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The intergenerational impact of aging with HIV
Dec. 1 is World AIDS Day

BY TERRI L. WILDER | Today, Dec. 1, 2024, the global HIV community marks the 37th annual World AIDS Day (WAD). Here in the U.S., the face of HIV looks quite different than it did on the first WAD in 1988. It is estimated that more than 50 percent of people living with HIV (PLHIV) in the U.S. are aged 50 and older ā an age that must have seemed impossible to the countless young people diagnosed during the height of the epidemic. Some were diagnosed later in life, whereas others have lived with HIV for many years ā in some cases, since birth.
While their stories differ, PLHIV all face a common challenge: facing the impact of aging with HIV. The theme of WAD 2024 is āCollective action: Sustain and accelerate HIV progress.ā A key to this progress is uplifting and understanding the real stories and lived realities of those growing older with HIV and using their experiences to guide proactive policy.
The spread of misinformation
In 1981, the first cases of what would later be identified as HIV (human immunodeficiency virus, the cause of AIDS) were reported. Three years later, Nathan Townsend was diagnosed with HIV at age 30.
When he got the call with the news, he was shocked. Early reports of HIV often suggested that only specific communities ā most notably white gay men ā were vulnerable to HIV. However, widespread misinformation contributed to the Black community later accounting for nearly half of all AIDS-related deaths, according to a 1999 CDC report.
Then, Nathan received more grim news: He was told by his doctors he only had two years to live. Believing he was going to die, Nathan purchased a casket and paid for his future funeral ā one that thankfully didnāt come.
Today, Nathan is one of the growing number of older people who live with HIV, with researchers estimating that 70 percent of those living with the virus will be 50 and older by 2030.
The stigma of HIV diagnosis
As awareness of HIV grew in the late 1980s, many Americans expressed stigmatizing attitudes. A 1985 Gallup poll found that 28 percent of Americans reported that they or someone they knew had avoided places where gay men might be present because of HIV; by 1986, the percentage had grown to 44 percent.
This was the beginning of the endless stigma faced by those living with HIV ā something Porchia Dees and Grissel Granados experienced.
Porchia was diagnosed at two months old through perinatal transmission and is part of the first generation of children born with HIV. Doctors indicated that Porchia wouldnāt live to see her fifth birthday. Fortunately, Porchia would prove them wrong.
Porchia still remembers the stigma she felt when she learned of her diagnosis in sixth grade from a social worker at the Childrenās Hospital in Los Angeles. She recalled being pulled aside and asked if she was sexually active before being explicitly warned against having any sexual activity. The next time she heard about HIV was in a sex education class, which furthered the stigmatizing message that she would never live a ānormalā life.
Today, Porchia is an advocate, changing peopleās perspectives on what it means to live with HIV, but it does not come without challenges. At 38-years-old, Porchia is more focused on her health after witnessing long-term HIV survivors battle kidney failure, renal failure, bone density issues, cognitive issues, breast cancer, and shortened lifespans.
Grissel, another lifetime HIV survivor who acquired HIV through perinatal transmission, considers herself lucky that her mother explained the diagnosis to her at a young age. Despite her familyās support and honesty about HIV, a now 38-year-old Grissel still had to grow up with fear and uncertainty while now facing the fear of early mortality.
Social isolation
When Rev. Claude Bowen was 33 years old, he received a phone call that would change his life: His HIV test came back positive.
Believing he only had two years to live, he hid himself away, self-medicating and isolating himself from his support systems. These coping mechanisms served as an escape from his reality. But eventually, he realized that this was his reality and wanted to fight. He started getting involved in HIV education and advocacy work after his best friend disappeared in the late 80s. He would soon get a phone call, learning his friend had died of complications related to HIV.
For the LGBTQ+ community, losing friends and chosen family during this time became all too common. From 1984-1986, over 42,500 people in the U.S. died from HIV-related causes, which doesnāt account for individuals who died from complications related to HIV whose families or loved ones asked that the cause of death not be disclosed. For older PLHIV, this devastating loss of community has contributed to social isolation and loneliness.
