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The death of Irene Cara and the broken promise
Singer inspired a generation of gay men

As I walked down the dark alley towards the glowing light, the opening bridge of the song called to me. āBaby, look at me and tell me what you see, You aināt seen the best of me yet, Give me time, Iāll make you forget all the rest, I got more in me…āĀ
The movie “Fame” had just come out and its anthem theme song was HOT. The glowing light that night was a gay disco, tucked away from heterosexual view, while gay bashers circled in trucks a few blocks away. That safe haven in the dark alley allowed me, a 20-year old youth, a path out of the closet in which I emotionally and sexually had residence. To me, the words of the song “Fame,” and its overwhelming delivery, was my inner drive and conviction that I could be me, and my own personal superstar.
The young woman delivering the song was barely an adult herself. Irene Cara had been a child performer and was now breaking into the fame she was singing about. She was āinstantlyā famous thanks to “Fame.” Amongst other accolades, she was nominated for a Best New Artist Grammy. The song itself won the Oscar that year.
The Grammy nomination put a public trapping on what we all knew: She was a star, and had all the makings to become a superstar, an icon.
For LGBTQ people, her work that year spoke to our souls and our optimism. As āRandy 503ā shared on the Joe.My.God site,Ā āI was a deeply closeted and lonely kid in my early 20s. Not lonely because I didn’t have friends (had tons of them,) but lonely because I refused to admit I was gay and kept away from all that. I saw the movie and was transfixed. Bought the album and played it all the time, especially her songs. Her voice was so strong, and so expressive, it really touched me.āĀ
Caraās second song in the movie also resonated with the gay audience. While “Fame” spoke to the sassy optimism of embracing our outstanding selves and taking the world by storm, “Out Here On My Own” spoke to the dark loneliness of the closet. āSometimes I wonder where Iāve been, who I am, do I fit in ⦠when Iām down and feeling blue, I close my eyes so I can be strong and be with you ⦠I dry the tears Iāve never shown, Out here on my own.ā
Randy points out,Ā āOut here on my own always left me in tears. It hit so close to home, and I could feel sadness on it. It’s a great song sung by one of the best.ā
After the success of “Fame,” Cara ventured into a sitcom pilot and a freshman album, āAnyone Can See.ā Neither caught the world on fire, as apparently only some of us could actually āseeā her real worth.
It was not long after however, where Caraās apparent life mission to deliver culture changing anthems, came calling again. She was recruited to help out with the new “Flashdance” movie, and to work with iconic gay producer Giorgio Moroder for its theme song. Cara was reportedly reluctant. She had already been criticized as a second tier Donna Summer with “Fame,” and was hesitant to get into that musical lane. Later she would work with John Farrar whom she credited as being responsible for ALL of Olivia Newton Johnās hits. It seems that her superstar aspirations were more to be Pop Princess than another Queen of Disco.
She did sign on board with Moroder and “Flashdance,” and made history. Her song “Flashdance⦠What a Feeling” went to #1 for six straight weeks. It affected American culture in style, attitude and substance. On Academy Awards night, Cara made history again. (She had already made history in a minor way a few years before as the first person to ever perform two nominated songs in one evening.) This time, she became the second African American woman to win an Oscar ā the first being “Gone With the Wind”ās Hattie McDaniels.Ā
Cara was the first African American woman to ever win a non-acting Oscar ever.
The anthem “Flashdanceā¦What a Feeling” spoke to LGBTQ audiences of the 80s, in a way that “Fame” had. āFirst when thereās nothing but a slow glowing dream that your fear seems to hide deep inside your mind. All alone, I have cried silent tears full of pride in a world made of steel, made of stone, Well, I hear the music, close my eyes, feel the rhythm wrap around, take hold of my heart. What a feeling, being is believing I can have it all..ā
Online, Joe.My.God reader BearlvrFl shared, āLUV the song āOut Here On My Ownā I call ‘Flashdance: What A Feeling’ my coming out song, popular on the dance floor very close to the time I finally came out at the age of 22. I could relate to āTake your passion/And make it happen.ā Super simple lyric, but itās timing was everything for me, having been closeted for so long.ā
This time, AIDS had brought a very dark cloud over the community, however. Its ravage was starting to take widespread hold. It made the line in the song ānow Iām dancing for my lifeā even more poignant and relevant.
