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Spark Social House: D.C.’s first non-alcoholic LGBTQ bar debuts

New LGBTQ ‘bar’ is redefining sober nightlife looks on 14th and U Streets

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(Washington Blade photo by Joe Reberkenny)

The intersection of 14th and U Streets has become a focal point of Washingtonā€™s growing LGBTQ presence.

As the cityā€™s LGBTQ population has steadily increased, the intersection has reflected this shift. Since the end of the COVID-19 pandemic, it has emerged as one of the gayest corners in D.C.

The transformation accelerated with the opening of Bunker, an LGBTQ dance bar that fulfilled the longtime wish of many queer Washingtonians for a new gay dance club after the city lost two beloved venues ā€” Town Danceboutique and Cobalt ā€” before the pandemic. Since then, the corner has only grown more queer.

Three other LGBTQ bars have opened at the intersection of 14th and U since Bunker debuted in 2023: Crush Dance Bar, District Eagle, and, most recently, Spark Social House. Each of these venues offers a distinct environment for Washingtonā€™s LGBTQ community to socialize and connect. However, the newest addition to the corner is taking a different approach by removing one key element that ties the others together: Spark is an alcohol-free bar.

Nick Tsusaki, founder of Spark Social House, sat down with the Washington Blade to discuss what sets Spark apart from other LGBTQ spaces in the city, and how his experience working in LGBTQ nightlife has set him up for success.

ā€œI had been bartending at some of these other [gay] bars when I decided, ā€˜Oh, maybe I could open one too and this could be my whole life,ā€™ā€ Tsusaki said. ā€œI didn’t want to compete against my friends. I tried to think about it, and I noticed alcohol isn’t really me. So I was like, ā€˜Okay, well, what can I bring to the table that’s filling a gap? And that’s not taking any business from right next door, Crush?ā€™ Those are my friends. And so the way I thought about it was ā€˜What’s missing in D.C.?ā€™ And it was when I realized ā€˜Oh, we don’t really have a daytime place to hang out.ā€™

Spark Social House, created by Tsusaki and Shua Goodwin, is Washingtonā€™s first LGBTQ alcohol-free bar.

By day, the staff serves coffee and tea, creating a cozy cafĆ© atmosphere where you can work ā€˜from home.ā€™ By night, the space transforms into a vibrant sober party spot ā€” complete with DJs, dancing, and an emphasis on expertly crafted mocktails.

ā€œIt took us a really long time to figure out what to call it, because there really isn’t another kind of space like this,ā€ Tsusaki said. ā€œThat’s why we just ended up going with house. I want you to feel like you’re coming over to our house for a hang out.ā€

One of the major reasons the pair decided not to include alcohol in Spark was because of Tsusaki’s personal experiences with alcohol when he was younger.

ā€œI myself don’t really drink that much,ā€ Tsusaki said. ā€œBasically, because I’m Asian, I get Asian glow,ā€ he continued, laughing. ā€œI tried so hard in college to fit in. I remember on my 21st birthday I was supposed to go to Town and have fun with all my friends. So I drank and then fell asleep on the couch because my body just doesn’t process alcohol well.ā€

His lack of a relationship with alcohol only grew after he began working.

ā€œThen for the next eight years of my life, I was almost involuntarily sober because I was in the military. I couldn’t do drugs, and my body couldn’t tolerate alcohol. I just had to figure out how to have fun without that. And then my ex boyfriend, who is part of the Spark team, is sober. That’s really when I realized, like, ā€˜This is a huge community that isn’t coming out.ā€™”

People choose sobriety for many reasons; whether to prioritize their health, save money, or simply prefer an alcohol-free lifestyle. Ultimately, itā€™s a personal decision. One reason that LGBTQ individuals may choose to become sober is because they are more likely to engage with alcohol abuse than their straight counterparts. Alcohol abuse within the LGBTQ community may be as high as 25 percent, compared to 5ā€“10 percent in the general population, according to recent research conducted by the American Addition Center.

ā€œOne statistic that I found when I was doing my market research for this was that 38% of American adults don’t drink alcohol for whatever reason,ā€ Tsusaki said. ā€œHaving bartended at four bars now around the city, Dacha, Dirty Goose, Shakers, and Crush next door, we would always get asked, ā€˜Oh, do you have any mocktails?ā€™ And there was always a twang or tinge of shame when people would ask for that.ā€

Tsusaki hopes that by creating a space dedicated to queer nightlife without alcohol, he can help shift the culture ā€” making it easier for people to embrace sober socializing without shame.

