Miscellaneous
Rehoboth’s Blue Moon at 30
Beach landmark thriving after surviving early homophobic attacks

For many gay Washingtonians, the first stop on Friday night in Rehoboth Beach for the past 30 years has been the Blue Moon.
Built in 1907 as a Sears Craftsman Home it has evolved into a welcoming blue and yellow landmark on Baltimore Avenue, which serves as a place to socialize, share news, find the parties in town, see the latest summer fashions and find love.
More than a building and a social center, many feel that the presence of such a gay-friendly establishment has helped change the face of Rehoboth Beach from a sleepy town, where locals occasionally clashed with the gay community, to one of the most popular gay resorts in the country. Even before there was a Camp Rehoboth, many regarded the “Moon” as the community center for Rehoboth Beach.
Joyce Felton, an original owner of the Blue Moon, said she realized, “that there was a need for a community service center.” It was in one of her restaurants, according to Felton, that organizing meetings were held for both the Sussex County AIDS Committee and a newsletter that later became Letters from CAMP Rehoboth, a local LGBT newsmagazine.
Although there were gay restaurants and bars in the beach resorts when Felton opened the Moon in 1981, unlike some of the others, this one was not tucked away on a quiet street with windows covered. The Blue Moon was out in the open, gay and proud, but the early years were not easy.
“We deliberately wanted our restaurant to be in the open and have a cutting edge,” Felton said, adding that she was surprised at the hostility she received from some locals when she opened. According to local lesbian author Fay Jacobs, in an article printed in Delaware Beach Life, sometime during the first year the Moon was open, the mayor at the time said he had received a letter complaining about “gay food in Rehoboth” and explained that there was no way this town wanted a gay restaurant.
“The harassment and threats continued for years,” wrote Jacobs, with objects thrown into the Moon by angry local residents. But now Felton believes that “economically it would be disastrous to turn back the clock to the 1970s when such homophobia reigned.”
John Berdini, co-owner of Cloud Nine and a bartender at Blue Moon from 1984-1993 remembers the hostility its employees and customers faced during those years. Police, he said, often wouldn’t show up when there were bottles thrown into the bar and after other anti-gay incidents. But because of Felton’s perseverance, the restaurant and bar succeeded.
“The best years of my life were spent at the Blue Moon, as we became a family because we knew we were in this fight together,” Berdini said. He calls Felton a trailblazer for gay businesses, noting, “Joyce Felton legitimized gay businesses in Rehoboth Beach.”
Current owner Tim Ragan says “The Moon has become the anchor of Baltimore Avenue, and as such has attracted other LGBT businesses, making Rehoboth Beach a great destination point for LGBT tourists.”
Since its inception, the Blue Moon was always changing and evolving. Although the restaurant has always remained, the bar area was built in what was the house’s garden in 1982 and two years later an atrium area was opened. Locals and visitors alike look forward to the annual opening of the Blue Moon to see the structural changes that occur inside virtually each off-season, including raising the floor in the outdoor bar area and adding a retractable roof to deal with the Rehoboth summer showers and heat.
In addition to the physical changes in the Blue Moon, the changes in entertainment have kept the crowds coming. At one time the bar was for drinking and cruising, then it began to have piped in music and occasional live performers. In recent years it has established itself as a place to enjoy live entertainment; one of the most popular resident acts is singer/songwriter Pamala Stanley, who performs most summer evenings and is in her sixth season at the Moon. During the summer months there are cabaret performers, karaoke, drag and special events most nights. Drag queen Mona Lotts hosts a popular karaoke party. Added to the mix this year is Joe Kovacs, a famous puppeteer and actor who performs every Tuesday night with his puppet Gretta.
For some, no trip to Rehoboth Beach is complete without a visit to the Blue Moon, be it for food, drink or entertainment. For Knight Champion, a D.C. Realtor and frequent visitor to Rehoboth, “each night at the Blue Moon that I hear Pamala Stanley is a joy, especially since each show is so different.”
For Paul Kuntzler, longtime gay activist in D.C., his first stop is the Moon. “I start every trip with dinner at the Moon, said Kuntzler, “and then I come to the bar to have a few drinks.”
