Local
Va. B&B rejects gays, couple claims
Lawmaker calls for anti-discrimination protections

A legally married gay man claims that a Virginia bed and breakfast denied him and his spouse a reservation for a room because they are of the same gender.
Russell Williams, 56, of Hanover, Pa., said his spouse, David Schaefer, 54, tried to make reservations in late February at Stafford House in Fairfax, Va., as part of a trip for the wedding of their nephew. However, they say they were Ā denied a room over the phone on the basis of their relationship.
“So they, in that conversation — they ascertained that this was two men,” Williams said. “It’s a husband-and-wife operation. The wife was on the phone with David, and she said, ‘Well, we don’t accept non-traditional couples.'”
Williams, who married Schaefer five years ago in Boston after being together 35 years, said his spouse tried to “push back a bit” on the Stafford House owner, but she remained firm in denying the reservation. Williams, a racehorse breeder,Ā said the owner also told Schaefer, a physician,Ā that unmarried opposite-sex couples would be unable to obtain a reservation.
“There were no harsh words,” Williams said. “Apparently, the husband is a minister and it’s a religion-based policy that they have. And that was that. I guess we’ll stay at the Marriott.”
Stafford House didn’t respond to multiple requests from the Washington Blade to confirm the allegation that an owner denied the couple a reservation.
Virginia has no LGBT-specific non-discrimination law, nor one that protects same-sex couples against discrimination in public accommodations.
Williams said facing this discrimination reminded him of the mistreatment that racial minorities in the United States once faced in similar situations.
“The first thing that popped into my head was now I knew how black people felt 50 years ago,” Williams said. “It was bizarre. David felt the same way.”
Virginia State Del. Adam Ebbin (D-Alexandria), the only openly gay member of the General Assembly and a candidate for a Virginia State Senate seat, called the alleged discrimination faced by Williams and Schaefer “an embarrassment to Virginia.”
“It’s surprising, in spite of our lack of protections and laws, that this would happen in Fairfax County,” Ebbin said. “It’s another outrage that makes me want to redouble my efforts in support of equality in Virginia.”
Ebbin said a change in law to prohibit discrimination of all types would be the best way to remedy the situation. In the 2011 session of the General Assembly, Del. Ken Plum (D-Fairfax) introduced legislation that would amend the Virginia Human Rights Act to include safeguards for LGBT people againstĀ unlawful discrimination.
“Clearly, we need to change the laws to prohibit discrimination of all types,” Ebbin said. “Unfortunately, we’re still at the building-block level.”
Fred Sainz, vice president of communications for the Human Rights Campaign, also expressed frustration that no legal protections exist to protect LGBT people from discrimination in public accommodations.
“These kinds of things should not be happening in this day and age, and the frustrating part is that they happen all too frequently in areas all across our country,” Sainz said. “It’s even more frustrating when they happen right across from the nation’s capital — in a city that is virtually within walking distance of the nation’s capital.”
Sainz said the incident “makes clear the need for uniformity of laws nationwide that protect all Americans, specifically on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity.” But SainzĀ also said the situation speaks to the need for state non-discrimination legislation in Virginia because he said states have always been “first and strongest”Ā to protect LGBT families.
Williams said although he felt he faced discrimination,Ā he doesn’t think sympathizers should retaliate against the owners of Stafford House.
“I would not want to see the people at the B&B persecuted,” Williams said. “I think it’s wrong and I think they’re ignorant, but I hope that — and I’ve talked about this with a lot of friends — gay people should not retaliate against this kind of thing. I think we should just go ahead and do what we have to do to get our civil rights and make sure that people comply.”
LGBT advocates said they felt drawing attention to this issue can help with efforts to pass laws to prevent such discrimination in the future. Ebbin said such examples can help build the case in the Virginia General Assembly to pass non-discrimination laws.
“We constantly hear complaints from Richmond that there are no documented cases of discrimination,” Ebbin said. “Every incident like this helps us make it more clear to my colleagues that we need to move forward on protecting LGBT people along with all others.”
Sainz added he believes more LGBT couples throughout the country face this kind of discrimination, but few make the incidents public because they’re embarrassed.
“My suspicion is more incidents like this take place than we hear of because people are embarrassed, and so they don’t want to shine the light on these kinds of situations,” Sainz said. “I think that this couple bringing attention to this issue is the right thing to do.”
UPDATE: Following the posting of this article, Donna Stafford, an owner of Stafford House, told the Washington Blade that the bed and breakfast has changed its policy and will no longer bar anyone from making a reservation.
