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Spring cleaning your rental relationship

A guide for both landlords and tenants

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Spring is a good time to reassess your rental relationship. (Photo by neturama/Bigstock)

Spring is the season of renewal—a time to refresh, declutter, and make space for better things. But spring cleaning isn’t just for your home. Whether you’re a landlord or a tenant, it’s the perfect opportunity to reassess your rental relationship.

Are landlords feeling disconnected from tenants? Are tenants feeling like their landlord is absent? Before considering drastic steps like moving, both sides can take positive, proactive measures to improve communication, set clearer expectations, and foster a mutually beneficial relationship. This article encourages both landlords and tenants to take stock of their rental experiences and explore ways to clean up misunderstandings before they become deal-breakers.

1. Dust Off the Lease: Revisit Foundation of Your Relationship

The lease is the roadmap of your rental journey. Are both sides following it?

For Landlords:

• Review Key Terms: Ensure you fully understand your obligations under the lease and DC law, including maintaining a habitable unit, providing essential services like heat and water, and ensuring repairs are done for safety compliance.

• Clarify Expectations: Is there a disconnect between your expectations per the lease and what you are observing at the rental?  Remind tenants of areas that are covered in the lease in a proactive and positive manner to make sure all are on the same page.

• Mid-Lease Check-Ins: A casual mid-lease meeting or email can clarify expectations and correct misunderstandings or interpretations of responsibilities before they become issues.

For Tenants:

• Understand Your Rights and Responsibilities: Review your lease to see what your landlord is required to provide. In DC, landlords must ensure safe, habitable living conditions, but cosmetic changes or upgrades are not guaranteed, unless specified in the lease.

• Know What’s Reasonable: Yes, you have a suite of rights in the District of Columbia which must be respected. Certain societal expectations may not be realistic if they weren’t part of the original agreement. You can always request improvements that are not required of the landlord, but be prepared to respectfully accept the outcome if the response is “No”.

• Proactive Communication: If you have concerns about your rental, present them as collaborative questions. For example, “I noticed X—how would you like for me to address this?”

2. Declutter Communication Channels

Miscommunication is often the root of rental frustrations. Let’s clean that up.

For Landlords:

• Preferred Methods of Communication: Are you providing clear ways for tenants to reach you? Ensure you’re responsive to emails, phone calls, or portal messages.

• Seasonal Reminders: Proactive messages about maintenance (e.g. start cutting the grass, apply pre-emergent weed control, etc) can reduce escalations later.

• Feedback Opportunities: Invite tenants to share concerns in a structured manner—perhaps a quarterly email check-in.

For Tenants:

• Respectful Clarity: When reaching out, be specific about your needs. Instead of “the heater isn’t working,” try “the heater hasn’t been turning on in the evenings and only blows cold air. Could someone check it this week?”

• Understanding Response Times: Some complex issues take longer to resolve. Remain reasonable on expectations and consider the explanations for delays. Understanding that cosmetic concerns may not be prioritized can also help.

• Log Your Communications: Keep a record of all major discussions for clarity and protection.

3. Polish the Relationship: Turn Good Experiences into Great Ones

Small efforts can shine a spotlight on the positive areas in your rental relationship.

For Landlords:

• Recognize Good Tenants: Expressing appreciation for on-time rent payments or good upkeep fosters goodwill.

• Offer Incentives: Small gestures like discounted renewal rates or minor upgrades can encourage long-term, responsible tenants.

• Educational Resources: Provide additional information on how your tenants can maintain aspects of the home, such as garbage disposal care or HVAC filter changes.

For Tenants:

• Be a Proactive Renter: Report maintenance issues promptly and keep the property clean and damage-free. Execute routine maintenance that is your responsibility, such as changing out air filters reliably.

• Community Mindset: Participate in neighborhood events or property meetings, which can strengthen your relationship with the landlord.

• Extend Courtesy: Flexibility with maintenance schedules and clear communication during repairs make things smoother for everyone.

4. Freshen Up Expectations: Reset Standards for Healthier Relationship

Spring is the perfect time to hit the reset button.

For Landlords:

• Collaborate on Solutions: If there are tenant issues (e.g., noise complaints), approach them with a solutions-oriented mindset.

• Transparency with Changes: If rent adjustments are necessary, provide clear explanations and as much notice as possible.

• Renewal Conversations: Discuss future plans early to avoid surprises at lease-end.

For Tenants:

• Understand Market Realities: Rising costs may mean rent increases. Assess whether your current rental still fits your budget and needs.

• Negotiate Thoughtfully: If requesting upgrades or improvements, frame them as benefits for both sides.

