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Former Madonna dancer Slam recalls ‘Blond Ambition Tour,’ ‘Truth or Dare’
Salim Gauwloos revisits landmark film on its 25th anniversary

āTruth or Dare”
Monday, Sept. 12
9 p.m.
AFI Silver
$13
8633 Colesville Rd.
Silver Spring, Md.
āMadonna: Truth or Dare,ā the landmark 1991 documentary (aka āIn Bed With Madonnaā) is widely remembered not only as an eye-popping memento of the singerās legendary āBlond Ambition Tour,ā but also as a gay cultural touchstone.
In some ways, itās the gay equivalent of classic rockumentaries like āGimme Shelterā or āThe Last Waltzā but itās more than that, too. Not only because it captures Our Lady at the peak of the zeitgeist, but also because its depiction of Madonnaās back-up dancers (of the seven, only Oliver Crumes was straight) being so matter-of-factly out that it felt almost otherworldly to the gay boys who lapped it up in Peoria and everywhere else.
In honor of its anniversary ā it screens twice in the coming days at the AFI Silver ā we caught up with Salim āSlamā Gauwloos, one of the āBlond Ambitionā dancers whose onscreen kiss with the late Gabriel Trupin is one of the filmās most memorable moments. His comments have been slightly edited for length.

Madonna’s ‘Blond Ambition Tour’ dancers, made famous in the film ‘Truth or Dare,’ reunited for ‘Strike a Pose.’ Clockwise from left are Luis Camacho, Oliver Crumes, Carlton Wilborn, Kevin Stea, Jose Gutierez and Salim Gauwloos. (Photo by Robin De Puy)
WASHINGTON BLADE: Before we get to āTruth or Dare,ā tell us a little about āStrike a Pose,ā the reunion documentary youāre in with the other āBlond Ambition Tourā dancers. When will we get to see it in Washington?
GAUWLOOS: Itās a great movie, youāll enjoy it. Theyāre working on a U.S. theatrical release early next year. Before everybody downloads it. Youāll see it soon. Itās a beautiful movie. They did a great job.
BLADE: But it has already been on the festival circuit, right?
GAUWLOOS: Yes. We mostly go out in twos, only in Berlin and Amsterdam they flew everybody over, but mostly just two of us to wherever. I went to Colombia, to Tel Aviv. It takes a lot of time always, but itās fun. Almost like being on tour again.
BLADE: How did they pitch you on āStrike a Poseā?
GAUWLOOS: They approached me in 2013. I was doing a job, this big dance festival in Vienna and they contacted me. I said, āOK, Iāll meet with Reijer Zwaan,ā one of the directors. He came to meet me in Vienna and we must have talked for about eight hours. It just felt right, I donāt know. I think the directors, Ester Gould and Reijer Zwaan, these directors from Holland, theyāre amazing storytellers. I did kind of think, āDo I really want to throw myself out there again to be judged really in some kind of way, I want to be careful about that,ā but I had a really good feeling about it.
BLADE: Did you talk to the other dancers before agreeing to it?
GAUWLOOS: No. I think the last one to jump on board was Jose (Gutierez). I felt it really should be all the dancers. Of course Gabriel (Trupin), he passed away a long time ago, but his mother represents him in the movie and thatās really beautiful. It wouldnāt have been the same without all the dancers so in the end, we all agreed and started shooting in 2014.
BLADE: Had you seen the other five any since the āTruth or Dareā premiere or kept in touch with them at all?
GAUWLOOS: No. For example, Carlton (Wilborn), Oliver (Crumes) and Kevin (Stea), I hadnāt seen for probably close to 25 years. Maybe 24 years. And Luis (Camacho) Iād seen a little bit here and there but that was probably like 12 years. Jose (Gutierez) and I both live in New York so I saw him a little bit here and there but with most of them, Iād had literally no contact at all. It was so amazing to see them all again after 25 years.
BLADE: What was different about this project?
GAUWLOOS: Weāve been approached so many times but in the end, itās just mostly about Madonna but these guys really wanted to know what happened with us during the tour and what was happening with us right now, 25 years later, what we were up to, so that was really nice.
BLADE: You said recently that Reijer Zwaan was almost like your psychiatrist. How so?
GAUWLOOS: You probably know I was diagnosed in 1987 as being HIV-positive and I wanted to be out with that for a long time. It just felt silly to not be. So then along came Reijer and we talked for eight hours and it just all came out you know, crying and it was really the first time I sat with somebody I didnāt really know and told them, āYes, Iāve been HIV for 29 years,ā 27 at the time. I was like, āOh my God, I feel like Iāve just been to a psychiatrist.ā Iāve never been to a real one. Maybe I should (laughs).
BLADE: Madonna made a surprise appearance at a āTruth or Dareā anniversary screening a couple weeks ago in New York. What did it feel like when she walked in the room unannounced?
GAUWLOOS: It was surreal. We were just sitting there and weāre thinking, āOK, why isnāt the movie playing?ā and boom, she walks in. It was like the whole room just gasped for air. You couldnāt believe it was real. She just sat down, watched the movie and left. But it was amazing.
BLADE: Had you seen her at all in the last 25 years?