Living and aging with HIV
With access to care, HIV is no longer a death sentence, thanks to scientific advancements in medications and treatments. Whether in your 70s like Nathan or 38 like Portia, many health challenges now faced by people living with HIV are more related to aging than to HIV-related illnesses.
Aging with HIV comes with a greater risk of health problems from inflammation from the virus and the long-term use of HIV medications. Many people aging with HIV also face the ādual stigmaā of ageism and HIV-related stigma, leading to high rates of anxiety, depression, and substance use disorders. Furthermore, many have lost friends and family to the HIV epidemic, leading to loneliness and increased risks of cognitive decline and other medical conditions in older adults, as found in a 2023 study from Frontiers in Aging Neuroscience.
Acknowledging the challenges that people aging with HIV face helps ensure they get the necessary support to live a fulfilling and thriving life.
Taking action
The Older Americans Act (OAA) funds aging services and supports for older people across the country to age-in-place. In 2024, the federal Administration for Community Living (ACL) issued new regulations ensuring that LGBTQ+ older people and older people living with HIV could have more equitable access to the programs funded under the OAA. Yet, there is still more work that could be done to ensure equitable access for those living with HIV. Congress is currently in the process of reauthorizing the law.
While we face a challenging time in modern politics, we must urge our legislators to do whatever they can to ensure that the OAA and similar laws support PLHIV. And all of us must work with our state and area agencies on aging to robustly implement the latest OAA regulations, to ensure that all older people, including LGBTQ+ older people and those living with HIV, get the services and supports they need to remain independent.
States can also do more to protect people living with HIV by passing state-level LGBTQ+ and HIV Long-term Care Bills of Rights, as advocated for by activists and organizations, including SAGE, the worldās oldest and largest advocacy organization dedicated to improving the lives of LGBTQ+ elders. These laws ensure that LGBTQ+ older people and those aging with HIV receive equitable treatment in long-term care facilities. For instance, one long-term survivor, 82, who asked to remain anonymous for this piece, credits his doctor for his excellent treatment and care, saying, āIt is tremendous to have someone in your corner that you can talk to openly and ask questionsā without fear of judgment.
Finally, we must advance policies that address the needs of all those living with HIV and AIDS, no matter their ages.
The time is now
The impact of living with HIV is different for every generation. From lifetime survivors like Porchia and Grissel to those aging with HIV like Claude and Nathan, access to community support, services, and HIV-specific healthcare is essential for quality of life across generations.Ā
This WAD, HIV advocates, aging organizations, and stakeholders must stand with local legislators to ensure care, protection, and support for all PLHIV.
Terri L. Wilder (She/Her), MSW, is the HIV/Aging policy advocate at SAGE, the worldās oldest and largest advocacy organization dedicated to improving the lives of LGBTQ+ elders. In her role, she implements SAGEās federal and state HIV/aging policy priorities.
Terri has worked in HIV care since 1989, providing social services, directing education programs for clients and medical providers, and advocating for policy change. She is an experienced public speaker who has presented at conferences worldwide on various HIV topics. Terri is also an award-winning writer who has published on multiple HIV-related topics through The Bodyās website, among others. Terri served on the New York Governorās Task Force to End AIDS (EtE) and the New York Governorās Hepatitis C Elimination Taskforce, where she contributed to the development of state plans to end the HIV epidemic and eliminate Hepatitis C.
She is a member of the New York State Department of Health AIDS Advisory Council EtE Subcommittee, and the Minnesota Council for HIV/AIDS Care and Prevention (MCHACP). Terri has been recognized for her work through the POZ 100: Celebrating Women edition of POZ magazine (2017), as well as awards from the NYS DOH AIDS Institute, AIDS Survival Project, and Bridging Access to Care, Inc.
