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Best of Gay D.C. XIV

Blade readers choose the best in nightlife, people, dining and community

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ON THE COVER: Destiny B. Childs (Best Drag Queen) gets her makeup attended to by Wendy Rieger (Best TV personality) as Drew Fisher and Tim Baird, bartenders at Number Nine (Hottest Bar Staff) keep them fortified with the Lemon Squeeze (Best Cocktail from Duplex Diner), beer from D.C. Brau (Best Brewery), Krispy Kreme donuts (Best Donuts), pizza from &Pizza (Best Pizza) and more at the Town Patio (Best Outdoor Drinking). Decor courtesy Miss Pixieā€™s (Best Second Hand Stuff). (Concept and Washington Blade photo by James Neal)

The High Heel Race, the Walk to End HIV, the Town Halloween costume contest, the HRC National Dinner and yes, the Washington Bladeā€™s Best of Gay D.C. readersā€™ poll edition, local gay October traditions all.

For our 14th installment, we decided to cast the net wide ā€” you voted in 97 categories (up from 73 last year) with about 5,000 nominations and 20,000 votes.

From bars, venues and restaurants weā€™ve enjoyed for years to places weā€™d never even heard of but canā€™t wait to try, the fun of this issue is the memories it inspires ā€” like that table you bought at Miss Pixieā€™s and canā€™t imagine life without ā€” to starting a list of places to track down like the Red Hook Lobster Truck.

The profiles were written by Patrick Folliard, Mariah Cooper, Brian T. Carney and Kristen Hartke.

The entire Washington Blade staff congratulates each of this yearā€™s winners and finalists.

PEOPLE

 

Lifetime Achievement

Vice President Joseph Biden

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U.S. Vice President Joe BidenĀ (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

Vice President Joseph Biden, delivering the keynote address at the Human Rights Campaignā€™s national dinner earlier this month, touted the significance of the court ruling on marriage, but also turned toward other issues relevant to the LGBT community.

ā€œThe great arc of justice is the journey of this nation, and it continues to move in the right direction,ā€ Biden said. ā€œWeā€™re moving closer and closer to the animating spirit of America because of all of you, not me, because of all of you.ā€

Although heā€™s previously articulated support for comprehensive legislation prohibiting anti-LGBT discrimination, Biden took the opportunity of his speech to explicitly endorse the Equality Act, which would amend the Civil Rights Act and the Fair Housing Act to include sexual orientation and gender identity.

ā€œI strongly support the Equality Act, and it will pass, it will pass,ā€ Biden said. ā€œIt may not pass this Congress. It will pass because itā€™s simple and itā€™s straightforward.ā€ Bidenā€™s support for the Equality Act makes him the first official in the Obama administration to explicitly endorse the bill.

Biden in 2012 dubbed transgender rights the ā€œcivil rights issue of our time,ā€ an assertion he repeated this month as he commended Defense Secretary Ashton Carter for starting a review expected to lead in May to an end of the ban on openly transgender service.

ā€œIt took the secretary of defense about 10 minutes,ā€ Biden said. ā€œIn July 2015 no longer is there any question, transgender people are able to serve in the United States military.ā€ ā€œAll Americans who are able to serve physically should be able to serve,ā€ Biden added.

Although Biden voted for the Defense of Marriage Act in 1996 as a senator from Delaware, he later changed his position and opposed it. He opposed efforts to amend the U.S. Constitution to ban same-sex marriage that began in 2002 and voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment in 2006.

 

 

Most Committed Activist

Ruby Corado

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Ruby CoradoĀ (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Casa Ruby

2822 Georgia Ave., N.W.

casaruby.org

Runner-up: Rayceen Pendarvis

 

 

Best Council Member

Jack Evans (Ward 2)

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Jack Evans (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

jackevans.org

Runner-up: David Grosso

 

 

Hottest Local Pro Athlete

Bryce Harper

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Bryce Harper (Photo courtesy of the Washington Nationals

Washington Nationals

Runner-up: Ali Krieger

 

 

Best Massage

Eddie Weingart

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Eddie Weingart (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Che Young

 

 

Best Personal Trainer

Gerard Burley

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Gerard Burley (Photo by Scott Henrichsen)

ā€œCoach Gā€

Runner-up: Anya Maleknasri

 

 

Best Doctor

Dr. Raymond Martins

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Dr. Raymond Martins (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Whitman-Walker Health

1701 14th St., N.W.

1525 14th St., N.W.

2301 Martin Luther King Jr. Ave., S.E.

whitman-walker.org

Runner-up: One Medical

 

 

Best Real Estate Agent

Valerie Blake

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Valerie Blake (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

dchomequest.com

Runner-up: Stacey Williams-Zeiger

 

 

Best Rehoboth Real Estate Agent

Chris Beagle

Best of Gay D.C.

Chris Beagle (Photo courtesy of Beagle)

Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices

berkshirehathawayhs.com

Runner-up: Barbara Morales

 

 

Best Rehoboth Bartender

Chris Chandler (Purple Parrot)

Best of Gay D.C.

Chris Chandler (Photo courtesy of Chandler)

Runner-up: Andrew Ennis (Blue Moon)

 

 

Best Amateur Athlete

Jeff Larivee (Stonewall Kickball)

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Jeff Larivee (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Matt Pearce (D.C. Gay Flag Football League)

 

 

Best Local Columnist

Ezra Klein (Vox)

Ezra Klein (Photo courtesy of Klein)

Ezra Klein (Photo courtesy of Klein)

Runner-up: John Kelly (Washington Post)

 

 

Best Bartender

Sarah Slocum

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Sarah Slocum (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Jayson Smith (JR.ā€™s)

Luckily for the patrons at Freddieā€™s Beach Bar, a perennial favorite in Crystal City (in, as they say, ā€œYES, honey, VIRGINIA!ā€), bartender Sarah Slocum really enjoys her job, saying, ā€œI love that when I arrive at work, I feel like I’m walking into a party with all my friends already there ā€” I just happen to be the one that getsĀ to make all the drinks!ā€

Whether youā€™re there for karaoke, bingo or a Freddieā€™s Follies drag show, thereā€™s really never a dull moment at Freddieā€™s, although Slocum confesses to also enjoying the quieter nights when she can chat in a more leisurely way with customers. While she has a particular affinity for mixing martinis, Slocum likes presenting the Flashing Flamingo, an in-your-face concoction of watermelon and pomegranate vodkas and lip-puckering juices that arrives with a flashing ice cube floating in the depths of a fishbowl-like glass: ā€œIt definitely lends some liquid courage to help you get up and sing karaoke,ā€ she says. (KH)

Freddie’s Beach Bar & Restaurant

555 South 23rd St., Arlington

freddiesbeachbar.com

 

 

Best Stylist

Enders Barbaran

Best of Gay D.C.

Enders Barbaran (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Bang Salonā€™s Metropole location

Runner-up: Shar Raigner

After working in accounts payable for several years, Enders Barbaran was ready for a change.

ā€œI didnā€™t know exactly what I wanted to do, but I knew it had to be something different and I knew it had to happen fast.ā€ So without a lot of thought, he went to work as a shampoo assistant at Bang Salonā€™s Metropole location where his then-roommate was working as a stylist.

ā€œImmediately I liked it,ā€ says Barbaran. ā€œI instinctively like to bring out the best in my clients whatever the job. The salon is an environment where I can do that.ā€

After several months on the job, Barbaran figured he could do what the stylists were doing so he enrolled in cosmetology school. For the next year he attended classes by day and shampooed clients in the evening. Following graduation, he received further training at Bang and became a full-fledged stylist with his own chair in 2009.

ā€œI thank both Bangā€™s owner and my manager,ā€ says Barbaran. ā€œThey had a lot of faith in me. I wouldnā€™t be where I am without them.ā€

Barbaran grew up in Lima, Peru, surrounded by a family comprised of women. ā€œI loved playing with my cousinsā€™ hair,ā€ says the stylist. ā€œAnd even when I was working in accounts payable I played with my female co-workerā€™s hair. Iā€™ve always liked hair. Iā€™d just never thought to make it a profession.ā€

Today, Barbaran remains at Bang Salon where he cuts and colors both men and women. ā€œMy clients are like family to me and I want them to be happy. Iā€™m humbled to have won among a field of excellent stylists. I didnā€™t campaign to win this. Itā€™s truly a gift from my clients.ā€ (PF)

Bang Salon Metropole

1519 15th St., N.W.

Bangsalon.com

 

 

Best Lawyer

Michele Zavos

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Michele Zavos (Photo courtesy Zavos Juncker Law Group)

Zavos Juncker Law Group

Runner-up: Patrick Menasco

Michele Zavos has been an attorney in the LGBT community for a long time. And throughout her career, sheā€™s witnessed a lot of change.

ā€œMost of it has come slowly, but over the last few years things have happened more quickly,ā€ she says.

As the managing partner and founder of Zavos Juncker Law Group, Zavos has litigated and helped change policy in the District of Columbia, Maryland, and the Commonwealth of Virginia to extend legal protections to LGBT clients. She was the winning attorney in Port v. Cowan, in which the Maryland Court of Appeals held in May of 2012 that Maryland must recognize valid same-sex marriages from other jurisdictions, which predated the passage of marriage equality in Maryland.

ā€œFifty percent of our clients are LGBT,ā€ says Zavos who is married to Ellen Cull, her partner of 22 years. ā€œWeā€™re a family law firm on the cutting edge for developing LGBT protection and representing people in difficult circumstances as a result of how family law has worked.ā€

In 1982, Zavos started the first ā€œMaybe Babyā€ group for lesbians and gay men considering having children. ā€œMy daughter who is 30 was born with a donor dad,ā€ says Zavos. ā€œSo this is my passion and interest and Iā€™ve been fortunate to make it into a law practice. In family law there remains a ways to go regarding the rights of non-biological parents in same-sex relationships and marriages. For LGBT people in general thereā€™s still a lot to do, particularly surrounding the area of trans rights and employment and discrimination, but thatā€™s outside of my practice area.ā€

Looking ahead, Zavos says she is committed to further expanding the boundaries that protect LGBT families. (PF)

Zavos Junker Law Group

8455 Colesville Rd., No. 1500

Silver Spring, Md.

