Sports
High hurdler Trey Cunningham comes out as gay
Florida State University alum grew up in Ala.

He didnāt get to punch his ticket to the Olympics this summer but Trey Cunningham, 26, one of the worldās best high hurdlers, is in the news for a far more personal reason: He publicly came out as gay.
āWe say our goals out loud,ā Cunningham told the New York Times Monday, explaining a technique he has relied upon in his training as an elite athlete. āIf thereās something we want to achieve, we say it. Putting something in words makes it real.ā
His sexuality isnāt exactly a secret. Cunningham came out to his parents and friends by phone five years ago at age 20.
āIt was the scariest thing Iāve ever done,ā he told the Times, recalling that he found himself dripping with sweat as he waited for the ringing to end and for the calls to be connected.
Cunningham revealed to the newspaper that he got the sense that at least some of his friends were not at all surprised by this news, and had been āwaiting for me,ā he said. āI was really lucky to have a group of people who did not care.ā
He was in college then, starting to āexplore the ideaā of his sexual attraction.
āIt took me awhile to know it felt right,ā he said.
His high school years in Winfield, Ala., were a time for friends and fun, dreaming of playing pro basketball with the Boston Celtics before discovering he enjoyed āflinging myself at solid objects at high speed,ā he said. It was not a place conducive to dating other boys.
Cunningham recalled his hometown as ārural, quite conservative, quite religious: The sort of place where you did not want to be the gay kid at school,ā he told the paper. āSo, I had certain expectations of what my life would look like, and it took me a little while to get my head around it, looking different to that.ā
So, it was not a surprise that his parents gave him some āpushbackā ā in his words ā when he called them with the news five years ago.
āThey had certain expectations for their little boy, for what his life would be like, and thatās OK,ā he toldĀ the Times.Ā āI gave them a 5-year grace period. I had to take my time. They could take theirs, too.āĀ
Cunningham drew a parallel between his own process and theirs. āWhat was true for me was also true for my parents,ā said the world-class sprinter.
And he is world-class, even if heāll be watching the Summer Games instead of competing in them. As the Times reported, Cunningham is ranked 11th in the world. In 2022, he won the silver medal in high hurdles at the world championships in Eugene, Ore., and last month he placed ninth in the 110-meter hurdles at the U.S. Olympic trials.
āIf you do well in the U.S. trials, you know you have a good shot at a medal,ā he said.
Following his disappointing finish in what he described as a āstacked fieldā of competitors, he is coming out as gay in an interview with a journalist now because everyone who he feels needs to know has known for some time, he said. Also, he recognizes that being out is still rare.
āThere are lots of people who are in this weird space,ā said Cunningham. āTheyāre not out. But it is kind of understood.ā
What he hopes is that both sports and the wider world will someday get to a place where āpeople do not have to ācome out,ā he said, where people can ājust get on with being them.ā
In addition to being an elite athlete, Cunningham has a Master of Science degree from Florida State University, a deal with Adidas and ā with his scruffy square jaw and pouty lips ā he is a sought-after Ford model.
He said in the interview that he realized coming out comes with practical and potentially financial considerations: Competing in countries where being gay is a crime, like Qatar. Although he doesnāt think hiding his sexuality inhibited his performance or that some great weight is now lifted, he believes being public about it has value.
There are times, Cunningham said, when it pays to say something out loud, to make things real. This is that time.

FIFA has announced Saudi Arabia will host the 2034 World Cup, despite concerns over its human rights record that includes the death penalty for homosexuality.
The Associated Press reported FIFA confirmed the decision on Dec. 18. The AP noted Saudi Arabia is the only country that bid to host the 2034 World Cup.
āThis is a historic moment for Saudi Arabia and a dream come true for all our 32 million people who simply love the game,ā said Sport Minister Prince Abdulaziz bin Turki Al- Faisal, who is also president of the Saudi Olympic and Paralympic Committee, in a statement the Saudi Press Agency posted to its website.
Saudi Arabia is among the handful of countries in which consensual same-sex sexual relations remain punishable by death.
A U.S. intelligence report concluded Saudi Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman ālikely approvedā the murder of Jamal Khashoggi, a Washington Post columnist, inside the Saudi Consulate in Istanbul in 2018. A federal judge in 2022 dismissed a lawsuit against Prince Mohammed after the Biden-Harris administration said he was immune to the lawsuit because he is the countryās prime minister.