• Express Gratitude: A little appreciation can go a long way—thank your landlord for prompt repairs or responsiveness.

5. Knowing When to Move On

Sometimes, despite best efforts, it’s time for a change—but separation can still be positive.

For Landlords:

• Identify Red Flags: Consistent late payments, damage, or lease violations may necessitate initiating a conversation about a potential move for the tenant.

• Follow DC Regulations: The District of Columbia has strict tenant protection laws. Always provide proper notices and follow legal protocols to avoid complications.

• Exit with Professionalism: Treat the end of a lease as a business transition—keep emotions in check and document all steps.

For Tenants:

• Know When It’s Time to Go: If safety, habitability, or repeated issues aren’t resolved despite your best efforts, it may be time to move on.

• Provide Proper Notice: Adhere to lease terms regarding notice periods and leave the property in good condition.

• Leave on Good Terms: Positive references from previous landlords can make applying for future rentals more successful.

Conclusion: Spring Forward, Together

A little spring cleaning in your rental relationship can make a world of difference. For landlords, it’s about resetting expectations, enhancing communication, and retaining good tenants. For tenants, it’s about understanding your rights, being proactive, and collaborating for a better living experience. By refreshing how both sides approach the relationship, you can avoid unnecessary turnover and create a rental experience whereall parties can thrive. After all, sometimes a little tidying up is all it takes for a rental relationship to blossom anew.

Scott Bloom is owner and senior property manager at Columbia Property Management. For more information and resources, go to ColumbiaPM.com

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New trends for old kitchens

New trends for old kitchens

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Whether you are upgrading parts of your current home to prepare it for sale or enhancing the home you just purchased, kitchens and bathrooms are still at the top of the renovation list.

Kitchen renovations have always embraced a blend of functionality, personalization, and aesthetic appeal; however, homeowners are currently moving away from sterile, uniform designs, opting instead for spaces that reflect warmth, character, and individual style. Here are some of the most prominent trends shaping kitchen renovations this year.

Warm and Earthy Tones

The dominance of all-white kitchens is waning as homeowners gravitate toward warmer, earth-toned palettes. Shades like sage green, navy blue, and natural wood finishes are becoming popular choices for cabinetry, infusing kitchens with a cozy and inviting atmosphere. This shift reflects a desire for spaces that feel more personalized and less clinical. Flat panel and Shaker cabinets continue to be popular options.

Integration of Organic Modernism

The “modern organic” style is gaining traction, characterized by using natural materials, neutral color palettes, and serene layouts. Incorporating elements like soapstone countertops, Venetian plaster walls, slate floors, and greenery not only enhances aesthetic appeal but can also increase home values significantly. Fully outfitted outdoor kitchens further contribute to this trend.

Innovative Kitchen Island Designs

Kitchen islands continue to be central features, with designs evolving to incorporate textures, wood and tile cladding, multifunctional elements, and bold colors and materials. Integrated seating areas, waterfall countertops, and the use of monolithic stone or stacked marble are becoming increasingly popular. These islands not only serve as functional workspaces but also as striking focal points within the kitchen.

Concealed Kitchens for a Sleek Look

The concept of concealed kitchens is on the rise, emphasizing built-in appliances, flush cabinetry, and appliance garages to maintain a clutter-free environment. This design approach fosters a minimalist aesthetic, creating a seamless flow between the kitchen and adjacent living areas, particularly in open-concept homes.

Personalized Cabinetry and Storage Solutions

Customization is key in modern kitchen designs, with homeowners seeking tailored storage solutions that cater to their specific needs. Features like hidden storage compartments, integrated lighting, and unique hardware choices are being favored over generic, cookie-cutter options. This trend underscores a move toward kitchens that are both functional and reflective of personal style.

Revival of Traditional Styles with Modern Twists

Traditional kitchen styles are making a comeback, with a contemporary twist. Elements such as expanded backsplash coverage, classic tile shapes and patterns, use of mixed metals, and specialty appliances are being integrated into modern kitchens, blending the charm of the past with the conveniences of the present. Custom range hoods, coffee bars and microwave drawers are increasingly added to renovation projects. This fusion creates spaces that are both timeless and equipped for modern living.

Sustainable and Natural Materials

Sustainability remains a priority, with an increased use of eco-friendly materials like reclaimed wood, recycled metals and glass, and energy-efficient appliances. This not only reduces environmental impact but also introduces unique texture and shimmer into kitchen designs, adding depth and character to the space.

Use of Bold Colors and Accents

Homeowners are becoming more adventurous with color and texture, incorporating vibrant hues and tactile materials into their kitchen designs. Features like colorful window trims, two-tone cabinets, and the use of wallpaper and feature walls add visual interest and a personalized touch to the space. In addition to the familiar white, major appliances are now shown in matte black, navy, and jewel tones of red, green, and blue. There are even vinyl wraps and magnet covers that allow for more creativity and individualization with appliances.