ā€œIt’s [LGBTQ nightlife] very difficult for somebody who’s sober. I was always so impressed with how he [my ex] navigated it. Being sober in these spaces can be difficult when you don’t have a buzz going on. And so I figured there’s a lot of people that like that. Alcohol is not a requirement for hanging out with your friends. I don’t have alcohol in my house, so when they come over we just make tea and we hang out and chat. That’s kind of the vibe.ā€

Another group that is now invited to take space in Spark that had not been given the opportunity to in the past is younger members of the LGBTQ community.

ā€œWhat’s really cool about being non alcoholic is that we now can have anybody come in,ā€ Tsusaki said. ā€œWe’re gonna be 18 and up after 9 p.m. but during the day we’ll be in a space where any queer person under 21, any college student, can come and experience being in a queer space. Anyone under 21 previously didnā€™t really have access to a queer space. We know that the highest risk of suicide is in LGBTQ youth, from 10 to 14. For me, when I went to Town for the first time when I was 18, that was the first time that I was like, ā€˜Oh, being gay could actually be cool. Like, this is actually kind of cool. This could be a really fun life.ā€™ I’m excited that other people might be able to have that moment earlier in their life.ā€

David Draper was one of the invited guests to Sparkā€™s soft opening on March 7. While sipping ā€œThe Wanda, Not Cosmoā€ in the sitting room past the bar he told the Blade this is a needed space in Washingtonā€™s LGBTQ scene.

ā€œI’m friends with Shua and Nick, and I was grateful to be invited,ā€ Draper said. ā€œI’m also on a new sobriety journey within the last year, and excited. I wanted to support my friends, but also wanted to see this space. Just because you start a sobriety journey doesn’t mean you stop liking to go out. I still enjoy going out, and I am just excited to have a unique space like this.ā€

The space, Draper went on to explain, will help provide a space for members of the LGBTQ community who had been left to the side of an alcohol-centered culture.

ā€œIt makes me feel great. I think a lot of people are looking for options when they’re going out,ā€ he said. ā€œAnd I think the traditional gay bar is important, and an important part of gay culture and gay life, but I think there’s somewhat of a culture shift, as people have started abstaining from alcohol and other substances. So I think it’s cool to have a space like thisā€

Jerry Krusinski was sitting across from Draper, sipping on another signature mocktail, the “JalapeƱo Business” that uses zero proof tequila.

ā€œI’m pretty newly sober ā€” like just over a month, and so I’m still just kind of exploring what that life means,ā€ Krusinski said. ā€œIt’s been really surprising to me how much is actually out there. When you’re not in the sober community, you don’t really see it that much. It’s kind of comforting to see that the world has really kind of embraced it a lot more than I feel like its used to. It leaves me excited for the future.ā€

Spark Social House is located at 2009 14th St., N.W, and opens daily at 8 a.m. It closes at 10 p.m. Monday through Wednesday, 11 p.m. on Thursday and Sunday, and midnight on Friday and Saturday. For more information visit their website at https://spark-dc.com/ or their Instagram @sparksocialdc.

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Reenactment of 1965 gay rights protest at White House set for April 17

Event to mark 60thĀ anniversary of historic picketing

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Among those expected to participate in the April 17 White House reenactment picketing is longtime D.C. LGBTQ rights advocate Paul Kuntzler, who is shown here participating in a similar reenactment event in front of the White House one year ago. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

D.C.ā€™s Rainbow History Project is inviting members of the local LGBTQ community and its supporters to participate in a reenactment of what it calls the historic 1965 first gay rights protest outside the White House.

The event is scheduled to begin at 4 p.m. Thursday, April 17 on the sidewalk in front of the White House.

In a statement, Rainbow History Project says the 1965 protest was organized by local gay rights pioneers Frank Kameny and Lilli Vincenz on behalf of the Mattachine Society of Washington, one of D.C.ā€™s first gay rights groups that Kameny co-founded in the early 1960s.

ā€œLed by Dr. Kameny and Dr. Vincenz, picketers demanded action on the Mattachine Societyā€™s four major issues: the exclusion of homosexuals from Federal employment; the punitive policies of the U.S. Military; blanket denial of security clearances to gay people; and government refusal to meet with the LGBTQ community,ā€ the statement says.  

The statement referred to the titles of Kameny and Vincenz in connection with their academic doctorate degrees  

ā€œAlthough Dr. Kameny died in 2011, and Dr. Vincenz in 2023, Rainbow History Project and its all-volunteer corps will picket in their honor and demonstrate there is a new generation of young activists ready to take up their signs and their fight for equal rights for all LGBTQ people,ā€ the statement says.