No story about the Moon would be complete without talking about its unique Moon Pie. For some who come just to eat at the highly rated restaurant, a meal must include this dessert, a delicious combination of Oreo cookies, meringue and four types of ice cream, piled about eight inches high. For many, the challenge is to finish the pie on their own, but more often than not it is regarded as a dessert for the whole family to share.
On Oct. 9, the Blue Moon will officially celebrate its 30th anniversary and to its current owners, another 30 years is not out of the question.
“As times change, we are willing to make the changes to keep us a relevant part of the community,” Ragan said.
The rich history of the Blue Moon, its struggles against homophobia and its willingness to change with the times suggest that, indeed, the Moon can continue to thrive and help build a better Rehoboth Beach.
Love Weekend in Rehoboth
This holiday weekend marks the annual Love celebration in Rehoboth Beach, a two-night dance party held at the Rehoboth Beach Convention Center.
Red Love — Saturday from 8 p.m.-2 a.m., with DJ/Remixer Joe Gauthreaux. Open bar/$40.
Blue Love – Sunday from 9 p.m.-2 a.m., with DJ Mike Reimer. Open bar/$40
Red and Blue Love Dance Ticket Package: $75
Ladies 2000 — Lady Love Tea Dance on Sunday, July 3, 4-8 p.m. with DJ Steve Singer. Cash bar/tickets $15.
For more information and to purchase tickets, visit camprehoboth.com.
Miscellaneous
Stephen Miller’s legal group sues Fairfax County schools
Lawsuit challenges policies for transgender, nonbinary students

Former Trump administration official Stephen Miller’s legal group on Tuesday filed a lawsuit against the Fairfax County School District over its policies for transgender and nonbinary students.
America First Legal in a press release notes it filed the lawsuit against the school district on behalf of a female, “practicing Roman Catholic” student “for allowing teenage boys to use the female restrooms and for forcing a radical, government-sponsored gender indoctrination and approved-speech scheme that discriminates against students on the basis of sex and religion and violates their free speech rights under the Virginia Constitution.”
The lawsuit was filed in Fairfax County Circuit Court.
The Virginia Department of Education last July announced new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students for which Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin asked. Equality Virginia and other advocacy groups claim they, among other things, would forcibly out trans and nonbinary students.
Fairfax County schools are among the school districts that have refused to implement the guidelines.
“Fairfax County Public Schools appears to believe that its policies and regulations can override the Virginia Constitution’s protections for religious beliefs, speech and from government discrimination on the basis of sex and religious beliefs,” said America First legal Senior Advisor Ian Prior in a press release. “It is well past time for FCPS to stop sacrificing the constitutional rights of its students so that it can implement a state-sanctioned ideology that demands compliance in speech, beliefs and conduct.”
FCPS Pride, a group that represents the Fairfax County School District’s LGBTQ employees, described the lawsuit as “abhorrent.”
“We are confident that the school board and the superintendent will strongly and firmly oppose this specious suit and continue to support all students, including transgender and gender expansive students,” said the group in a press list.
Miscellaneous
More than a dozen LGBTQ candidates on the ballot in Va.
Control of the state Senate hangs in the balance

More than a dozen openly LGBTQ candidates are on the ballot in Virginia on Nov. 7.
State Del. Danica Roem (D-Manassas) is running against Republican Bill Woolf in the newly redistricted Senate District 30 that includes western Prince William County and the cities of Manassas and Manassas Park.
Roem in 2018 became the first openly transgender person seated in a state legislature in the U.S. after she defeated then-state Del. Bob Marshall, a prominent LGBTQ rights opponent who co-wrote Virginia’s constitutional amendment defining marriage as between a man and a woman. Roem would become Virginia’s first out trans state senator if she defeats Woolf.
Woolf supports a bill that would require school personnel to out trans students to their parents. The Republican Party of Virginia has highlighted this position in ads in support of Woolf.
“Thank you for reminding me why I won three elections in this district in Prince William County, which is the most diverse county in all of Virginia and the 10th most nationally where we welcome everyone because of who they are, not despite it, no matter what you look like, where you come from, how you worship, if you do, or who you love because you should be able to thrive here because of who you are, never despite it,” said Roem on Sept. 28 in response to a woman who heckled her during a debate with Woolf that took place at Metz Middle School in Manassas.