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Navigating employer-sponsored health insurance, care
One in four trans patients denied coverage for gender-affirming care

Even though 86% of transgender Americans have health insurance, one in four reported being denied coverage for gender-affirming care in the 2015 and 2022 U.S. Transgender surveys. These denials can occur when an insurance plan contains a categorical exclusion of gender-affirming care. It is important to note that transgender employees who receive insurance coverage through their employers are entitled to legal protections.Ā
Employers are responsible for ensuring that the insurance plans they provide do not violate any laws, including anti-discrimination laws. In 1983, the Supreme Court ruled that under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, employers are legally required to provide employees with equal pay and benefits, including health insurance. This protection now extends to transgender employees after the Supreme Court’s ruling in Bostock v. Clayton County (2020), which clarified that sex discrimination under Title VII includes gender identity discrimination.
Since Bostock, several transgender employees have successfully sued their employers for discrimination because they were denied coverage of gender-affirming care by their employersā insurance. While employers can be held liable under Title VII, it remains unclear whether insurance companies will be held liable under Section 1557, the antidiscrimination provision of the Affordable Care Act (ACA), in the future.
Mostāif not allācourts have ruled that employers can be held liable for choosing insurance plans with categorical exclusions of gender-affirming care. A categorical exclusion is when an insurance plan has a blanket ban of coverage for certain services. Although discrimination cases generally require proof of intent to discriminate, it is not required of transgender employees because categorical exclusions of gender-affirming care are facially discriminatory (i.e. the policy is explicitly and obviously discriminatory in nature).
In Kadel v. Folwell (2024), the Fourth Circuit court considered the Fourteenth Amendment, Title IX, and ACA claims in a consolidated case considering two state health plans: the State of North Carolinaās insurance plans for teachers and West Virginiaās Medicaid program. The Fourth Circuit court held that it is impossible to ban coverage of gender-affirming care without discriminating against transgender people because (1) gender dysphoria is a legitimate medical diagnosis which requires medically necessary treatment; and (2) the services provided under gender-affirming care are also provided to cisgender patients for other medical diagnoses. In short, there is sufficient evidence of discriminatory intent because categorical exclusions of gender-affirming care are facially discriminatory. Under Kadel, the Fourth Circuit also ruled that a policy does not have to explicitly exclude transgender patients. āRewording the policies to use a proxy,ā like sex changes or sex modification, is still facially discriminatory.
Along a similar vein, in Lange v. Houston County (2024), the Eleventh Circuit court found that the Sheriffās Officeās categorical exclusion of gender-affirming care was a violation of Title VII. Agreeing with the reasoning in Kadel, the court cited a 1991 Supreme Court Case which ruled that proof of intent to discriminate is not needed for facially discriminatory policies. The court also held Anthem Blue Cross liable because third-party administrators in the Eleventh Circuit (i.e., Alabama, Florida, and Georgia) can be held liable as an employer if they make employment decisions as the authorized agent of an employer. However, this decision is unique to the said jurisdictions, and the liability of third-party administrators/insurance providers remains generally unclear. Moreover, the decision is not final because the court granted an en banc appeal, and a panel of all twelve judges re-heard the case in February 2025. The decision after re-hearing remains to be seen.
Recently, Executive Order 14168 and the EEOCās motion to dismiss its lawsuit against Harmony Hospitality on behalf of a transgender worker prompted concerns over transgender employeesā ability to bring federal discrimination claims. While such concerns are understandable, there has yet been any mandate prohibiting the EEOC from issuing right to sue to transgender individuals. In other words, even if the EEOC may not investigate and file lawsuits on behalf of transgender individuals, it does not bar private parties from doing so. Ultimately, the executive branch alone does not have the power to make changes to the Constitution or any federal statutes. It is up to the legislatures to amend laws and the Constitution, and courts to interpret and rule on constitutionality.
Protections Against Discrimination by Insurers Under Section 1557 Remain Unclear
While employers can be held liable for categorical exclusions of gender-affirming care, employees may be less likely to find relief for legal claims against insurers regarding discrimination on the basis of gender identity. Since Bostock, courts have found insurers liable for denying coverage of gender affirming care under Section 1557 of the ACA, extending sex discrimination to include gender identity. Recent litigation surrounding Section 1557 and the new presidential administration may precede a change in this trend.