Among those expected to participate in the April 17 White House reenactment picketing is longtime D.C. LGBTQ rights advocate Paul Kuntzler, who is the last known survivor of the 1965 White House gay rights protest. Kuntzler was expected to carry a picket sign similar to the one he carried in 1965.

In its research on the 1965 gay White House protest, Rainbow History Project learned of a letter that Kameny sent to then President Lyndon B. Johnson outlining the demands of the White House protesters.

ā€œWe ask, Mr. President, for what all American citizens ā€“ singly and collectively ā€“ have the right to ask,ā€ the Kameny letter states. ā€œThat our problems be given fair, unbiased considerationā€¦consideration in which we, ourselves, are allowed to participate actively and are invited to do so.ā€

The RHP statement says the group ā€œwill carry replicas of the original protest signs and hand out literature explaining the picket to passersby and tourists.ā€ Ā Ā 

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Final push to raise funds, fill D.C. hotels as WorldPride nears

ā€˜We would have liked to see the city fully sold out at this pointā€™

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D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser budgeted $5 million for WorldPride, which was approved by the Council. Capital Pride Alliance is now working to raise an additional $2 million. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

A final push to raise money and fill D.C. hotel rooms is underway with WorldPride 2025 just over a month away.

The Capital Pride Alliance, the D.C.-based group thatā€™s organizing WorldPride 2025 in the nationā€™s capital thatā€™s scheduled to take place May 17-June 8 launched what it says is one of several fundraising campaigns in a full-page ad in the Washington Post on April 1.

With a large headline declaring, ā€œHate Is No Joke,ā€ a message in the ad states, ā€œDecades of progress in human rights are under coordinated, systematic attack. Today itā€™s focused on gender, sexual orientation, and race. But whatā€™s next?ā€

The message then states, ā€œTake Action. Take a stand. Donate now at WorldPrideDC.org/give.ā€

That site says its goal is to raise $2 million. As of April 14, the site says $12,041 had been raised from 69 donors.

In response to a request by the Washington Blade for comment on what prompted this particular fundraising campaign, Capital Pride Alliance released a statement saying the campaign was part of its ongoing effort to promote WorldPride and its multiple events.

ā€œThe Hate Is No Joke campaign is one of multiple fundraising campaigns that have been planned around the lead-up to WorldPride 2025,ā€ the statement says. ā€œSimilar to CPAā€™s annual Giving Tuesday campaign and the current Taste of Pride citywide initiative, this campaign is intended to raise awareness for and funds to support WorldPride.ā€

The statement says the ā€œHate Is No Jokeā€ campaign is being led by the local event planning company Linder Global Events, which D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser retained to work with Capital Pride Alliance in organizing WorldPride 2025.

Capital Pride Alliance Executive Director Ryan Bos told the Blade last month that CPA had set up a budget of between $15 million and $20 million for WorldPride 2025, with much of the funding coming from corporate donors. At the request of MayorĀ Bowser, the D.C. Council approved $5 million in city funding for WorldPride.

ā€œAnd like we do every year for an organization like ours, which is event based, we do our best every year to come under budget,ā€ Bos said in referring to the cityā€™s annual Capital Pride celebration and events. ā€œSo, we are doing our best to save whenever we can and to ensure that we have a safe and successful WorldPride,ā€ he said.

In its statement responding to the Bladeā€™s inquiry about the Hate Is No Joke fundraising campaign, Capital Pride Alliance said it has learned through the international LGBTQ advocacy organization InterPride, which plays a role in organizing WorldPride events, that visitors from at least 20 countries were expected to come to D.C. for WorldPride 2025.

Among those countries were Canada, Mexico, and several others from Europe, Asia, and Africa, including Uganda and Zimbabwe, as well as India, Spain, Italy, United Kingdom, China, and Thailand.

Elliott Ferguson, president and CEO of Destination D.C., an organization that promotes tourism, visitation, and events in D.C., including events like WorldPride, said he is seeing signs that hotel reservations are increasing from visitors planning to come to D.C. for WorldPride. But he said he cannot predict whether as many as 2 million or more visitors will come as WorldPride organizers had predicted earlier this year.

At Capital Pride Allianceā€™s suggestion, Ferguson spoke with the Blade to address the question of whether the controversial statements and policies of President Donald Trump on world trade issues and tariffs involving longtime U.S. allies like Canada and Mexico as well as the Trump administrationā€™s hostile policies targeting the transgender community would prompt people, especially those from foreign countries, to choose not to come to D.C. for WorldPride.