Zavosjunckerlawgroup.com

 

 

Best Artist

Chris Jay

Best of Gay D.C.

Chris Jay (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: David Claypool

ā€œSince I first started hanging out in D.C. three years ago, I wanted to win this,ā€ says Chris Jay, a professional photographer in the Baltimore/Washington area. ā€œLast year I wasnā€™t even nominated, and this year I turned up in three categories. Itā€™s the result of a lot of hard work.ā€

Jay, whoā€™s been taking photographs for 20 years, is currently focusing on a project titled ā€œKingxtaposition,ā€ a collection of work capturing the many faces of drag kings. Her subjects to date have primarily been members of the D.C. Kings, a troupe with which sheā€™s performed. But Jay has plans to expand.

Based in Howard County, Maryland, Jay wants to take her project on the road.

ā€œThe goal is to start traveling the country and meeting kings and photographing them. This project is big, but itā€™s not something Iā€™m doing for money. I just want to tell stories from the perspective of someone who changes through the process of performing. I want to keep digging into that.ā€

At her business, Chris Jay Photos, Jay shoots portraits of performers, small business owners and local artists.

ā€œI keep my prices reasonable so people can afford to promote themselves. I like to help them realize what they see in their heads.ā€

Her introduction to photography was at a JC Penny Portrait Studio where she worked after graduating from high school. ā€œDuring the first Christmas season, I shot bazillions of family portraits and loved it. After that I worked for a company taking school portraits for seven years.ā€

Jayā€™s most personal work consists of self-portraits documenting her struggles with depression. ā€œI like to raise awareness of what itā€™s like to live with a mental illness. My everyday life isnā€™t easy. But once I get going, itā€™s hard to stop me.ā€ (PF)

Chrisjayphoto.com

 

 

Best Businessperson

Howard Brooks

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Howard Brooks (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Scott Roewer, The Organizing Agency

The talented physician Howard L. Brooks, MD, has been medical director at the popular SKIN Cosmetic Dermatology Center of Georgetown since 2007. He is recognized as a leader in non-invasive body and facial rejuvenation for men and women.

Brooks says that SKIN blends the professional services of a physicianā€™s office with the relaxing environment of a day spa, but emphasizes that patients need to play an active role in the health of their skin. SKIN offers clients a wide array of aesthetic, cosmetic and medical treatment options.

Brooks and the staff at SKIN have received overwhelmingly positive reviews. Patients appreciated their efficiency and friendliness and praised Brooks for his ability to listen and ask great questions, his skill at making quick and clear recommendations, his caring manner and honesty.

Brooks is aĀ graduate of Howard University College of Medicine. He completed his medical internship at Franklin Square Medical Center in Baltimore; his residency atĀ Howard University Hospital included stints at Walter Reed Army Medical Center, Children’s National Medical Center and the Armed Forces Institute of Pathology.

He often appears as anĀ expert resource for local and national media outlets including the Washington Blade, CNN, Fox Morning News, NewsChannel 8 and WTOP. He is an attending instructor for the University Health Center at University of Maryland and is the author (or co-author) ofĀ numerous scientific and clinical articles in peer reviewed journals and texts. He is also a member of the Capital Area Physicians for Human Rights and the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association. (BTC)

Dr. Howard Brooks

SKIN Dermatology of Georgetown

2233 Wisconsin Ave. N.W., no. 230

202-298-7546

georgetownskin.com

 

 

Best Clergy

Bishop Allyson Abrams

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Bishop Allyson Abrams (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Rev. David Lett

Bishop Allyson Abrams, founder and current pastor of Empowerment Liberation Cathedral, made headlines last year when she married Bishop Diana Williams. Abrams was serving as the first female pastor at Zion Progress Baptist Church in Detroit when she married Williams, who is a bishop emeritus with Washingtonā€™sĀ Imani Temple African-American Catholic Congregation. Rumors of their wedding quickly spread through the congregation and Abrams resigned from the church.

The couple moved to D.C. and Abrams founded her new LGBT-affirming church, which currently holds services in the sanctuary of the Church of the Ascension in Silver Spring. (Empowerment Liberation Cathedral was named Best House of Worship and is profiled separately.)

Abrams graduated from Howard University with a Bachelor of Science in Mechanical Engineering. She received her masterā€™s of divinity and her doctorate in ministry from United Theological Seminary. She is the author of three books and two of her sermons have been published in ā€œThe African American Pulpit.ā€ She is also recognized for her magnificent singing voice and sang with the Young Adult Fellowship Ensemble at D.C.ā€™s Metropolitan Baptist Church. She has also taught at Ashland Theological Seminary and Wayne County Community College and served as a doctoral mentor at Ecumenical Theological Seminary.

On a lighter note, Abrams also officiated at the 2014 wedding of singer Monifah Carter and her girlfriend Terez Thorpe on the final episode of the reality TV show “R&B DivasĀ of Atlanta.”

Known for her fiery, stirring messages and electrifying prayers, she has been asked to preach at pulpits across the country. Abrams says her passion and gift is ā€œpreaching the gospel of Jesus Christ and helping Godā€™s people.ā€ She looks forward to continuing her social justice work and ministry at Empowerment Liberation Cathedral. (BTC)

Bishop Allyson Abrams

Empowerment Liberation Cathedral

633 Sligo Ave., Silver Spring

240-720-7605

empowermentliberationcathedral.org

 

 

Best Hill Staffer

Yesenia Chavez

Best of Gay D.C.

Yesenia Chavez (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Kevin Knight

Yesenia Chavez is already a voice to be reckoned with on Capitol Hill. Since arriving in Washington in August 2013, this rising star has been an out and proud spokesperson for women, people of color and the LGBT community.

Sheā€™s currently a legislative assistant for U.S. Representative RaĆŗl M. Grijalva, a Democrat from Arizonaā€™s Third District. Her legislative portfolio includes LGBT issues, human rights, womenā€™s rights, small business, gun violence, veteransā€™ affairs and voting rights. In addition, she serves as the staff contact for the Congressional LGBT Equality Caucus and the Congressional Asian Pacific American Caucus. Chavez began working on the Hill when she was selected as one of four Victory Congressional Interns by the Gay and Lesbian Victory Institute in 2013.

Chavez is also an At-Large Director for the LGBT Congressional Staff Association, which is an official, non-partisan congressional staff organization that promotes career development opportunities for LGBT congressional staffers. Chavezā€™s focus is on building member outreach toward women and staffers of color and she has initiated queer people of color and womenā€™s lunches to build community and to strengthen the groupā€™s diversity.

In 2014, Chavez was named one of the ā€œ20 Queer People of Color You Should Knowā€ by Houstonā€™s Outsmart Magazine. A graduate of the University of Houston, she received the Universityā€™s Community Involvement Scholarship from the LGBT Resource Center and the Difference Maker Award from the University Commission on Women. Sheā€™s also a Hometown Mentor for the College Success Foundation. (BTC)

Yesenia Chavez

1511 Longworth House Office Building

202-225-2435

grijalva.house.gov

 

 

Best Trans Advocate

Thomas Coughlin

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Thomas Coughlin (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Ruby Corado

This is the second year that Thomas Coughlin has been named Best Trans Advocate in the Bladeā€™s Best of Gay D.C. Readersā€™ Poll Awards. He’s a staff psychotherapist and transgender health advocate at Whitman-Walker Health and is also in private practice with an office near Dupont Circle.

A long-time D.C. resident, Coughlin joined the Army in 1986 and was stationed at the Pentagon. After his service, he decided to stay in the area and earned a masterā€™s degree in Clinical Community Counseling from Johns Hopkins University He came out as gay in 1985 and began to come out as trans in 1999. He currently lives in Silver Spring with his wife and stepchildren (and their dog Maize).

In a 2014 Queery profile in the Blade, Coughlin said his LGBT heroes were ā€œthose in the community facing harassment, discrimination and oppression every single day, but still finding the courage to live their truth. Seriously, thatā€™s the heroic stuff.ā€ That passion clearly underlines his approach to counseling. As he says on his website, ā€œsometimes creating or maintaining a happy,Ā satisfying life requires help. I support you in your journeyĀ toward your true self.ā€

Coughlin has also been a leader in providing transgender cultural competencyĀ training toĀ businesses, educationalĀ institutions and private agencies that wish to learnĀ more about transgender lives. He works with organizations to help them understand and support transgender employees and assists professionalsĀ who wish to better serve their clients in providingĀ compassionate and competent care to members of the transgender community. (BTC)

Thomas Coughlin, LPC, NCC

1633 Q St., N.W., Suite 210

thomascoughlinlpc.com

 

 

Best Chef

JosƩ AndrƩs

Best of Gay D.C.

JosƩ AndrƩs (Photo by Blair Getz Mezibov)

Runner-up: Mike Isabella, Mike Isabella Concepts

You canā€™t throw a plate of tapas in D.C. without hitting a JosĆ© AndrĆ©s restaurant these days, so itā€™s no wonder that the ebullient Spanish-born chef would get the nod in this category.

With nearly a dozen restaurants in the region, itā€™s easy to get your hands on AndrĆ©sā€™ food, whether itā€™s a bocata ā€” the Spanish version of a deli sandwich ā€” from his roving food truck Pepe, Lebanese-inspired crispy Brussels sprouts at Zaytinya, or deviled eggs spiked with jalapeƱo at American Eats Tavern that speak to the chefā€™s exploration of his adopted countryā€™s classic dishes. AndrĆ©sā€™ foray into fast-casual this year with the opening of the veggie-centric Beefsteak in Foggy Bottom and Dupont Circle solidified his role as a chef who wants to connect with every single diner in this city on some level, whether through tomatoes, turkey or tequila.