“We were in the process of [changing ourĀ policy]Ā even before your article came out,” Stafford said. “We’re not going to put restrictions on anyone that stays.”
In a separate email, Stafford noted that the prior policy of Stafford House was within the letter of all relevant state and local housing laws.
ADDITIONAL UPDATE: In a joint statement, Williams and Schaefer told the Blade on Wednesday via email that following Stafford House’s announced change in policy, they booked a room at theĀ facility and plan a stay shortly.
“Pursuant to your update we have reserved a room at the Stafford House and plan to stay there this weekend,” they wrote. “Tolerance doesnāt require agreement about everything and if they learned that across the river in Congress the whole country would be better off.”
District of Columbia
Gay Menās Chorus of Washington to celebrate Spring Affair honorees
‘Their work inspires our music and deepens our mission’

For 44 years, the Gay Menās Chorus of Washington (GMCW) has served as a powerful voice for love, unity, and pride among Washingtonās LGBTQ community and its allies. Since its first performance in 1981āat the opening of the National Gay Task Forceās Washington office (later becoming the National LGBTQ Task Force)āGMCW has built a politically engaged and culturally significant legacy as one of the nationās foremost LGBTQ performing arts organizations.
As its music and mission evolved, GMCW deepened its involvement in supporting LGBTQ individuals and allies alike. In 2004, the chorus launched its first Spring Affair fundraiser. This annual event not only generates financial support for the inclusive choral group, but also honors individuals and organizations in the Washington community who exemplify GMCWās mission of unity, equity, and empowerment through music.
Each year at the Spring Affair gala, the chorus honors one community leader, one external organization, and one GMCW member. For the 2025 gala, GMCW will recognize Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde, Atlas Performing Arts Center, and GMCW member Keygan Miller.
āThese honorees remind us why we sing,ā said Thea Kano, artistic director of the Gay Menās Chorus of Washington, DC, in an email. āIn moments when our community has needed strength, theyāve offered hope. Whether itās a brave voice from the pulpit, a tireless advocate for our youth, or an organization that opens its doors to every storyāeach has chosen to lead with love, truth, and courage. Their work inspires our music and deepens our mission.ā
GMCW will honor Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde, the first woman elected to lead the Episcopal Diocese of Washington, as its 2025 individual award recipient. A longtime champion of equity and inclusion, Bishop Budde gained national prominence during the Inaugural Prayer Service at Washington National Cathedral, where she spoke directly to newly sworn-in President Donald Trump.
āHave mercy, Mr. President,ā she implored, lifting the hopes of the most vulnerable Americans targeted by Trumpās policiesāparticularly LGBTQ and immigrant communities. Her bold words signaled to the nation that she remains a genuine and outspoken voice for justice, unity, and truth, inspiring compassion and faith within and beyond her religious community.
GMCW will present the Harmony Award for an Organization to the Atlas Performing Arts Center, located in the historic H Street, N.E. corridor. In 2024 alone, Atlas hosted more than 400 events and provided $1.6 million in free and discounted tickets, arts education, community programming, and space use. Through this work, Atlas has amplified āartistic voices that reflect the full diversity of our community.ā
The center has long partnered with GMCW, offering space for open mic nights, cabarets, GenOUT Chorus events like the Youth Summit, and even memorial services such as that for Bobby T. Boaz. Atlas exemplifies GMCWās mission of storytelling, equity, and civic connection through programs like the INTERSECTIONS Festival and City at Peace.
āWe are absolutely thrilled and deeply honored that the Atlas Performing Arts Center has been named a recipient of the GMCW Harmony Award! This recognition is a powerful affirmation of our commitment to uplifting voices, fostering inclusive creative expression, and building a space where everyone feels seen, heard, and celebrated,ā said Jarrod Bennett, Executive Director of the Atlas Performing Arts Center.
āAt the Atlas, our mission is rooted in the belief that the arts are for everyoneāand that through performance, dialogue, and community, we can help shape a more just, compassionate world. To be acknowledged by the Gay Menās Chorus of Washington, DCāan organization that has long stood at the forefront of championing equality and advancing the well-being of the LGBTQ+ communityāis a profound and humbling honor. We continue to be inspired by GMCWās work and are proud to stand alongside them in this shared vision. Thank you, GMCW, for this beautiful recognition. We carry it forward with gratitude and renewed energy for the work ahead.ā
Finally, GMCW will honor Keygan Miller, a chorus member since 2017, for their leadership, advocacy, and commitment to equity both onstage and off. Within GMCW, Miller served as Vice President of Diversity and Inclusion, led conversations to expand trans inclusion, authored the āDay Oneā pledge, and played a critical role in shaping inclusive programming.
