruling alone is not enough to achieve marriage equality under the Japanese legal system. We should put more and more strong pressure on the Diet to legalize marriage equality in Japan as soon as possible.ā€

Several municipalities and prefectures issue certificates that provide limited benefits to same-sex couples, but they fall short of equal legal recognition.

Prime Minister Fumio Kishidaā€™s government has faced mounting pressure on the issue as public support for marriage equality has surged in recent years. Kishida has yet to push reforms within his own party; encountering fierce opposition from its traditional leadership.

His government in June 2023 passed Japanā€™s first law addressing sexual orientation and gender identity, aiming to “promote understanding” and prevent “unfair discrimination.” Activists, however, widely criticized the legislation on grounds it fails to provide comprehensive protections or extend marriage rights to same-sex couples.

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LGBTQ Indians remain vulnerable to dating app scammers

Gay man in Mumbai lost nearly $11K in 2024

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Swiping right has become a pricey trap for many in India, where Grindr and other dating apps serve as stalking grounds for scammers spinning fake profiles, sob stories, and shattered promises. This deception hits the LGBTQ community hardest, with reports indicating hundreds of people are duped each year.

The modus operandi of these scams unfolds when an LGBTQ user connects with a match on Grindr or Tinder, someone claiming to be from the U.S. or Europe, and the texts spark a flawless romance, until a frantic call shatters the illusion. Theyā€™ve flown to India to meet them, they say, but customs officials at the airport have detained them for carrying wads of foreign cash. A desperate plea follows: Send money to settle fines, with a hollow vow to repay once releasedā€”a vow that vanishes the moment the payment lands.

Although dating apps have tightened policies to shield usersā€”Match Group, Tinderā€™s parent company, rolled out a campaign across Tinder, Hinge, Match, Plenty of Fish, and Meetic with in-app tips to spot scamsā€”fraud persists. Delhi Police on Jan. 11 busted a gang that targeted gay men on Tinder, luring them with fake profiles promising shared desires, then holding them hostage to extort cash. A minor was among the five people who authorities arrested.

Though India decriminalized homosexuality in 2018, lingering social stigma still marks LGBTQ people as prime targets for dating app scammers. 

Noida police in Uttar Pradesh state in 2020 dismantled a gang that honey-trapped at least 10 professionals on a gay dating app, robbing two of them of $500 and $1,700 respectively. Gurugram police in Haryana, a bustling tech and finance hub, that same year nabbed another gang that preyed on more than 50 users of the same app.

Scammers often dig deep, coaxing out home addresses, job details, and family ties from their targetsā€”sometimes with an accomplice who turns violent, assaulting the victim. Activists, however, note most of them donā€™t come forward to the police, silenced by Indiaā€™s staunchly conservative mores that allow catfishers to slip away and target more people unchecked.

A 28-year-old gay man in Mumbai in March 2024 fell prey to a dating app scam, losing nearly $11,000 to a man posing as a Texas-based doctor. 

After striking up a friendship online, the scammer promised an expensive watch as a giftā€”only to call the next day, claiming heā€™d been detained at Delhiā€™s airport for carrying a hefty sum of foreign currency. Moments later, a supposed customs officer named Priya demanded $859 in taxes to secure his release. What began as a single payment spiraled into a financial abyss, with the victim funnelling roughly $11,000 in a month, the Indian Express reported.

ā€œThese incidents have grabbed headlines recently. Scammers create fake profiles, build trust with their targets, and then hit them with extortion demands, threatening to out them to family or friends, said Ankit Bhuptani, an LGBTQ activist who founded Queer Hindu Alliance. ā€œItā€™s a cruel twist of the knife, preying on the fear of societal rejection that still lingers despite legal progress.ā€

ā€œEven though the Supreme Court struck down parts of Section 377 in 2018, decriminalizing homosexuality, the reality on the ground is that acceptance isnā€™t universal,ā€ added Bhuptani. ā€œFamilies and communities can still be harsh, and these scammers weaponize that vulnerability. The fact that arrests have been madeā€”like those recent busts in Ghaziabad and Noidaā€”shows the police are acting, but the persistence of these scams tells us we have got a long way to go.ā€

Bhuptani noted that a mix of technological, societal, and legal challenges fuels these scams. He said scammers thrive because dating apps can be a Wild Westā€”fake accounts are easy to set up, and AI tools make them even more convincing.

ā€œI have heard of cases where victims lost lakhs (thousands of US dollars), like that guy in Ghaziabad who was blackmailed for 1.4 lakhs ($1,700) after being filmed in a compromising situation. Itā€™s predatory and shameless,ā€ said Bhuptani. ā€œThe emotional toll is just as bad as the financial hitā€”imagine the terror of being outed in a society where many still see being gay as taboo.ā€

Bhuptani argued Indiaā€™s legal framework is primed to tackle dating app scams, pointing to constitutional protectionsā€”Article 14ā€™s equality guarantee and Article 15ā€™s anti-discrimination shield the Navtej Johar ruling, which decriminalized homosexuality in 2018, bolstered. He noted that blackmail and extortion already fall under Indian penal code Sections 383 and 384, while the IT Act can pin scammers for online fraud and identity theft.

ā€œThe problem isnā€™t the laws; itā€™s enforcement and awareness. Police need better training to handle queer-specific cases with sensitivity, and dating apps must step upā€”think stricter verification, AI-flagging of suspicious profiles, and user education on spotting red flags,ā€ said Bhuptani. ā€œBut laws alone wonā€™t fix this. Societyā€™s got to shift. As long as being LGBTQ carries a stigma, scammers will have leverage. We need campaignsā€”loud, bold onesā€”pushing acceptance, normalizing queer identities, and making it clear that outing someone is not a weapon that works anymore.ā€

Pune police, meanwhile, on Feb. 27 filed an First Information Report  against a gang that blackmailed a gay man on a dating app, bleeding him of $1,248 over five months.

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