Still, even while building a veritable dining empire, AndrĆ©s has also committed considerable time and resources to supporting healthy eating efforts at D.C. Central Kitchen, teaching students at George Washington University about how the food supply chain affects global security and engaging local kids in First Lady Michelle Obamaā€™s Letā€™s Move! campaign to fight childhood obesity. Always accessible, JosĆ© AndrĆ©s is the kind of celebrity chef who knows how to keep it real, and that keeps us at his tables. (KH)

 

 

Best Straight Ally

Meghan Davies

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Meghan Davies (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Maya Rupert

Meghan Davies, Whitman-Walker Healthā€™s chief of operations and program integration, has supported D.C.ā€™s LGBT community through her work with Whitman-Walker.

Her job has her overseeing many aspects of Whitman-Walker Health including community health, clinical infrastructure, therapy-based services and more.

Previously, Davies was Whitman-Walker Healthā€™s Director of Community Health. She assisted with the Breast Health Initiative, HIV counseling, Whitman-Walkerā€™s +1 HIV Peer Support Program and PALS, a program advocating for LGBT seniors.

Her other background efforts include being an HIV prevention volunteer in the Peace Corps. She also holds a masterā€™s degree in public health from George Washington University. (MC)

 

 

Best Local TV Personality

Wendy Rieger

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Wendy Rieger (Washington Blade photo by Jonathan Ellis)

Runner-up: Chuck Bell

NBC4ā€™s Wendy Rieger stumbled upon broadcast journalism when she was a college drop-out looking to make money as an actress. She found a job reading the news on camera in Norfolk, Va., and fell in love with the business.

The job inspired Rieger to return to school and she earned her degree in broadcast journalism from American University.

Rieger, a frequent emcee for SMYALā€™s fall brunches, was struck by the injustice young LGBT people faced when she was doing a story on SMYAL and at the time was not allowed to say the location for fear of it being attacked.

ā€œWhat kind of insanity is that? In a civilized country,ā€ Rieger says. ā€œIt turns my stomach to think that people still harbor that much hatred for something that is unlike them.ā€

Rieger says that growing up in the South and seeing the racism African Americans faced raised her awareness about how poorly people can be treated for being different. When she moved to D.C., she had gay friends and noticed similar injustices that made her want to speak out. She hopes her public persona can help LGBT issues progress in a positive direction.

ā€œIf my name in any way takes away some of the fear or anxiety someone may feel because this is an unknown to them and I can help show them that these people are people living their lives and itā€™s normal, itā€™s going to be for the greater good in the end,ā€ Rieger says. (MC)

 

 

Local Hero

David Franco

Best of Gay D.C.

David Franco (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

David Franco, principal and co-founder of real estate development Level 2 Development, has a passion for housing displacement that stems from a personal place.

Francoā€™s family owned Jay Deeā€™s Childrenā€™s Apparel, a discount department store in D.C., from 1937-1983 and were forced to shut down.

Franco, who spent his childhood growing up in the store, vividly remembers how he felt.

ā€œI remember standing there across the street the day that the wrecking ball demolished the store,ā€ Franco says. ā€œIt was really an impactful moment, just feeling displaced, feeling like my family had been displaced.ā€

That moment led Franco to spearhead housing preservation efforts. In 2005, Franco joined forces with Jubilee Housing to help preserve Cresthill Apartments for the Sankoka Tenants Association, a 48-unit building. The partnership led to creating home ownership opportunities for low- to medium-income residents specifically for the 14th Street corridor.

Franco, who also owns menā€™s clothing store Universal Gear on 14th Street, has also served on Mayor Fentyā€™s D.C. Housing and Community Developmentā€™s Housing Protection Trust Fund Board. (MC)

 

NIGHTLIFE

 

Best Cocktail

Lemon Squeeze

Best of Gay D.C.

Lemon Squeeze (Washington Blade photo by James Neal)

Duplex Diner

2004 18th St., N.W.

202-265-7828

duplexdiner.com

Runner-up: Sunday Sangria (1905 Bistro & Bar)

 

 

Best Drag Show

Ladies of Town

Town Danceboutique (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Town Danceboutique (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Fridays and Saturdays at 10:30 p.m.

Town Danceboutique

2009 8th St., N.W.

towndc.com

Runner-up: D.C. Kings

 

 

Best Gay-Friendly Straight Bar

Dacha Beer Garden

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Dacha Beer Garden (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

1600 7th St., N.W.

202-524-8790

dachadc.com

Runner-up: Black Cat

 

 

Best Happy Hour &

Hottest Bar Staff

Bartenders at Number Nine (Washington Blade photo by Damien Salas)

Bartenders at Number Nine, from left, <strong>Scott Peton</strong>, <strong>Jake Reif</strong> and <strong>Kieran McGuidan</strong>, serve patrons at happy hour. (Washington Blade photo by Damien Salas)

Number Nine

1435 P St., N.W.

numberninedc.com

Runner-up: Bear Happy Hour

 

 

Best Live Music

9:30 Club

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(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

815 V St., N.W.

930.com

Runner-up: Howard Theatre

 

 

Best Neighborhood Bar

Phase 1

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Phase 1 (Washington Blade file photo by Nicole Reinertson)

525 8th St., S.E.

phase1dc.com

Runner-up: JR.ā€™s

 

 

Best Outside-the-District Bar

Freddieā€™s Beach Bar

Freddie's Beach Bar and Grill (Blade file photo by Michael Key)

Freddie’s Beach Bar and Grill (Blade file photo by Michael Key)

555 S. 23rd St.

Arlington, Va.

freddiesbeachbar.com

Runner-up: Blue Iguana

 

 

Best Outdoor Drinking

Town Patio

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(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Town Danceboutique

2009 8th St., N.W.

towndc.com

Runner-up: Dacha Beer Garden

 

 

Best Guys Night Out

Secrets

SECRETS_insert1824 Half St., S.W.

secretsdc.com

Runner-up: Town

 

 

Best Girls Night Out

BARE by LURe

LURe (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

LURe (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Every third Saturday of the month at Cobalt

1639 R St., N.W.

cobaltdc.com

Runner-up: Phase 1

 

 

Best Place to Find Someone Besides Grindr

Crew Club

Best of Gay D.C.

Crew Club (Photo by Pete Exis)

1321 14th St., N.W.

crewclub.net

Runner-up: Town

 

 

Best Rehoboth Bar

Blue Moon

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Blue Moon (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

35 Baltimore Ave.

Rehoboth Beach, Del.

bluemoonrehoboth.com

Runner-up: Aqua

 

 

Best Rooftop

Nellieā€™s Sports Bar

Nellie's Sports Bar, gay news, Washington Blade

(Washington Blade photo by Hugh Clarke)

900 U St., N.W.

nelliessportsbar.com

Runner-up: Penthouse Pool & Lounge

 

 

Best DJ

Matt Bailer

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DJ Matt Bailer (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Rosie Hicks

For DJ Matt Bailer, the secret to his ongoing success boils down to the music.

ā€œI donā€™t know how to throw a party per se. But I know how to play music that I love and think other people will love too.ā€

His two monthly dance parties, Peach Pit and Mixtape (with co-host DJ Shea Van Horn), have been staples of gay nightlife for six and seven years respectively. While Mixtape melds new and older music and rotates venues (Black Cat, 9:30, Howard Theatre and Town), Peach Pit is strictly ā€˜90s music and stays put at DC9.

Bailer also spins at Nellieā€™s on Fridays, and occasionally La Boum, a boozy brunch at Lā€™Enfant CafĆ© in Adams Morgan. Unlike DJs who use laptops, Bainer relies on CDs, so technically, yes, he spins. ā€œI describe myself as middle school,ā€ Bailer says. ā€œIā€™m somewhere between laptop and vinyl. My favorite music includes ā€˜90s, house, old hip hop, pop and remixes.ā€

Growing up in Camp Springs, Md., Bailer was hooked on radio. At 10, he was already listening to (and recording) Casey Kasem’s American Top 40. ā€œI loved finding new music and introducing it to my family and friends. I still do.ā€

After studying theater at Duke University in North Carolina in the ā€˜90s, Bailer spent two-and-a-half years in Los Angeles DJing some, but mostly doing drugs. He returned to D.C. and got sober in 2003. Soon after he began picking up DJ gigs at Omega, a Guess Store and recovery sober dances. Eventually he connected with Cobalt and work became steadier. In 2009, he gave up his day job at an office and hasnā€™t looked back since.

ā€œToday I feel like Iā€™m doing what Iā€™m on the planet to do. That may change one day, but not today.ā€ (PF)

 

 

Best Burlesque Dancer

Private Tails

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Private Tails (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: GiGi Holliday

Miss Private Tails is an international entertainer and professional ecdysiast who says her mission is to inspire and electrify. Born just outside of Hollywood, Calif., she has been performing burlesque since 2005 and has been based in D.C. for the past eight years. She is Miss Gay United States Capital City Femme Fatale (2013) and the eternal Miss Nubian DMV (2009) and was the First Miss Phase 1 (2010). She is also the regional promoter for Burlypicks, the only international talent competition focused on burlesque and variety.

Her scintillating act draws on a wide variety of influences including classical burlesque, hip-hop, boi-lesque and Broadway. She currently has more than 100 polished routines in her performance repertoire, but she also enjoys the creative process of developing new numbers and looks forward to the opportunity to whip up a fresh new performance for an enthusiastic audience. Sheā€™s been dancing and entertaining since childhood and received a bachelorā€™s degree in theater from Lycoming College in Williamsport, Pa., with a focus on both acting and directing.