ā€œIā€™m not sure,ā€ Ferguson told the Blade in an interview. ā€œYou know, I think thatā€™s the gray area in terms of how many people will come,ā€ he said.

ā€œBut reservations are being made. Weā€™re seeing more of an uptick,ā€ he told the Blade. ā€œAnd we remain optimistic as WorldPride organizers and Capital Pride organizers are really focusing on the celebration of the community thatā€™s happening in the city,ā€ he said.

Ferguson said he and Destination D.C. were joining WorldPride organizers in putting out the message that if people disagree with the Trump administrationā€™s policies on LGBTQ-related issues or any other issues, they should turn out for WorldPride to protest those policies.

Capital Pride officials have pointed out that among the many events planned for WorldPride is a national LGBTQ rights march on Washington that will begin at the Lincoln Memorial and travel to the U.S. Capitol.

ā€œThereā€™s a lot of consternation and concern about a lot of issues that have been brought to our attention by a lot of international travelers, including those that were looking at coming for WorldPride,ā€ Ferguson said.

ā€œWhat weā€™ve said to them is, you know, coming to WorldPride from a global perspective focusing on freedom of speech and First Amendment rights here in the U.S. is a huge part of why you should be here,ā€ he added. 

ā€œSo, as we talk to hotels, we would have liked to see the city fully sold out at this point,ā€ he said. ā€œBut we are seeing momentum in terms of reservations being made and people coming to Washington.ā€ 

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D.C. parties with a purpose for Cherry Weekend

LGBTQ community to benefit from money raised

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A scene from a Cherry party. (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

Washingtonā€™s queer community will have the opportunity to party with a purpose this weekend as Cherry Weekend returns to raise money for LGBTQ organizations in D.C.

Cherry Weekend is an annual celebration of parties, DJs, and drag that gives the LGBTQ community a chance to let their hair down, dance, drink and be merry-while supporting some of the cityā€™s most vulnerable queer residents through the Cherry Fund.

This yearā€™s Cherry Weekend runs April 11-13, with four parties, eight DJs and one iconic drag performance from Detox, a former ā€œRuPaulā€™s Drag Raceā€ contestant, all in support of the Cherry Fund.

Founded in 1996 by local LGBTQ residents, the Cherry Fund raises money to make Washington a safer and more inclusive place for LGBTQ people to live, grow and thrive. Cherry Weekend is the nonprofitā€™s flagship fundraising event, supporting LGBTQ community members living with HIV and those struggling with mental health challenges.

The Cherry Fund has donated to a wide range of D.C.-based organizations over the years. This year, proceeds will support the DC LGBTQ+ Community Center, and the ReelAbilities Film Festival of Greater Washington, which promotes ā€œawareness and appreciation of the lives, stories and artistic expressions of people with disabilities.ā€

As the longest-running 501(c)(3) nonprofit circuit party organization in the U.S., the Cherry Fund has a reputation to uphold-and in 2025, itā€™s doing so with four ā€œCHERRY ELEMENTā€-themed dance parties across the city.

The weekend kicks off at 11 p.m. Friday with the ā€œAIRā€ party at DC9 Nightclub (1940 9th St., N.W.) in Shaw. DJs Orel Sabag (Israel) and Jake Maxwell (U.S.) will spin music to ā€œelevate your spirit and unite your soul in a celebration of the CHERRY element.ā€

Saturday night brings the main event: The ā€œFIREā€ party at Betty in Brentwood (1235 W St., N.E.), featuring Detox, along with DJs Tezrah (U.S.) and Las Bibas from Vizcaya (Brazil). From 10 p.m. to 4 a.m., ā€œscorching beatsā€ and a fiery atmosphere will heat up the dance floor.

After the smoke clears, Flash Nightclub in Shaw (645 Florida Ave., N.W.) will host the ā€œEARTHā€ after-party from 4-8 a.m. Sunday, with DJs Calagna (U.S.) and Ed Wood (Puerto Rico) providing the soundtrack.

The weekend wraps Sunday night with the ā€œWATERā€ party at Bunker (2001 14th St., N.W.), where DJs Chord (U.S.) and Jesus Montanez (Mexico) will play ā€œcool, flowing beatsā€ from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m.

Tickets and a full schedule are available at CherryDC.com. To learn more about the Cherry Fund, visit CherryFund.org.

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