GAUWLOOS: I hadnāt seen her in a long, long, long time. People on social media were like, āOh my God, did she talk to you guys?ā but we were in the front row and she was more in the back. Jose and I should have gone up to her but it wasnāt really the right moment. When she walked in it was just like, āWhoah, Iāve never felt that kind of energy in one room.ā It was interesting watching the movie with her. Itās a good film. Very funny.
BLADE: How does it strike you seeing it now?
GAUWLOOS: I watched it a few years ago before we did āStrike a Pose.ā When I see it Iām like, āOh my God, my hair.ā Me and my hair, itās the only thing I can look at. I canāt stop flipping it, you know. Itās like I was so busy with my hair always. Iām just happy to have been part of such a big, iconic moment. If you look at the concert footage, it doesnāt look dated. The whole thing is just amazing. The least annoying thing for me is the kiss, the most important gay kiss in history. That I donāt have a problem watching but some of it Iām like, āOh my God, no I did not just say that.ā Itās like going back in time. It was a good experience.
BLADE: Wasnāt your hair sort of annoying at that length always falling in your face?
GAUWLOOS: Well when you dance, your hair flies around so it has more of an effect. I liked having longer hair and swinging it around.
BLADE: Speaking of hair, why did Madonna change her hair halfway through the tour? That ponytail look was so iconic for her but then she did the curls, which became kind of a trademark look too. It feels odd to me watching āTruth or Dareā because sheās always backstage and itās supposed to make you feel like sheās walking out into the concert footage but it doesnāt match because she has the different hair.
GAUWLOOS: It was just like one day she had the ponytail and then she just went to the Shirley Temple curls. I donāt think there was any specific reason for it. With the ponytail sometimes it would fly around in your face so I think the curls were easier. Personally I liked the curls more.
BLADE: Iām sure you got wacked in the face with that ponytail a few times.
GAUWLOOS: Yeah and as a girl dancing with a ponytail, itās like a delayed slap and it must have been difficult for her too.
BLADE: But it wasnāt that her hair was falling out from too much bleaching or pulling up or anything?
GAUWLOOS: No. She had strong hair.
BLADE: Do you feel sheās a bit aloof with you guys or do you think thatās just the way any major star would pretty much be?
GAUWLOOS: I donāt know. After 25 years, you know, itās a long time. People go on with their life and deal with things in different ways. I mean I just knew sitting there she wasnāt going to run up to us and be like, āOh my God,ā you know? I knew that was not going to happen. Itās not really in her character to be like that. But who am I to judge? You know how you donāt see other people for many years and people react all different ways, so I donāt really judge that.
BLADE: Is it true (āTruth or Dareā director) Alek Keshishian said all the hundreds of hours of outtakes got accidentally deleted?
GAUWLOOS: Not deleted, but nobody knows where it is.
BLADE: I thought it was lame when the Blu-ray release came out a few years ago they didnāt put like 20 minutes or a half-hour of outtakes on it as bonus material. That would have been fun to see.
GAUWLOOS: Supposedly all these people claim not to know where it is. Itās lost.
BLADE: Iām sure it will surface maybe for the 50th anniversary or something.
GAUWLOOS: I know, right? Of course it will. It always does.
BLADE: Was there any dance move or routine that was especially tricky to learn for the tour?
GAUWLOOS: Well I had to learn to vogue, but it wasnāt particularly difficult. The only people who knew what that even was before were Luis, Jose and Madonna, who hired them. Being a classically trained dancer, it wasnāt really a challenge but it was one thing I had to learn. I think it came pretty naturally for everybody. The rest was just hard work. A lot of rehearsals. Thatās how we got a really tight show together like that.
BLADE: Is it true you did like two weeks of twice-a-day run throughs before it premiered?
GAUWLOOS: Oh definitely. We were in the studio like 10-12 hours then at the end there were tech rehearsals at night too. It was a crazy, crazy schedule but you know, we were so young, talented and hungry so we didnāt care. We were all in it 100 percent.
BLADE: By the end, were you drenched in sweat and exhausted or were you in such great shape that you werenāt?
GAUWLOOS: People always think the numbers I was featured in like āExpress Yourselfā or the Dick Tracy part would be the most exhausting but those were the ones you could enjoy more. The most exhausting number to do was āLike a Prayerā because we had this whole big number while sheās changing for the next number. That you were like, āOK, now I canāt breathe.ā (laughs)
BLADE: Do you have any mementos from the tour? Any costumes or anything?
GAUWLOOS: I did but I lost all of them, just having moved so many times. When we started shooting āStrike a Pose,ā they were like, āShow us some picturesā and I was like, āI donāt have anything.ā Itās kind of sad. Only in my head.
BLADE: So you donāt have the rosary Madonna gave you?
GAUWLOOS: No, I definitely donāt have it. I should just buy one and say itās the one she gave me. (laughs)
BLADE: Some of the choreography was so gay but you were kind of the straight hunk too in some passages. Did that strike you as ironic?
GAUWLOOS: No, itās like being an actor. Some passages I was acting as a straight dance partner for Madonna so I was acting straight. Not every dancer could do it. But it mostly came natural and from just doing it over and over.
BLADE: Did you bulk up for the tour or were you always kind of built like that?
GAUWLOOS: Starting out in Antwerp, Belgium as a dancer I was really skinny. Then I came to America, I got a little bit bigger. For the tour we were supposed to go to the gym but of course we never went. It was just the cruel rehearsal schedule that kind of got everybody in shape. Itās like 10 hours of dancing, how can you not be in shape from that? Thatās how I got bigger and more muscular. I definitely didnāt look like that when we started, definitely not.