In May 2024, the Biden administration issued a final rule implementing Section 1557.It reversed the rule put forth by the Trump administration four years prior, which had revised the Obama administrationās interpretation of the statute. The Biden administrationās final rule defined sex discrimination to include discrimination on the basis of gender identity and sexual orientation. Additionally, under the new rule, a wider swath of insurers and third-party administrators that receive federal financial assistance would be subject to Section 1557.
However, in July 2024, a Mississippi District judge granted a nationwide injunction preventing the Department of Health and Human Services from enforcing the final ruleās prohibition of sex discrimination with respect to gender identity. Additionally, executive orders during the early days of the Trump administration, and guidance from the Department of Health and Human Services that followed, rescinded wide swaths of Biden-era guidance extending sex discrimination protections to include discrimination based on gender identity. It is not yet clear how the new administrationās position on Section 1557 will impact courtsā decision-making regarding insurer liability and the extent of sex discrimination provisions in relation to gender identity going forward.
As the recent history of Section 1557 demonstrates, executive actions may influence the implementation of statutory antidiscrimination provisions, but do not change the law itself. While employers continue to face liability for discrimination towards employees seeking insurance coverage of gender-affirming care under Title VII, some protections remain on less certain ground as the United States enters a new presidential administration.
Ting Cheung, Luke Lamberti, and Neha Sharma are with Sanford Heisler Sharp McKnight.
Commentary
A conversation about queers and class
As a barback, I see our communityās elitism up close

In the bar, on the way to its now-Instafamous bathrooms, thereās a sign that reads, āqueer & trans liberation means economic justice for all.ā
I remember seeing that sign the first week the bar opened, and ever since I often find myself reflecting on that message. I stand fully in agreement. Thatās why laws protecting queers in the workplace are essential, for far too often we are targeted otherwise. It’s also why I love working at the bar, since it provides opportunities for queers from all over the spectrum to earn a living. At a time when I gave myself space to pursue art, it was the bar that enabled me to do so.
Itās one thing to support the LGBTQ community in spirit, but that spirit means jack in a capitalist society if viable economic opportunities donāt exist. Speaking of jack, thereās a fellow barback named Jack who I fangirl over often. Jack is a decade younger than me, but damn I wish I had his sex appeal at his age (or any age, for that matter). He also has a mustache that easily puts mine to shame.
Jack not only agrees but took things one step further. āEconomic inequality IS a queer issue,ā he told me, āespecially as we move into the most uncertain period of American politics I have ever lived through, it is apparent our identity is now a fireable offense.ā
Uncertain is right. Weāre fresh off the heels of a trade bonanza, one caused for literally no reason by our current commander in chief. Yet there emerged a strange division when discussing the trade warās āunintendedā consequences. For working class comrades like Jack and myself, weāre stressed about increasing prices in an already tough economy. But the wealthier echelons of our country had something else on their mind: the spiraling stock market. This alone highlights the story of our economic divide, where the same event produces two separate concerns for two distinct classes.
This is not to say the stock market is not important, but sometimes the media forget many Americans donāt own stock at all, including a vast majority of people between 18 and 29. In fact, according to Axios, the wealthiest 10 percent of Americans own 93 percent of the entire stock market, with the richest 1 percent holding $25 trillion ā thatās right, trillion with a ātā ā in market value. So, when the president reversed course on trade, it was less about high prices hurting everyday Americans and more about the dent created in the wealth of the wealthiest. And Iāll admit: that bothers me a lot.
If there is any takeaway from Trumpās trade war, it should be this: Economic inequality is the highest it has been in decades and, if left unchecked, will destroy the fabric of our country. We are steadily moving toward oligarchy statusāif weāre not there already, that isāand it seems to grow worse with each passing year and administration. But in a city of D.C. gays who often skew corporate, I wonder: Are we all on the same page here?
After becoming a barback, I have my doubts. From questions about what else I do, to comments encouraging me to work hard so that I can be a bartender one day, I quickly learned the gay world is not too fond of barbacking. Barebacking, sure, but not barbacking. And hey, I get itāweāre not the alcohol hookup at the bar. Still, we are part of the service industry, and while some people are incredibly kind, youād be surprised at how many turn up their noses at us, too.