The darkness that was falling over the LGBT world was on a parallel track in Caraās own life. As she picked up Oscars and Grammys, there was a sadness in her eyes above the smile on her face. She shared later that the public glory was matched with a behind-the-scenes horror story. Her record company was keeping her from garnering any success from her accomplishments. Columnist Liz Smith stated in a 1993 piece that Cara earned only $183 in royalties.
Cara inspired women of her generation. Patti Piatt shared on Twitter, āI am from a generation of women who thought anything was possible because of Irene Cara. She gave us so much joy. We all danced to her songs, didn’t matter if we could dance, we danced because she made us want to dance.ā
In spite of singing THE anthem of women empowerment, Cara became an example of a woman destroyed by the male dominated music industry. As she fought back for earnings due her, she became black-listed, and her trek to superstardom halted. They made her all but disappear. A decade later, she won, but by that time, the damage had been done.
Her final solo album subconsciously called out her professional demise with songs titled āNow That Itās Over,ā āGet a Gripā and the ultimate defeatist title āSay Goodnight Irene.ā
āI know well enough this is going nowhere ⦠Might as well say goodnight, Say Goodnight, Irene.ā
In the end, she seemed to find peace. Her final professional projects were gifts to other women musicians of color. She comfortably settled into what she called āsemi-retirementā and her Florida home with a steady stream of funds from her hard-earned residuals.
The promise of becoming a superstar eluded her, but she busted the ceiling so it might not elude others. Painfully for fans, the promise from the song “Fame,” āIām gonna live foreverā also did not come true.Ā
Letās instead, think of her making āit to heavenā and lighting āup the sky like a flame.ā
For those trying to find final meaning from her life, and the un-fulfilled promise of what could have been for her and for us, may do so in the words from her lesser-known anthem. Here we swap out a promise instead for “The Dream”:Ā
āWe can all be free, we hold the key, if we can see what we want to be. Life is never easy, you get no guarantees, why not give your all and see what you can find?ā
And, yes.
Irene Cara, we will always remember your name.
“The Dream”
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Rob Watson is the host of the popular Hollywood-based radio/podcast show RATED LGBT RADIO.
He is an established LGBTQ columnist and blogger having written for many top online publications including Parents Magazine, the Huffington Post, LGBTQ Nation, Gay Star News, the New Civil Rights Movement, and more.
He served as Executive Editor for The Good Man Project, has appeared on MSNBC and been quoted in Business Week and Forbes Magazine.
He is CEO of Watson Writes, a marketing communications agency, and can be reached at [email protected] .
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Cynthia Erivo to headline WorldPride Saturday concert
āAn extraordinary moment of unity, celebration, and visibilityā

WorldPride DC 2025 announced today that āWickedā star, LGBTQ icon, and award-winning performer Cynthia Erivo will headline the WorldPride 2025 Saturday night Street Festival and Concert on the Capitol Stage following the parade.
A multi-week long series of events, WorldPride DC 2025 culminates in a free, inclusive, two-day event June 7-8, 2025. The event features a mix of local artists, DJs, and performers alongside big names in entertainment like Erivo. Taking place June 7-8 along Pennsylvania Avenue, the weekend WorldPride spectacular is to be a display of āpride, music, and unity.ā
Erivo delivers āa powerhouse headlining performance against the iconic backdrop of the U.S. Capitol Building,ā according to organizers.
āAs the culminating event for the parade, the Saturday night concert will be an extraordinary moment of unity, celebration, and visibility for our global LGBTQ+ community,ā said Ryan Bos, executive director of the Capital Pride Alliance, host of WorldPride 2025. āCynthia Erivoās powerful artistry and unwavering advocacy make her the perfect artist to headline this momentous event.ā
An actress, producer, singer, songwriter, and advocate for the LGBTQ and Black communities, Erivo has been making even larger headlines after starring in the award-winning āWickedā movie alongside Ariana Grande. Having recently embraced her LGBTQ identity, Erivo has been using this platform to promote representation.
The free WorldPride 2025 Street Festival and Concert takes place in front of the U.S. Capitol building. The event is set to bring together visitors from across the U.S. and the world, featuring exhibitors, artisans, food and beverage gardens, and a diverse range of local, national, and big-named artists.