Integration of Smart Technology

The incorporation of smart technology continues to grow, with appliances featuring automated cooking functions, sensor reheating, and control locks becoming more prevalent. Induction stoves are entering the mix. Charging stations and touch-activated cabinet doors and faucets are also popular. LED lighting lasts longer and prevents you from having to climb a ladder to change lightbulbs on a high or vaulted ceiling. These advancements enhance convenience and efficiency, aligning with the modern homeowner’s desire for a kitchen that supports a tech-savvy and busy lifestyle.

Multifunctional Spaces

Kitchens are increasingly being designed as multifunctional spaces that accommodate cooking, dining, working, and socializing. This has led to the inclusion of features like integrated seating, versatile lighting, and adaptable layouts that can easily transition between different uses, reflecting the evolving role of the kitchen in contemporary homes. Still, don’t be surprised to see a resurgence of self-contained kitchens with real walls.

So, whether the kitchen you want is sleek and modern, earthy and organic, or traditional and elegant, there will always be fresh new styles, ideas, innovations and classic touches that cater to your lifestyle.

Valerie M. Blake is a licensed Associate Broker in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia with RLAH @properties. Call or text her at 202-246-8602, email her via DCHomeQuest.com, or follow her on Facebook at TheRealst8ofAffairs.

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Find a way to participate in the sharing economy

Earn extra cash by walking dogs, renting your car, and more

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The Rover app allows you to find customers for your home dog walking business. (Photo by luckybusiness/Bigstock)

If you could turn back time, would you find a way to participate in the sharing economy?  If you own a home, a car, or have other resources or skills, you may still be able to. So don’t fret, SNAP OUT OF IT! (Anyone getting the Cher references so far?)

Recently, companies like AirBnB, VRBO, Uber, Lyft, Couchsurfing, Upwork, TaskRabbit, LendingClub, Poshmark, Meowtel, Rover, and Neighborgoods (among others) are allowing people to share their resources. Goods and services such as cars, money, homes, couches, clothing, business skills, tech or maintenance, design, dog walking, financial and accounting help, graphic design, among other skills can be shared with others for a price. People are finding ways to use the underutilized resources of their time, possessions and knowledge to make extra money, pay down debt, pay off bills, finance vacations, or just pay for those expensive eggs.

For homeowners, these resources can help offset the costs of owning and financing a home or allow the bandwidth to finally take that three months abroad or six-month sabbatical they have been desiring. As with any investment of time or resources, you will have to assume some risk. If you are renting out your car or home, there will be wear and tear. If you are lending money, there is a risk of it not being returned. If you are selling gently used clothing online, the item could be returned, or the payment does not go through. These are risks one must take into consideration when starting any new enterprise. But as they say, without any risk, there can be no reward.  

The sharing economy is based around peer-to-peer transactions. There is renewed emphasis on having experiences, less societal pressure for consumption, and embracing the access to experiences via online platforms. It’s not uncommon for many urban dwellers to own only one car, or not even own a car due to the access one has via the sharing economy.  Vacations can be afforded via the peer-to-peer networks where a group of five people can stay in a luxurious setting at a favorite getaway destination for a fraction of the cost of a hotel and all meals out.  

When one decides to venture into offering their home or car for these types of transactions, a wise tip to remember is that this is still operating a business. Customer service matters. Cleanliness, prompt attention and communication are key. It will require knowledge toward budgeting, setting competitive prices, creating memorable customer experiences, listening to constructive feedback, and using those customer service skills we all expect to see when we are dining out, staying at a hotel, or flying an airline.  

If you would like to learn more about how to leverage your own resources to up your monthly income or free up your schedule, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I offer affordable seminars in creative thinking and digital marketing, to help people make use of their spare time, resources and energy.


Joseph Hudson is a referral agent with Metro Referrals. Reach him at 703-587-0597 or [email protected].

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Buying a home as an LGBTQ couple

What you need to know

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For LGBTQ couples, homeownership represents a statement of stability.

For LGBTQ couples, homeownership represents more than just a financial investment — it is a statement of stability, security, and equality. However, navigating the home-buying process can present unique legal and financial challenges. Whether you are buying your first home together or upgrading to your dream house, understanding your rights, responsibilities, and potential pitfalls is essential.

Here’s what LGBTQ couples need to know when purchasing a home in 2025.

Legal Considerations: How Should You Hold Title?