BLADE: Did you see āIām Going to Tell You a Secret,ā the āTruth or Dareā sequel?
GAUWLOOS: I saw a little part of it, not the whole thing. I heard the dancers did not get as much of a part. No kissing, in other words. Not X-rated. (laughs)
BLADE: Did you grow up Catholic?
GAUWLOOS: No, not really. My mom would say she was Catholic but we never went to church. It was just kind of like, āWell, we walk by the church.ā But definitely not. My father was Muslim. Iām half Moroccan. He was from Morocco but he passed away and was only in my life a couple years and then he disappeared. Iām a little bit of everything but I donāt go to church or practice.
BLADE: So did all the religious imagery in the show resonate with you at all?
GAUWLOOS: No, it was more of a theatrical thing for me with the crosses and the lights. I never felt like, āOh my God, this is sacrilegiousā or anything. I just saw it as a show. I was probably the least knowledgeable about how controversial and taboo it was for the time.
BLADE: The āVogueā VMA performance with the Marie Antoinette costumes, was that after the tour?
GAUWLOOS: Yes. That was nice because we were all sad when the tour ended but we knew weād be going back in a few weeks to do that and weād get to see each other and dance together again. We worked like a week and a half or two weeks getting ready for that just with the costumes and the girls had the fans and everything and just to make sure it was really tight. I think it was like a month or two months after the tour finished.
BLADE: Carlton was on āThe Girlie Show,ā Madonnaās next tour. What were you doing by ā93 and was there any discussion or possibility of any of the rest of you touring with Madonna again?
GAUWLOOS: No. The ride was over after everything was done with Madonna and I realized I had my own reality to deal with being HIV. I was just going through life really. I really partied so I didnāt have to deal with being HIV and it was like a really dark period for me for like six-seven years.
BLADE: How did you get through it?
GAUWLOOS: When I really got my shit together was in 2000. I met my husband and fell in love, that was it. That changed my whole life around. But before that, Iād been diagnosed in 1987 and then I ended up in the hospital in 1997 with a really bad pneumonia. I didnāt do any treatment for 10 years, I just couldnāt deal with it. So I ended up in the hospital and that was really a reality check and a wakeup call. I donāt know, this is awfully personal, but I also had some issues with my working papers too. I was HIV-positive so I didnāt want to go to the hospital and get deported. Thatās one of the reasons I never went. Thatās also why coming out with my story, Iām sure there are a lot of people in my situation. Theyāre HIV and illegal aliens and afraid to get help. I ended up in the hospital almost dead before I realized there are so many organizations out there that can help you get free medication and they donāt deport you and all that stuff.
BLADE: Tell me about your husband.
GAUWLOOS: He got my heart, you know? His name is Facundo Gabba. Heās from Argentina. He just came into my life and blew me away. When I was diagnosed it was still the ā80s and people were dropping like flies. You canāt imagine what it was like to have some guy come in and telling you this with your mother sitting there. They said, āYou have the HIV virus and youāve probably got about five years.ā So the first thing was like, āOh my God, Iām 18, what did I do wrong?ā It was a really dark, dark, dark thing. Thank God the whole Madonna experience happened because I needed something to hold onto. ⦠You think, āWhoās going to love me?,ā but you can be HIV and find love. That was the biggest thing for me to learn.
BLADE: What do you do now?
GAUWLOOS: I teach at Broadway Dance Center, a very nice school here in New York City, on a regular basis. I also do fashion shoots. When they approached me for āStrike a Poseā in 2013, I had just finished working on Longchamp. I did that for two seasons so mostly teaching but also doing a lot of fashion productions.
BLADE: Did you go to Gabrielās funeral?
GAUWLOOS: No. I didnāt know right away that heād died. But since āStrike a Pose,ā Iāve been in contact with his mother, Sue, who is really nice. Itās almost like being in touch with Gabriel. Sheās such a sweet woman. We talk and itās been a great experience going to her house in San Francisco. I get to find out more about Gabriel. Itās really beautiful.
BLADE: Have you followed Madonnaās career? Did you ever go see her other tours?
GAUWLOOS: I never went to her shows, but Iād watch her on YouTube here and there if she had new stuff. I liked āThe Girlie Showā and I thought āThe Confessions Tourā where she came out of the disco ball and had all the Steven Klein stuff with the horses and everything was beautiful.
BLADE: You have to get tired of being asked about Madonna, no?
GAUWLOOS: Yeah, it gets a little tiring here and there but at the same time, itās OK. Especially with this new movie, they do ask Madonna questions but there are also questions related to us, so itās really nice. Iām happy it happened. Especially now, weāre all in the spotlight again so itās OK. Iāll take that with it. I donāt mind.
BLADE: You said once you were also really into Janet Jackson back in the early ā90s too, right?
GAUWLOOS: I was really into Janet Jackson and also Paula Abdul a lot, too. I know a lot of people didnāt really like Paula Abdul, but I liked her because here was another singer giving a lot of dancers work and it was real dance. You had to be a real dancer. So I think thatās where that comes from. Did I like their music more than Madonnaās? No, I donāt think so, but I liked the whole moving thing, the whole āRhythm Nationā thing, I was into that too.