Human rights activists have also criticized the Saudi government over the treatment of women, migrant workers, and other groups in the country.
“No one should be surprised by this,ā Cyd Zeigler, Jr., co-founder of Outsports.com, an LGBTQ sports website, told the Washington Blade in an email after FIFA confirmed Saudi Arabia will host the 2034 World Cup. āFIFA, the International Olympic Committee, and many other world governing bodies routinely turn to authoritarian countries with terrible human-rights records to host major sporting events. There are simply few other countries willing to spend the billions of dollars it takes to build the needed infrastructure.ā
Peter Tatchell, a long-time LGBTQ activist from the U.K. who is director of the Peter Tatchell Foundation, in a statement described FIFAās decision as āa betrayal of the values that football should stand for: Inclusivity, fairness, and respect for human rights.ā
āThis is not about football; itās about sportswashing,ā said Tatchell. āThe Saudi regime is using the World Cup to launder its international image and distract from its brutal abuses. By granting them this platform, FIFA is complicit in whitewashing their crimes.ā
Qatar, which borders Saudi Arabia, hosted the 2022 World Cup.
Consensual same-sex sexual relations remain criminalized in Qatar.
āSaudi Arabia was the only country to bid for the 2034 FIFA World Cup,ā said Zeigler. āSo, until FIFA, the IOC (International Olympic Committee) and other governing bodies ban major human-rights violators from hosting, we’ll continue to see events like this in SaudiĀ Arabia, China, Qatar, and other countries with terrible LGBTQ rights issues.”
The Blade has reached out to FIFA and the Saudi government for comment.
Sports
Controversy grows over member of Calif. universityās womenās volleyball team
Coach suspended, NCAA sued, more rivals forfeit

San Jose State Universityās women volleyball team has collected yet another W by forfeit ā its seventh so far this season ā as controversy swirls around one player on its roster. Sheās one of the seniors, and she has been dragged in the media by her own co-captain, who outed her as transgender.
The Washington Blade is not naming this student athlete since neither she nor the school have confirmed or even commented on her gender identity.
SJSU visited San Diego last weekend for a match before the Aztecsā biggest home crowd of the season ā including protesters waving āSave Womenās Sportsā banners and booing one player on the Spartans team in particular: The woman who is reported to be trans.
Security was tight, with metal detectors and extra guards and police officers present. Video posted to YouTube by a right-wing sports media site ā which names the player ā shows an angry fan arguing with security about his First Amendment rights.
Video recorded during Nov. 9ās game shows a player for San Diego was injured following a spike by the player rumored to be trans, and had to be helped off the court. However, the video clearly shows that player was injured by landing poorly on one foot, not as a result of the spike.
The Aztecs defeated the Spartans 3-1, but San Jose has still punched its ticket to the conference finals, thanks to its record number of forfeits.
Wyoming was set to visit SJSU Thursday, but for the second time is joining other universities that have forfeited games against the Spartans, all without providing a reason. Boise State announced it will forfeit an upcoming match set for Nov. 21, its second forfeit against SJSU.
In September, the Spartansā co-captain, senior Brooke Slusser, outed her own teammate, the player at the center of this controversy, in joining a federal lawsuit against the NCAA spearheaded by anti-trans inclusion activist and former college athlete Riley Gaines.
Slusser said in the lawsuit and in subsequent interviews that the player in question shouldnāt be on her team. The suit claims the NCAAās policy on trans athletes violates Title IX by allowing āmenā to compete in women’s sports and use women’s locker rooms where they display āfull male genitalia.ā
The NCAA policy for trans athletes participating in womenās volleyball aligns with that of USA Volleyball, which requires trans female athletes to suppress their testosterone below 10 nmol/L for a period of one year before competition. That is also how the NCAA determines eligibility. SJSU has stated repeatedly that all its players are eligible.
The lawsuit also asks the NCAA to revoke any titles or records won by trans female athletes in women’s competitions, which seems to be specifically aimed at stripping out trans NCAA champions Lia Thomas and CeCĆ© Telfer of their titles in swimming and track and field, respectively.Ā
Prior to this season, the player rumored to be trans did not attract any attention other than being a successful starter, like Slusser. But now that she is in the media spotlight, Slusser has come forward to tell right wing media, including Megyn Kelly, why she feels another woman two inches taller than she is poses a danger.Ā
“I don’t feel safe,” Slusser said on “The Megyn Kelly Show” last month. “I’ve gone to my coaches and said I refuse to play against [her] ⦠It’s not safe.”
