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Former UMD basketball player Abby Meyers discusses lesbians in sports, March Madness

Potomac native signed with the London Lions last August

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Star basketball player Abby Meyers signed with the London Lions last August, but she called Maryland home before calling the shots in London.

Meyers, a lesbian shooting guard, grew up in Potomac and graduated from Walt Whitman High School in 2017. She played for Princeton in her undergraduate years and played for the University of Maryland during graduate school.

She began playing basketball in elementary school, and she was already showing an abundance of potential by the time she was in high school.

In her freshman year of high school, the schoolā€™s basketball coach sat down with Meyers and her family and showed them a list of universities with Division I basketball teams. Meyers circled the names of the schools that she was interested in attending. From there, the doors leading to a collegiate basketball career began to open. She began working towards her dream and ended up playing for Princeton.

ā€œIt was kind of like a mutual understanding between the two of us, me and basketball,ā€ Meyers told the Washington Blade. ā€œI took more individual lessons, and I just realized that the potential was sky high.ā€

She came back to her home state to attend the University of Maryland not only for its business program but also for its celebrated basketball team.

ā€œI grew up watching Alyssa Thomas, Shatori Walker-Kimbrough and so many other legends that passed through that program,ā€ Meyers said. ā€œSo for me, I knew that basketball-wise, it was the best decision I could make. ā€¦ They definitely had all of the qualities to make me the best player I could be.ā€

Before shipping off to London, Meyers briefly played in the WNBA for the Washington Mystics in the summer of 2023. In fact, the aforementioned UMD alum Shatori Walker-Kimbrough was one of her teammates.

She described her time with the WNBA and in London so far as a ā€œlearning experience.ā€ 

ā€œI got to relearn what it meant to be a rookie again,ā€ Meyers said. ā€œAll of a sudden you enter a new team, a new level and you’re at the bottom, and you just have to let your actions speak louder than your words.ā€

Meyers publicly came out around 2019, and since then she has been a role model for many other lesbian women in sports.

ā€œBy coming out I’m actually being my authentic self, but I was scared that people were going to judge me and look at me differently when in fact, I was met with open arms, love, and appreciation,ā€ Meyers said.

Meyers believes the journey one takes to coming out is an individual process that looks different for everyone.

ā€œAt the end of the day, it’s your own race; run it at your own pace,ā€ Meyers said.  ā€œNever be apologetic for who you are. When you have to start compromising yourself and your values for other people like though thatā€™s not the community you want to be a part of.ā€

She has not experienced much anti-LGBTQ stigma since coming out, but that does not mean that it does not exist in other sports communities. However, in this modern social climate, Meyers pointed out, people are much more accepting of gay women in sports.

Nina Hazra, a University of Maryland medical student, grew up playing basketball with Meyers. The two were on the same team in middle school, but they went to different high schools and would often play against each other. 

Hazra did not play much past high school, but she remained close friends with her former teammate and rival to this day. She went to most of the home games during Meyersā€™ stint at UMD.

Though Hazra does not identify with the LGBTQ community, she noticed a tension in the sports world that affects all women, regardless of sexuality. However, with todayā€™s shifting climate, it has become easier for female athletes to express their identities

ā€œWomen who express strong emotions in sports are often treated differently than men who do the exact same thing,ā€ Hazra said in an interview. ā€œI feel like as we’ve gotten older, there’s been a lot more celebration of womanhood in whatever form in sports, and I think that’s one of the places where you can then kind of go outside those societal norms.ā€

But Hazra still noticed the impact Meyers had on younger generations in sports who may be struggling with their identities.

ā€œIt doesn’t matter your sexuality, your gender identity, all that stuff. That doesn’t matter when you’re playing a sport,ā€ Hazra said. ā€œA lot of us didn’t have role models in those years growing up and just to get to see her being that for so many girls is so amazing.ā€

Elisa Pinzan, also a former Terrapin, is good friends with Meyers. 

Originally from Italy, Pinzan played for the University of South Florida for four years before entering the transfer portal and landing at UMD. She now plays for Keflavik IF in Iceland.

Pinzan and Meyers formed a strong bond while playing for the Terrapins together. 