One of the most crucial decisions LGBTQ+ couples face when buying a home is how to hold title, as this impacts legal rights, inheritance, and financial obligations. Here are the three main options:

  • Joint Tenancy with Right of Survivorship – Both partners own the property equally, and if one passes away, the other automatically inherits full ownership.
  • Tenants in Common – Each partner owns a percentage of the property (e.g., 50/50 or 70/30). If one partner dies, their share goes to their estate, instead of automatically transferring to the surviving partner.
  • Sole Ownership – If only one person is on the title, they hold full legal ownership. This may be beneficial for credit or financing reasons, but it leaves the non-owner partner vulnerable.

LGBTQ+ couples should have a conversation with their gay real estate agent, and/or consult a real estate attorney to determine the best ownership structure based on their relationship and long-term goals.

Financing: Getting Approved for a Mortgage

While same-sex marriage is legally recognized in the U.S., LGBTQ+ couples still experience higher rates of mortgage denials than their heterosexual counterparts. Here’s how to strengthen your loan application:

  • Check Your Credit Scores – Both applicants should review their credit reports and address any discrepancies before applying.
  • Compare Lenders – Some mortgage lenders are more LGBTQ+-friendly than others. Ask for a referral from your LGBTQ+ real estate professional.
  • Consider a Joint or Individual Application – If one partner has significantly better credit or a higher income, it might be beneficial to apply individually for a more favorable interest rate.

Work with an LGBTQ+-friendly lender who understands your financial needs and ensures fair treatment.

Protecting Your Property and Rights

Even if you are legally married, it may be wise to put additional protections in place to avoid potential legal or financial disputes down the road:

  • Co-Ownership Agreement – If you are not married or want to clarify ownership percentages, a co-ownership agreement outlines each person’s rights and responsibilities.
  • Estate Planning – LGBTQ+ couples should have a will or trust to specify what happens to the property in the event of death. Even with joint tenancy, a will can clarify intentions and prevent family disputes.
  • Power of Attorney – In case of emergency, granting each other power of attorney ensures that one partner can make legal or financial decisions on behalf of the other.

Estate planning is not just for the wealthy – having legal documents in place protects your home and loved ones.

Finding an LGBTQ+-Friendly Real Estate Agent

Working with a real estate professional who understands the needs of LGBTQ+ homebuyers can make the process much smoother. Here’s how to find the right agent:

  • Look for Experience – Seek agents who specialize in working with LGBTQ+ clients and have knowledge of local housing protections.
  • Avoid Discrimination – While the Fair Housing Act prohibits discrimination based on sex (interpreted to include sexual orientation and gender identity), biases still exist. Choose an agent who prioritizes inclusivity and fairness.
  • Use LGBTQ+ Real Estate Networks – The best way to find a trusted LGBTQ+-friendly real estate agent is through GayRealEstate.com, the Nation’s Oldest and Largest Free Database of LGBTQ+ Real Estate Agents Worldwide. Since its founding, GayRealEstate.com has helped thousands of LGBTQ+ buyers and sellers connect with agents who are not only professional and experienced, but also 100% committed to equality and inclusivity.

Using an agent from GayRealEstate.com ensures that you are working with someone who values fairness, understands LGBTQ+ housing concerns, and is dedicated to finding you the perfect home in a welcoming community.

Choosing an LGBTQ+-Friendly Neighborhood

Finding a home is about more than just the property itself – it is about the community. Consider these factors when searching for the perfect neighborhood:

  • LGBTQ+ Inclusivity – Look for cities with nondiscrimination laws, pride events, and visible LGBTQ+ communities.
  • Safety – Research crime rates and local laws to ensure your new neighborhood is a safe and welcoming environment.
  • Community Support – Some cities have LGBTQ+ resource centers, social groups, and advocacy organizations that make settling in easier.

Tools like the Human Rights Campaign’s Municipal Equality Index rank cities based on LGBTQ+ inclusivity and protections.

Homeownership is an Empowering Step

Buying a home as an LGBTQ+ couple is a milestone worth celebrating. While challenges still exist, being informed and proactive can help you avoid pitfalls, protect your rights, and make smart financial decisions. By working with LGBTQ+-friendly professionals, understanding your legal options, and securing financial protections, you will set yourself up for long-term success and stability.

Whether you are buying your first home or upgrading to your forever house, the key is to be prepared, protected, and empowered throughout the process.


Jeff Hammerberg and Scott Helms are with GayRealEstate.com, the nation’s leading online platform connecting LGBTQ homebuyers and sellers with LGBTQ-friendly real estate agents, ensuring a safe and supportive experience. To find an agent or learn more, visit GayRealEstate.com or call 1-888-420-MOVE.

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