BLADE: One thing that came up when Oliver, Kevin and Gabriel sued Madonna over āTruth or Dareā was a claim that they didnāt know it was going to be made into this big thing and so on. But you guys saw Alek and his team around constantly. Wasnāt that claim somewhat naive?
GAUWLOOS: Yeah, yeah, yeah. I donāt know what all they sued for. They all sued for different things. What wasnāt clear was that we were not going to make any money from āTruth or Dareā and we didnāt. At the end of the day, thatās what it came down to. To this day, weāve never made a penny from āTruth or Dare.ā Iām not saying that to be shady or mean, itās just a fact. Did I sue? No, no. If itās that important to somebody, I donāt know. Iām just not a suing person I think, especially for something like that.
BLADE: Did they ask you if you wanted to be part of it?
GAUWLOOS: No, no, no. That last time I saw them was in L.A. I saw them on some talk shows talking about the lawsuit but we all knew they were taping. I just think we didnāt know we werenāt going to make any money, which would have been nice. A lot of us could have used the money.
BLADE: Niki (Haris) and Donna (DeLory) toured with Madonna a lot in subsequent years but with a few exceptions, she mostly gets all new dancers for each tour. Why do you think that is?
GAUWLOOS: Probably just so she always had a new look, a fresh look, you know? I think with backup singers, Niki and Donna were the perfect backup singers for Madonna. They could move, they could sing, they looked nice, they had all the qualities. Itās probably a lot harder to find all that, so they were like a perfect match. With the dancers, I just think itās her thing. Aside from Carlton and maybe a few others, itās just like her schtick to hire new dancers each tour.
BLADE: Have you ever met any of her other dancers? Any of them ever come up and say hi?
GAUWLOOS: No. I wonāt speak to dancers of other tours. No, Iām joking. (laughs)
BLADE: Aside from your work with Madonna, what are you most proud of?
GAUWLOOS: Ugh, thatās a tough question. I donāt know. I think the most proud thing would be being a dancer and still to this day, always having a voice and not really changing my belief system of dancing and everything. As an artist, Iāve always believed in myself. I may ask other people for advice, but at the end of the day, Iāve always listened to myself first.
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Peppermint thrives in the spotlight
In exclusive interview, she talks Netflix show ā and the need to resist Trumpās attacks

As an entertainer, thereās not much that Peppermint hasnāt done. Sheās a singer, actor, songwriter, reality TV personality, drag queen, podcaster and the list goes on. Most importantly, as an activist she has been an invaluable role model for the trans, queer, and Black communities.
Sheās a trailblazer who boasts an impressive list of āfirsts.ā She is the first out trans contestant to be cast on āRuPaulās Drag Raceā (Season 9). She is the first trans woman to originate a principal musical role for Broadwayās āHead Over Heels.ā She was also the first trans woman to compete in the runaway hit series āTraitors,ā on Peacock, and she is the ACLUās first-ever Artist Ambassador for Trans Justice. Her accolades are a true testament of the courage it took for Peppermint to live her authentic self.
We caught up with Peppermint to chat about her activism, taking on bigger roles on screen, our current political and social climate and life beyond the lens. For Peppermint, coming out as trans was not just a moment of strengthāit was a necessity.
āIt unfolded exactly as I had imagined it in terms of just feeling good and secure about who I am. I was in so much pain and sort of misery and anguish because I wasnāt able to live as free as I wanted to and that I knew that other people do when they just wake up. They get dressed, they walk out the door and they live their lives. Being able to live as your authentic self without fear of being persecuted by other people or by the government is essential to being healthy,ā Peppermint tells the Blade in an exclusive interview.
āI was not able to imagine any other life. I remember saying to myself, āIf I canāt imagine a life where Iām out and free and feeling secure and confident and left alone, then I donāt even want to imagine any kind of a life in the future,’ā says Peppermint.
Recently, Peppermint returned for season 2 of Netflixās comedy āSurvival of the Thickest.ā She added some spice and kick to the first season in her role as a drag bar owner. This time around, her character moves center stage, as her engagement and wedding become a major plot line in the show. Her expanded role and high-profile trans representation come at just the right time.
āItās the largest acting role Iāve ever had in a television show, which my acting degree thanks me. It feels right on time, in a day where theyāre rolling back trans rights and wanting to reduce DEI and make sure that we are limited from encouraging companies, corporations, industries, and institutions from not only featuring us, but supporting us, or even talking about us, or even referencing us.
āIt feels great to have something that we can offer up as resistance. You can try to moralize, but itās tougher to legislate art. So it feels like this is right on time and Iām just really grateful that they gave me a chance and that they gave my character a chance to tell a greater story.
Peppermintās expanded role also accompanies a boom in queer representation in Black-powered media. Networks like BET and Starz and producers like Tyler Perry, are now regularly showcasing queer Black folks in main story lines. What does Peppermint think is fueling this increased inclusion?
āQueer folks are not new and queer Black folks are not new and Black folks know that. Every Black person knows at least one person who is queer. We are everywhere. We have not always been at the forefront in a lot of storytelling, thatās true, and thatās the part thatās new. Itās Hollywood taking us from the place where they usually have held us Black, queer folks in the makeup room, or as the prostitute, as an extraānot that thereās anything wrong with sex work or playing a background performer. Iāve played the best of the hookers! But those [roles] are very limiting.