ā€œShe was the first person I got close to; she is very open, smiley and friendly, and I felt comfortable around her from the first day,ā€ Pinzan described. ā€œI am glad to have met someone like Abby, with such a kind soul.ā€

Pinzan thought that fans should keep their eyes peeled for the Terrapins this upcoming March Madness season. 

ā€œThey are a very young team with energy, enthusiasm and grit on the floor, and I think they are a lot better than the record they have,ā€ Pinzan wrote about the Terrapins in an interview. ā€œDespite being young though, they are learning a lot every game and I am sure they will be able to transfer these lessons for the best time of the year coming up.ā€

Meyers agreed that there is a lot to look forward to this March Madness. She said that with Coach Brenda Freseā€™s game plans and strong assistant staff, the Terrapins have a strong chance of advancing throughout the competition.

According to Meyers, March Madness will be different for womenā€™s basketball this year, pointing out that itā€™s more popular right now than menā€™s games, as womenā€™s basketball is selling out arenas.

ā€œI only think it’s gonna get better and it’s going to grow even more,ā€ Meyers said. ā€œJust the marketing, the social media, the overall awareness of the women’s game. Fans are growing by the number.ā€

Meyers believes that female basketball players have to rely more on their skill than their athleticism, which she believes makes womenā€™s games just as ā€” if not more ā€” exciting than menā€™s games. She said that over the past few years, there has been a strong shift in womenā€™s viewership that has shrunk the gap between menā€™s and womenā€™s basketball, including from a technical standpoint, given that men and women play with the same level of equipment.

Regardless of where UMD ends up this March Madness, Meyers will be cheering the Terrapins on from across the pond ā€” especially the women.

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Every MLB team except this one celebrated Pride

Right-wingers react to ā€˜backlashā€™ against Rangers: ā€˜Bullying is unacceptableā€™

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Once again, the Texas Rangers opted not to celebrate Pride last month with a dedicated day or night on its 2024 promotion schedule. And once again, the American League West team is the only Major League operation to do so. 

This repeated omission by the reigning World Series champs has sparked what one conservative news site calls a ā€œridiculous backlash.ā€ As the Washington Examinerā€™s Kimberly Ross wrote this week:

ā€œThere is no getting away from these ubiquitous celebrations. Instead of ā€˜to each his own,ā€™ major league teams are nearly required to give in and perform in an effort to placate the loudest crowds. Itā€™s not good enough to include everyone at all times. You must kowtow or else. This kind of bullying is unacceptable, and itā€™s worth pushing back against whether youā€™re a regular citizen or the 2023 World Series champion Texas Rangers.ā€

But the only evidence of the ā€œbacklashā€ was a balanced report by Schuyler Dixon of the Associated Press that appeared on the website of KSAT-TV in San Antonio, detailing the frustrations of local LGBTQ advocates and fans. His report was posted by the AP under the headline: ā€œWhy are the Texas Rangers the only MLB team without a Pride Night?ā€ The virulently anti-trans British tabloid, the Daily Mail rehashed that same AP piece but added that LGBTQ groups were ā€œFURIOUSā€ without substantiating that claim with a single quote.Ā 

At most, DeeJay Johannessen, chief executive of the HELP Center, an LGBTQ organization based in Tarrant County, where the Rangers play, told the AP he felt ā€œkind of embarrassed.ā€ The Daily Mail headline writer was apparently ā€œkind ofā€ clickbaiting. 

ā€œIt’s kind of an embarrassment to the city of Arlington that their team is the only one that doesnā€™t have a Pride night,ā€ Johannessen said. Local advocate Rafael McDonnell said, ā€œIt pains me that this remains an issue [after] all these years.ā€

How painful? McDonnell told the AP he considered not attending the championship parade with his boyfriend when the Rangers celebrated their first World Series championship last fall. Ultimately, he decided to go. So much for ā€œFURIOUS.ā€ 

McDonnell is the communications and advocacy manager for the Resource Center, which is an organization that grew out of the AIDS crisis in the 1980s. He added that his group has worked with the Rangers, at their invitation, to help them develop a policy of inclusion, starting about five years ago.

The team has sent employees to volunteer for programs supporting its efforts in advocating for marriage equality and transgender rights.

Although McDonnell said members of the Rangers staff keep in contact with him, he told the AP he canā€™t recall any conversations with the team since its five-game victory over the Arizona Diamondbacks in last yearā€™s World Series. 