In the video, both Kelly and Slusser refer to the player as āhimā and a āman,ā and name her.
Now comes another twist: San Jose State University suspended associate head coach Melissa Batie-Smoose with pay, indefinitely, after she filed a Title IX complaint against SJSU. She claims the player Slusser identified as trans conspired with an opponent to help the team lose a match and injure Slusser. Batie-Smoose named the player in question in her complaint and on Sept. 23, joined the same lawsuit that Slusser is now a part of.
“Safety is being taken away from women,” Batie-Smoose told Fox News. “Fair play is taken away from women. We need more and more people to do this and fight this fight because womenās sports, as we know it right now will be forever changed.”
Media reporting on the suspension, including Fox News, continue to name the athlete in question, with some also reporting what they say is the athleteās birth name.
San Jose State released a statement following the suspension of Batie-Smoose: “The associate head coach of the San Jose State University womenās volleyball team is not with the team at this time, and we will not provide further information on this matter,” the team said.
SJSU Coach Todd Kress told ESPN that reports saying that any member of the Spartans colluded with their opponent are ālittered with lies.ā
The Spartans are currently among the top six finishers in the Mountain West Conference that will qualify to compete in the conference tournament scheduled for Nov. 27-30.
Sports
University of Nevada forfeits game rather than play possible trans athlete
Womenās volleyball team cites ānot enough players to competeā

For the fifth time, a womenās volleyball team has chosen to forfeit instead of play against San Jose State University, because of rumors that one of its players is a transgender woman.
The University of Nevada, Reno, officially announced on Friday that it would forfeit Saturdayās game against the SJSU Spartans. This followed an announcement by Wolf Pack players who said they “refuse to participate in any match that advances injustice against female athletes,” without providing further details.
Originally, Nevada’s athletic department had said the program would not back out from the match, citing state equality laws, but also said that no players would be disciplined if they chose to not participate.
āThe vast majority of our team decided this is something we wanted to take a stand on,ā Nevada team captain Sia Liilii told Fox News. āWe didnāt want to play against a male player.”
āIn all of our team meetings it just kept coming back to the fact that men do not belong in womenās sports. If youāre born a biological male, you donāt belong in womenās sports. Itās not even about this individual athlete. Itās about fair competition and safety for everyone.ā
Outsports and several conservative and right-wing websites have identified the player who is rumored to be trans, but the Washington Blade has opted to not do so since she herself has not come forward to either acknowledge or deny she is trans.Ā
As ESPN reported, Nevada follows Southern Utah, Boise State, Wyoming, and Utah State in canceling games against the Spartans. Boise State, Wyoming, Utah State, and Nevada are all members of the Mountain West Conference, so those contests are considered forfeits and count as valuable wins in the league standings for San Jose State.
Riley Gaines, the anti-trans inclusion activist for the Independent Womenās Forum has joined the chorus in claiming the Spartansā roster includes a trans woman.
If you're wondering why teams are forfeiting against @SJSU, here's the reason.
Last night another woman was smashed in the face by a kill from a man posing as a woman.
It's unfair, unsafe, and regressive, yet our "leaders" remain silent. pic.twitter.com/OS15AFxQsp
— Riley Gaines (@Riley_Gaines_) October 18, 2024
Despite this, neither San Jose State nor any of the other forfeiting teams have said the universityās women’s volleyball team has a trans player. SJSU issued a statement defending its roster.
āOur athletes all comply with NCAA and Mountain West Conference policies and they are eligible to play under the rules of those organizations. We will continue to take measures to prioritize the health and safety of our students while they pursue their earned opportunities to compete,ā the statement read.
The governors of Idaho, Nevada, Utah, and Wyoming ā all of whom are members of the Republican Party ā have issued public statements supporting the cancellations, claiming itās in the interest of fairness in women’s sports. This week, Donald Trump, the GOP presidential nominee and former president, spoke at a Fox News televised town hall when asked about trans athletes in women’s sports.
āWeāre not going to let it happen,ā Trump said. āWe stop it, we stop it, we absolutely stop it. We canāt have it. You just ban it. The president bans it. You donāt let it happen. Itās not a big deal.ā
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