Miss Private Tails proudly notes that she knows how to charm the large bills out of the pockets of her audience, but also notes that since burlesque is the ā€œart of the tease,ā€ she doesnā€™t necessarily have to show a lot of skin to have an entertaining performance. In fact, she cleans it up every year as the emcee of D.C. Youth Pride every April.

You can see her at Unfastened: DC at Phase 1 on Nov. 6. (BTC)

Miss Private Tails

privatetails.com

 

 

Best Singer or Band

Frankie & Betty

Frankie and Betty (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Frankie and Betty (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Tom Goss

This is the second win for the ā€œinsanely fun queertastic groupā€ Frankie & Betty. The bank kicked it off four years ago when Rachel Bauchman (singer, bass, guitar) and Jessie Strick (lead guitar) met at an open mic at Phase 2. With their love of pop culture references and obnoxious jokes, the duo immediately hit it off and started performing together. Six months ago they added drummer Judy Bad to the mix.

Frankie & Betty have become active members of the D.C. music community as well as hosts for local burlesque shows. Their style is fast, fun and light. Strick says, ā€œIt’s morphed into a really fun live show now. We love to banter and interact with the audience. We love joking around with each other and to play some fun songs in between.ā€

They say their musical influences are Florence and the Machine, Le Tigre, Tegan and Sara, Feist and Santigold, but (with tongues firmly planted in cheek), they also admit that MGD, JB, PBR and OPP are major influences. Strick says a recent highlight was playing the 9:30 Club for Phasefest. ā€œThat was by far the most exciting gig for the band to date,ā€ she says. ā€œWe have all dreamed of playing that stage since we were little girls, so it was honestly a dream come true and a memory we will never forget.ā€

The band has been taking a break lately to celebrate Rachelā€™s wedding, but they will update their Facebook page when they start booking new gigs. And they offer this impish guarantee: ā€œWe make sure that every audience member leaves a performance with a smile on their face from having been a part of both a musical and comedic experience.ā€ (BTC)

Frankie & Betty

[email protected]

facebook.com/frankiebetty

 

 

Best Drag King

Avery Austin

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Avery Austin (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Sebastian Katz

Avery Austin, the drag king persona of New Orleans native Anna Wimpelberg, was born in 2004 when Wimpelberg hit the drag king scene in Boston.

Since then, Wimpelberg joined Kings ā€˜N Things, an Austin, Texas drag king troupe, before moving to the District. Wimpelberg joined the now-defunct D.C. kings troupe in 2011.

She enjoys using plot lines and musicals to form her performances. She also likes to take inspiration from the television show ā€œGleeā€ to create her characterā€™s show.

When she isnā€™t performing, Wimpelberg is a HIV research specialist for Whitman-Walker Health. A graduate of Mount Holyoke College, she has degrees in psychology and education. (MC)

 

Best Drag Queen

Destiny B. Childs

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Destiny B. Childs (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Summer Camp

You may have seen Destiny B. Childs (Richard Legg) performing at a number of local venues, but her act is anything but small. With stints at the Academy of Washington Inc., Ziegfeldā€™s/Secrets and Freddieā€™s Beach Bar, she has become a staple in the local drag community.

A Pensacola, Fla., native, Legg was stationed at Walter Reed when in the U.S. Army in 1996. He decided to stay in the area and later decided to try performing in drag in 2003. His drag mother Ophelia Bottoms (Charles McWilliams) praised his performance and with her encouragement, he continued performing.

Since then, Childs has continued performing all over the District. She regularly emcees on the main stage at Capital Pride and was Empress II in the Imperial Court of Washington two years ago. (MC)

 

Best Alt Party

Mixtape

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Mixtape (Photo by David Claypool | kaloramaphoto.com)

Runner-up: Peach Pit

DJs Shea Van Horn and Matt Bailer host Mixtape, an alternative dance party, on the second Saturday of each month. Locations vary. The fourth annual Mixtape Halloween party is on Friday, Oct. 30 at the Howard Theatre. Itā€™s at the 9:30 Club on Saturday, Nov. 14 and at the Black Cat on Saturday, Dec. 12.

Mixtapedc.com

 

DINING

 

Best Burger

Five Guys Burgers and Fries

Best of Gay D.C.

(Photo by Ewan Munro; courtesy Flickr)

Various D.C. locations

fiveguys.com

Runner-up: Shake Shack

 

 

Best Coffee Shop

Tryst

Best of Gay D.C.

Tryst (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

2459 18th St., N.W.

trystdc.com

Runner-up: The Coffee Bar

 

 

Best Date Restaurant

Busboys & Poets

Best of Gay D.C.

Busboys & Poets (Photo by Bossi; courtesy Flickr)

2021 14th St., N.W.

1025 5th St., N.W.

625 Monroe St., N.E.

busboysandpoets.com

Runner-up: Floriana

 

 

Best Dessert

Grassroots Gourmet

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Grassroots Gourmet (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

104 Rhode Island Ave., N.W.

grassrootsgourmet.org

Runner-up: Three Fifty Bakery

 

 

Best French Restaurant

Le Diplomate

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Le Diplomate (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

1601 14th St., N.W.

lediplomatedc.com

Runner-up: Bistrot Du Coin

 

 

Best Doughnut

Krispy Kreme

krispy_kreme_insert1350 Connecticut Ave., N.W.

krispykreme.com

Runner-up: Astro Donut

 

 

Best Ethiopian Restaurant

Dukem Ethiopian Restaurant

Best of Gay D.C.

Dukem (Photo by trotnort; courtesy Flickr)

1114-1118 U St., N.W.

dukemrestaurant.com

Runner-up: Ethiopie

 

 

Best Farmerā€™s Market

Eastern Market

Eastern Market (Photo by AgnosticPreachersKid; courtesy Wikimedia Commons)

Eastern Market (Photo by AgnosticPreachersKid; courtesy Wikimedia Commons)

225 7th St., S.E.

easternmarket-dc.org

Runner-up: Dupont Circle

 

 

Best Italian Restaurant

Floriana Restaurant

Floriana (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Floriana (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

1602 17th St., N.W.

florianarestaurant.com

Runner-up: Red Hen

 

 

Best Pizza

&pizza

1215 Connecticut Ave., N.W.

1250 U St., N.W.

1400 K St., N.W.

andpizza.com

Runner-up: Pizza Paradiso

 

 

Best Pricey Restaurant Thatā€™s Totally Worth It

Palm Restaurant

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The Palm (Photo by Zagat Buzz; courtesy Flickr)

1225 19th St., N.W.

thepalm.com/washington-DC

Runner-up: Thai Crossing

 

 

Best Rehoboth Restaurant

Dos Locos

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Drinks at Dos Locos (Photo courtesy Dos Locos)

208 Rehoboth Ave.

Rehoboth Beach, Del.

doslocos.com

Runner-up: Blue Moon

 

Best Seafood Restaurant

Hankā€™s Oyster Bar

Best of Gay D.C.

Hank’s Oyster Bar (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

1624 Q St., N.W.

1026 King St., Alexandria, Va.

633 Pennsylvania Ave., S.E.

hanksoysterbar.com

Runner-up: Pearl Dive Oyster Palace

 

 

Best Steak Restaurant

Annieā€™s Paramount Steak and Seafood House

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Annie’s Paramount Steak House (Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key)

1609 17th St., N.W.

Runner-up: Ruthā€™s Chris Steak House

 

 

Best Sushi

Sticky Rice

sushi_insert_by_Bigstock1224 H St., N.E.

stickyricedc.com

Runner-up: Sushi Taro

 

 

Best Wine Bar

Barcelona

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Barcelona (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

1622 14th St., N.W.

barcelonawinebar.com

Runner-up: Vinoteca

 

 

Best Restaurant Youā€™d Wait in Line For

Roseā€™s Luxury

Runner-up: Barcelona

Best of Gay D.C.

Rose’s Luxury (Photo by T. Tseng; courtesy Flickr)

Just two years ago, Roseā€™s Luxury was barely a twinkle in the eyes of D.C. diners, who were hard-pressed to understand why anyone would stand in line for up to four hours to get a table at this Capitol Hill gem.

With a 20-year lease, Roseā€™s Luxury aims to stand the test of time and chef-owner Aaron Silverman thinks that standing in line ā€” that is, not taking reservations ā€” is the best way to make the restaurant truly open for all, since no one can book up the tables months in advance. This begs a question: Is it worth it? The simple answer: yes.

Thereā€™s a reason why Roseā€™s Luxury has been racking up accolades from Bon Appetit ā€” which named it Americaā€™s Best New Restaurant in 2014 ā€” along with just about every news outlet in D.C.: the food is innovative, intelligent and undeniably special. On Roseā€™s current menu, you might find yourself with a salad of crispy pigā€™s ear with a fresh salsa of mango and cabbage or hand-cut chitarra, a porous pasta that holds sauce particularly well ā€” in this case, a soffritto of caramelized cauliflower and white wine. So, go ahead and get in line. Itā€™ll be worth the wait ā€” and you can get a treat from nearby District Doughnut to munch until your tableā€™s ready. (KH)

Roseā€™s Luxury

717 8th St., S.E.

202-580-8889

rosesluxury.com

 

 

Best Virginia Winery

Linden Vineyards

grapes_insert_by_BigstockRunner-up: Breaux Vineyards

Just an hour outside the Beltway lies an oasis of peace and tranquility, along with some pretty impressive wine. This is Linden Vineyards, where, thankfully, you wonā€™t find buses full of tipsy tour-goers or hobby winemakers.

What you will find is Jim Law, a true working winemaker and former Peace Corps volunteer with deep roots in vineyard agriculture who is constantly tinkering with his vines in an effort to produce character-driven sauvignon blanc, riesling and chardonnay, just to name a few of the award-winning wines in its cellars. A visit to Linden is not to be undertaken lightly, and certainly not with a boisterous group of friends, as the vineyard will not accommodate groups larger than six and limits its deck and grounds on Saturdays and Sundays only to members of their Case Club (anyone who purchases a case of wine becomes a member automatically).