Gay state Sen. Adam Ebbin (D-Alexandria) is running for re-election in Senate District 39. State Del. Mark Sickles (D-Fairfax County), who is also gay, is running for re-election in House District 43.
Former state Del. Joshua Cole, who identifies as bisexual, is running against Republican Lee Peters in House District 65. State Del. Kelly Convirs-Fowler (D-Virginia Beach), who came out as bisexual last year at Hampton Roads Pride, will face Republican Mike Karslake and independent Nicholas Olenik.
State Del. Marcia “Cia” Price (D-Newport News), a Black woman who identifies as pansexual, is running for re-election in House District 85.
Adele McClure, a queer Democrat, is running to represent House District 2 that includes portions of Arlington County. Laura Jane Cohen, a bisexual woman who is a member of the Fairfax County School Board, is a House of Delegates candidate in House District 15.
Rozia Henson, a gay federal contractor who works for the Department of Homeland Security, is running in House District 19. Zach Coltrain, a gay Gen Zer, is running against state Del. Barry Knight (R-Virginia Beach) in House District 98.
LPAC has endorsed Jade Harris, a Rockbridge County Democrat who is running to represent Senate District 3. Harris’ website notes trans rights are part of their platform.
“Protecting trans rights, repealing right to work, strengthening unions and supporting our farmers are just a few of my legislative priorities,” reads the website. “I am dedicated to addressing the revitalization of our state’s infrastructure, fostering a favorable environment for job creation, and supporting our public education system.”
Republicans currently control the House by a 51-46 margin, while Democrats have a 21-19 majority in the state Senate.
Senate Democrats have successfully blocked anti-LGBTQ bills that Republicans have introduced since Republican Gov. Glenn Youngkin took office in January 2022.
The Virginia Department of Education in July released new guidelines for trans and nonbinary students that activists and their supporters have sharply criticized. They fear that Republicans will curtail LGBTQ rights in the state if they regain control of both houses of the General Assembly on Nov. 7.
“Time and time again, anti-equality lawmakers and the Youngkin administration have made it clear that they will continue to disrespect and disregard the lives and lived experience of LGBTQ+ people within Virginia,” said Equality Virginia PAC Executive Director Narissa Rahaman in August when her organization and the Human Rights Campaign endorsed Roem, Ebbin and other “pro-equality champions.”
“We must elect pro-equality champions who will secure and strengthen our freedoms,” added Rahaman. “We have that chance as the eyes of the nation are on us this November.”
The LGBTQ+ Victory Fund has endorsed Fairfax County School Board Vice Chair Karl Frisch and Fairfax County School Board candidates Robyn Lady and Kyle McDaniel, who identify as lesbian and bisexual respectively.
Michael Pruitt would become the first openly bisexual man elected to the Albemarle County Board of Supervisors if he were to win on Nov. 7. Blacksburg Town Councilman Michael Sutphin and Big Stone Gay Town Councilman Tyler Hughes, who are both gay, are running for re-election.
“Tyler will be a critical voice for equality as the only out LGBTQ+ person on the Big Stone Gap Town Council,” says the Victory Fund on its website.
Cal Benn contributed to this article.
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Five easy tips to help you avoid common risks

Your home is more than just a place to eat and sleep; it’s your safe haven. As much as you might cherish your home, you should probably also recognize the potential hazards within its familiar walls. Accidents can happen in an instant, yet with a little foresight and some simple adjustments, you can transform your house into a safer haven.
Accidents can happen anywhere, and with a few simple tweaks, you can lower risks in your space. Below you’ll find five tips for each room in your home to help prevent injuries, falls, and other mishaps. In short, home safety.
This article was inspired by a shower in a rental we managed that began leaking through the kitchen ceiling below. If only the landlord had installed grab bars, right!? Below, we’ll guide you through the steps to fortify your bathroom, making it a place of relaxation without the fear of slips and falls. Then, we’ll venture into the room where the magic happens, where proper planning can ensure great nights and peaceful mornings. We’ll show you how to prevent accidents while you experiment becoming the next Gordon Ramsey. And we’ll include a few surprising solutions for those other rooms that hold their own unique hazards, offering solutions to safeguard against unexpected mishaps.