Recently, Iāve come to realize my class defines me as much as my orientation does, if not more. Naturally, when you come from a rough neck of the woods like I do, itās easy to feel out of place in a flashy city like D.C., which Jack noticed, too. āAnyone from a working class background could testify to that,ā he said. āI donāt really know anyone from true upper class backgrounds, but Iād imagine their experience is one that leans into assimilation.ā
Assimilation is a key word here, for admittedly gays love to play with the elite. Often, we donāt have children, meaning more money for the finer things in life, but that also means we may not think about future generations much, either. Iāve written before that our insecurity growing up has us ready to show the world just how powerful gays can beāpower that comes in trips to Coachella and Puerto Vallarta, or basking in the lavish houses and toys we own. Thereās already a joke that gays run the government, and corporate gays kick ass at their jobs as well. So, given the choice between fighting inequality and keeping a high-paying job, I must admit I have a hard time seeing where D.C. gays stand.
Admittedly, it worked out in our favor before, given that many corporations catered to our economic prowess over the years. But look at whatās happening now: Many corporations have kicked us to the curb. Protections are being stripped from queers, particularly for our trans brothers and sisters. Law firms are bowing down to Trump, offering hundreds of millions in legal fees just for their bottom line. All of this will hurt both queers and the working class in the long run, so again I ask: Corporate gays, where do you stand? Because if you remain complicit, thatās bad news for us all.
I donāt want to sound accusatory, and I hate being a doomsday type, so allow me to end this on a better note. Strength is not about celebrating when times are good. Arguably, true strength emerges when times get tough. These are tough times, my friends, but that also makes now the perfect opportunity to show the world just how strong we are.
At a time when the world is pressuring us to turn our backs on each other, we must defy them to show up when it counts. Corporate gaysānow more than ever, at a time when the economy is turning its back on queers, we need you. We need you to stand up for the queer community. We need you to make sure no one gets left behind. We need you to show up for us, so that we can show up for you, too.
Ten years ago, the economy didnāt turn queer out of nowhere. The economy turned queer because we made it turn queer.
And if we did it once, surely we can do it again.
Jake Stewart is a D.C.-based writer and barback.
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On Pope Francis, Opus Dei and ongoing religious intolerance
Argentine-born pontiff died on Monday

āGood Fridayā set the stage for Saturdayās anti-Trump/MAGA āHands Offā protests serving as a timely lead-in to binge-watching Alex Gibneyās two-part HBO political documentary, āThe Dark Money Gameā on Easter Sunday. In āWealth of the Wicked,ā nefarious Opus Dei āSvengali Leonard Leo strategically seduces politically disappointed Catholic Federalist Society billionaires into subsidizing a scheme to ‘pipeline’ malleable conservative judges to take over the Supreme Court and overturn reproductive rights.
A key victory for āOperation Higher Courtā came in 2010 when SCOTUS ruled 5-4 in Citizens United v Federal ElecĀtion CommisĀsion, that corporations and unions have the same First Amendment free political speech rights as individuals ā as long as their unlimited cash donations go to 501 c(4)’s or Super PAC slush funds and not directly to candidates. Twelve years later, in 2022, they got their payoff with the overturning of Roe v Wade by Leo-promoted Catholic justices.
But Leoās political conniving is not the only exploitation of moral corruption. The documentary exposes conservative Christians too.
Gibneyās anti-hero is a former rabid anti-abortion lobbyist named Rev. Robert Schenck. He tells of turning to a fellow conservative in Cleveland, Ohio after Trump won the Republican presidential nomination in 2016 and asking: āAre we really going to do this? Weāre going to choose this man whoās inimical to everything we believe?ā The other evangelical replied: āI donāt care how bad he is. Heās going to get us the court we need.āā
Schenck explains the unholy alliance between Christian conservatives and Big Business. āWhenever you talked about government regulation, the argument was eventually ā āthese same characters who control my business are going to start trying to control your church. So, itās in your best interests that we defang this monsterā ā and that brought a lot of religious conservatives over.ā
And thereās this: āWe have a little aphorism built on a Bible verse: āThe wealth of the wicked is laid up for the righteous.ā So, yeah, letās baptize the billionairesā money. We can do that ā and it eventually brought together this alliance.ā
Schenck later reveals an intense epiphany that resulted in regret for how much harm he caused. Not so for Leo.