Whether or not you are part of the club, itā€™s worth it to arrive in time for the 11:30 a.m. weekend tours of the cellar and vineyard, offering serious insight into the craft of winemaking, which just might make you the star of the conversation at the next dinner party ā€” when you arrive with, of course, a bottle or two from Lindenā€™s cellars. (KH)

3708 Harrels Corner Rd., Linden, Va.

540-364-1997

lindenvineyards.com

 

 

Best Asian Restaurant

Beau Thai

Best of Gay D.C.

Owners, from left, Ralph Brabham, Aschara Vigsittaboot and Drew Porterfield meet at the Shaw location of Beau Thai. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Thaitanic

The original location of Beau Thai opened in Shaw in 2010 under the direction of husbands Ralph Brabham and Drew Porterfield and chef Aschara Viggsittaboot with a goal to bring authentic Thai cuisine that didnā€™t rely on curry from a can.

Now expanded to new sites in Shaw and Mount Pleasant (with a noodle shop at the original spot on New Jersey Ave. NW), Beau Thai continues to impress diners with fresh ingredients and thoughtful preparation. Because the curry paste is actually made from scratch at Beau Thai, itā€™s worth ordering up at least one curry for the table ā€” an interesting combination is the marinated duck with grapes, pineapple and tomato ā€” and be sure to try the Pad Thai, a classic that can sometimes be made overly sweet, ostensibly to suit the American palate, but has a tangy undertone of tamarind here. The brunch menu at the Mount Pleasant location offers some fun fusion twists on the classics, from the Egg Drop ā€œGritsā€ made with Thai rice soup to the Hangover Special, a tempting concoction of fried eggs with sweet Thai sausage and taro home fries. Top it all off with a Homemade Ginger Beer, which blends a ginger-lime purĆ©e with Singha, and that hangover will be just a memory. (KH)

Beau Thai

3162 Mount Pleasant St., N.W. (Mount Pleasant)

1550 7th St., N.W., Unit A (Shaw)

202-450-5317 or 202-450-5346

beauthaidc.com

 

 

Best Boozy Brunch

La Boum

Best of Gay D.C.

La Boum (Photo courtesy of L’Enfent Cafe)

Runner-up: Level One

As they like to say at La Boum, this is not your grandmotherā€™s brunch. No, indeed. What youā€™ll find at La Boum, once it transforms from its slightly more staid persona as Lā€™Enfant Cafe & Bar (think Clark Kent coming out of that phone booth dressed as Superman), is a raucous, Champagne-filled daytime house party, where the foodā€™s OK but the alcohol is plentiful.

And, frankly, thatā€™s not necessarily a bad way to spend a Saturday afternoon. Named one of the top 100 brunches in the country, La Boum offers two seatings on Saturdays, at 10 a.m. and 2 p.m., and reservations can sometimes be booked up several weeks in advance; once you pre-pay online at $29.50 per person (which includes three courses and cover charge, but not beverages), you can just sit back and get the party started once your reservation begins. Champagne bottles arrive wrapped in flaming sparklers, eggs NorvĆ©gienne will soak up the alcohol, the DJ keeps Katy Perry and Madonna spinning, and dancing on the tables ā€” well, why not? (KH)

La Boum

2000 18th St., N.W.

202-319-1800

laboumbrunch.com

 

 

Best Local Brewery

DC Brau

D.C. Brau (Photo by Steph Harding Photo)

D.C. Brau (Photo by Steph Harding Photo)

Runner-up: Capitol City

Itā€™s hard to remember a time when there werenā€™t breweries and distilleries dotting the city, but, just a scant few years ago, D.C. was actually a hand-crafted alcohol desert. That all changed in 2009 when beer buddies Jeff Hancock and Brandon Skall decided to open the cityā€™s first brewery in more than 50 years, locating their operations in a largely industrial neighborhood in Northeast D.C. just before the Maryland line.

First they turned out some really tasty brews that have now become mainstays in bars and grocery stores across the area, then the social media-savvy duo managed to do something pretty astonishing: They actually turned their off-the-beaten-path brewery into an unlikely weekend destination, luring food trucks, deejays and artists to create a hipsterā€™s paradise of tastings and tours. Stop by on Friday evenings for half-priced pint night and donā€™t forget to wear closed-toe shoes for the free brewery tours on Saturday afternoons. (KH)

DC Brau

3178-B Bladensburg Rd., NE

202-621-8890

dcbrau.com

 

 

Best Caterer

Old Blue BBQ

Best of Gay D.C.

Old Blue BBQ (Photo by Ella M. Photography)

Runner-up: Patrick Vanas Events

If youā€™re on the lookout for hosting an event with some good old Southern hospitality, Old Blue BBQ is ready to pile on the comfort food. An array of meats, including baby back ribs, brisket, salmon and tri-tip are smoked over locally sourced oak and maple ā€” but the grilling doesnā€™t stop there. Bacon-wrapped jalapeƱo poppers, smoked tomato jam crostini, smoked artichoke dip (oh yes), and even grilled fruit drizzled with white chocolate are other ways that Old Blue kicks it up a notch, taking the menu from down-home barbecue to rustic chic, whether youā€™re looking to host a company picnic or a family wedding. (KH)

Old Blue BBQ

4580 Eisenhower Ave.

Alexandria, Va.

703-552-4544

oldbluebbq.com

 

 

Best Cheap Eats

Amsterdam Falafelshop

Best of Gay D.C.

Amsterdam Falafel (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Chipotle

Not only does Amsterdam Falafelshop keep hours that are designed to cater to bleary hungover mornings as well as late nights stumbling home from the bar, this quick-service local chain left no doubt as to who they think their clientele are when they created a pot-pairing menu and $4.20 sandwiches all in celebration of April 20.

Whatā€™s not to love about a sandwich called the OG Kush, a combination of beets, turnips and tahini designed to complement the ā€œwoodsy undertonesā€ of the OG Kush strain, a pairing said to promote a heightened sensory awareness? Whether your vice is weed or baba ganoush, Amsterdam Falafelshop has got you covered with fast falafel balls served either in pita or bowls, 22 toppings, and uber-crispy fries with a lip-smacking curried ketchup, all for less than the cost of that last cocktail you probably shouldnā€™t have ordered. (KH)

Amsterdam Falafelshop

2425 18th St. NW (Adams Morgan)

202-234-1969

1830 14th St. NW (Logan Circle/U Street)

202-232-6200

429 Lā€™Enfant Plaza SW (Lā€™Enfant Plaza)

Suite 420 Promenade

202-554-1111

falafelshop.com

 

 

Best Indian

Rasika

Best of Gay D.C.

Rasika (Photo by David Liu; courtesy Flickr)

Runner-up: Ghar E Kabob

Thereā€™s a good reason why Rasika chef Vikram Sunderam won a James Beard Award last year ā€” the flavors and textures coming from his kitchens at both the Penn Quarter and West End locations are layered yet distinct, playful yet refined, and clearly designed to make us rethink our preconceived notions about Indian food.

Youā€™ll find no bland lentil mush here or doughy samosas; instead, look for bright splashes of saffron and fresh curry leaves, crisp shards of coconut and punches of vinegar, all hallmarks of what is probably the best Indian cuisine to be found anywhere in the United States ā€” and weā€™ve got it right here in D.C. Even better, Rasika is a reasonably priced fine dining restaurant that is not stingy on its hours, being open for lunch, dinner and pretty much every holiday. It offers Sunday brunch at the West End restaurant with such delights as Coconut Jaggery Pancakes and Eggs Kejiriwal; and a chefā€™s tasting menu that proves Indian food can be perfectly paired with fine wines instead of just Taj Mahal. (KH)

Rasika

633 D St. NW (Penn Quarter)

202-637-1222

1190 New Hampshire Ave. NW (West End)

202-466-2500

rasikarestaurant.com

 

 

Best Food Truck

Red Hook Lobster Pound

lobster_insert_by_BigstockRunner-up: Rito Loco

Thereā€™s something about the friendly red gingham-clad exterior of the Red Hook Lobster Pound truck as it perches along the curb that just makes you want to don a bib and sink your teeth into a crustacean.

If youā€™re a New Englander longing for some lobstah ā€” or just a wannabe ā€” then this truck is the place to get your fix, whether itā€™s the Connecticut-style lobster roll, a simple concoction of buttered roll filled with chunks of lobster meat spritzed with fresh lemon juice, the classic Maine lobster roll dressed in housemade mayo, or the utterly decadent lobster mac ā€™n cheese ā€” and donā€™t forget to add Cape Cod potato chips and Maine Root Soda. Itā€™s kind of like having a day at the shore, even if itā€™s only 30 minutes on a bench at Farragut Square. (KH)

Red Hook Lobster Pound

Find out where the truck is on Twitter: @LobstertruckDC

202-341-6263

redhooklobsterdc.com

 

 

Best Sandwich

Taylor Gourmet

Best of Gay D.C.

Taylor Gourmet (Photo by docmonstereyes; courtesy Flickr)

Runner-up: Sundervich

When two guys from Philly decided to open up a hoagie shop on the barely burgeoning H Street corridor back in 2008, the idea was to make really good, fresh sandwiches with homemade flair. Since then, Taylor Gourmet has expanded to 10 locations in the region, proving that apparently we were all hungry for a hoagie.

With an eye on quality, all the beef, pork, and turkey is roasted in-house, the bread is baked locally, and the Italian-style cured meats are sourced from Virginia, giving a decidedly local spin on Philadelphia-style cheesesteaks and Italian hoagies stuffed with everything from sausage, onion and peppers to hand-rolled meatballs topped with fresh marinara. While youā€™re there, donā€™t forget to order up a side of the crispy polenta fries ā€” you won’t regret it. (KH)

Taylor Gourmet

Ten locations across D.C., Maryland and Virginia

taylorgourmet.com

 

COMMUNITY

 

Best Local Blog

Popville

popville.com

Runner-up: BYT

 

 

Best Local Podcast

L.A.C.E. Media Podcast

Best of Gay D.C.