WorldPride plans to announce the names of additional artists and performers in the coming days.
According to WorldPride organizers, the theme The Fabric of Freedom āsymbolizes the unity and resilience of the LGBTQ+ community. Following the 2024 presidential inauguration, it serves as a reminder of the ongoing fight for equality and the strength found in diversity.ā
Outside of the official WorldPride events, other associated concerts will be taking place that weekend, including the recently announced Project Glow-organized World Pride Music Festival featuring Jennifer Lopez and Troye Sivan, which garnered some controversy by including the artist Grimes, a former partner of Elon Musk.
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Colman Domingo is riding high ahead of the Oscars
Actor is star, executive producer of ‘Sing Sing’

Colman Domingo is riding on a career high, with back-to-back Best Actor Academy Award nominationsālast year, playing Bayard Rustin, the gay advisor to Martin Luther King Jr. and this season, starring and executive producing Greg Kwedarās mesmerizing film, āSing Sing.ā
One thing is clear watching any of Domingoās films and television seriesāamong them being āSelma,ā āThe Color Purple,ā āMa Raineyās Black Bottom,ā and āHBOās āEuphoriaāāhe completely gives his heart and soul into every role he takes on.
Itās no wonder then, why the charismatic performer recently received the Montecito Award from Executive Director Roger Durling at the 40th annual Santa Barbara International Film Festival.Ā
āAs a devoted admirer of Colman Domingo for so long, what is enthralling to see is how his early work in theaterāthe specificity, the dexterity, the research, the conviction and the intelligence that this performer displayed on the boards is now being finally utilized,ā said Durling. “His potential that always was there is now realized.āĀ
In a lengthy chat about his career with Durling, Domingo addressed his perseverance throughout his illustrious television and film career, telling attendees, āI just kept going and believed that the love I was seeking would also be seeking me. I just always believed that.ā
The evening highlighted Domingoās powerhouse performance as John āDivine Gā Whitfield in āSing Sing.ā In the film, which is based on a true story, an imprisoned manāwrongfully put in jail for a crime he didnāt commitāfinds a renewed sense of purpose by acting in a theatre group, āRehabilitation Through the Arts,ā also known as RTA, alongside other incarcerated men.
The riveting script had immense appeal to the veteran actor.
āI started my career in educational theater,ā said Domingo. āI would go to local San Francisco Bay Area high schools to perform while also teaching kids about important issues such as HIV, AIDS, or conflict resolution. We were the arts program, coming in, performing, and maybe doing a few classes. And influence the children with art, in much the same manner that RTA did in the New York prison system.ā
He continued: āSo I already understood itāthe idea of an arts program coming into a maximum security prison is revolutionary. It goes completely against the system that got them there in the first place.ā
Domingo saw āSing Singā not as a prison story, but as a human story.
āIt is a triumphant story, of course and determination, of fighting against a system thatās broken,ā he noted. āRodessa Jones said, āBut art just might be the parachute that saves us all.ā That is certainly true of the men of RTA. We all have choices we makeāevery dayāto try to be better, to go to our better angels. Thatās what this film is about, ultimately.ā
Domingoās interest and passion for the film transcended signing onto the role; he and his husband RaĆŗl Domingoās production company, Edith Productions, joined to executive produce. They were instrumental in helping assemble the cast and faithfully guide the storytelling.
He referred to the film as a āquiet act of revolutionā because of its poignant depiction of tenderness and compassion between Black men.
āItās about putting myself on the line in every single way as an artist. If Iām going to have an impact, if Iām going to do this work that I think is meaningful and can really change lives … I think a film like ‘Sing Sing’ is really changing lives. Itās actually doing work. So, I have to give everything.ā
Being able to connect deeply with his characters has always been an important part of Domingoās acting process. During the q and a, describing his performance in āRustin.ā he noted how connected he felt portraying the role.
āIt felt like we were in alignment. That Rustinās journey and my journey were meeting at the exact moment, and I was the actor to help pull this black, queer, civil rights revolutionary out of the shadows of history, while I was being pulled into new history. I needed every year, every step, every misstep in my career, to enable me to play Bayard Rustin.ā
The Santa Barbara recognition follows his win at New Yorkās Gotham Awards, where Domingo took home the honor for Outstanding Lead Performance.