This is an excerpt from Gareth Goreās comprehensive book Opus, for Rolling Stone Magazine:
āDURING THE DONALD TRUMP YEARS, conservatives ā led by Leonard Leo ā took control of the Supreme Court … At one Federalist Society event, his good friend Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas jokingly referred to Leo as the third most powerful man in the world, presumably behind the pope and the president of the United States.ā
On Monday morning, Pope Francis died. I liked this pope, compared to the others. I covered Creating Change during the AIDS crisis when author Paul Monette delivered his brilliant, scathing denouncement of the Catholic Church, then unexpectedly ripped up a portrait of Pope John Paul II. Pope Benedict XVI was just crotchety cruel. But Pope Francis ā named for St. Francis of Assisi ā had that big smile and genuinely seemed to care about migrants, the vulnerable and the marginalized ā like us. He even used the word ‘gay’ instead of ‘homosexual.’
Pope Francisās reply to a question about a Vatican āgay lobbyā on a flight from Rio de Janeiro to Rome made global news. āIf a person is gay and seeks God and has good will,ā he said in 2013. āWho am I to judge? We shouldn’t marginalize people for this. They must be integrated into society.”
What did this mean? Welcoming inclusion into a family that officially considers us ‘intrinsically disordered?’
And then there was Pope Francis’s interaction with Juan Carlos CruzĀ ā a whistleblower in Chile’s clerical sex abuse scandal.
“He said, ‘Look Juan Carlos, the pope loves you this way. God made you like this and he loves you,'” Cruz told The Associated Press.
Meanwhile the Catholic Church Catechism affirmed, “this inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial.”
Ergo, a behavioral choice.
Therein lies the problem.
LGBTQ people are seen largely as individuals with sinful same sex sexual ‘inclinations.’ So when the pontiff touted ‘the equal dignity of every human being,’ and rebuked Vice President JD Vance with the ‘Good Samaritan’ parable, whereby love ābuilds a fraternity open to all, without exceptionā ā we are still the exception.
Francis was all also human ā having to apologize at one point for using a gay slur. But what of the bigger things like, did he know about the Opus Dei takeover of the U.S. Supreme Court when he chastised Vance about deporting migrants? Did he know that the Archdiocese of Los Angeles agreed to pay $880 million to 1,353 people last October, who allege they were victims of clergy sexual abuse? With a previous payment of $740 million, the total settlement payout will be more than $1.5 billion dollars. Is Leo chipping in to replenish that?
And itās not over. Earlier this month, Downey Catholic priest Jaime Arriaga, 41, was charged with several counts of child sexual abuse which allegedly happened when he was serving as a transitional deacon at the Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church.
Longtime U.K LGBTQ+ activist Peter Tatchell ā whoās campaigned against Catholic homophobia for 58 years ā says Pope Francisā legacy is complicated.
āI extend my condolences to Catholics worldwide on the passing of Pope Francis. While we often disagreed on issues of LGBTQ rights, I acknowledge his more compassionate tone towards sexual minorities. His recent moves to allow blessings for same-sex couples, albeit with limitations, signaled a small but significant shift in Church doctrine,ā Tatchell said in a statement.
āHowever, for millions of LGBT+ people globally, the Catholic Church remains a force for discrimination and suffering. Under his leadership, the Vatican continued to oppose same-sex marriage and trans rights. Catholic bishops lobbied against the decriminalization of homosexuality in many parts of the world. The Vatican still upholds the homophobic edicts of the Catechism, which denounces the sexual expression of same-sex love as a āgrave depravityā and āintrinsically disordered.ā Francisās legacy is, therefore, a mixed one ā offering some progress, but leaving deep-rooted inequalities largely intact.
āThe struggle for LGBT+ equalityĀ against a homophobicĀ church must continue. We urge the next Pope to go further ā to end the churchās support for discrimination, both within the faith and in the widerĀ society.ā
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