Outside the chorus, Miller serves as Director of Public Training for The Trevor Project, a national nonprofit focused on crisis intervention and suicide prevention services for LGBTQ youth under 25. They previously worked as an Advocacy Manager at the Trevor Project, where they championed policies protecting LGBTQ+ youth at every level of government.
As GMCW continues its mission to uplift and unite through music, the organization encourages new voices to join its ranks. GMCW welcomes all singersāregardless of gender identity or sexual orientationāwho can sing in the lower vocal registers.
The 2025 Spring Affair Gala will take place on May 17, 2025, at The Ritz-Carlton, Washington, D.C. This annual benefit supports GMCWās artistic and educational programming. For tickets, audition information, and more, visit GMCW.org.
District of Columbia
Activists stage reenactment of 1965 gay rights protest at White House
Event marked 60th anniversary of historic picketing

With dozens of tourists watching, a little over two dozen LGBTQ activists walked in a circular picket line carrying āhomosexual rightsā signs on the sidewalk in front of the White House on April 17 in a reenactment of the historic 1965 first gay rights protest outside the White House.
Organized by D.C.ās Rainbow History Project, the event marked the 60th anniversary of the 1965 protest, which was organized by gay rights pioneers Frank Kameny and Lilli Vincenz on behalf of the Mattachine Society of Washington, one of D.C.ās first gay rights groups that Kameny co-founded in the early 1960s.
āThe White House picket is the origin story for public demonstrations for gay rights in the U.S., and the origin story for Pride marches and the annual LGBTQ Pride celebrations which occur across the globe,ā according to a leaflet prepared by Rainbow History Project that participants in the reenactment handed out to passersby and tourists.
Among those participating in the reenactment protest was longtime D.C. LGBTQ rightsĀ advocate Paul Kuntzler, who is the last known survivor of the 1965 White House gay rights protest. Kuntzler carried a replica of the sign he said he carried at the 1965 protest, which states, āFifteen Million U.S. Homosexuals Protest Federal Treatment.ā

Other signs carried by participants stated, āHomosexuals Died for Their Country, Too;ā āWhite House Refuses Replies To Our Letters ā Afraid Of Us?ā; Ā āCubaās Government Persecutes Homosexuals, U.S. Government Beats Them To It;ā Ā āHomosexuals are American Citizens, Too.ā
The leaflet that participants distributed at the April 17 reenactment, which includes a photo of the 1965 event, lists what it says were the four main demands issued by the Mattachine Society of Washington in 1965.
They called for an end to āthe exclusion of homosexuals from federal employment,ā an end to the ban on gays from serving in the U.S. military, an end to the āblanket denial of security clearances for gay people,ā and an end to the governmentās refusal to meet with the LGBTQ community or to reply to their letters.
The leaflet includes an excerpt from a letter that Kameny wrote to then-President Lyndon B. Johnson around the time of the 1965 protest.
āWe ask you, Mr. President, for what all American citizens ā singly and collectively ā have the right to ask,ā the letter states. āThat our problems be given fair, unbiased considerationā¦consideration in which we, ourselves, are allowed to participate actively and are invited to do so.ā
The leaflet notes that although Kameny died in 2011 and Vincenz died in 2023, ātheir legacy is carried on by modern LGBTQ+ rights activists, who continue to advocate for employment opportunities, legal protections, inclusive health services, and more.ā
Rainbow History Project official Vincent Slatt, one of the lead organizers of the reenactment protest, said his group had no trouble obtaining a permit from the National Park Service to hold the event outside the White House.
āI think the picket is going very, very well today,ā he said while watching the picketers on the White House sidewalk. āWe have a couple of dozen people participating. And there are lots of tourists engaging,ā he said. āWeāre handing out pamphlets to let them know about the historic picket and the importance of learning LGBT history.ā
Slatt added, āBut the highest impact is really that the media showed up to spread awareness of this.ā
Lesbian activist Leticia Gomez, while walking on the White House picket line at the reenactment event, said she was among those who benefited from the 1965 protest and those that followed in support of LGBTQ rights.
āIām blessed,ā she said. āI got to work 34 years for the federal government as an out lesbian in the Department of the Navy,ā she told the Blade. āSo, because of what they did and all the other protests that came after that, it allowed me to have the career that I had.ā
Also walking the picket line at the April 17 reenactment event was Deacon Maccubbin, owner of the former D.C. LGBTQ bookstore Lambda Rising and organizer of D.C.ās first Gay Pride Day event in 1975.