Chris Jay of L.A.C.E. (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Download at iTunes

Runner-up: Jellyvision

 

 

Most Useful App

Uber

Runner-up: Waze

 

 

Best Radio Station

Hot 99.5

Runner-up: WAMU 88.5

 

 

Best Real Estate Group

David Bediz

Bediz Group

1918 18th St., N.W. Courtyard No. 2

bediz.com

Runner-up: The Evan and Mark Team

 

 

Best Art Gallery

The Phillips Collection

1600 21st St., N.W.

phillipscollection.org

Runner-up: Corcoran Gallery of Art

Best Car Dealership

Don Beyer Volvo of Winchester

4015 Valley Pike

Winchester, Va.

winchesterdonbeyervolvo.com

Runner-up: MWS of Alexandria

 

Best Apartment/Condo Building

The Shay

1924 8th St., N.W.

theshay.com

Runner-up: Atlantic Plumbing

 

 

Best Workout Spot

VIDA Fitness

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Vida Fitness (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

1517 15th St., N.W.

1612 U St., N.W.

999 9th St., N.W.

vidafitness.com

Runner-up: Elevate Fitness

 

 

Best Gayborhood

Logan Circle

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Logan Circle (Photo public domain)

Runner-up: 17th Street

 

 

Best Hardware Store

Logan Hardware

Best of Gay D.C.

Logan Hardware (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

1734 14th St., N.W.

acehardwaredc.com

Runner-up: Annieā€™s Ace Hardware

 

 

Best Home Furnishings &

Best Second-Hand Stuff

Miss Pixieā€™s Furnishings and Whatnot

community, gay news, Washington Blade

Miss Pixie’s (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

1626 14th St., N.W.

misspixies.com

Runner-up: Hudson & Crane

 

 

Best Hotel

The W

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W Hotel (Photo courtesy of the W Hotel Washington, D.C.)

515 15th St., N.W.

wwashingtondc.com

Runner-up: Hotel Palomar

 

 

Best LGBT Social Group

Stonewall Sports

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(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

stonewallsports.org

Runner-up: Gay Menā€™s Chorus of Washington

 

 

Best LGBT Support Group &

Best Non-Profit

SMYAL

20 under 20, gay news, Washington Blade

(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Supporting and Mentoring Youth Advocates and Leaders

410 7th St., S.E.

smyal.org

Runner-up: HIPS

 

 

Best LGBT Sports Team

Washington Scandals Rugby Football Club

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(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

scandalsrfc.org

Runner-up: Flippinā€™ Not Trippinā€™

 

 

Best Pet Business

Doggy Style Bakery, Boutique & Pet Spa

1825 18th St., N.W.

doggiestylebakery.com

Runner-up: City Dogs Rescue

 

 

Best Place to Take Kids

Smithsonianā€™s National Zoo

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(Photo by Quadell; courtesy Wikimedia Commons)

3001 Connecticut Ave., N.W.

nationalzoo.si.edu

Runner-up: Smithsonianā€™s National Air and Space Museum

 

 

Best Salon/Spa

Logan 14

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(Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

1314 14th St., N.W.

logan14salonspa.com

Runner-up: Bang Salon

 

 

Best Reason to Go to Baltimore

National Aquarium

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The National Aquarium in Baltimore (Photo by Andrew Horne)

501 E. Pratt St., Baltimore

aqua.org

Runner-up: The Hippo

 

 

Best Theater

Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts

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The Kennedy Center (Photo by Steve via Wikimedia Commons)

2700 F St., N.W.

kennedy-center.org

Runner-up: Studio Theatre

 

 

Best Theater Production

ā€œDear Evan Hansenā€

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Laura Dreyfuss as Zoe and Ben Platt as Evan in ā€˜Dear Evan Hansen.ā€™ (Photo by Margot Schulman; courtesy Arena)

Arena Stage

1101 6th St., N.W.

arenastage.org

Runner-up: ā€œBook of Mormonā€ (Kennedy Center)

 

 

Best Vet

CityPaws Animal Hospital

1823 14th St., N.W.

citypawsanimalhospital.com

Runner-up: D.C. Metrovet

 

 

Best Rehoboth Business

Bad Hair Day

20 Lake Ave.

Rehoboth Beach, Del.

badhairday.biz

Runner-up: Blue Moon

 

 

Best Local Twitter Feed

@DCHomos

Runner-up: @popville

If you want to know whatā€™s going on in LGBT D.C., you need to follow @DCHomos on Twitter. Described as ā€œNews, noise, food, men, sports, art, charity, fashion, TV, happy thoughts, all things gay and D.C. Sentinel, silent and sure,ā€ itā€™s a delightful mĆ©lange of everything serious and sublime about the nationā€™s capital in 140 characters or less.

The mastermind behind @DCHomos is Josie Romero. When he moved to D.C. from Miami Beach six years ago, he didnā€™t know anyone in town. But with his experience in the tech industry, he knew that Twitter was just starting to catch on and that D.C. was one of the first cities to embrace tweeting.

So he decided to use the new technology to help build a circle of friends. That was before Twitter had a search function, so he looked for screen names that included ā€œD.C.ā€ He slowly compiled a list of kindred souls and started posting lists of local happy hours. About 18 months ago, Romero turned the feed in a different direction. He added a focus on news and social issues, especially marriage equality.

Basically, he describes the feed as ā€œthings I share on Twitter instead of Facebook.ā€ He does note that the feed attracts a lot of negative feedback, which he tends to ignore.

ā€œIā€™ve adopted a ā€˜Donā€™t Feed the Trollsā€™ policy. I try to keep things positive.ā€

As of press time, @DCHomos has made more than 110,000 tweets, is following 27,300 users and has over 75,300 followers. Romero has also started live tweeting events (he had a lot of fun at the recent Reel Affirmations ā€œParis Is Burningā€ mini-ball), so be sure to keep him in the loop. (BTC)

@dchomos

dchomos.com

 

 

Best LGBT-Owned Business

The Organizing Agency

(Photo courtesy of the Organizing Agency)

(Photo courtesy of the Organizing Agency)

Runner-up: Town

When out businessman Scott Roewer talks about organizing and closets, heā€™s not necessarily talking about politics. Heā€™s probably talking about organizing your closets to harmonize your life. As Roewer likes to point out, ā€œanyone can organize your space, but it takes a professional to organize you.ā€

After working as a music educator and an event planner, Roewer decided to apply his fervent entrepreneurial spirit and creative expertise to helping clients organize their lives. He founded the Organizing Agency in 2004 to help clients create productivity systems for their homes and offices. The Agency also provides stress-free moving planning and offers workshops on shaping spaces and managing time.

A native of Bellevue, Neb., Roewer earned his Certified Professional OrganizerĀ® designation in 2007 and is an active member of the National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO). He is also the co-author of ā€œGet Organized Today,ā€ a book about strategic organizing, and has been a contributor to Time magazine, Better Homes and Gardens, MSNBC, Today, HGTV and Martha Stewart Living.

Inspired by the excess encountered in their work, the Organizing Agency team makes giving back to the community a priority. Roewer and his staff are active supporters of the Unstoppable Foundation, Habitat for Humanity, Dress for Success and Soles4Souls. He is also a member of the Capital Area Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.

Roewer has been widely recognized for his professional and philanthropic work. In 2008Ā NAPO-Washington, D.C. awarded him with its inaugural Professional Organizer of the Year Award and in 2012 NAPO recognized him with its highest honor, the Foundersā€™ Award. In 2011, the U.S. Air Force Thunderbirds named him Joint Base Andrewsā€™ ā€œHometown Hero,ā€ an honor that included a flight with the Thunderbirds in their F-16 Fighter Jet. (BTC)

The Organizing Agency

811 4th St., N.W., Suite1013

202-249-8330

theorganizingagency.com

 

 

Most LGBT-Friendly Workplace

The Raben Group

The Raben Group (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

The Raben Group (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Whitman-Walker Health

The Raben Group is deeply committed to inclusion and diversity in working with clients and in managing its workplace. Founded in 2001 by former Assistant Attorney General Robert Raben, the Raben Group has grown to more than 50 employees with offices in Washington, Los Angeles and New York City.

Its mission is to identify opportunities and solve problems for clients in the corporate, nonprofit, foundation and government sectors.Ā The Raben Group is a multi-lingual, multi-cultural, diverse group of colleagues united not just by a profession, but by a common commitment to equality and justice. It brings together a diverse collection of professionals with deep roots in law and progressive public policy and works to solve complex public policy problems across a spectrum of issues.

The agencyā€™s practice areas include strategic communications, diversity and community, and public policy advocacy, with a special emphasis on LGBT strategies. The Raben Group specializes in building bipartisan coalitions of allies (sometimes unlikely ones) to help achieve a clientā€™s goals.

The firm is also dedicated to community service. According to its website, ā€œWe are united not only by our interest in public policy, but by our shared values. Many of us volunteer for philanthropic organizations. Others serve on the boards of national and local non-profits. As a firm, we help organize charity events and endeavor to donate a certain amount of our time to pro bono projects.ā€ For example, Raben is also the founder of the March on Washington Film Festival.

And, they add, ā€œWe always keep our sense of humor.ā€ Thatā€™s what keeps a workplace fresh. (BTC)

The Raben Group

1341 G St., N.W., 5th Floor

202-466-8585

rabengroup.com

 

 

Best House of Worship

Empowerment Liberation Cathedral

Bishop Allyson Abrams (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Bishop Allyson Abrams (Washington Blade photo by Michael Key)

Runner-up: Foundry United Methodist Church

The Empowerment Liberation Cathedral has grown rapidly since it was founded by the dynamic Bishop Allyson Abrams last year. (Bishop Abrams was selected as the Best Clergy and is profiled separately.)