āHollywood has not historically done and still does not do a very good job of, including the voices of the stories that they make money [on]. And I think theyāre realizing [the need] to be inclusive of our stories and our experiences, because for a long time it was just our stories without our actual experiences. Itās also exciting. Itās dramatic. It makes money. And theyāre seeing that. So I think theyāre just dipping their toes in. I think that theyāre going to realize that balance means having us there in the room.ā
Peppermintās activism is tireless. She has raised more than six figures for prominent LGBTQ rights groups, she continues to speak around the nation, appears regularly on major media outlets addressing trans and LGBTQ issues and has been honored by GLAAD, World of Wonder, Out magazine, Variety, CondĆ© Nast and moreāall while appearing on screen and onstage in a long list of credits.
Now, under the Trump administration, she doesnāt have time to take a breath.
āI wouldnāt be able to do it if it werenāt second nature for me. Of course, there are ups and downs with being involved with any social issue or conversation and politics. But I am, for now, energized by it. Itās not like Iām energized by like, āOoh, I just love this subject!ā right? Itās like, āOh, weāre still being discriminated against, we gotta go and fight.ā
āThatās just what it is. I get energy because I feel like we are quite literally fighting for our lives. I know that is hyperbole in some regards, but they are limiting access to things like housing, healthcare, job security and not having identification. Passport regulations are being put in a blender.ā
Peppermint also mentions her thoughts on the unfair mandates to remove trans service members and revoke the rights and resources from the veterans who worked their whole lives to fight for this country.
āWhen you strip all these things away, it makes it really difficult for people to have a life and I know that that is what theyāre doing. When I look around and see that that is what is at stake, I certainly feel like Iām fighting for my life. And thatās energizing.
āThe only thing that would be the most rewarding besides waking up in a utopia and suddenly weāre all equal and weāre not discriminating against each otherāwhich probably is not happening this yearāis to be able to be involved in a project like this, where we can create that world. Itās also being built by people who are a part of that story in real life and care about it in real life.ā
Peppermint is clear on her point that now is the time for all of the letters of the LGBTQ community to come together. Everyone who is trans and queer should be joining the fight against the issues that affect us all.
āJust trust us and understand that our experiences are tied together. That is how and why we are discriminated against in the way[s] that we are. The people who discriminateājust like how they canāt really distinguish between somebody whoās Dominican and somebody whoās African American ā youāre Black when youāre getting pulled over. We are discriminated against in much the same way. Itās the same with being trans or queer or gender non-conforming or bi, we all have our own experiences and they should be honored.
āWhen laws are being created to harm us, we need to band together, because none of yāall asses is gonna be able to stop them from getting rid of marriage equalityāwhich is next. If you roll the tape back to three years ago when somebody was trying to ask me about drag queen bans on readings in school, I was saying theyāre coming for trans rights, which comes for bodily autonomy and abortion rights, which comes for gay marriage rights. Those three things will be wiped out.
Peppermint doesnāt take a pause to get fired up and call gay folk out in their obligation to return the favor to the Black trans community.
She shares with us her final thoughts.
āYou cis-gender homosexuals need to stand the fuck up and understand that we are standing in front of you. Itās very difficult to understand this and know this, but so many of the rights that we have were hard fought and won by protest and by people fighting very hard for them. And many of those people in every single instance from the suffrage movement, obviously Civil Rights, queer rights, the AIDS and HIV movementāBlack queer people have been there the entire time. Trans people have always been a part of that story, including Stonewall. Yes, we are using different terminology. Yes, we have different lenses to view things through, but let me tell you, if you allow us to be sacrificed before you see us go off the side, you will realize that your foot is shackled to our left foot. So, you better stand the fuck up!ā
Peppermint for president!
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Tristan Schukraft on keeping queer spaces thriving
New owner of LAās Abbey expands holdings to Fire Island, Mexico

LOS ANGELES ā Like the chatter about Willy Wonka and his Chocolate Factory, the West Hollywood community here started to whisper about the man who was going to be taking over the world-famous Abbey, a landmark in Los Angelesās queer nightlife scene. Rumors were put to rest when it was announced that entrepreneur Tristan Schukraft would be taking over the legacy created by Abbey founder David Cooley. All eyes are on him.
For those of us who were there for the re-opening of The Abbey, when the torch was officially passed, all qualms about the new regime went away as it was clear the club was in good hands and that the spirit behind the Abbey would forge on. Cher, Ricky Martin, Bianca del Rio, Jean Smart, and many other celebrities rubbed shoulders with veteran patrons, and the evening was magical and a throwback to the nightclub atmosphere pre-COVID.
The much-talked-about purchase of the Abbey was just the beginning for Schukraft. It was also announced that this business impresario was set to purchase the commercial district of Fire Island, as well as projects launching in Mexico and Puerto Rico. What was he up to? Tristan sat down with the Blade to chat about it all.
āWeāre at a time right now when the last generation of LGBT entrepreneurs and founders are all in their 60s and theyāre retiring. And if somebody doesnāt come in and buy these places, weāre going to lose our queer spaces.ā
Tristan wasnāt looking for more projects, but he recounts what happened in Puerto Rico. The Atlantic Beach Hotel was the gay destination spot and the place to party on Sundays, facing the gay beach. A new owner came in and made it a straight hotel, effectively taking away a place of fellowship and history for the queer community. Thankfully, the property is gay again, now branded as the Tryst and part of Schukraftās portfolio with locations in Puerto Vallarta and Fire Island.