ā€œFor a long time, Iā€™ve thought that it might be somebody very high up in the organization who is opposed to this for some reason that is not clearly articulated,ā€ McDonnell said. ā€œTo say that the Rangers arenā€™t doing anything for the community, well, they have. But the hill that they are choosing to stake themselves out on is no Pride night.ā€

The Rangers did celebrate Mexican heritage during a game last month, and also host nights throughout the season dedicated to other groups as well as the Boy Scouts, the Girl Scouts, first responders, teachers, and the military. The team also recognizes universities from around the Dallas-Fort Worth area and other parts of the Lone Star State. But not Pride. 

Why? The Rangers issued a statement, very similar to one from 2023. It lists various organizations the team has sponsored and steps it has taken internally to ā€œcreate a welcoming, inclusive, and supportive environment for fans and employees.ā€

ā€œOur longstanding commitment remains the same: To make everyone feel welcome and included in Rangers baseball ā€” in our ballpark, at every game, and in all we do ā€” for both our fans and our employees,ā€ the team said. ā€œWe deliver on that promise across our many programs to have a positive impact across our entire community.ā€

ā€œI think it’s a private organization,ā€ said Rangers fan Will Davis. ā€œAnd if they don’t want to have it, I don’t think they should be forced to have it.ā€ Davis is from Marble Falls, about 200 miles southwest of the stadium in Central Texas and attended a recent game with his son’s youth baseball team.

ā€œI think if it were something where MLB said, ā€˜Weā€™re not participating in this,ā€™ but the MLB does participate in it. And the Rangers have chosen not to,ā€ said Rangers fan Misty Lockhart, who lives near told the ballpark. Lockhart told the AP she attends almost three dozen games every season. ā€œI think that’s where I take the bigger issue, is they have actively chosen not to participate in it.ā€

While Lockhart says she doesn’t see Pride night as a political issue, she suggested there would be more pressure on the Rangers if their stadium was downtown, in the heart of Dallas County, where the majority of elected officials are Democrats. Tarrant County, home to Arlington, Fort Worth and Global Life Stadium, is generally more conservative, just like the governor, lieutenant governor, legislature, and fans like Will Davis. 

ā€œIn something like this, this is a way for people to go as a state,ā€ Davis told the AP. ā€œWe don’t want the political stuff shoved down our throats one way or the other, left or right. We’re coming out here to have a good time with friends or family and let it be.ā€

Unfortunately, some Rangers fans decided they could not ā€œlet it beā€ the one time the team welcomed local LGBTQ groups to a game as part of a fundraising event, as it does for other groups. This was in September 2003, two years after the Chicago Cubs hosted what is considered the first-ever Pride game. At that time, Rangers fans raged about the invitation on a website, and showed up to protest outside the stadium before that game. 

The Rangers never extended that invitation again. 

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Haters troll official Olympics Instagram for celebrating gay athlete and boyfriend

Campbell Harrison clapped back at online trolls

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Olympian Campbell Harrison has already conquered an eating disorder, anxiety, depression, and disappointment for skipping the Tokyo Summer Games so he could support his older sister in her battle with cancer. 

So, heā€™s saying ā€œno wuckaā€™sā€ (meaning, ā€œno problemā€ in Aussie lingo) to the bigots, trolls, mongrels, and “drongos” (meaning, ā€œdicksā€ and ā€œfools,ā€ respectively) who plastered their disapproval in the comments of an Instagram post celebrating him as the first LGBTQ sport climber in Olympic history. 

The post wasnā€™t even his; the official Olympics Instagram account shared pictures from his qualifying climb from November 2023, and tagged Harrison earlier this week. 

ā€œCelebration kiss for the ages šŸ˜˜šŸŒˆā€ reads the caption. ā€œAfter not making it to Tokyo 2020, Australian sport climber Campbell Harrison did not give up and four years later secured a quota spot for the Olympic Games #Paris2024. It was an emotional victory celebrated together with his partner, Justin.ā€

Harrison, having seen the negative comments multiply, took them in stride with a snappy response that included a tag to his boyfriend, Justin Maire, whose account is private.  

ā€œAll these people mad cause we’re hotter than they are šŸ˜˜,ā€ Harrison wrote. 