He also received the Spotlight Award at the Palm Springs Film Festival. Chairman Nachhattar Singh Chandi acknowledged Domingoās āraw and captivatingā performance. āWe are so thrilled to honor the remarkable talent of Colman Domingo at the Palm Springs International Film Awards for the second year in a row.ā
Domingo ongoingly keeps a busy scheduleāhe can currently be seen in Netflixās series “The Madness” created by Clement Virgo. He also recently wrapped production on āMichaelā playing Joe Jackson, directed by Antoine Fuqua. Lionsgate will release the film Oct. 3, 2025.
And thatās not allāhe will voice Norman Osborn in the upcoming Disney+ animated series āYour Friendly Neighborhood Spider-Man,ā and is currently in production on NETFLIXās āThe Four Seasons,ā alongside Tina Fey and Steve Carrell. He will play Michael Jacksonās dad in āMichael.ā
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Jane Fonda takes a stand at SAG Awards
Hollywood icon urged peers to resist once more

If there was any clear takeaway to be had from last Sundayās 31st Annual Screen Actorsā Guild Awards, itās that the trophies are very heavy.
After the eveningās first winner ā Kieran Culkin, as Best Supporting Motion Picture Performance by a Male Actor for āA Real Painā ā used most of his acceptance speech for an off-the-cuff comedic riff about the weight of the statuette he had just been handed, the topic became a theme, a seemingly impromptu running gag exemplifying the overall high spirits that marked the affair.
A palpable camaraderie among peers has always been a hallmark of the SAGs, and this year was not an exception ā despite the ongoing aftermath of LAās recent devastating wildfires, which personally impacted many of the individuals that were present, the overall tone of the event was more celebratory than somber.
Yet there was also another elephant in the room. While there was clear hesitation to directly address the cloud cast over the famously (though not exclusively) liberal entertainment community by the advent of the new Trump regime, host Kristen Bell kept things light during her āFrozenā-inspired opening sequence and other scripted ābitsā throughout, conspicuously avoiding overtly political material. Most of the presenters and winners, occasional remarks about the importance of empathy aside, seemed to be playing it safe.
At least, they did until it was time for Jane Fonda to take the stage. The legendary star, receiving SAGās prestigious Life Achievement Award, delivered a lengthy and impassioned speech that began as she tied her professional career directly to the political activism for which she is perhaps equally famous. Then, the 88-year-old screen icon ā perhaps best known to the youngest generations among us for her long-running role opposite longtime friend (and ā9 to 5ā co-star) Lily Tomlin in āGrace and Frankieā ā segued into a fiery call for her industry peers to resist once more; citing the need to stay āin communityā and crystalizing remarks by earlier speakers about empathy into an impassioned description of an actorās ability to promote understanding of other peopleās experience through their work, she stressed the importance of bridging divisions because āa whole lot of people are going to be really hurt by what is happening, what is coming our way,ā and encouraged welcoming those with political differences āinto our tent, because we are going to need a really big tent to resist whatās coming at us.ā
Recalling that her career began in the wake of the 1950ās āRed Scare,ā when she observed first-hand the resistance with which many of Hollywoodās ābiggest namesā stood up against Sen. Joseph McCarthyās congressional hearings during his infamous anti-Communist āwitch hunt,ā she implored her fellow actors to do the same. āThis is it, and itās not a rehearsal,ā she said. āThis is big-time serious, folks, so letās be brave.ā
The crowning moment of her speech, however, was her characteristically blunt and fiercely intelligent observation that āempathy is not āweakā or āwokeā ā and by the way, āwokeā just means you give a damn about other people.ā
Despite her clearly focused messaging, Fonda never referenced Donald Trump by name ā but she did deliver a particularly cutting swipe when, in providing an example or the need for actors to understand and empathize with the ātraumatized charactersā they play even when they āhate the behaviorā they have to portray, she cited Sebastian Stanās performance in āThe Apprentice,ā in which the actor delivers a critically-lauded portrayal of the currently-sitting president in his younger years, during his mentorship with infamously amoral closeted homosexual Roy Cohn.
As for the winners in the yearās competitive categories, there was a mix between the predictable and the unexpected.