While it is growing, the Empowerment Liberation Cathedral has found a home at the Episcopal Church of the Ascension in Silver Spring. The Rector at Ascension is the openly lesbian Rev. Joan E. Beilstein, who befriended Abrams when she resigned from her position as pastor of a Detroit church after she came out in 2013.

The Empowerment Liberation Cathedral is an inclusive, welcoming congregation open to people of all backgrounds, straight or gay. As the mission statement makes clear, ā€œEveryone is invited to experience our worship ā€” no matter your gender, race, age, sexual orientation, identification, handicap or former faith background.ā€ The church aims to provide a sense of worthiness and acceptance to all people and to transform lives through programs, services, advocacy and community action. It is affiliated with the Association of Welcoming & Affirming Baptist and the Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches.

In addition to Sunday services, the church offers a wide variety of activities. There are ministries focused on youth, seniors, singles, couples, people affected by HIV/AIDS, praise dance, music and social justice. There is also an active virtual ministry, which offers a conference call Bible study on Wednesday evenings, along with streaming services and a popular YouTube channel. Abrams has also launched a GoFundMe campaign to help spur the growth of the fledgling church. (BTC)

Empowerment Liberation Cathedral

633 Sligo Avenue, Silver Spring

240-720-7605

empowermentliberationcathedral.org

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Queer TV anchors in Md. use their platform ā€˜to fight for whatā€™s rightā€™

Salisburyā€™s Hannah Cechini, Rob Petree are out and proud in Delmarva

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Hannah Cechini and Rob Petree anchor the 5:30 p.m. newscast at WMDT 47, the ABC affiliate in Salisbury, Md. (Photo courtesy WMDT)

Identity can be a tricky thing for journalists to navigate. The goal of the job is to inform the public with no bias, but this is difficult, if not impossible, to do in practice. Everything from your upbringing to the books you read can impact how you view and cover the world. But sometimes these factors can help shine a light on an underrepresented community or issue.  

Two broadcast journalists in Salisbury, Md., are using the subtle, yet impactful choice of sharing their queer identities to strengthen their reporting and connection to the community. 

Hannah Cechini, who is non-binary, and Rob Petree, who is gay, co-host the 5:30-6:30 p.m. newscast for WMDT 47. They are the only known anchor team that are not only both queer, but also open out about their identities on air and, as Petree put it, ā€œalways use [their] platform and power that [we] have to fight for what’s right.ā€

Cechiniā€™s passion for journalism played an important role in the discovery of their gender identity. They knew they were meant to be in the newsroom before they figured out they were non-binary.

ā€œI was doing this job before I started to identify as non-binary,ā€ Cechini told the Blade. ā€œI’d always watch the evening news with my dad growing up and thought it was the coolest thing. And throughout high school, I worked on the school paper.ā€

After graduating from Suffolk University in Boston, Cechiniā€™s passion for journalism only grew as they began to work in the world of news media, eventually ending up in Salisbury. As they honed their writing, editing, and anchoring skills at WMDT, Cechini also started to take an introspective look into their gender identity.

A little more than two years ago Cechini came out as non-binary to their coworkers in the newsroom and was met with support all around. ā€œIt was definitely smoother than I anticipated,ā€ they said.

ā€œIt is very freeing to be able to do this job as a non-binary person because I haven’t really seen much of that representation myself.ā€ 

Petree, on the other hand, knew he was gay right around the same time he became interested in news media, at age 14. He started working for his high school news show and used it as a way to be open about his sexuality rather than hide it. 

ā€œI broke into broadcasting doing the morning announcements,ā€ he said. ā€œI did the weather and started doing a segment called issues and insights,ā€ Petree said, explaining his introduction to the news. Eventually, students would ask him questions about his sexuality after seeing him on the school TV. ā€œIt had gotten to the point in school, that if you’re going to come up and ask me if I’m gay, well shit, I’m going to tell you!ā€

To him, this was the exact reason he had come out. Petree wanted to motivate others to live honestly. 

ā€œThere are a lot of people who will spend most of their lives not being out so if they can see someone like me, who’s out and proud doing his thing, so to speak, then maybe that’s the inspiration for them,ā€ Petree said. ā€œTo search their own soul, find out who they are, and live their full life.ā€

Petree explained that he got his start in a space that was not always welcoming to his queerness. This tested the delicate balance between being a journalist and holding your identity close.

ā€œI’ve always been out and it was a challenge because I got my start in conservative talk radio,ā€ Petree said. ā€œI’m going to be honest, some of the things I heard from people I’ve worked with, from the callers to the radio stations were absolutely abhorrent. But I never let it discourage me. It made me work that much harder.ā€ 

Cechini highlighted the same sentiment when explaining why itā€™s important to have out LGBTQ figures in news media. They want to show everyone that it is possible to be openly queer and successful.

ā€œI just think that representation matters because if ā€˜Joe,ā€™ who’s never seen a transgender person before, sees a transgender person or a non-binary person, doing a job that they’ve only ever seen straight cis people doing before, it kind of creates that understanding or bridges that gap,ā€ Cechini said. ā€œIt’s like, ā€˜OK, maybe they’re not that different from me.ā€™ And that facilitates being able to connect among different communities.ā€

Both Cechini and Petree agree that having a queer coworker has made their bond stronger. 

 ā€œIt’s great to have someone else next to me who I can relate to and work alongside,ā€ Petree said. ā€œAnd they’re a joy to work with, they really are. There is a tremendous amount of things that we relate to together ā€” like we both share and have the same affinity for Lady Gaga,ā€ he said laughing. ā€œAlthough they’re more of a Lady Gaga fan than I am.ā€

ā€œHannah is a tremendous journalist who really goes out of their way to make sure that the stories that they do are on point 100% of the time,ā€ he added. ā€œThey’ve been great to work with and to learn from and to grow alongside. I’m very happy to have them as my co-anchor.ā€

Cechini explained that the relationship between two co-anchors can make or break a newscast, and having Petree as their partner on air is a major part of the showā€™s success.

ā€œCo-anchoring is not just the relationship that you have on camera,ā€ Cechini said. ā€œIt’s really, really important to have a good relationship with your co-anchor off-camera as well because you have to have a level of trust between you.ā€

Cechini continued, saying that this relationship is crucial to working together, especially when things donā€™t go as planned. 

ā€œNot everything always goes to script,ā€ they said. ā€œSometimes you have to be able to work together without even really talking to each other and just kind of know what to do. When you have a relationship like that with someone who identifies similarly to you or has had similar life experience, I think that just only strengthens that [relationship].ā€

Although they have had similar experiences being from the LGBTQ community, Petree said it was a change for him to use ā€œthey/themā€ pronouns on air.

ā€œPrior to working with Hannah, I’ve never worked with a non-binary individual who went by the pronouns ā€˜they/them,ā€™ā€ Petree said. ā€œIt was new for me to not use traditional pronouns on air, but I can say that I have never misgendered them on air and never will. You get conditioned to using traditional pronouns and it’s easy to make that mistake, but I never have.ā€

At the end of the day, they both explained, it is about doing the job right. For the duo, a part of that is understanding the diversity of people and issues in the community. 

ā€œWhen you come from a more marginalized community, I think that kind of helps to inform you a little better as a journalist because you have a better understanding of what it’s like to be ā€˜the other guy,ā€™ā€ Cechini said.

ā€œOur talent and our drive for journalism speaks for itself,ā€ Petree said. ā€œAnd that resonates with people. Have we shown ourselves to be an inspiration to the LGBTQ+ community here in Delmarva? Yes, we have. And that’s something that I’m proud of.ā€

The primetime nightly newscast with Hannah Cechini and Rob Petree airs weeknights from 5:30-6:30 p.m. on ABC affiliate WMDT 47.

From left, Rob Petree and Hannah Cechini. (Photo courtesy of WMDT)
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ā€˜Queering Rehoboth Beachā€™ features love, loss, murder, and more

An interview with gay writer and historian James T. Sears

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'Queering Rehoboth Beach' book cover. (Image courtesy of Temple University Press)

James T. Sears book talk
Saturday, June 29, 5 p.m.
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5015 Connecticut Ave., N.W.

When it comes to LGBTQ summer destinations in the Eastern time zone, almost everyone knows about Provincetown, Mass., Fire Island, N.Y., and Key West, Fla. There are also slightly lesser known, but no less wonderful places, such as Ogunquit, Maine, Saugatuck, Mich., and New Hope, Pa. Sandwiched in between is Rehoboth Beach, Del., a location that is popular with queer folks from D.C., Maryland, Virginia, Pennsylvania, and New Jersey. The dramatic and inspiring story of how Rehoboth Beach came to be what it is today can be found in gay historian James T. Searsā€™s revealing new book ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach: Beyond the Boardwalkā€ (Temple University Press, 2024). As educational as it is dishy, ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ provides readers with everything they need to know (and possibly didnā€™t realize they needed to know) about this fabulous locality. Sears was kind enough to make time to answer a few questions about the book.

WASHINGTON BLADE: James, itā€™s been a few years since Iā€™ve interviewed you. The last time was in 1997 about your book ā€œFrom Lonely Hunters to Lonely Hearts: An Oral History of Lesbian and Gay Southern Life.ā€ At the time, you were living in Columbia, S.C. Where are you currently based, and how long have you been there?

JAMES T. SEARS: It has been great reconnecting with you. After that book, we moved to Charleston, S.C. There I wrote several more books. One was about the Mattachine group, focusing on one largely misunderstood leader, Hal Call. Another book shared reminisces of a 90-year-old gentleman, the late John Zeigler, interweaving his diaries, letters, and poetry to chronicle growing up gay in the South at the turn of the last century. From there I moved to Central America where I chronicled everyday queer life and learned Spanish. We returned several years ago and then washed up on Rehoboth Beach.