Harrisonā€™s mother, Yvette, shared her support: ā€œI could not be more proud of you my beautiful son. You and Justin are such a beautiful couple and we love you both very much. šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆšŸ™Œā¤ļøā€

There were plenty of other supportive comments, and haters were called out, too: ā€œI love all the people following the @Olympics page due to the Olympic spirit (among other values), who donā€™t see the irony of bashing an Olympic athlete because of who they love,ā€ wrote out travel writer and LGBTQ rights advocate Mikah Meyer.

The person managing the official Olympics Instagram account was asked to do a better job curating the comments, which were largely vitriolic and cruel. The account posted this plea: ā€œLet’s keep our community positive ā¤ļø Please ensure your comments are respectful and avoid any language that could be offensive, or harmful to others. We reserve the right to remove comments that do not adhere to this guideline.ā€ 

Gay Olympic champion diver Matthew Mitcham commented: ā€œ15 years ago I kissed my partner on camera when I won in Beijing 2008. This one post by @olympics has received more hate than I did in my whole career.ā€Ā 

Today is Harrisonā€™s 28th birthday. He, his boyfriend and his mother recently spoke with Climbingā€™s Holly Yu Tung Chen. She wrote: 

ā€œCampbell arrived in the world on June 28, 1997, screaming inconsolably. Unlike his three other siblings, who were all ā€˜peaches and cream,ā€™ said Yvette, baby Campbell was “squishy and cuddly, yes ā€” but he had a lot to say from the word go.”

ā€œCampbell started climbing at age eight when Russell took the children to the Victorian Climbing Centre and noticed Campbellā€™s immediate vigor. Itā€™s the age-old climber tale: Campbell almost immediately lost interest in the other sports he dabbled in, including swimming, soccer, and track and field. All he wanted to do was climb.ā€

Harrison told Climbing although he never actually ā€œcame outā€ as gay, he never hid his sexuality, and simply made sure his parents and siblings knew who he was. For example, when he told the family heā€™d be joining Climbing Cuties, an affinity group for queer climbers, they told him to have fun. On another occasion, Harrison let them know heā€™d be taking part in a panel for queer climbers, and his parents asked if they could attend. 

As for his boyfriend, Harrison told Climbing they met cute. 

ā€œIn the age where most people meet online, we had the classic story of catching each otherā€™s eye from across the room,ā€ said Harrison. Maire told the reporter he recognized Campbell from social media, where the climber does not hide their relationship, and that often results in comments that his posts have ā€œgotten too political.ā€

ā€œHow is that political?ā€ he asked, rhetorically, noting that most of the hateful comments he receives online come from Americans. ā€œWhy should I change the way I feel just because of someone elseā€™s perception of me?ā€ he said. 

Last November, the only climber to top the menā€™s finals route during the IFSC Oceania Qualifier in Melbourne was Harrison. Watching him ascend were his parents and boyfriend, as he clipped the final draw and collapsed inward, his hands covering his face as he was lowered down. He had punched his ticket to Paris with this win. 

Once he was on the ground, Harrison made a beeline to Maire, where they hugged and kissed, as recorded on Instagram.

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Washington Mystics to hold annual Pride game

Team to play Dallas Wings on Saturday

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The Washington Mystics will be having their upcoming Pride game on Saturday against the Dallas Wings.

The Mystics Pride game is one of the teamā€™s theme nights they host every year, with Pride night being a recurring event. The team faced off against the Phoenix Mercury last June. Brittney Griner, who Russia released from a penal colony in December 2022 after a court convicted her of importing illegal drugs after customs officials at Moscowā€™s Sheremetyevo Airport found vape canisters with cannabis oil in her luggage, attended the game.Ā 

Unlike the NBA, where there are currently no openly LGBTQ players, there are multiple WNBA players who are out. Mystics players Emily Englster, Brittney Sykes, and Stefanie Dolson are all queer.

The Mystics on June 1 acknowledged Pride Month in a post to its X account.

ā€œCelebrating Pride this month and every month,ā€ reads the message.

The game is on Saturday at 3 p.m. at the Entertainment and Sports Arena (1100 Oak Drive, S.E.). Fans can purchase special Pride tickets that come with exclusive Mystics Pride-themed jerseys. 

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