āIt was really wonderful to be here today after 60 years,ā he said. āI wasnāt at the first one,ā he told the Blade. āBut itās just wonderful that this happened in 1965. It started the ball rolling, and all the progress that weāve made, the fact that we do gay Pride every year in D.C. ā all of those are dependent on this demonstration that got started in 1965.ā
District of Columbia
Capital Pride wins $900,000 D.C. grant to support WorldPride
Funds not impacted by $1 billion budget cut looming over city

Capital Pride Alliance, the nonprofit D.C. group organizing WorldPride 2025, this week received a $900,000 grant from the city to help support the multiple events set to take place in D.C. May 17-June 8.
According to an announcement by D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser and Events D.C., the cityās official convention, sports, and events authority, Capital Pride Alliance was one of 11 nonprofit groups organizing 2025 D.C. events to receive grants totaling $3.5 million.
The announcement says the grants are from the cityās Large Event Grant Program, which is managed by Events D.C. It says the grant program is funded by the Office of the D.C. Deputy Mayor for Planning and Economic Development through a grant from the U.S. Department of Commerce Economic Development Administration.
Nina Albert, the Deputy Mayor for Planning and Economic Development, told the Washington Blade that because the grants consist of federal funds already disbursed to the city, they are not impacted by the billion dollar budget cut imposed on the city by Congress earlier this year.
āWorldPride is one of the 11 grantees, and weāre really just excited that thereās going to be generated a large crowd and introducing the city to a national and international audience,ā Albert said. āAnd we think it is going to be a real positive opportunity.ā
The statement from the mayorās office announcing the grants says funds from the grants can be used to support expenses associated with hosting large events such as venue rental fees, security, labor costs, equipment and other infrastructure costs.
āAll of those things are things that we do for our major events, including WorldPride,ā said Ryan Bos, executive director of Capital Pride Alliance. āSo, the resources from this grant will be extremely helpful as we approach the final weeks of preparation of WorldPride Washington, D.C.,ā he said.
Bos said Events D.C. has been an important partner in helping to promote WorldPride 2025 since the planning began more than two years ago. āAnd weāre excited to have them now support us financially to get us over the finish line and have an amazing event.ā
Both Bos and Deputy Mayor Albert said WorldPride organizers and D.C. government officials were doing all they can to inform potential visitors from abroad and other parts of the U.S. that the local D.C. government that is hosting WorldPride is highly supportive of the LGBTQ community.
The two said WorldPride organizers and the city are pointing out to potential visitors that the local D.C. government is separate from the Trump administration and members of Congress that have put in place or advocated for policies harmful to the LGBTQ community.
āD.C. is more than the federal city,ā Bos told the Blade. āItās more than the White House, more than the Capitol,ā he said. āWe have a vibrant, progressive, inclusive community with many neighborhoods and a great culture.ā
Marcus Allen, an official with Broccoli City, Inc., the group that organizes D.C.ās annual Broccoli City Music Festival, reached out to the Blade to point out that Broccoli City was among the 11 events, along with WorldPride, to receive a D.C. Large Event Grant of $250,000.
Allen said the Broccoli City Festival, which includes performances by musicians and performing artists of interest to African Americans and people of color, is attended by large numbers of LGBTQ people. This yearās festival will be held Aug. 8-10, with its main event taking place at Washington Nationals Stadium.
“Visitors from around the world come to D.C. to experience our world-class festivals and events,” Mayor Bowser said in the grants announcement statement. “These grants help bring that experience to life, with the music, the food, and the spirit of our neighborhoods,” she said. “Together with Events D.C., we’re creating jobs, supporting local talent, and showcasing the vibrancy of our city.”
The full list of organizations receiving this yearās Large Event grants are:
ā¢ Restaurant Association of Metropolitan Washington
ā¢ National Cherry Blossom Festival, Inc.
ā¢ Asia Heritage Foundation
ā¢ Capital Pride Alliance
ā¢ U.S. Soccer Federation
ā¢ Broccoli City, Inc.
ā¢ U.S.A. Rugby Football Union
ā¢ Washington Tennis and Education Foundation
ā¢ D.C. Jazz Festival
ā¢ Woolly Mammoth Theatre Company
ā¢ Fiesta D.C., Inc.
“Events DC is focused on creating unique experiencesĀ that resultĀ in jobs, economic impact, and lasting memories for residents, tourists, and guests,” said Events DC President and CEO Angie M. Gates in the announcement statement. “Through the Large Event Grant Program, we will support even more remarkable eventsĀ this year that build community connections, celebrate our distinctive culture, and contribute to our economy.”
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