BLADE: In the introduction to your new book ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach: Beyond the Boardwalkā€ (Temple University Press, 2024), you write about how a ā€œrestaurant incidentā€ in Rehoboth, which you describe in detail in the prologue, became a kind of inspiration for the book project. Please say something about how as a historian, the personal can also be political and motivational.

SEARS: I want to capture readerā€™s interest by personalizing this book more than I have others. The restaurant anecdote is the bookā€™s backstory. It explains, in part, my motivation for writing it, and more crucially, introduces one meaning of ā€œqueering Rehoboth.ā€ That is, in order to judge this ā€œincidentā€ā€”and the book itselfā€”we need to engage in multiple readings of history, or at least be comfortable with this approach. I underscore that what is accepted as ā€œhistoryā€ā€”about an individual, a community, or a societyā€”is simply a reflection of that eraā€™s accepted view. Queering history challenges that consensus.

BLADE: Who do you see as the target audience for ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach?ā€

SEARS: Well, certainly if you have been to Rehoboth or reside there, this book provides a history of the townā€”and its queeringā€”giving details that I doubt even locals know! Also, for those interested in the evolution of other East Coast queer resorts (Ptown, Fire Island, Key West) this book adds to that set of histories. My book will also be of interest to students of social change and community organizing. Most importantly, though, it is just a good summer read.

BLADE: ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ features numerous interviews. What was involved in the selection process of interview subjects?

SEARS: I interviewed dozens of people. They are listed in the book as the ā€œCast of Narrators.ā€ Before these interviews, I engaged in a systematic review of local and state newspapers, going back to Rehobothā€™s founding as a Methodist Church Camp in 1873. I also read anecdotal stories penned by lesbians and gay men. These appeared in local or regional queer publications, such as Letters from CAMP Rehoboth and the Washington Blade. Within a year, I had compiled a list of key individuals to interview. However, I also interviewed lesbians, gay men, transgender individuals, and heterosexuals who lived or worked in Rehoboth sometime during the bookā€™s main timeframe (1970s-2000s). I sought diversity in background and perspective. To facilitate their memories, I provided a set of questions before we met. I often had photos, letters, or other memorabilia to prime their memories during our conversation. 

BLADE: Under the heading of the more things change, the more they stay the same, the act of making homosexuality an issue in politics continues to this day. What do you think it will take for that to change?

SEARS: You pose a key question. Those who effectuated change in Rehoboth ā€” queers and progressive straights ā€” sought common ground. Their goal was to integrate into the town. As such, rather than primarily focus on sexual and gender differences, they stressed values held in common. Rather than proselytize or agitate, they opened up businesses, restored houses, joined houses of worship, and engaged in the townā€™s civic life. 

To foster and sustain change, however, those in power and those who supported them also had to have a willingness to listen, to bracket their presuppositions, and to engage in genuine dialogue. Violent incidents, especially one on the boardwalk, and the multi-year imbroglio of The Strand nightclub, gradually caused people to seek common ground.

That did not, however, come without its costs. For some ā€” long separated from straight society ā€” and for others ā€” unchallenged in their heteronormativity ā€” it was too great of a cost to bear. Further, minorities within the queer ā€œcommunity,ā€ such as people of color, those with limited income, and transgender individuals, never entered or were never invited into this enlarging public square.

The troubles chronicled in my book occurred during the era of the ā€œMoral Majorityā€ and ā€œGay Cancer.ā€ Nevertheless, it didnā€™t approach the degree of polarization, acrimony, fake news, and demagoguery of today. So, whether this approach would even be viable as a strategy for social change is debatable.

BLADE: In recent years, there has been a proliferation of books about LGBTQ bars, a subject that is prominent in ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach.ā€ Was this something of which you were aware while writing the book, and how do you see your bookā€™s place on the shelf alongside these other books?

SEARS: Queering heterosexual space has been a survival strategy for generations of queer folks. These spaces ā€” under-used softball fields, desolate beaches, darkened parks, and out-of-the-way bars ā€” are detailed in many LGBTQ+ books, from the classic, ā€œBoots of Leather, Slippers of Gold,ā€ to the recently published ā€œA Place of Our Ownā€ and ā€œThe Bars Are Ours.ā€ Of course, these spaces did not encompass the kaleidoscope of queer life, but they provide us a historical gateway into various segments of a queer community and culture.

This was certainly true for my book. Unsurprisingly, until The Strand controversy, which began in 1988, all of Rehobothā€™s queer bars were beyond the town limits. There were, however, homosexual watering holes in the liminal sexual space. For instance, you had the Pink Pony on the boardwalk during the 1950s and the Back Porch CafĆ© during the 1970s. So, in this sense, I think ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ fits well in this ever-enlarging canon of queer history.

BLADE: As one of the most pro-LGBTQ presidents in U.S. history, how much, if it all, did the Biden Delaware connection have to do with your desire to write ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beach?ā€

SEARS: It is just a coincidence. Interestingly, as I was researching this book, I came across a 1973 news story about Sen. Joe Biden speaking at a civic association meeting. One of the 30 or so residents attending was James Robert Vane. The paper reported the senator being ā€œstartledā€ when Vane questioned him about the ban on homosexuals serving in the U.S. civil service and military. Uttering the familiar trope about being ā€œsecurity risks,ā€ he then added, ā€œI admit I havenā€™t given it much thought.ā€ In Bidenesque manner, he paused and then exclaimed, ā€œIā€™ll be darned!ā€

Biden was a frequent diner at the Back Porch CafĆ©, often using the restaurantā€™s kitchen phone for political calls. Like the progressives I spoke about earlier, he had lived in a heteronormative bubbleā€”a Catholic one at that! Yet, like many in Rehoboth, he eventually changed his view, strongly advocating for queer rights as Vice President during the Obama administration.

BLADE: How do you think Rehoboth residents will respond to your depiction of their town?

SEARS: Well, if recent events are predictive of future ones, then I think it will be generally positive. My first book signing at the locally owned bookstore resulted in it selling out. The manager did tell me that a gentleman stepped to the counter asking, ā€œWhy is this queer book here?ā€ā€” pointing to the front table of ā€œBeach Reads.ā€ That singular objection notwithstanding, his plan is to keep multiple boxes in stock throughout the summer.

BLADE: Over the years, many non-fiction and fiction books have been written about places such as Provincetown, Fire Island, and Key West. Is it your hope that more books will be written about Rehoboth Beach?

SEARS: My hope is that writers and researchers continue to queer our stories. Focusing on persons, events, and communities, particularly micro-histories, provides a richer narrative of queer lives. It also allows us to queer the first generation of macro-histories which too often glossed over everyday activists. So, as the saying goes, let a thousand flowers bloom.

BLADE: Do you think that ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ would make for a good documentary film subject?

SEARS: Absolutely, although probably not on the Hallmark Channel [laughs]! It would make an incredible film ā€” a documentary or a drama ā€” even a mini-series. Because it focuses on people: their lives and dreams, their long-running feuds and abbreviated love affairs, their darker secrets, and lighter moments within a larger context of the countryā€™s social transformation. ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ details the townā€™s first gay murder, the transformation of a once homophobic mayor, burned-out bars, and vigilante assaults on queers, the octogenarian lesbian couple, living for decades in Rehoboth never speaking the ā€œL word,ā€ who die within months of one another. It, too, is a story of how the sinewy arms of Jim Crow affected white Rehoboth ā€” gay and straight. In short, ā€œQueering Rehoboth Beachā€ is about a small beach town, transformed generation over generation like shifting sands yet retaining undercurrents of what are the best and worst in American life and culture.

BLADE: Have you started thinking about or working on your next book?

SEARS: The manuscript for this book was submitted to the publisher more than a year ago. During that time, Iā€™ve been working on my first book of fiction. It is a queer novel set in early nineteenth century Wales against the backdrop of the Napoleonic wars and industrialization. I want to transport the reader into an era before the construction of homosexuality and at the inception of the womenā€™s movement. How does one make meaning of sexual feelings toward the same gender or about being in the wrong gender? In the process of this murder mystery, I integrate Celtic culture and mythology and interrogate how todayā€™s choices and those we made in the past (and in past lives) affect our future and those of others.

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D.C. Latinx Pride seeks to help heal the community

Much history lost to generations of colonialism

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The Latinx History Project will host its 18th annual Latinx Pride with a series of 11 events this year.

Latinx History Project, or LHP, was founded in 2000 to collect, preserve and share Latinx LGBTQ+ History. Six years later, they began hosting DC Latinx Pride.  

Board member Dee Tum-Monge said organizers saw a need for the event that centered Latinx community members. 

“LHP knows our queer history as Latinx folks has most often been lost to generations of colonialism and imperialism,ā€ they said. ā€œWhich is why we focus on documenting and highlighting the impact our community has in D.C. and beyond.ā€

According to UCLA School of Law, there are more than two million Latinx LGBTQ adults that live in the U.S.

ā€œEvents specifically for the Latinx community are important not only to make our experience visible but also to create spaces where we can grow closer with other groups and each other,ā€ said Tum-Monge.

This year they kicked off DC Latinx Pride with a crowning ceremony for their royal court on May 31. 

Their three-part series, ā€œLa SanaciĆ³nā€, is underway with part two planned for June 16. 

ā€œSanaciĆ³n in Spanish means ā€˜healingā€™ which is a big part of what we want to bring to Pride,ā€ said Tum-Monge. ā€œOur communities go through a lot of trauma and hate, but we know thereā€™s more to us. Our goal is to foster connection with ourselves, nature, community, and spirituality.ā€

In conjunction with the series there is a slate of other events; tickets can be purchased at latinxhistoryproject.org/pride.

In addition, Latinx Pride will march in the Capital Pride Parade on Saturday and participate in the festival on Sunday. To stay involved with Latinx History Project after Pride and hear more about future events visit latinxhistoryproject.org.

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