āShÅgun,ā FXās acclaimed adaptation of the 1975 James Clavell historical epic novel about power struggles in 17th century feudal Japan, dominated SAGās Television Drama categories much along the same lines as it did at last fallās Primetime Emmy Awards, winning in both the Lead Actor categories (Hiroyuki Sanada and Anna Sawai, Best Male and Female performance, respectively) as well as taking Best Ensemble Cast, SAGās equivalent of the Best Drama Series award. The show, which has been renewed for a second and third season, also received the Best Performance by a Stunt Ensemble in a TV Series.
Culkinās aforementioned win as Supporting Male Actor in a Motion Picture was the latest in a long list of victories, cementing his likelihood of winning the same category in the upcoming Oscar race; likewise, Zoe SaldaƱaās victory in the Supporting Female Actor category for the controversy-plagued āEmilia PĆ©rezā makes her win at the Academy seem all but inevitable.
Jessica Gunning was named Best Female Actor in a Television Movie or Limited Series for the Netflix hit stalker drama āBaby Reindeer,ā and Jean Smart racked up yet another win as Lead Female Actor in a Comedy Series for āHacks.ā
Somewhat less predictable was Demi Mooreās win as Best Leading Film Performance by a Female Actor for āThe Substance,ā which places the veteran screen star ā once considered a ādark horseā in this yearās awards race ā as a favorite to repeat her growing list of victories on Oscar night. Colin Farrellās chameleonic turn as the title character in āThe Penguinā earned the Irish performer the award for Best Lead Actor in a Television Movie or Limited Series,
Reasserting its growing acclaim by taking the prize for Best Ensemble in Motion Picture ā the equivalent of Oscarās Best Picture award ā was the UK-produced āConclave,ā following its BAFTA win in the same category and making it a firm front-runner to clinch Academy honors as well.
A pair of refreshingly unexpected victories were claimed by Huluās popular āOnly Murders in the Building,ā whose fourth season picked up wins for both Ensemble in a Television Comedy and Lead Male TV Comedy Performance for co-star Martin Short; but perhaps the eveningās biggest surprise was TimothĆ©e Chalametās win as Best Lead Performance by a Male Actor in a Motion Picture for playing Bob Dylan in the biopic āA Complete Unknown,ā which sparked a rare moment when all of the young starās competing nominees ā including widely-assumed favorites Adrien Brody and Colman Domingo (for āThe Brutalistā and āSing Sing,ā respectively) ā were seen to react with visible enthusiasm when his name was announced.
In its intriguing mix of the sure bets and long shots in the winnersā circle, the SAG Awards seemed to suggest a new ānormalā among Hollywoodās elite players, emphasizing diversity and empathy in its choices over the ābuzzā and prestige that typically drive such industry ceremonies. Ultimately, though, the results in the SAG competition feel less noteworthy than the inspiring spirit of resistance bestowed by Fondaās use of her acceptance speech as a thrillingly defiant call-to-arms against the encroaching fascism of Donald Trumpās return to power.
The complete list of winners is below.
Outstanding Performance by a Male Actor in a Leading Role: TimothĆ©e Chalamet in “A Complete Unknown”
Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Leading Role: Demi Moore in āThe Substanceā
Outstanding Performance by a Male Actor in a Supporting Role: Kieran Culkin in “A Real Painā
Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Supporting Role: Zoe SaldaƱa in “Emilia PĆ©rez”
Outstanding Performance by a Cast in a Motion Picture: āConclaveā
Outstanding Performance by a Male Actor in a Television Movie or Limited Series: Colin Farrell in āThe Penguinā
Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Television Movie or Limited Series: Jessica Gunning in “Baby Reindeer”
Outstanding Performance by a Male Actor in a Drama Series: Hiroyuki Sanada in “ShÅgun”
Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Drama Series: Anna Sawai in āShÅgunā
Outstanding Performance by a Male Actor in a Comedy Series: Martin Short in “Only Murders in the Building”
Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Comedy Series: Jean Smart in āHacksā
Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Drama Series: āShÅgunā
Outstanding Performance by an Ensemble in a Comedy Series: āOnly Murders In The Buildingā
Life Achievement Award: Jane Fonda
STUNT ENSEMBLE HONORS
Outstanding Action Performance by a Stunt Ensemble in a Motion Picture: āThe Fall Guyā
Outstanding Action Performance by a Stunt Ensemble in a Television Series: āShÅgunā
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