āIf that happens with the Abbey and West Hollywood, itās like Bloomingdaleās in a mall. Itās kind of like a domino effect. So thatās really what it is all about for me at this point. It has become a passion project, and I think now more than ever, itās really important.ā
Tristan is fortifying spaces for the queer community at a time when the current administration is trying to silence the LGBTQ+ community. The timing is not lost on him.
āI thought my mission was important before, and in the last couple of months, itās become even more important. I donāt know why thereās this effort to erase us from public life, but weāve always been here. Weāre going to continue to be here, and it brings even more energy and motivation for me to make sure the spaces that I have now and even additional venues are protected going in the future.ā
The gay community is not always welcoming to fresh faces and new ideas. Schukraftās takeover of the Abbey and Fire Island has not come without criticism. Who is this man, and how dare he create a monopoly? As Schukraft knows, there will always be mean girls ready to talk. In his eyes, if someone can come in and preserve and advance spaces for the queer community, why would we oppose that?
āI think the community should be really appreciative. We, as a community, now, more than ever, should stand together in solidarity and not pick each other apart.ā
As far as the Abbey is concerned, Schukraft is excited about the changes to come. Being a perfectionist, he wants everything to be aligned, clean, and streamlined. There will be changes made to the DJ and dance booth, making way for a long list of celebrity pop-ups and performances. But his promise to the community is that it will continue to be the place to be, a place for the community to come together, for at least another 33 years.
āWeāre going to build on the Abbeyās rich heritage as not only a place to go at night and party but a place to go in the afternoon and have lunch. Thatās what David Cooley did that no others did before, is he brought the gay bar outside, and I love that.ā
Even with talk of a possible decline in West Hollywoodās nightlife, Schukraft maintains that though the industry may have its challenges, especially since COVID, the Abbey and nightlife will continue to thrive and grow.
āIām really encouraged by all the new ownership in [nightlife] because we need another generation to continue on. Iād be more concerned if everybody was still in their sixties and not letting go.ā
In his opinion, apps like Grindr have not killed nightlife.
āSometimes you like to order out, and sometimes you like to go out, and sometimes you like to order in, right? Thereās nothing that really replaces that real human interaction, and more importantly, as we know, a lot of times our family is our friends, theyāre our adopted family.
Sometimes you meet them online, but you really meet them going out to bars and meeting like-minded people. At the Abbey, every now and then, thereās that person whoās kind of building up that courage to go inside and has no wingman, doesnāt have any gay friends. So itās really important that these spaces are fun, to eat, drink, and party. But theyāre really important for the next generation to find their true identity and their new family.ā
There has also been criticism that West Hollywood has become elitist and not accessible to everyone in the community. Schukraft believes otherwise. West Hollywood is a varied part of queer nightlife as a whole.
āWest Hollywood used to be the only gay neighborhood, and now youāve got Silver Lake and youāve got parts of Downtown, which is really good because L.A., is a huge place. Itās nice to have different neighborhoods, and each offers its own flavor and personality.ā
Staunch in his belief in his many projects, he is not afraid to talk about hot topics in the community, especially as they pertain to the Abbey. As anyone who goes to the Abbey on a busy night can attest to, the crowd is very diverse and inclusive. Some in the community have started to complain that gay bars are no longer for the gay community, but are succumbing to our straight visitors.
Schukraft explains: āWeāre a victim of our own success. I think itās great that we donāt need to hide in the dark shadows or in a hole-in-the-wall gay bar. Iām happy about the acceptance. I started Tryst Hotels, which is the first gay hotel. Weāre not hetero-friendly, weāre not gay-friendly. Weāre a gay hotel and everyone is welcome. I think as long as we donāt change our behavior or the environment in general at the Abbey, and if you want to party with us, the more than merrier.ā
Schukraftās message to the community?
āThese are kind of dangerous times, right? The rights that we fought for are being taken away and are being challenged. Weāre trying to be erased from public life. There could be mean girls, but we, as a community, need to stick together and unite, and make sure those protections and our identity arenāt erased. And even though youāre having a drink at a gay bar, and it seems insignificant, youāre supporting gay businesses and places for the next generation.ā
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Creator Max Mutchnick on inspirations for āMid-Century Modernā
Real-life friendships and loss inform plot of new Hulu show

Itās been a long time ā maybe 25 years when āWill & Graceā debuted ā since thereās been so much excitement about a new, queer sitcom premiering. āMid-Century Modern,ā which debuted on Hulu last week, is the creation of Max Mutchnick and David Kohan, the gay men who were also behind āWill & Grace.ā
Set in Palm Springs, Calif., following the death of the one of their closest friends, three gay men gather to mourn. Swept up in the emotions of the moment, Bunny (Nathan Lane) suggests that Atlanta-based flight attendant Jerry (Matt Bomer) and New York-based fashion editor Arthur (Nathan Lee Graham) move into the mid-century modern home he shares with his mother Sybil (the late Linda Lavin). Over the course of the first seasonās 10 episodes, hilarity ensues. That is, except for the episode in which they address Sybilās passing. The three male leads are all fabulous, and the ensemble cast, including Pamela Adlon as Bunnyās sister Mindy, and the stellar line-up of guest stars, such as Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Vanessa Bayer, Richard Kind, and Cheri Oteri, keep humor buzzing. Shortly before the premiere of āMid-Century Modern,ā Mutchnick made time for an interview with the Blade.