Bathroom Safety
Install Grab Bars: Adding grab bars near the shower and toilet can provide essential support for family members of all ages. Not only can they help with getting in and out, but they can help provide stability when washing. Make sure they are securely anchored to the wall.
Non-Slip Mats: Place non-slip mats inside the shower and bathtub to prevent slips. They’re a small investment that can save you from falls and head injuries.
Adjust Water Temperature: Ensure your hot water is set to a safe temperature to avoid scalding. The hot water heater should be set to around 120°F (49°C)l, the middle setting on many water heater settings.
Medicine Cabinet Locks: If you have young children, use childproof locks on your medicine cabinet to keep harmful substances out of reach.
Proper Lighting: Ensure there’s adequate lighting in the bathroom to avoid trips and falls during nighttime visits. Nightlights can be a simple and effective solution.
Bedroom Safety
Clear Pathways: Keep pathways in the bedroom clutter free to prevent tripping. Ensure there’s enough space to move around comfortably, particularly getting around the bed. Be aware where all furniture is when walking around to avoid stubbed toes, particularly at night.
Secure Rugs: If you have throw rugs, use rug grippers or double-sided tape to keep them from slipping. Loose rugs are a common trip hazard.
Bed Rails: For anyone at risk of falling out of bed, consider installing bed rails to provide extra support and prevent falls.
Nightstands with Drawers: Opt for nightstands with drawers to keep essential items. This reduces the need to get out of bed at night, minimizing the risk of falls, as you race to grab what you need and not lose a moment’s rest.
Fire Safety: Install battery-operated smoke detectors in the bedrooms if there are none. Make sure to install them 36 inches away from an air vent or the edge of a ceiling fan. Also six inches away from the joint between the wall and ceiling. And test smoke detectors regularly.
Kitchen Safety
Non-Slip Flooring: Choose slip-resistant rugs in the kitchen, especially in areas where spills are common. Mats near the sink and stove can also help and you can often buy them fairly cheaply at Costco.
Childproof Cabinets: If you have little ones, use childproof latches on cabinets and drawers to prevent them from accessing potentially hazardous items.
Anti-tip brackets: Install an anti-tip bracket behind the range. These are often used when children are in the home. Although they are less likely to open the oven door and use it as a step stool to get to the stove-top, adults can also benefit from installing these.
Adequate Lighting: Proper lighting is crucial in the kitchen to avoid accidents. Under-cabinet lighting can illuminate work areas effectively.
Secure Heavy Items: Ensure heavy pots and pans are stored at waist level to prevent straining or dropping them from high shelves.
Sharp Object Storage: Keep knives and other sharp objects in a secure drawer or block. And handle all sharp items with extreme care, even when washing and drying. These steps reduce the risk of accidental cuts.
Other Safety Tips
Furniture Anchors: Secure heavy furniture, like bookshelves and dressers, to the wall to prevent tip-overs, especially if you have young children.
Adequate Outlets: Check for damaged outlets and replace them promptly. Avoid overloading circuits with too many devices. Install placeholder plugs in outlets to prevent young curious fingers (or tongues?) from going inside an electrical outlet.
Stair Gates: If your home has stairs, install safety gates at the top and bottom to prevent falls, especially if you have toddlers or pets to keep them off of the stairs when you cannot monitor them.
Emergency Escape Plan: Develop and practice an emergency escape plan with your family, including a designated meeting place outside.
Carbon Monoxide Detector: If your home burns any fossil fuels for heating or appliances, install carbon monoxide detectors in common areas of your home to detect this odorless gas. The D.C. building codes require this if you use a fireplace or if you have an attached garage. In essence, if there is any potential source of carbon monoxide in the home, be sure to install these detectors.
Remember, a safer home not only prevents accidents but also provides peace of mind for you and your family. Implement these simple tips to create a secure environment in every room of your house.
With these practical tips and a few adjustments, you can significantly reduce the risk of injuries and falls in your home. Enjoy peace of mind in your now much safer haven.
Scott Bloom is owner and senior property manager of Columbia Property Management.
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