BLADE: Iād like to begin by saying itās always a delight to speak to a fellow Emerson College alum. In ways would you say that Emerson impacted your professional and creative life?
MAX MUTCHNICK: I think Emerson was the first place that reflected back to me that my voice, my thoughts were good, and they were worth listening to. I developed a confidence at Emerson that did not exist in my body and soul. It was a collection of a lot of things that took place in Boston, but I mean we can just put it all under the Emerson umbrella.
BLADE: Before āWill & Grace,ā you co-created the NBC sitcom āBoston Common,ā which starred fellow Emerson alum Anthony Clark. Is it important for you to maintain those kinds of alumni relationships?
MUTCHNICK: Because Emersonians are such scrappy little monkeys and they end up being everywhere in the world, you can’t help but work with someone from Emerson at some point in your career. I’m certainly more inclined to engage with someone from Emerson once I learn that they went to my alma mater. For me, it has much more to do with history and loyalty. I don’t think of myself as one of those guys that says, āLoyalty means a lot to me. I’m someone that really leans into history.ā It’s just what my life and career turned out to be. The longer I worked with people and the more often I worked with them, the safer that I felt, which means that I was more creative and that’s the name of the game. I’ve got to be as comfortable as possible so I can be as creative as possible. If that means that a person from Emerson is in the room, so be it. (Costume designer) Lori Eskowitz would be the Emerson version. And then (writer and actor) Dan Bucatinsky would be another version. When I’m around them for a long time, that’s when the best stuff comes.
BLADE: Relationships are important. On that subject, your new Hulu sitcom āMid-Century Modernā is about the longstanding friendship among three friends, Bunny (Nathan Lane), Jerry (Matt Bomer), and Arthur (Nathan Lee Graham). Do you have a friendship like the one shared by these three men?
MUTCHNICK: Iām absolutely engaged in a real version of what we’re projecting on the show. I have that in my life. I cannot say that I’m Jerry in any way, but the one thing that we do have in common is that in my group, I’m the young one. But I think that that’s very common in these families that we create. There’s usually a young one. Our culture is built on learning from our elders. I didn’t have a father growing up, so maybe that made me that much more inclined to seek out older, wiser, funnier, meaner friends. I mean the reason why you’re looking at a mouthful of straight, white teeth is because one of those old bitches sat across from me about 25 years ago at a diner and said, āGirl, your teeth are a disaster, and you need to get that fixed immediately.ā What did I know? I was just a kid from Chicago with two nickels in my pocket. But I found three nickels and I went and had new teeth put in my head. But that came from one of my dearest in the group.
BLADE: Do you think that calling āMid-Century Modernā a gay āGolden Girlsā is a fair description?
MUTCHNICK: No. I think the gay āGolden Girlsā was really just used as a tool to pitch the show quickly. We have an expression in town, which is āgive me the elevator pitch,ā because nobody has an attention span. The fastest way you can tell someone what David (Kohan) and I wanted to write, was to say, āIt’s gay Golden Girls.ā When you say that to somebody, then they say, āOK, sit down now, tell me more.ā We did that and then we started to dive into the show and realized pretty quickly that it’s not the gay āGolden Girls.ā No disrespect to the āGolden Girls.ā It’s a masterpiece.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā is set in Palm Springs. Iām based in Fort Lauderdale, a few blocks south of Wilton Manors, and I was wondering if that gay enclave was ever in consideration for the setting, or was it always going to be in Palm Springs?
MUTCHNICK: You just asked a really incredible question! Because, during COVID, Matt Bomer and I used to walk, because we live close by. We had a little walking group of a few gay gentlemen. On one of those walks, Matt proposed a comedy set in Wilton Manors. He said it would be great to title the show āWilton Manors.ā I will tell you that in the building blocks of what got us to āMid-Century Modern,ā Wilton Manors, and that suggestion from Matt Bomer on our COVID walks, was part of it.
BLADE: Is Sybil, played by the late Linda Lavin, modeled after a mother you know?
MUTCHNICK: Rhea Kohan (mother of David and Jenji). When we met with Linda for the first time over Zoom, when she was abroad, David and I explained to her that this was all based on Rhea Kohan. In fact, some of the lines that she (Sybil) speaks in the pilot are the words that Jenji Kohan spoke about her mother in her eulogy at the funeral because it really summed up what the character was all about. Yes, itās very much based on someone.
BLADE: The Donny Osmond jokes in the second episode of āMid-Century Modernā reminded me of the Barry Manilow āfanilowsā on āWill & Grace.ā Do you know if Donny is aware that heās featured in the show?
MUTCHNICK: I don’t. To tell you the truth, the āfanilowā episode was written when I was not on the show. I was on a forced hiatus, thanks to Jeff Zucker. That was a show that I was not part of. We don’t really work that way. The Donny Osmond thing came more from Mattās character being a Mormon, and also one of the writers. It’s very important to mention that the writing room at āMid-Century Modern,ā is (made up of) wonderful and diverse and colorful incredible humans ā one of them is an old, white, Irish guy named Don Roos who’s brilliantā¦
BLADE: ā¦he’s Dan Bucatinskyās husband.
MUTCHNICK: Right! Dan is also part of the writing room. But I believe it was Don who had a thing for Donny, and that’s where it comes from. I don’t know if Donny has any awareness. The only thing I care about when we turn in an episode like that is I just want to hear from legal that weāre approved.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā also includes opportunities for the singers in the cast. Linda Lavin sang the Jerome Kern/Ira Gershwin tune āLong Ago (And Far Away)ā and Nathan Lane and the guys sang āHe Had It Comingā from āChicago.ā Was it important to give them the chance to exercise those muscles?
MUTCHNICK: I don’t think it was. I think it really is just the managersā choice. David Kohan and I like that kind of stuff, so we write that kind of stuff. But by no means was there an edict to write that. We know what our cast is capable of, and we will absolutely exploit that if we’re lucky enough to have a second season. I have a funky relationship with the song āLong Ago (And Far Away).ā It doesn’t float my boat, but everybody else loved it. We run a meritocracy, and the best idea will out. Thatās how that song ended up being in the show. I far prefer the recording of Linda singing āIāll Be Seeing Youā over her montage in episode eight, āHereās To You, Mrs. Schneiderman.ā We were just lucky that Linda had recorded that. That recording was something that she had done and sent to somebody during COVID because she was held up in her apartment. That’s what motivated her to make that video and send it. Thatās how we were able to use that audio.
BLADE: Being on a streaming service like Hulu allows for characters to say things they might not get away with on network TV, including a foreskin joke, as well as Sybilās propensity for cursing.
MUTCHNICK: And the third line in the show is about him looking like a āreluctant bottom.ā I don’t think that’s something you’re going to see on ABC anytime soon. David and I liked the opportunity to open up the language of this show because it might possibly open the door to bringing peopleā¦I’m going to mix metaphorsā¦into the tent that have never been there before. A generation that writes off a sitcom because that language and that type of comedy isn’t the way that they sound. One of the gifts of doing this show on Hulu is that we get to write dialogue that sounds a little bit more like you and I sound. As always, we don’t want to do anything just to do it.
BLADE: It didn’t feel that way.
MUTCHNICK: It’s there when it’s right. [Laughs] I want to have a shirt made with Lindaās line, as her mother always used to say, āTime is a cunt.ā
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā also utilizes a lot of Jewish humor. How important is it for you to include that at this time when there is a measurable rise in anti-Semitism?
MUTCHNICK: I think it’s important, but I don’t think it’s the reason why we did it. We tried very hard to not write from a place of teaching or preaching. We really are just writing about the stuff that makes us laugh. One of the things that makes something better and something that you can invest in is if it’s more specific. We’re creating a character whose name is Bunny Schneiderman and his mother’s name is Sybil and they made their money in a family-run business, it gets Jewy, and we’re not going to shy away from it. But we’re definitely not going to address what’s going on in the world. That doesn’t mean I don’t find it very upsetting, but I’m writing always from the point of view of entertaining the largest number of people that I can every week.
BLADE: āMid-Century Modernā has a fantastic roster of guest stars including Jesse Tyler Ferguson, Vanessa Bayer, Billie Lourd, Cheri Oteri, Richard Kind, Rhea Perlman, and Judd Hirsch. Are there plans to continue that in future seasons?
MUTCHNICK: Yes. As I keep saying, if we’re so lucky that we get to continue, I don’t want to do āThe Love Boat.ā Those are fine comic actors, so I don’t think it feels like that. But if we get to keep going, what I want to do is broaden the world because that gives us more to write about. I want to start to introduce characters that are auxiliary to the individuals. I want to start to meet Arthur’s family, so we can return to people. I want to introduce other neighbors, and different types of gay men because we come in so many different flavors. I think that we should do that only because I’m sure itās what your life is and it’s what my life is. I’ve got a lot of different types. So, yes, we will be doing more.
BLADE: Finally, Linda Lavin passed away in December 2024, and in a later episode, the subject of her character Sybilās passing is handled sensitively, including the humorous parts.
MUTCHNICK: We knew we had a tall order. We suffered an incredible loss in the middle of making this comedy. One of the reasons why I think this show works is because we are surrounded by a lot of really talented people. Jim Burrows and Ryan Murphy, to name two. Ryan played a very big role in telling us that it was important that we address this, that we address it immediately. That we show the world and the show goes on. That wasn’t my instinct because I was so inside the grief of losing a friend, because she really was. It wasn’t like one of those showbizzy-type relationships. And this is who she was, by the way, to everybody at the show. It was the way that we decided to go. Let’s write this now. Let’s not put this at the end of the season. Let’s not satellite her in. Letās not āDarren Stevensā the character, which is something we would never do. The other thing that Jim Burrows made very clear to us was the import of the comedy. You have to write something that starts exactly in the place that these shows start. A set comedy piece that takes place in the kitchen. Because for David and me, as writers, we said we just want to tell the truth. That’s what we want to do with this episode and that’s the way that this will probably go best for us. The way that we’ve dealt with grief in our lives is with humor. That is the way that we framed writing this episode. We wanted it to be a chapter from our lives, and how we experience this loss and how we recover and move on.
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